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Lecture 1, 06/10/2014
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
The Example of the Holy Prophet (s)
The Aim of Ethics
Prioritisation of Ethics in Relation to other Subjects
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Introduction
This series will be about the science of morality as known as Ethics. It is different from Etiquettes which is about behaviours and practice because Ethics is about inner moral qualities. The importance of Ethics is such that the Prophet introduced it as the main purpose of his appointment as a Prophet by saying “I have been appointed as a Prophet only to perfect the noble traits of character”. From that Hadith we understand that the final goal of Prophet Mohamed (s) is the perfection of noble moral characteristics, finalising a process which had been started by previous Prophets. A significant difference lies between good traits of character and noble traits. Good traits are mainly about reciprocating goodness or not harming others. Noble traits are higher such that it requires a person to do good to those who have wronged him and in addition feel loving towards them. It requires time and a process of self-scrutiny to control ill feelings one may have towards others. Thus Imam Sadiq (as) said “Forgive the one who has wronged you. Grant to the one that denied you. Do good to one who has done evil to you”. The Example of the Holy Prophet (s) The Prophet himself was a Murabbi, somebody who teaches but also changes people’s Ethics. He also possessed a great character before he became a Prophet such that he was known as Mohamed the Trustworthy among the Arabs before the advent of Islam and Lady Khadijah gave his great character as the reason for her proposal to him. Thus Allah (swt) mentions in the Qur’an that “In the Apostle of Allah there is certainly for you a good exemplar” and that the Prophet possesses “A great character”. Therefore the Prophet is the best role model for us to imitate, somebody who’s greatness is acknowledged as great by Allah (swt) himself. He is the perfect model of human virtues. The Aim of Ethics The aim of Ethics is to take us towards perfection, to achieve our potential. The ultimate perfection is Allah (swt) and his virtuous attributes are perfections and as the Prophet (s) has said “Acquire the virtues of Allah”. Therefore our ultimate aim by improving our moral character is to become more perfect and achieve nearness in perfection to Allah. Prioritisation of Ethics in relation to other subjects In terms of practicality, the studying the Islamic ideology and laws must be prioritised above Ethics so that we are given our foundation of thought by ideology and by knowing the laws we do not transgress the limits set by Allah while we develop spiritually. However in theory, in human development, Ethics is more important as it teaches us how to be as good humans whereas Laws only inform us of limits. In ideology, belief in God and accepting Islam is a moral matter. There are many who study Islam yet they do not believe; partly due to arrogance and unjustness. This is evident in the Quran wherein Allah (swt) does not treat disbelief as an epistemological issue but rather a moral issue. Conclusion In conclusion, ethics is the foundation for a soul on which faith may be built and Ethics and faith assist each other in human development. If we look at some notable companions of the Prophet (s) such as Abu Dhar and Salman al-Farsi, they became Muslims due to their honesty, their search for truth and their humbleness to it. Therefore they became great Muslims and flourished spiritually because they were morally sound humans.
Lecture 2, 13/10/2014
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Definition of Akhlaq
The subject matter of Akhlaq
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Definition of Akhlaq
The word Akhlaq is derived from Khalq and Khulq. Khalq refers to the appearance of a person whilst Khulq refers to the inner character of a person. Whilst Khalq can be seen by the eyes, Khulq can only be understood by insight. The subject matter of Akhlaq Regarding how inclusive Khulq is; Miskawayh believes both natural disposition towards a virtue as well as virtues gained by effort and training are components of Khulq. Whereas Ayatollah Tabarsi only recognises the acquired virtues and hence the reason why it is called Khulq; because it is an addition to one’s being. Nonetheless, the acquired virtue is more valuable because it is earned. Conclusion In conclusion, contrary to western behaviourist scholars who opined Ethics as limited to actions, our Scholars believe that actions are manifestations of the soul. Therefore Ethics must deal with both actions and virtues. However Ethics can only discuss voluntary actions which are subject to the actor’s intentions. Therefore ‘being a human’ is not Ethics’ concern but rather ‘how to develop one’s humanity’ is.
However Sheikh Shomali believes that there is a 3rd type of Khulq; when virtues are generated by a person’s belief. Undoubtedly a person’s worldview will cause a change in his behaviour. Someone who views himself as a servant of God and everything else as a means to Him will undoubtedly act to please God. In many instances when people revert to Islam, they become different people; by a change of belief, they change in character. The Prophet (s) did not spend each day working to build into himself a virtue which he lacked before. By being perfectly positioned in his attitude regarding God, all virtues were inherent in him. Just as a city’s numerous petty issues can be solved by a change in governor, so can our many smaller ethical issues be solved by a change in our inner governance; if our inner governor becomes intellect over emotions and desires then many of our moral deficiencies would be solved.
Lecture 3, 10/11/2014
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
The Structure of the Science of Ethics
Classification of Ethical Studies
Intellectual Discourse in Ethics
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
The Structure of the Science of Ethics
Sciences are either intrinsically valuable or they are valued as a means to understand other sciences. Ethics is intrinsically valuable. Ayatollah Sha’rani mentioned how little attention is given yet how important Ethics is yet how little attention it is given compared to physical acts and Islamic Laws whilst Allah (swt) says in the Qur’an “The day that nothing of wealth or sons will avail except a tranquil heart” thereby signifying that it is Ethics which grants salvation. While actions are important, it is Ethics which is central to salvation. Thus Hatam Ta’I was a polytheist friend of the Prophet (s) yet due to his generosity the Prophet (s) said he will not be punished. Whereas a Muslim companion of the Prophet (s) would suffer on account of his bad temper with his family. Classification of Ethical Studies There are 3 types of ethical studies: Intellectual Discourse in Ethics In Islamic Ethics, proving ethical arguments using rational discourse is more difficult than merely describing the Islamic position from Islamic texts. During the US civil war between north and south, a dilemma had emerged over the moral status of slavery. Those who needed it for cheap labour in the south argued in favour of slavery yet without need of it in the north argued against it. Their ethical standpoint had been relative to their interests. However if we equip ourselves with the common language that is philosophy, we can rationally argue without being limited to our interests or traditions. We should apply reason in what we believe so that we can present Islamic values as global values welcomed by non-Muslims as Allah says in the Quran “And they will say, had we listened or applied reason, we would not have been among inmates of the Blaze”1 . Therefore Allah has given humans two authorities; Intellect and Revelation. If both are utilised then we will be utterly successful in our endeavours. Conclusion In conclusion, a Muslim ethicist can be of two types; either provide scholarly opinions based on religious texts or follow a rational path where he can argue for the good or evil of something based on reason, and hence be able to show the world the universality of Islamic values.
1. Descriptive Ethics: This is an objective study of morals without judgement, it is pure factual descriptions.
2. Normative Ethics: This concerns ethical norms, with evaluation and judgement based on an underlying theory. It is then argued and defended rationally.
3. Meta Ethics/Analytical Ethics: This a deeper and philosophical study of Ethics that discusses the concepts of good and evil rather than what makes an action good or bad.
The first type isn’t philosophical but the second and third are. Hence the second and third are moral philosophies as they both require rationality. When trying to understand, with reference to religious texts, the view of a religion on a subject, there is no room for rational arguments. However when we wish to discuss objectively whether a subject matter is good or bad, we refer to rational arguments.
Muslims, especially followers of the Ahl al-Bayt believe in reason as an authority. Therefore any rational discourse is also religious and any rational judgement is also an Islamic judgement based on the rule of conformity between Islam and Reason. As a Hadith says “Whatsoever the intellect concludes, the Islamic Law also concludes”. Hence Meta Ethics is Islamic whereas it is not the same for other religions as they may view intellectual discussions as a threat to their beliefs.
Lecture 4, 17/11/2014
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Classification of Ethical Theories
Islamic Moral Philosophy
Further Classification of Normative Ideas
Criticism of Teleological View
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Classification of Ethical Theories
As discussed previously descriptive Ethics is a fact based and objective description of morals and values. A normative study passes judgement and ascertains a criteria by which to judge. Whilst a Meta/analytical study tackles the more fundamental questions than a normative study. Question such as what is ‘right’, whether knowledge of morality can be derived. Questions that are related to the epistemology of Ethics. The latter two are termed as moral philosophies. Islamic Moral Philosophy For convincing Muslims it is sufficient to quote Islamic texts regarding the moral status of actions. However for non-Muslims it is necessary to provide rational arguments regarding Islamic moral position on actions. Further Classification of Normative Ideas Philosophers have classified ethical theories according to their meta-ethical and normative ideas. Here we wish to delve deeper into normative ideas. There are 3 major normative theories: Criticism of Teleological view Conclusion Selfishness has no place in Islam. Therefore Islam is against Egoism. Islam also doesn’t agree with Altruism as it deems personal interests important. Islam encourages its adherents to consider the short and long term effects of their actions, both for themselves and for others. In addition a good act of altruism in this world is not deemed useless for the actor because he would be rewarded in the hereafter.
1. The teleological view: This view is purpose based and the judgement for an action is its outcome. Therefore a good act is one with a good outcome. However critics argue this is a circular definition because the condition and conditioned are the same; the condition of a good act being a good result. Whereas others argue it is not circular as the conditioned is different from the condition and the result can be empirically measured.
2. The deontological view: As believed by Emmanuel Kant, this view believes that a good act is a selfless one based on moral obligation. Completely contrary to the teleological view.
3. Virtue Ethics: This Aristotelian approach believes an action is good if it is based on virtue. Virtues are qualities of the soul and from these manifest good actions.
Lecture 5, 08/12/2014
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Importance of Both Actions and Qualities
Possessing a Good Nature
Islamic Laws and Ethics
Exceptions
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Importance of Both Actions and Qualities
In Islamic Ethics, actions and qualities are important but qualities even more important than single actions. Hence a greedy person is worse than a person who once showed greediness. Allah (swt) advises us to do good so that we may gain the quality of felicity2 and that on the day of Judgement it is the good quality of truthfulness will be a “Great success”3 . However alongside having a virtues personality we must also be wary of our actions as He (swt) also commands us to “Be with the truthful”4 . Possessing a Good Nature The Prophet Mohamed is narrated to have said “On the Day of Judgement nothing is put into the scale of deeds of a person that is weightier than possessing a good nature” 6 . This may be because a virtuous nature manifests into numerous good actions. Therefore Mullah Salih (ra) concludes that the Hadith shows the superiority of rewards for a good nature over good actions. Islamic Laws and Ethics Imam Khomeini (ra) mentions that in Hell the worst are people who suffer from corrupt ideologies followed by those with bad qualities and then those with bad actions. Human beings are formed by their fundamental beliefs and thereafter their moral virtues and vices and then their actions. As Muslims we must give due importance to following Islamic Laws for correcting our actions but more importantly we must also correct our moral deficiencies. As per Islamic Law, feeding a starving person with stale bread is sufficient whereas per Islamic Ethics we must feed them with what we would like for ourselves as Allah (swt) says “You will never attain piety until you spend out of what you hold dear, and whatever you may spend of anything, Allah indeed knows it.” 7 Exceptions So far we have discussed that having virtues is more important than single good actions. However some exceptions exist. A Single act, such as the strike of Imam Ali (as) in the battle of Khandaq, can have a tremendous impact, possibly sending ripples through time, affecting generations across nations. An action’s value is relative to its effect whereas a virtue that does not manifest is useless. Therefore, we must not be negligent of acting righteously as righteous virtues are only valuable if it manifests. Vice versa, a single evil act may cause bitter consequences outweighing virtues such as a pious person erring once by slandering a chaste believer. Conclusion In Islamic Ethics, although gaining virtues is more important than single actions; both are still important. Hence our main emphasis is on acquiring virtues while being wary not to miss an opportunity to do good and avoid evil.
However good actions are not always manifestation of a person’s goodness as Allah (swt) describes how the hypocrites are liars although they testify rightly to the Prophethood of the Prophet (s)5 and the reason being is that they said what they did not believe. Vice versa, a truthful individual may tell a lie or he may avoid stating what is right if speaking the truth will cause injustice to others. Although the difference between a virtuously honest person and a dishonest person is that the former will hate lying whereas the latter is comfortable with it naturally.
However Islamic Ethics are not obligatory like Islamic Laws because Islamic Laws are boundaries set for everyone’s capacity whereas Islamic Ethics encourages us further. Hence the Law obliges us to keep him alive but Islamic Ethics encourages us against our ego and selfishness. Similarly, in marriage there are legal rights but Islamic Ethics establishes affection, mercy & kindness as the fundamental principle of the family. Therefore, we must not limit Islam only to legal boundaries.
Lecture 6, 15/12/2014
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Acquiring Virtues
The concept of ethical balance
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Acquiring Virtues
In his commentary on Usul al-Kafi, Allamah Sha’rani says established qualities that are well rooted within us are counted as a part of us. Single virtuous acts do not entail us becoming a part of that virtuous group on the day of judgement. Therefore someone who is not well rooted in character as a generous person will not be raised as one of the generous because of single acts of generosity. The concept of ethical balance Islamic Ethics have introduced three faculties of the human soul: Conclusion A person who attains balance in all three faculties of the soul achieves the virtue of Justice. Therefore a just person is he who is wise, brave and chaste. Thus such a person is free of all deficiencies and extremes.
There are three ways of ascertaining virtues:
1. A virtue is a virtue if the end is good; if a quality is a virtue then its result must be good. E.g. Generosity is a virtue because it alleviates poverty, whereas greediness is a vice because it leads to conflict and deprivation.
2. A virtue is a virtue even if it is not acted upon; such as a generous poor person who would be generous if he could give or a generous person surrounded by wealthy people.
3. A virtue is a virtue if it leads to betterment of the human soul. That which prevents the development of our humanity is a vice and must therefore be avoided. This approach is only concerned with humanity; therefore any quality which leads to the betterment of the traits unique to humanity are virtues. Hence as an example; fitness programs aren’t concerned here as they improve only physical qualities which animals also possess. Unless it is done as an instrument for a human quality.
1. Desires: This drives our physical needs. Depriving this need as well as overindulging in this need are both extremes. The soul which achieves a balance in between would acquire virtues such as Chastity.
2. Anger: Deficiency in this faculty results in cowardice and indifference to others’ sufferings and extremeness results into harshness and insensitivity to causing of suffering. A balance results in virtues such as bravery and championship for the weak, the oppressed and the needy. Such as Imam Ali (as) who was brave but not a brute, he stood for the oppressed and he showed utmost bravery when he restrained his anger after the demise of the Holy Prophet (s).
3. Intellect: This faculty is concerned with reason and the virtue that can be attained from this faculty is Wisdom. A wise person does not accept nor reject without reason, yet he is humble to compelling reason. A wise person does not simply follow a majority or minority but rather seeks the truth and the right step to take regardless of who else follows that path. He does not discriminate if something is old or new but rather gives it its due right of consideration.
Lecture 7, 22/12/2014
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Judging an Action Directly from Itself
Three Further Classifications
Conclusion
A Reflection on Modern Time
Summary of this session:
Recap
We previously discussed that qualities and actions are both important yet relatively qualities are more important than actions. We discussed methods of judging an action and one method of judging is based on the end. However it is not necessary that a virtue be acted upon as a virtuous individual may not have an opportunity to manifest his qualities into an action. Another way was by seeing whether an action was adding to our humanity and lastly Aristotelian Ethics which considered the faculties of the soul and their balance. Judging an Action Directly from Itself Contrary to Virtue Ethics, Islamic Ethics utilises the teleological approach. Thereby judging an action based on its results. However the ultimate end in Islam is nearness to Allah and reaching perfection. Therefore any action which contributes to achieving this is good and any action which hinders our progress to perfection and nearness to Allah is bad. Three Further Classifications Sheikh Muzaffar says that some actions may not have any moral status but can acquire one. Consider these 3: Conclusion There are three ways of moral judgement. One is regarding actions with no moral status innately, but must be judged based on external motives. The second is actions which are innately good except when it is obstructed e.g. honesty being obstructed by its harm, therefore final judgement must be reserved until the context is understood. Lastly, actions which are necessarily good always such as justice. Therefore actions can be judged based on their outcomes, even innately neutral actions because any time not spent in goodness is time wasted. A Reflection on Modern Time Due to the rise of technology, people have lost the ability to spend their time wisely and more people are continuously looking to kill time. In the past people would be working and would be more physically active and the remaining time at home would have been quality time conversing and actually socialising with each other. Today, we have cut our real interactions with family and people and instead we seclude ourselves to use our gadgets. We are busy communicating with people far away when there are people around us. It is as if these gadgets dictate us and cause a social breakdown. We must therefore limit and control these gadgets by setting helpful guidelines on how, when and to what extent we should use them.
In cases where an action has both benefits as well as harms in regards to our ultimate aim of attaining perfection, Islamic Ethics’ position is that one must not perform the act if the bad outweighs the good. Therefore purely good actions are to be acted upon but questionable actions need further discussions.
Utilitarianism is the view that a good action is one which delivers the greatest good for the greatest number. According to this principle, a thief stealing from one person to help 10 others is doing a good act. Islam, however, opposes this because it deems it detrimental to its ultimate aim of human perfection/nearness to Allah. Therefore, in Islam, the end does not justify the means because true success is not based on worldly means.
Islam classifies actions into 5:
1. Forbidden actions (Haram): These are acts which are detrimental to our progress towards perfection. Therefore they must be avoided except in exceptional circumstances.
2. Obligatory actions (Wajib): These acts are necessary for our progress towards perfection and therefore abandoning these acts are detrimental and therefore forbidden.
3. Recommended actions (Mustahab): These acts are not essential but they are very beneficial in attaining nearness to Allah/perfection. These are not obligatory to perform, they are optional.
4. Discouraged actions (Makruh): These action are not detrimental but they are a hindrance that slows down our progress. They are not forbidden but avoiding these actions are recommended where possible.
5. Neutral actions (Mubah): These actions are said to be neither useful nor harmful. However from a spiritual and moral point of view, nothing can be Mubah because human lifetime and resources are limited and any time not spent doing good acts is time spent in wastefulness.
The exceptional circumstances in which forbidden acts are overlooked is when the necessity and goodness of the act far outweighs its harms. For example, it is forbidden to encroach over other people’s property but if we notice he is drowning in his own swimming pool, we can ignore the illegality of going onto his property due to the necessity of saving his life.
Therefore Islamic Ethics judges the goodness of an act based on its benefit or harm towards achieving perfection and nearness to Allah. Similarly, Islamic Laws also have philosophies behind them regarding why they rule actions into the 5 categories. It is now clear that in Islamic Ethics actions can be judged based on themselves.
1. Walking: It is morally neutral on its own but once we consider to what end someone is walking we can judge it. E.g. walking to commit a sin is bad but walking towards a good end is good.
2. Honesty: Honesty is good in itself but in some circumstances it is bad e.g. honesty which endangers an innocent’s life, or ruins a family.
3. Justice: Justice is never bad and injustice can never be good; no contrary evidence can be found to this.
Sheikh Muzaffar therefore states that there are three relations between actions and moral judgements:
1. Necessary relation: When the entire cause is present for the effect.
2. Incomplete relation: When some of the cause is present but not all.
Muslims scholars have concluded that the only necessary relation to goodness is justice. In regards to honesty and goodness, there is an incomplete relation such that it is good to be honest as long as there isn’t an obstacle such as greater harm occurring due to honesty. Similarly with acts such as walking; it requires an external motive to it that would make it morally good or bad. Therefore an Islamic response to moral relativism is that there is a fixed standard for measuring morality which is explained in Islamic Ethics such as the end being justice and attaining perfection.
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AKHLAQ COURSES IN HAWZAH
2015
AKHLAQ COURSES IN HAWZAH
2015
Lecture 8, 05/01/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
The Role of Intention
Intention in Action
Two Important Points
Important Points about Reward
Summary of this session:
Introduction
We previously discussed Allamah Muzaffar’s view on actions and their moral status. Actions and goodness have three possible relations between them. Either they are necessary such as justness and goodness or they are incomplete such as speaking the truth being dependent on the context or they’re judged based on an external element such as walking or talking which would be dependent on what they’re done for. The Role of Intention Intention in Action Two Important Points Important Points about Reward Conclusion
Intentions are only applicable to actions, not qualities because a virtue or a vice is innate, it does not intention to have. In many ethical theories, intentions are overlooked and actions are judged merely based on itself or its result. However intentions can render an action good or bad regardless of its innate moral status or its effect; for example, generosity must be judged with regards to the intention as generosity done with ostentatious intent is not good.
The Islamic theory of Ethics states that a good action must also be accompanied by good intentions for it to be a good act. Such good acts are termed ‘noble’ in the Qur’an (al-Amal al-Salih). Thus contrary to Kantian Ethics, it considers an act noble only when the action is also good, whereas Kantian Ethics does not consider the knowledge or action of the actor. Meaning a person unknowingly giving poison to a thirsty person has not committed a noble act. Therefore actions are important yet judgement must also include the intention as the Prophet (s) said “Indeed, actions are judged according to their intentions”.
In addition, in Islamic Ethics, we believe that the intention behind an act also impacts the effectiveness of the act.
Therefore a noble act requires a good intention in order to be so. Therefore it is our responsibility to judge based on intention because a good act may be done in order to harm another or benefit may be gained by accident from a badly intended act.
1. A genuine intention to do a good act is rewarded at least 10 times the amount. Whereas an evil intention is not punished unless acted upon. However good and evil intentions even without actions still effect the soul.
2. A good intention’s scope can affect the spiritual benefits for the soul. As long as a person genuinely intends to do a good act on a far greater scale, he benefits from the greatness of his intention.
In a supplication we say “O Allah with your grace allow me to grow my intention”. We must therefore not limit ourselves and strive to extend our goodness as far as we can, where we attempt to reach but cannot, we will be rewarded for it.
1. An intention without implementation is lesser than an intention with implementation.
2. An intended action may be rewarded but the intender will not receive the spiritual benefits of the act until he has performed the act.
In conclusion, it is important to consider intention while passing moral judgment for an action. In addition our intentions must be broadened and we must bear in mind that intending alone does not give us the benefits of acts but we will still benefit spiritually from good intentions and suffer spiritually from bad intentions.
Lecture 9, 26/01/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Kantian ethics and Islamic ethics
Reward and punishment being to the extent of intellect
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Introduction
We previously discussed that in Islamic ethics intention is essential for judging actions. Therefore when judging an act, we must consider whether the action itself is good or whether it becomes good due to a third act or it is good based on the context. In addition the intention must be good. Only then can it be considered a noble act. These two conditions are known as Husn al-Fe’l (Goodness of act) and Husn al-Fa’il (Goodness of actor). Kantian Ethics and Islamic Ethics Reward and punishment being to the extent of intellect Conclusion
It must be noted that sometimes some morally neutral actions gain value simply due to an intention such as the stoning of pillars representing Satan in Hajj.
In Kantian ethics, intention is regarded as the only essential component for a good action. His view is deontological, meaning it is duty based and without regard for outcomes. Therefore intrinsically good acts such as truthfulness must be done without regard for the consequences and the intention which the actor must have is a sense of moral responsibility.
In the Islamic theory, while duty and intentions are important, it still does not rule out the necessity of the act itself being good. Yet in addition the level of goodness of the actor is also considered by considering the following three qualities:
1. Intellect: An actor with a sharper intellect must abide better by Islamic Laws and ethics and so the standard is matched with his intellect.
2. Knowledge: The goodness or evil of an action is weighed against his knowledge. An evil act from someone who knows better is worse than someone without knowledge. Likewise, a good action done in knowledge is better than actions performed ignorantly.
3. Piety: Someone who performs good acts out of seeking God’s pleasure is doing better than someone who does so out of instinct. A sacrifice in piety is better than a sacrifice due to pressure or pretentious.
Therefore, where in other ethical theories, two people performing the same act with the same intention may be equal, in Islam they are further distinguished by other merits. As Allah (swt) has said “He who created death and life that He may test to see which of you is best in conduct”8 .
Regarding the verse Imam Sadiq explains that best in conduct means in terms of quality not quantity, the level of awareness about Allah, the goodness in intention, the persistence in that conduct, the sincerity of it being for Allah and that intentions themselves are actions. He then recited this verse “Say, everyone acts according to his character” 9. He further explained that character means intention here.
Therefore having good intentions are essential for us, although we must not allow ourselves to become to fixated by intentions, thereby allowing Satan to divert us from committing good actions due to being confused regarding our intentions. After considering qualities that are taken into account when judging an actor and action, it becomes clear that intentions and their goodness are parallel with the actor’s character. Therefore every agent’s intentions are a manifestation of his spiritual nature.
In Usul al-Kafi it is reported “Allah said to intellect: “Come forward!” and it came forward. And “Go back!” and it went back. Allah said: “By you I will reward, and by you I will punish”.
According to this Hadith, intellect is obedient to God and reward or punishment is based on the intellect. Therefore mentally disabled Muslims are exempt from responsibilities if they do not have intellect. However those bestowed with better intellect are further scrutinised due to their better understanding. Therefore reward and punishment is equivalent to the actor’s level of intellect. As the Hadith says “Seventy sins of an ignorant person will be forgiven before one sin of a scholar is forgiven”. However those who have a higher intellect, thereby a bigger responsibility, also have more potential for reward once they carry out their responsibilities.
Therefore, in Islamic ethics when making a judgement a person’s knowledge, understanding, intellect and piety are taken into account. It is wrong to judge based on the exterior of the act.
In conclusion, contrary to deontological and teleological ethical theories, in Islamic ethics the moral value of an action is based on two elements; goodness of actor as well as goodness of act.
Lecture 10, 02/02/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
A good Intention
Actions of Non-Believers
Further Qur’anic evidence
Love of Parents
Summary of this session:
Recap
We previously discussed the necessity of action coupled with good intention in order to be a noble deed. We also discussed the nature of the actor being an essential factor whilst judging the goodness and value of an act. Therefore no two act will be identical as there are bound to be some differences in qualities of character between different actors. A Good Intention Actions of Non-Believers Further Qur’anic Evidence Love of Parents
What causes an intention to be regarded as ‘good’? Some scholars believe a good intention is one which is to please Allah and attain closeness to him and in addition if the action itself is good then it is a noble deed (al-Amal al-Salih). Therefore any action without this intention has no moral value.
However a question arises, what about the actions of non-believers? Undoubtedly it has some value, although not equivalent to if they believed. As the Qur’an mentions in verse 2:62 that Jews, Christians and Sabaens shall have their reward; no mention of them changing their religion is made here. Therefore the verse suggests that someone submissive based on their own faith, to the best of their knowledge, shall have their good deeds rewarded.
A historical evidence from the Prophet (s) declared that Hatam Tai would not be punished in the hereafter despite being a polytheist due to his selfless generosity. Hence his daughter was treated with special respect and released after capture in battle. Other instances also exist of the Prophet (s) releasing his enemies due to their good qualities. What must be noted is that from the Islamic perspective, death of our enemies is not a victory. Any person who dies fighting the truth is in fact a victory for Satan for having misled one more of our brothers in humanity.
Therefore Allah (swt) loves good qualities within everyone, no matter who possesses them. This approach must make us more appreciative of others rather than becoming fault finders. If someone cannot see goodness in another, he must check himself because he cannot find goodness where it exists; as Prophet Isa (as) found goodness in a dead dog which his companions failed to see.
Likewise, in the battle of Uhud, the people of Mecca who knew the Prophet as the most trustworthy of people, fought against him and his Muslims, killing his uncle Hamza yet after all that, He (s) prays for them and excuses them by saying they are unaware. We must also try to have this unconditional love, not love with a slight selfish agenda. We must not label people as bad, just as the Prophet would not and would excuse the wrongdoing of others. Allah (swt) commands us to repel evil with what is best10 and thus an enemy will become a sympathetic friend. Therefore we must not reciprocate people, in all civil cases we must answer evil with the best and this requires patience. It is very difficult to do so, however nothing great is easy.
In conclusion, noble deeds from believers are higher yet actions with good intentions from non-believers are also rewarded even though it is not done for the sake of Allah.
“‘So whoever does an atom’s weight of good will see it, and whoever does an atom’s weight of evil will see it.”11 . This verse also does not indicate to the agent’s faith but rather says “whoever” which is inclusive of all people.
It seems as though Islam is essentially seeking to make people free from their ego and selfishness. This may be why mothers are so highly respected in Islam even if they be disbelievers; as they are selfless people and have unconditional love. Allah (swt) says “Your Lord has decreed that you shall not worship anyone except Him, and [He has enjoined] kindness to parents. Should they reach old age at your side, one of them or both, do not say to them, Fie! And do not chide them, but speak to them noble words.”12 Hence a condition for achieving heaven in Islam is respectfulness for our parents, even if they be disbelievers.
Lecture 11, 09/02/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Our view
Faith and Action
Intentions and actions of non-believers
Freedom
Intention and ego
Islam and the teleological view
Selfishness
Summary of this session:
Recap Our view Faith and Action Intentions and actions of non-believers Freedom Intention and ego Islam and the teleological view Selfishness
According to some scholars, an action only has value if it is performed by a believer with the intention of gaining nearness to Allah (swt) or seeking His pleasure. Therefore, a person who does not believe or a believer who does not intend it to be done for Allah (swt), then that act is useless.
The Islamic view is that judgement cannot be passed so simply. We must consider the prerequisites of entering Heaven; which are Faith (Imān) and noble deeds (Al-Amal al-Salih). If one lacks faith they cannot enter heaven. However, every good deed done by anyone has a value and is appreciated by Allah (swt) and they gain the reward for it. Islam does not view a good non-believer the same as a bad one. As the verse says “Whoever does an atom’s weight or good will see it and whoever does an atom’s weight of evil will see it”13 .This is evident in the case of Hatam Tai who would help people selflessly and thus according to some narrations he will not face the punishment of Hell despite being a disbeliever. Therefore, we must differentiate between what qualifies for heaven and what qualifies a person to be counted as morally good.
The Qur’an in some cases mentions noble deeds before faith; “And whoever does righteous deeds … should he be faithful, such shall enter paradise” 14. The condition in the verse “Should he be faithful” suggests that faith is not essential to a noble deed because this clause is used as a condition for attaining heaven as an addition to righteous deeds. Similarly, verses also indicate to the same conclusion; that faith is not essential for a noble deed. It is the combination of faith and noble deeds that lead to heaven but noble deeds on its own is still valuable.
As previously discussed, a noble deed is a combination of a good act with a good intention. Regarding non-Muslims, their good intention could be to benefit the world; either the actor, other people, animals or the environment. However, it must be done with good intent and purpose, without negative motives.
This makes logical sense since we cannot weigh an inactive believer equal to an active disbeliever who strives to do good always. From a moral point of view, they are not equal, one is concerned only of himself and the other is concerned about other people. Even two states, a selfish minded believer is not equal to a kind and helpful disbeliever.
In my opinion, acting due to a sense of moral responsibility or moral conscience also constitutes a good intention. Although the value and extent of this intention can be elevated if done for the sake of Allah alone. However, an intention which is not solely for Allah is still valuable. Therefore, e.g. parents must be respected even if they did not intend to become parents for the sake of Allah.
In our narrations we find references to the notion of freedom in regards to our acts of worship. Imam Ali (as) differentiates believers into 3 groups:
1. The slave: He who obeys Allah out of fear of punishment.
2. The merchant: He who obeys Allah for a reward.
3. The free: He who obeys Allah out of love.
Imam Husayn said “If you do not have religion and you do not fear the Hereafter, then at least be free in your worldly life!”
A person may observe moral responsibilities due to their belief in God. A person with no faith can be motivated by a sense of humanity. The 3rd category which is the free people are those who do good because they find it to be good. For religious people this is a worthy target in worshipping Allah i.e. we worship him out of love, thankfulness and acknowledgement of his worthiness to be worshipped, without obligation by religion. This is a notion that is universal, we naturally love obeying those who bestow favours upon us and are kind and helpful to us, and as a result we are thankful. Similarly, Allah is He who is the source of all goodness in our lives, we should realise and thus we would fall in love with him and acknowledge his right to be worshipped.
To be free is to do good because of a sense of moral responsibility. If people have such awareness then they will undoubtedly be good. Such people will eventually become believers and if they had no means reaching guidance then at least Allah will be kind to them due to their good qualities.
Therefore, the Islamic view is that goodness of an action, actor and intention are all important. If it is done out of a moral responsibility then it is also done as a free person. Yet this intention can further be elevated if done for the sake of Allah (swt).
Previously we discussed that there are 3 categories in the teleological view:
1. Egoism: a good outcome for the actor
2. Altruism: a good outcome for other than the actor
3. Universalism: a good outcome for the greater number.
In contrast, some scholars have introduced the Islamic view as a deontological one similar to Kantian ethics. Meaning we must perform what is our moral duty regardless of the outcome. Imam Khomeini used to say “We are responsible for discharging our duties, not for the outcomes”.
However, everything which is prohibited or obligatory in Islam is due to some real interest or harm. All good acts are so because they also have a good outcome. Allah (swt) considers all harms and interests in his legislation and He (swt) is the all wise and all-knowing therefore, He (swt) is aware of all harms and interests while our limited understanding is not inclusive of everything. Therefore, it is not for individuals to judge above God’s legislation because our knowledge and wisdom can never be above His (swt). In any viable legal system, there must be a general law and for special circumstances, special clauses are added. Hence in Islamic laws, we cannot comprehend the reasoning and wisdom behind the laws, it is for this reason we must follow the laws set by Allah (swt). Therefore, in the case of Imam Khomeini’s quote, defending against injustice requires determination and resilience; yet when he realised the war was no longer producing good results, he accepted a ceasefire. We can learn from this that Allah’s ruling does not change, but we have to be understanding of situation and context within which we’re applying the law as the context plays a role in the law’s judgment.
It therefore seems that the Islamic view resembles the teleological view but which of the 3 categories does Islam agree with?
Some scholars have argued that human beings are egoists because everything they do is motivated by self-love. Even when a person worships Allah (swt) or strives for martyrdom, it is because he knows it is good for him.
The egoistic form of the teleological view suggests a grim picture of a selfish world. However, we dispute this because we differentiate between selfishness and egoism. The former is pure selfishness where I would refuse you water and drink it myself even if I am not that thirsty whereas egoism dictates that I give you water because you need it yet I also benefit, it is therefore looking after oneself without selfishness. Selfishness is short sighted, whereas egoism is far sighted; a selfish person would not take up loss in the short term for a greater benefit in the long term, whereas an egoistic person would. For believers, this long term planning extends far beyond death as the benefit may not materialise here but rather in multiples in the Hereafter.
Lecture 12, 02/03/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Is egoism compatible with morality?
Questions and rebuttals
Conclusion
Love for others and ourselves; two compatible desires
Desire for certain values
Merits of knowledge
The Prophets
True worship and worshipfulness
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Recap Is egoism compatible with morality? Questions and rebuttals Conclusion Love for others and ourselves; two compatible desires Desire for certain values Merits of knowledge The Prophets True worship and worshipfulness Conclusion
We previously discussed the role of self-love as the motivation for our actions. We said that many Muslim scholars who are more inclined towards philosophy hold this view and they support it using psychological egoism. However, we argued that there is a difference between egoism and selfishness; the former being broader minded and beneficial to others but the latter being short sighted and fixated on the actor himself. Egoistic people may consider their long term interests by helping others including the reward of the Hereafter, whereas a selfish person would not be motivated by a distant reward for an immediate loss.
The selfish person also experiences only superficial pleasures such as drinking or eating. However, an egoistic person may sacrifice superficial pleasures for deeper pleasures such as that of satiating others.
According to scholars for egoism, it is impossible for humans to completely disregard self-interest. As a result a question arises as to what is the purpose of morality in egoism? How could a science of voluntary actions be applicable in a view that believes all actions are dictated by self-interest?
An answer may be that while it is true that humans are motivated by self-love, ethics can teach us how to best secure our interests. As selfishness is harmful to our long term interests due to its role in undermining social relations. In ethics we are taught to think broadly in order to secure our short term and long term interests; in order to do so we must live in a way that minimises conflict and the only way to minimise conflicts of interests is by considering others’ interests. Thus, ethics prevents our egoism from committing injustice to others.
In a religious sense, somebody who is ethical, his ego will lead him to take himself along with others towards Allah. Such a person would not be indifferent to the vices and evils of others and would want to help them as well as himself for the sake of the benefit that would come to him from guiding others. Whereas, an egoistic person without ethics may secure his Hereafter without regard for others. Ethics therefore broadens our egoism and thus makes it beneficial to others as well. Perhaps ‘Do to others as you would like them to do to you’ is a perfect example of ethical egoism, as it is in our ultimate interest to live in a society in which goodness is performed so that the moral fabric of society can continue to be upheld and thus everyone initiates and reciprocates good out of egoism, ultimately leading to ever increasing benefit to all members.
We may question scholars for egoism as there are instances where people act without thinking of self-interest. Such as a mother acting for her child, surely she does not consider her own benefit when she suffers for her child.
Those scholars for egoism would respond arguing that the suffering of the child causes the mother to suffer and as a result she acts to alleviate the child’s suffering. Therefore, the mother is acting egoistically, albeit subconsciously.
Overall, my understanding is that we must distinguish between two matters. The first is acceptable but not the second:
1. I accept that humans do not act selflessly, we always consider interest or relevance before acting. E.g. I would not be concerned with people waiting outside a door, but if it’s my door then they’re my guests and thus I would act to respond to them. This is because once relevance and interest is establish I have reason to act.
2. I have difficulty accepting that for a person to act, he must have personal interest in it. Personal gain is not necessarily the only interest. It may be that Allah has placed a desire for our own good as well as the good of others. It is sufficient for the latter alone to be activated for us to act. We have a desire to do good to others; even at time when we know it won’t be appreciated by them.
Therefore, humans are motivated by self-interest but we are not limited to it, we have a drive to also do good without personal interest in it. E.g. a mother may identify a certain course of action as beneficial to her child, without which the child would not suffer, but the benefit of the mother’s actions will be for the child alone, she would still do it out of love; knowing she isn’t gaining anything.
We love ourselves and we also love other humans, animals and nature. Allah (swt) has placed within us both self-love as well as love for others. Thus, people can do good to others out of love for them without entertaining thought of benefit for themselves. An act for others may be appreciated or it may not; if it is appreciated then it also serves personal interests of the actor but otherwise it serves the driver of love for others. Hence we may be happy for doing a good act for others or we may act altruistic causing bitterness for ourselves but securing the interest of another.
On a deeper level, Allah placed within us love for all that is good. He (swt) himself is the source of goodness thus, whatever good we love, it is ultimately love of Him as every goodness comes from Him (swt).
We also desire beauty, even if it does not benefit us; hearing of a village that is beautiful is interesting to us even if we never have nor will we ever visit it but simply hearing its beauty interests us.
‘Say, “Are those who know equal to those who do not know?” Only those who possess intellect take admonition.’15
Knowledge is valuable in itself and by its own merit, and when it is acted upon then it is even more valuable. However, we must prioritise useful knowledge above useless knowledge as our resources are limited and conflicts may arise from some knowledge.
‘O you who have faith! Do not ask about things which, if they are disclosed to you, will upset you. Yet if you ask about them while the Qur’an is being sent down, they shall be disclosed to you. Allah has excused it, and Allah is all-forgiving, all-forbearing.’16
Therefore, a person should not investigate every matter. However, we learn from this that we have an inherent curiosity to know even if that knowing does not secure an interest. Therefore, not all actions are motivated by self-interest.
I believe whenever we think of acting, we weigh the outcome and if it is beneficial then we are motivated to do it. However, with different people there are different drivers that motivate them; some are motivated for themselves, some for their families, some for their country but for a few, and anything which is related to human beings.
The Prophets of Allah (swt) were motivated by anything related to the creation of God; because they were the representatives of God. If Prophet Mohammed (s) would come to know of an orphan in a different part of the world suffering, he would suffer also. However, we are often representatives of Allah for our own family. This is not acceptable and we must try to reach the level of the Prophets.
There is a gap between us and the Hujjah (proof of Allah i.e. Imam Mahdi). If we wish to become closer to him, our attitude and mind set needs to become closer to him. He has a very broad vision and so should we. The more people we are concerned for, the closer we will be to him.
I believe all humans have self-love and many scholars view this as the motivator for even selfless acts such as martyrdom, it is because martyrs sell their life for a greater success from God. A verse also mentions this;
‘Indeed Allah has bought from the faithful their souls and their possessions for paradise to be theirs: they fight in the way of Allah, kill, and are killed. A promise binding upon Him in the Torah and the Evangel and the Qur’an. And who is truer to his promise than Allah? So rejoice in the bargain you have made with Him, and that is the great success.’17
Imam Ali (as) also mentions the trade that happens between people and Allah;
‘They have accepted patiently sufferings and adversities in this mortal and transitory life for the sake of eternal bliss, which by the grace of God proved for them a very profitable transaction.’ 18
However, there are exceptions, those who do not make calculations about reward for their act. Such as Imam Husayn (as); he would not have thought about the reward of martyrdom. He knew who his Lord was. E.g. a child never worries about his food because he is certain his parents will provide, someone who recognises his Lord would also know that everything will be done in the best manner by his Lord. Therefore, it is possible to not be egoistic although it may be true only for a few people.
The meaning of being an ‘Abd (Slave) of Allah is that the slave is not concerned of what will happen to him because he is provided for by his master. His condition is completely reliant on his master. Likewise a slave of Allah (swt) knows that he has the best master that will provide him with the best, hence, he does not even need to consider or weigh rewards for motivation. An ‘Abd is completely defined by his master.
Therefore, we conclude that human beings can act and behave by being motivated by self-love, and love for other beings. They can also be motivated by good qualities and concepts such as beauty and knowledge.
Furthermore, all of these factors have their root in something even more fundamental. Whether we consider self-love, or the love for others and the love for qualities and concepts, we can trace the origin of each of these to our basic love for Khayr (goodness). Hence, an action can be good for one’s self, for another, or for goodness itself. And all of these are linked back to Khayr. This love for goodness is something placed in us by Allah (swt), and He is the source of absolute goodness (swt) is motivating him.
Lecture 13, 09/03/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
A good outcome
However there are different views regarding the definition of a good outcome:
The complete human (Insan-e-kamil)
Point of qualification as a complete human
Islamic view of humanity
Nearness to Allah
Allah creates light, not darkness
Summary of this session:
Recap The teleological view, which is based on outcome, is not a circular argument because the spiritual goodness of the act is defined by the material or the ideological or religious goodness of the outcome. The outcome’s goodness is therefore defined outside morality by sciences such as philosophy, religion, ideology etc. The complete human (Insan-e-kamil) Point of qualification as a complete human Islamic view of humanity Nearness to Allah Allah (swt) creates light, not darkness ‘Or like the manifold darkness in a deep sea, covered by billow upon billow, overcast by clouds, manifold [layers of] darkness, one on top of another: when he brings out his hand, he can hardly see it, and one whom Allah has not granted any light has no light.’ (Qur’an, 24:40) The Infallibles are mirrors, and thus they are the signs of Allah as they reflect the light of Allah. Everything in the universe has the ability to reflect the light of Allah but according to their own capacities. Since it is humans who can best reflect the light of Allah, it is due to the birth of humans that Allah expresses himself as the best of creators. However, if the human progresses and becomes a complete human then it is something truly amazing and they will reflect Allah far more. Nevertheless they remain mirrors and do not have an independent value from God. This is why they do not become arrogant. They try to clear themselves of any dirt so they can continue to reflect His light, and polish themselves so they can perform what God wants of them, and speak as He wishes. They do not possess any kind of lordship, but they have amazing qualities and they reflect Allah. Hence, there is a very close relationship between the completion in one’s humanity and closeness to Allah (swt).
We previously discussed Islamic ethics and what constitutes a good act. One approach was the teleological view; goodness based on outcome. However, a question would arise as to who should be the beneficiary? Three responses were given in response; egoism, altruism and universalism.
We discussed that many people consider Islamic ethics to be teleological; and an egoistic one at that. However, we clarified that Islamic ethics combined with egoism would result in ethical egoism; where people can exercise self-love but also care for others and also be far and broad sighted.
In addition, we discussed that people do not necessarily have to be egoistic, as we are capable of doing good for goodness itself; for values such as knowledge, truth etc. because they are good.
A good outcome
However there are different views regarding the definition of a good outcome:
1. Pleasure: Some teleological ethicists believe mere physical pleasure is a good outcome. This can possibly lead to hedonism.
Other scholars are more sophisticated. They believe a good outcome is a long term and spiritual pleasure such as that from knowledge, doing good to others, the life of the Hereafter etc. This view can have credibility because among our literature we have emphasis on Sa’adah (Felicity); a pleasure caused by knowledge of Allah and gaining nearness to him. Mullah Sadra being one great figure who emphasises on pleasure in his ethics, but the spiritual kind, not physical.
2. Welfare: Some teleological ethicists have argued that a good outcome is one which improves welfare; people’s living conditions. Therefore, the measure of goodness is based on the impact for welfare.
3. Self-realisation: Some argue that self-realisation is the good outcome. Every human has potentials, when an act causes us to develop towards actualising our potentials then that is a good act for a good outcome.
4. Nearness to Allah: Others define the goodness of an outcome based on the nearness to Allah (swt) it produces.
An important term in Islamic ethics is Insan-e-kamil (The complete human). This is sometimes translated as ‘the perfect human’ which causes confusion as humans cannot be absolutely perfect, that is only possible for Allah (swt). The complete human is one who has acquired all the virtues that are specific to humans and God and is free of moral vices.
Spiritually, those close to Allah (swt) have achieved these special virtues and as a result have experienced pleasures that few people experience. Some experiences we will never experience such as that of the Prophet (s). The complete human is therefore, one who has perfected his humanity. However, completion does not mean it’s the end of progress. It simply means that they have passed the line which would qualify them as such however, they may still improve. Much like a Mujtahid; he can also increase knowledge after Ijtihad but it just means he has achieved a renowned level of understanding. Similarly, a person who achieves a degree of complete humanity, he can be considered to be one of the complete humans.
What is the distinguisher between incompleteness and completeness? Once a person achieves all the good qualities that are unique to human beings, he is complete. Qualities that define humanity such as those that differentiates humans from animals. Hence if these qualities are made a part of him and it is active within him, such a person is complete.
Islam does not hold a negative view regarding humans, our nature and origin. E.g. whilst other religions see humans as a problematic and defective creation since the “fall” of Adam while Islam views humans as creations in the best of forms “We certainly created man in the best of forms”19 .
Islam explains that while there are issues in humans, it does not mean the design is faulty. In addition to honour humans Allah says he blew into them His spirit “So when I have proportioned him and breathed into him of my spirit, then fall down in prostration before him.” 20The value of humans are therefore of the utmost as Allah (swt) honours us by making us personal to him and in order to honour us he says “My spirit” and “I blew”. Then due to this honouring He (swt) commands the angels to prostrate to Adam. Therefore in Islam, the human origin is a blessed and honorary event, not one of shame and fault.
Therefore, since humanity is honorary in Islam and so is proximity to God, humans have no need to sacrifice one for the other. We can be both human and be close to God. In fact, these aren’t incompatible, rather both have the same meaning as it is only though being better humans that we can become closer to God. Therefore, when some philosophers of the west and their followers in the east claim that we must distance ourselves from God to improve our humanity, it is because they base their views on the Christian perspective. This means they are not applicable to Islam as in Islam everything is in harmony. Those that view humanity and attachment to God as incompatible neither serve humanity nor God; they are merely undermining our origin from goodness and our unique value that is there only because of our link to God.
A good simile of us is one of a radio. If it is disconnected and is unable to perform its essential function, it has not actualised its potential. Yes, we may take it to pieces and study its parts but ultimately the value of it is in its function. Similarly, humans are only able to actualise their humanity and their potential when connected to God, the source of our goodness. Our dead bodies may be studied and they are indeed a beautiful and intriguing creation, but our true value lies within our soul, who we really are; connected to God.
When we connect to Allah (swt), beautiful events occur, life becomes peaceful and sweet, revelations come down such as the Torah, the bible, the Quran. If only we based our views on God’s view, many conflicts wouldn’t occur as in God’s view, His creation is not faulty but rather it is all in harmony as He intends. In fact we humans are great signs of His love, mercy, goodness, wisdom and powers; through us some of His attributes become manifest. So when someone abuses humans or ridicules humanity, they are in reality at odds against God as we are His creation. If someone insults the best artwork of an artist, he has in fact insulted the artist. It is therefore, insulting to Allah to talk bad of people or to kill them. Those who preach that only Muslims are honourable are also insulting Allah as the Quran says “Certainly We have honoured the Children of Adam, and carried them over land and sea, and provided them with all the good things, and given them an advantage over many of those We have created with a complete preference”21 . Similarly Imam Ali (as) said to Malik “Habituate your heart to mercy for the subjects and to affection and kindness for them. Do not stand over them like greedy beasts who feel it is enough to devour them, since they are of two kinds: either your brother in religion or one like you in creation.
Undoubtedly qualities which make us more human also take us closer to Allah (swt). These qualities are loved by Allah and in fact many of the qualities Allah possesses can be shared with humans. We humans cannot however have some qualities that are exclusive to Allah such as Kibriyah (Greatness). If we try to seem great we will fall very low as we would be lowly creatures disputing with Allah over the robe of greatness; as a result we would only be arrogant. Therefore, the goodness of humans in only in humbleness. However, apart from such qualities we can share the others as a hadith also encourages us to “adopt the ethics of Allah”. Meaning we should strive to achieve qualities possessed by Allah to the extent that is possible. The more we achieve the closer we will be to him.
The Infallibles have told us “Do not claim lordship for us but other than that say about us whatever you wish”. We can never claim lordship for anyone. But when we speak about qualities such as generosity and wisdom then we believe that the Infallibles have these qualities, and that they derive them from Allah. Therefore, we cannot claim lordship for anyone however those who reflect the qualities of Allah the most, are the Infallibles, it is for this reason we can say whatever about them and it would be true except lordship as that is exclusive to Allah (swt).
Allah (swt) has never created anything that is totally dark. In fact, darkness is merely the absence of light. And everything created by Him has some degree of light, and He is the origin of this light.
Lecture 14 part I, 16/03/2015
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Lecture 14 part II, 16/03/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Nearness to Allah
Nearness to Allah in light of the Quran
Knowledge by presence (al-‘Ilm al-Hudhuri)
Our view
The narration regarding nearness to Allah through recommended acts (Hadith-e-Qurb-e-Nawafil)
Summary of this session:
Recap Nearness to Allah Nearness to Allah in light of the Quran Knowledge by presence (al-‘Ilm al-Hudhuri) Our view Similarly, a near one to Allah also has special benefits in addition to recompense, and Allah has no equals. The narration regarding nearness to Allah through recommended acts (Hadith-e-Qurb-e-Nawafil)
Previously we discussed that a good action must lead to a good outcome. Then regarding as to what constitutes a good outcome, we concluded that two forms of outcomes are acceptable as ‘good’:
1. Development towards the realisation of human being potentials: Anything outcome which causes our humanity to improve and achieve our potentials and ultimately becoming complete humans.
2. Nearness to Allah: Anything which takes us closer to God is a good outcome.
We concluded that in reality these two are the same because by developing our humanity, we get closer to Allah; when one acquires virtues he becomes nearer to Allah (swt).
There are two forms of nearness:
1. Arbitrary: Meaning nearness based on a subjective decision, not containing real changes or distinction. E.g. becoming closer to the President due to governmental position; no change in character is necessary with a change in closeness to a person in power.
2. Real: Meaning nearness based on a change in character. E.g. Nearness of a mother to her child; a special love exists within the mother making her emotionally connected to the child; a genuine change has occurred in a woman that she cares for her child, therefore she is emotionally close to him.
Regarding nearness to God; it is a real form of nearness, not an arbitrary one. It is not that Allah for no reason chooses to bestow a position upon someone. He chooses based on a distinction in character of the chosen. The Quran also states “Allah knows best where to place His apostleship” 22. Therefore, because the Quran says “Allah knows” it means knowledge is involved, if knowledge is involved in choosing His apostle, it means the appointment is not arbitrary but rather it is based on a real distinction.
In a philosophical view such as the transcendental philosophy of Mullah Sadra, nearness to Allah is a real nearness based on the principle of cause and effect. Since every effect is dependent on a cause to come into existence and continue existing. Therefore, Allah (swt) is close to us because He is the ultimate cause for existents existing.
Allah is the primary cause of everything and everything is dependent on Him for existing in every instance. This means that His connection to everything is utmost and therefore, He is closest to everything and Allah says in the Quran “Certainly We have created man and We know to what his soul tempts him, and We are nearer to him than his jugular vein”23. He also says “O you who have faith! Answer Allah and the Apostle when he summons you to that which will give you life. Know that Allah intervenes between a man and his heart and that toward Him you will be mustered.”24 Also regarding death He says “So when it reaches the throat [of the dying person] and at that moment you are looking on, and We are nearer to him than you are, though you do not perceive.” 25
This is because physical nearness, like that of onlookers around the dying person, isn’t real nearness in the sense that they do not know what goes through the person’s heart or mind but all his experiences originate from Allah and He knows He is the most aware and this is true closeness.
Now a question arises, how is it that we need to get closer to Allah but Allah is always closest to us? The answer is that closeness reciprocates in the physical realm, however the closeness which ethics is concerned with is a spiritual one. E.g. a teacher may be very close to a student because he has experienced what the student is going through, whereas the student has not experienced what the teacher has been through, therefore the teacher understands the student more; in this sense he is closer. Similarly, the love of a mother for the child is not always reciprocated by the child for the mother. Therefore, the love which ethics is concerned with is not a physical one which necessitates reciprocation of nearness, but rather a spiritual nearness based on love and knowledge. Therefore, in order to build the spiritual closeness to Allah (swt) we need to put effort in improving ourselves in whatever takes us closer to him.
It must be noted that nearness to Allah is possible but we cannot be with Allah. To say ‘with’ Allah implies greatness equalling him. Therefore, Allah can be with us, as a helper, but we cannot be with Allah because He is without equal; “The places of worship belong to Allah, so do not invoke anyone along with Allah”26 .
In conclusion, the nearness ethics is concerned with is not the physical or the philosophical nearness between cause and effect, rather it is the spiritual closeness.
Another view regarding closeness to Allah (swt) is that it is based on knowledge and understanding of Him (Ma’rifah). Also what is meant by nearness here is the nearness of the soul with its main quality being knowledge. Therefore, our closeness to Him is determined by how much we know of Him. At the peak of knowledge of Him we can acquire knowledge by presence of Allah. At this point they do not require mental images or conceptions to understand Him, but rather they are aware of him directly and sense the presence of Allah; in addition they have immediate encounters due to their proximity to Him.
As an enhancement of the view ‘knowledge by presence’ we turn to the concept of nearness from the Quran. Firstly, we must understand that the Quran is utmost in precision and wisdom. Therefore, all of it is guidance, including the sequences of words, tones, repetition etc. Secondly, although stories of the Pharaoh of Egypt is narrated, we must bear in mind that it is Allah who is narrating and He does so in the best manner to guide us using the events. So the concept of closeness is nicely taught to us using the Pharaoh’s story:
When Pharaoh summoned the magicians to match them against Moses (as), prior to the meeting with Moses, the magicians approached the Pharaoh to negotiate a reward for their service: “And the magicians came to Pharaoh. They said, “’We shall indeed have a reward if we are to be the victors?’” 27. By posing the question as if they were in doubt about winning by saying “If we are to be the victors” they either truly doubted winning or they were causing a panic in Pharaoh through doubt. As a result the Pharaoh replied “He said, ‘Yes, and, [moreover], you will be among those made near [to me]’”28 . The Pharaoh offers them not only recompense for their service but in addition he offers them nearness to himself. Allah, by narrating in such a manner, shows us that the lower form of reward is recompense but the higher form of reward is closeness. This is because normal workers receive recompense for their services, but those who are near have a special position, they get access to all the resources without measure.
Hence a near one to Pharaoh has the following special benefits in addition to recompense:
1. He can meet the Pharaoh easily, almost as a right.
2. He can know the Pharaoh’s secrets and attend special meetings due to his proven loyalty.
3. He has a share in whatever the Pharaoh possesses. His needs are covered by the treasury and there’s accounting by fixed payments.
4. He can ask the Pharaoh for special favours.
5. Due to his nearness, he will have more powers bestowed from the Pharaoh and so people will respect his authority.
6. He will be known by people as someone near to the Pharaoh and so people will try to get close to him for intercession in front of the Pharaoh.
1. He can meet God easily, as soon as he seeks God he will find God with him.
2. He can know some secrets from God.
3. He will be given powers due to his trustworthiness.
4. His requests in supplications are heard they are not blocked.
5. He will have authority from Allah and the believers will respect that and will follow him.
6. He will be insured by Allah and be known among people as someone near to Allah. Thereby, he will not need to worry at all about himself but people will seek him for salvation and intercession in front of Allah.
These are the rewards of those who achieve nearness to Allah by proving their love and loyalty to him.
“None of My servants attain nearness to Me with anything that I love, more than obligatory (Wajib) acts. Then My servant constantly comes closer and closer to me by doing recommended acts until I love him. Then when I love him I become his ears by which he hears, and his eyes by which he sees, and his tongue by which he articulates, and his hand by which he grasps; if he calls Me I answer him, and if he asks Me I give him”
By performing obligatory acts, a person builds a solid foundation for nearness and they may be closer to Allah but nearness is achieved only by acts which are recommended as these are totally voluntary. Therefore, only those who perform these recommended acts would continuously become closer and closer until they reach a point where Allah now loves them, at this point they have attained nearness. It is a point where the quantity of his acts result in an improvement of the quality in his character.
The narration says “Until I love him”. A question arises; does Allah not love everyone? Allah indeed loves everyone but He does not love the vice and unrighteous qualities within us. Therefore, while his love comes with reservation for many of us, for a few who attain nearness, they are loved wholly by Allah because they have rid themselves of all vice and are righteous. However, for the many, Allah’s love for us is reserved based on the amount of vice within us. However, for some very evil individuals who have become personifications of vice, they have more reservations than good traits; such as the son of Prophet Noah “Said He, “’O Noah! Indeed He is not of your family. Indeed he is [personification of] unrighteous conduct. So do not ask Me [something] of which you have no knowledge. I advise you lest you should be among the ignorant.’”29
Lecture 15, 23/03/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Nearness to Allah
Spiritual nearness
The notion of nearness in the Quran
Advantage of near ones
How can we become a near one to Allah?
The Righteous (al-Salihin)
Summary of this session:
Recap Nearness to Allah Spiritual nearness The notion of nearness in the Quran Advantage of near ones How can we become a near one to Allah? The Righteous (al-Salihin)
We previously discussed the concept of nearness to Allah (Qurb). We discussed that achieving nearness to Allah is the ultimate objective of Islamic ethics. In addition, achieving nearness also means improving our human qualities.
We also discussed that nearness is not meant as a physical or a philosophical one in Islamic ethics. Rather it means the betterment of a person in his qualities; this is therefore different to arbitrary promotions as they do not require a certain change in a person’s ethical qualities. Whereas, to achieve nearness means a real change has occurred within the person.
Of course, Allah is close to everyone in the philosophical sense; He is the cause and we are the effect, thereby we are always connected. However, in ethics, we are concerned about spiritual nearness only; not physical nor philosophical.
“And He is with you wherever you may be” 30. Allah can be ‘with’ us but we cannot be with Allah. Ayatollah Misbah Yazdi relates the nearness of the human soul to Allah with the concept of ‘knowledge by presence’ (al-ilm al-hudhuri). He states that the main quality of the soul is knowledge, therefore, a person is near to Allah when he possesses knowledge by presence.
Knowledge by presence is when a person knows something without mental imagination or conception, there is no room for conception because everything is known. Contrary to the standard form of knowledge that is ‘gained knowledge’ (al-ilm al-husuli) through study and conception.
The Quran uses the term ‘near ones’ several times and twice in the story of the magicians conversing with the Pharaoh “He said, ‘Of course! And indeed you shall be among those near [to me]’”31 . The Pharaoh promised them reward yet far greater to it, they were promised nearness to Pharaoh.
We learnt from the story of Pharaoh and the magicians that the near ones have several exceptional benefits:
1. They are given freely, not paid in restricted wages; “Soon your Lord will give you [that with which] you will be pleased.”32
2. They are rewarded for who they are, not what they have done.
3. They can easily access the Lord and speak with him. For a person of high position and fame, his time is more important than his money; hence he may generously distribute wealth among people, yet the wise ones would seek an audience with him.
4. Like the slave of Sultan Mahmood, a near one is more concerned with his Lord rather than wealth and reward. He does not love his Lord for reward, instead he loves his Lord for Himself.
Often we are misled by Satan against Allah (swt) because we feel entitled to reward and expect God’s love to only manifest in ease and rewards for us. Since we have this conditional love, Satan knows and so he uses it against us to make us rebellious against God because He may not have met our condition in our love that is material wealth and comfort.
5. A near one can intercede for others due to his special access. A wise person understands that the position of nearness to Allah is more important than rewards. He would hesitate to ask for himself but would ask for others. Yet Allah does not forget his near servants as He is aware of all beings.
6. A near one is trusted with secrets. Allah shares some special knowledge with near ones but not with common people.
Every good that we do takes us closer to Allah. However, there must be a point at which we reach the distinct level of a ‘near’ one. Even then, being near does not signify the end of a journey because we can always get nearer and so it is said even about the Prophet in a supplication ‘[O Allah] accept his intercession and raise his rank.’ The other Prophets, they were all near to Allah yet some were higher in rank than others.
The significant point at which we would be distinguished as near to Allah is when we are loved by Allah unconditionally. Although He loves all human beings, He loves them but not their moral deficiencies; therefore we are not loved wholesome because we have moral problems that need fixing. However, because the near ones have no moral vice or deficiencies left, they are wholly good and therefore, there is nothing in them not to love and as a result Allah loves them fully. This is the position of a near one.
It is narrated from Imam Baqir (as): “Allah the Glorious and Majestic said: “My servant does not get close to me by anything that I love more than that which I have made obligatory on him. Thereafter, surely he continues to get closer to Me through recommended acts until I love him. And once I love him I become his ears by which he hears, and his vision by which he sees, and his tongue by which he articulates, and his hands by which he grasps. If he calls I answer him, and if he asks I grant him.”33
The word used to denote recommended acts is ‘Nawafil’, which is the plural of ‘Nafilah’. Nafilah literally means ‘extra’. One cannot prove one’s love for Allah by the performance of Wajib duties. This is because those that are simply afraid of Allah’s punishments also perform their Wājibāt. Rather, something that is not obligatory proves a person’s love.
As a result Allah becomes his ears, vision, tongue and hands. This is to express the deep connection that is established and shows the complete servitude of the servant however, Allah becomes his eyes and ears etc. because Allah reciprocates our servitude and grants us what we ask of him because we have given what He asked of us.
Prophet Isa (AS) has been described as a near one in the Quran “[And mention] when the angels said, “O Mary, indeed Allah gives you good tidings of a word from Him, whose name will be the Messiah, Jesus, the son of Mary – distinguished in this world and the Hereafter and among those brought near [to Allah ].”34 The Quran also says “Never would the Messiah disdain to be a servant of Allah”35 . Therefore, a near one would have no hesitation in being a servant of Allah. A servant (al-abd) is different from a worshipper (al-Abid). A servant has attained the quality of servitude to Allah whereas a worshipper is one who performs the act of worshipping. A servant has surpassed that stage and his entire living in service and worship of Allah.
Therefore, the way to achieve nearness is through a constant and sustained practice of goodness that would eventually result in our purification from moral vices and deficiencies and thereby take us near to Allah.
The righteous ones are a very lofty and select group that is accessible through doing good acts as we have in a supplication “[O Allah] join me with the righteous ones!” They are not known as righteous due to actions but rather because they embody righteousness. To reach this stage one must perform righteousness until it becomes our personality and this point when we embody righteousness, we would be considered beloved by Allah (swt).
Lecture 16, 30/03/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Nearness produces substantial change
Seeing the glory and beauty of Allah
Forgetting oneself and ones problems
Allah’s secrets
Allah’s special communication
Becoming seeing
A new life (Hayat Tayyibah)
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Recap Nearness produces substantial change Seeing the glory and beauty of Allah Forgetting oneself and ones problems Allah’s secrets Allah’s special communication Becoming seeing A new life (Hayat Tayyibah) Conclusion
Previously, we discussed that the ultimate aim of Islamic ethics is to seek nearness to Allah and this allows our humanity to flourish. We discussed the different meanings of nearness and concluded that the ethical nearness is one that only a few people achieve, although Allah is philosophically close to everyone.
We also elaborated the understanding of Ayatollah Misbah Yazdi with the Quranic presentation of nearness. We concluded that a person can become gradually closer to Allah until at a certain point, a substantial change occurs.
By performing good deeds, we become closer to Allah. This includes all good deeds including those such as worship or remembrance of Allah. This gradual change must continue until we notice differences.
For most people, they perform good actions but they lack consistency and so they may also sin besides doing good. Thereby, the progress is hampered by sins. However, if we do only good, steadily and gradually, we will notice some change after some time.
According to the narration on nearness by voluntary acts, this point of substantial change is termed as becoming the beloved of Allah, unconditionally. Although there is always room for improvement beyond this point. Indeed, a person who has kept piety for 50 years continuously is not equal to someone who has just began; the former’s soul has had more time to nourish than the latter.
Once this nearness is achieved, he is accompanied by Allah as his eyes and ears. In another narration Allah says “When he [My servant] loves me, I love him”36 . In the previous narration regarding nearness, Allah’s love is conditional on performance of obligatory and recommended acts. Based on both of these narrations, a person who loves Allah and is beloved by Allah is one who performs obligatory and recommended acts; it does not make sense for someone to have love for Allah but disobey Him or not seek His pleasure. Regarding recommended acts, it may not be necessary to do all, but at least some acts must be performed.
The narration of nearness by recommended acts continues; “I open the eyes of his heart to My glory.” If a person sees the glory of Allah then they would become disinterested in everything else. This is what some mystics mean when they refer to this state as drunkenness. It is not a state like normal drunkenness where a person’s intellect is diminished, rather it simply makes the person humble, selfless and completely aware and intellectually sound.
Hence, someone overawed by the beauty of Allah would forget himself and his problems that originate from selfishness. “Love for Allah is a fire; it does not pass by anything except it scorches it.” When a thing is burnt, there remain no impurity. Feeling the love of Allah is so powerful that the person exposed would completely submit. This seeing not a physical one, hence it does not concern the eyes.
The narration continues “I will not hide from Him that [secret] which is for the selected ones of my creation.” The beloved of Allah are so trustworthy that Allah entrusts them with knowledge that would otherwise be harmful for them and for others. However, the beloved has grown in capacity and trustworthiness that he can handle the secrets.
The narration continues “And I whisper to him in the darkness of the night and the brightness of the day.” The word used is ‘Munajat’ meaning an intimate, personal and secretive communication. Allah whispers to His beloved day and night. The narration continues to say that this whispering continues “Until his conversations with others stops.” When the beloved speaks with Allah, all other conversations become dull and so he will lose interest in them. Also as a result “His interactions with others will stop.” No one else will be able to give him what he experiences with Allah, he will be so immersed that he will naturally keep his other interactions to a minimum.
The beloved would still be an active member of society, in fact all of his relationships will magnify in quality. Therefore, Islamic ethics nor Islam as a whole, does not encourage monasticism, in fact it encourages being socially active but in a moral way. Therefore, we can judge how near we are to Allah by our behaviour; by how quickly we want to leave Allah.
The narration continues “I make him hear my speech and the speech of my angels.” The angels speak to the believers as the Quran says “Indeed those who say, ‘Our Lord is Allah!’ and then remain steadfast, the angels descend upon them, [saying,] ‘Do not fear, nor be grieved! Receive the good news of the paradise which you have been promised.’”37 However, every believer does not hear it.
The narration continues “And I make known to him the secret that I have hidden from my other creatures. And I clothe him with awe until the creatures, all of them, feel overawed by him. And he walks on the ground whilst [in a state that] he is forgiven.” Two people walk on the earth yet the believer is welcomed by all beings even the floor he steps on whereas all beings become displeased at the sight of a disobedient rebel against Allah; he can even be cursed by what we deem as non-living beings.
The narration continues “And I will make his heart understanding and seeing (Basir) and I will not hide anything from him of heaven or hell.”38 Such a servant will be able to see hell and heaven as the Quran also says “No indeed! Were you to know with certain knowledge, you would surely see hell.” This confirms the narration about nearness in regards to the near ones having special knowledge from Allah. A knowledge which is by presence, not acquired through mental conception.
Allah says in another narration “My servant! Obey me, and I will make you like me. I am ever-living and I will never die, I will make you live without dying. I am rich and never face poverty, I will make you rich and never poor. Whenever I want something I say “be” and it is, I will make you able to say “be” and it will become.” Allah grants these obedient servants characteristics and powers that Allah has; such that when they say ‘Be!’ a being will be so; among the qualities of those in heaven is this “Therein [heaven] will be whatever the souls desire and eyes delight in.”39 However, this power is given to some believers even in this world. They do not use this gift to be lazy but they are people like Imam Ali (as) who would work the hardest but he could command anything he wanted to ‘be’ and it would have been. This strong will power is given to those whom Allah knows won’t misuse it.
The Quran tells us about a new life, which is the ideal end result if we follow Islamic ethics. “Whoever acts righteously, [whether] male or female, should he be faithful, We shall revive him with a good life and pay them their reward by the best of what they used to do.”40 The conditions mentioned for achieving this new life are faith (Iman) and righteous acts. The verse uses a singular word for righteous deeds. This does not mean they only need to perform one righteous act, rather it means he is always in the state of performing only what is righteous. As a result they are rewarded by the best of what they did.
Allah invites, and the invitation is brought by Prophet Muhammad (S), and the invitation is towards life. This does not refer to a physical life, as we have already been given this without it being offered to us as a choice. If a person accepts the invitation then they qualify for this ‘life’, and if they reject the invitation then they deprive themselves and are ultimately responsible.
Those who reject the invitation towards spiritual vitality will have no experience of the new life and so they may not even realise the lack of it. They will feel they have problems, without knowing the root cause. They will have a lack of contentment in life with stress. Their thirst for money and pleasures will only deepen as they attempt to satiate it however, nothing will ever satisfy them.
However, a person that possesses the new life will not have fear or grief; “Look! The friends of Allah will indeed have no fear nor will they grieve.”41 He will have tranquillity and understand what others do not. If Allah is your senses then you would know the root cause of problems and you would know how people are, what they reveal and conceal. This way of life is the final objective of Islamic ethics and can be achieved in this world. It is not a fundamental quality of this world for us to suffer, if we follow Islamic ethics, we can build our heaven here which would extend into the hereafter.
Lecture 17, 13/04/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Good qualities
A technical point
Moral judgements; reality or arbitrary?
Another view
Ethics is based on reality
Allah’s statements are based on love
Religion is the search for truth
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Recap A technical point Moral judgements; reality or arbitrary? Another view Ethics is based on reality Allah’s statements are based on love Religion is the search for truth Conclusion
Previously, we discussed the teleological perspective in ethics which judges the goodness of an action based on its outcome. There is also differences of opinion regarding what constitutes a good outcome. Some say it is welfare, others say it is pleasure and some others say it is self-realisation.
From an Islamic perspective, we believe it is self-realisation, the completion of our humanity by achieving our potential through good actions and hence becoming closer to Allah. Therefore, all expressions are correct as they are ultimately the same; to say it is nearness to Allah or to say it is self-realisation or to say it is the completion of our humanity.
Good qualities
From now, we can discuss the qualities we must acquire and the good actions we must perform and the vices we must avoid to achieve our objective. I wish to approach it in a manner more compatible with the Quran.
There are two forms of sentences:
1. Informative (Ikhbar): Where a sentence merely declares information that is susceptible to judgement. Such as “Prayers are good”.
2. Creative (Insha’): Where a sentence is not objectively declaring information but rather it creates a meaning such as commands; “Pray!”
So, are moral judgements statements of information about a reality or are they creative sentences making labels of morality arbitrarily? Is morality a result of reality and hence moral statements are declarations of reality? Or is morality arbitrary and created by us?
Some scholars, including some western moral philosophers, believe that there is no absolute truth behind moral judgements and so we give moral labels arbitrarily. An example is emotivism; the idea that people express what they feel and so because they feel justice is good therefore, it is good and if they consider something evil, it is because that’s how they feel.
Other scholars believe there is a reality to ethical judgements. Even if we differ in the form of expressing the reality, what is being expressed is the same; for example, to say “Truthfulness is good” and “Say the truth” are different forms of sentences, the former being informative and susceptible to judgement whereas the latter is a command and hence creative. Either way, both are expressing the same reality that truthfulness is good and therefore, we must tell the truth.
Hence, commands and prohibitions are used interchangeably because they express fundamental realities, not because there is no reality behind it. Sometimes it is better to command rather than inform in order to further stress the importance of an action. E.g. if we tell a child “Politeness is good” they may not become more polite, however if we say “Be polite” it may have more of an effect.
Allah (swt) therefore uses informative and creative sentences to express different realities and there due importance. In some verses He directly forbids or enjoins; “Indeed Allah enjoins justice and kindness and generosity towards relatives, and He forbids indecency, wrong, and aggression. He advises you, so that you may take admonition”42
. In other verses He simply states information such as “Allah loves those who act justly.”43
Yet in both cases it means that we are commanded to be just and that justice is good.
I consider the difference in expression to be based upon how serious we are to take the message. When the message is serious, a command is used, because sometimes no matter how much gentle statements are employed, people may not take the message as it should be taken.
He issues commands out of His love for us. E.g. a beloved parent may try encouraging his/her child by saying “It is good to study” yet in case the child does not heed the enjoinment he may then command; “My beloved child, study!” the command is due to the love, because the parent knows what is good and he/she cares for the child and hence they will not be indifferent to the child’s wellbeing and future. If a person does not enjoin good nor forbids others from evil, it means either they are in doubt about the goodness of that matter or they do not love others; because loving others and knowing what is right necessitates we inform them or even command them if we have a special position in their hearts.Therefore, the enjoinment of good or forbidding from evil is a symbol of Allah’s love. He uses His special position to motivate us more to do what is good for us and avoid what is bad for us.
Therefore, the difference in expression means there is a reality based on which we are commanded or informed. Hence justice is good absolutely, even if humans do not exist.
Islamic ethics helps us to achieve nearness to Allah and the completion of our humanity. Through it we must identify which actions are good. This can be done using our own understanding and through our literature such as the Quran and narrations, in the forms of statements or commands; all of which are based on reality.
Religious teachings are not arbitrary, they are based on reality. We, mostly, know what is good and we do most of our duties naturally. However, religion is there to further teach and advise us thereby clarifying what we are naturally in agreement with. If we had the same knowledge as the doctor, we would conclude like the doctor; similarly, if we knew what Allah knows then we would be in complete submission. Our problems are therefore rooted in ignorance and injustice.
“Indeed We presented the Trust to the heavens and the earth and the mountains, but they refused to bear it, and were apprehensive of it; but man undertook it. Indeed he is most unfair and senseless.”44
When someone submits to truth, his problems vanish. The Prophet (s) did so and Allah gave him knowledge. This opportunity was available to all, but the Prophet was the one to take it and as a result he was elevated in knowledge and became the ambassador for Allah to guide other people by sharing the truth.
Now, the Prophet tells us that he can do for us what Allah did with him. He invites us to learn from his teachings and as a result become closer to Allah, Who will teach us what others do not know, and then we can guide others. “Be wary of Allah and Allah shall teach you.”45 We cannot be prophets but we can become messengers for the Prophet. We must always be concerned with finding truth and reality as we do believe in an absolute truth and reality. However, if a person does not follow the path of truth then he will become confused, his problems will increase and he will never find tranquillity.
Islam as a whole is based on truth and reality. When we discover it and we love others then we must teach it to others. If we do not practice by it ourselves then we are cheating ourselves; “O you who have faith! Why do you say what you do not do?”46 Those who do not share the truth, are either in doubt or they do not love others.
In order to guide others we must do it based on love; our motivation must be that we love them and so we want to guide them because we want what is best for them. When a person is beloved, the lover listens and is heavily influenced by the beloved. Friends who are a bad influence are so because they are seen as a caring friend, albeit mistakenly, as a result they can influence the other. If we wish to influence others, we must first show our love for them.
Lecture 18, 20/04/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Islamic ethics
One fundamental virtue
The significance of truthfulness (Sidq) in Islamic narrations
The significance of truthfulness (Sidq) in the Quran
Hypocrisy (Nifaq)
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Recap Islamic ethics One fundamental virtue The significance of truthfulness (Sidq) in Islamic narrations The significance of truthfulness (Sidq) in the Quran Hypocrisy (Nifaq) Conclusion
Previously we established that the ultimate goal of Islamic ethics is completion of humanity and nearness to Allah which are both the same in essence. Also, within Islamic ethics, instructions are given in descriptive statements and/or creative (Insha’i) statements such as commands; both of which highlight a reality.
In Islamic ethics there exists several approaches:
1. Philosophical: Virtues and vices are listed according to the faculties of the soul i.e. reason, anger and appetites.
2. Mystical: virtues are hierarchal as stations which must be traversed one after the other. There are approximately 50 stations.
3. Other: virtues are listed but not in an organised structure.
In my opinion, Islamic ethics can be best presented in a structure of two major levels and their divisions into smaller sub-levels. One major level is compact and the other is expanded. The Quran describes itself as having such two levels; “Alif, Lam Ra. [This is] a Book, whose signs have been made definitive and then elaborated, from One [who is] all-wise, all-aware.” 47Furthermore, there are two forms of Quranic revelation; a gradual one expanding over 23 years and a compact and instantaneous one.
In my opinion, one virtue is the core of all Islamic virtues. All other virtues originate from it. Therefore, it would be easier to become virtuous by focusing on this core virtue that would cause the emergence of all other virtues within us.
“Imam Zayn al-Abidin (as) was asked by Abi Malik ‘Inform me of all the rituals and practices of religion.’ The Imam responded “Speaking truth, judging according to justice, and keeping promises.’”48
Abi Malik was seeking the totality of religion and from the answer we can understand that that if a person possesses these three virtues then they will naturally practice other virtues.
“Imam Sadiq said: ‘Allah has not appointed any prophet except so that [people should observe] truth in speech and deliver trusts.’”49 These two qualities have been part of the fundamental teachings of the Prophets and their successors.
In another narration, Imam Sadiq states “Don’t be deceived by their prayers or by their fasting. Surely a person sometimes has prayed and fasted and it has become a habit, and therefore, if he does not do it he will feel bad. Rather, test them at the [challenging] time of telling the truth or delivering the trust.”50 Although these rituals acts are important, if they do not originate from truth and trustworthiness then they are forms without content. The measure of actions is whether they are performed with truthfulness.
The Imam also said “Whoever possesses a truthful tongue, his actions are pure.” This means that truthfulness affects other actions and things that we do. A person who must always tell the truth would not want to truthfully report himself for a mischief nor be known as mischievous, as a result they will avoid mischief.
Other narrations report The Imam said “Surely, [Imam] Ali (as) did not get to that position with the Prophet of Allah except by speaking truth and delivering trusts”51 . Also, “Do not look at the lengthy Ruku’ or Sajdah of a person for this is something to which he is accustomed, if he stops doing that he will feel very lonely; but look at his truthfulness in his speech and his trustworthiness in discharging trusts”52
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Based on the aforementioned narrations, truthfulness and trustworthiness are presented as the utmost important virtue of a believer. To such an extent that the Prophets’ and their successors’ missions and positions are summarised by it; thereby making it the core of religion.
“O you who have faith! Be wary of Allah, and be with the Truthful.”53 It is expected of every believer to be truthful. Whereas the Quran here alludes that we cannot be of “the Truthful” thereby signalling that this group is special and we can only ‘be’ with them. Commentators say that “the Truthful” must be infallibles as Allah would not ask us to be with fallible humans. Therefore, the Truthful must be a group who are purely truthful; meaning infallible.
“Allah will say, ‘This day truthfulness shall benefit the truthful. For them there will be gardens with streams running in them, to remain in them forever. Allah is pleased with them and they are pleased with Him. That is the great success.’”54
Here, when Allah is declaring the success of the truthful as ‘great’ then it is truly great.
The main and most fundamental virtue is truthfulness, and all other good deeds follow on as an effect of truthfulness. Such people remain steadfast on the path of truth and are rewarded with martyrdom simply because of how truthfully they lived.
“That Allah may reward the true for their truthfulness, and punish the hypocrites, if He wishes, or accept their repentance. Indeed Allah is all-forgiving, all-merciful.”55 Hypocrisy is worse than disbelief because a disbeliever may not have found the truth but a hypocrite is knowingly dishonest with himself and hides his true nature. They are far more dangerous than apparent enemies because they pose as friends, near to believers whereas apparent enemies are clear and distant. The Prophet (s) suffered far more at the hands of hypocrites posing as Muslims in Medina than he did from the apparent enemies far away in Mecca. And so the Quran states “Indeed the hypocrites will be in the lowest reach of the Fire, and you will never find any helper for them.”56
In the supplication of al-Iftitah we read “[O Allah! With the government of Imam Mahdi] you will degrade hypocrisy and the people of hypocrisy.” Therefore, contrary to truthfulness, hypocrisy is the main vice because when guidance comes, disbelief vanishes but hypocrisy becomes hidden.
These verses of the Quran are in conformation of the narrations regarding the importance of truthfulness. Therefore, in Islamic ethics, the main virtue of a believer, core to all else, is truthfulness. Whereas the main vice is the opposite of truthfulness; namely hypocrisy (Nifaq). A person’s honour is in commitment to the truth, but if he puts himself at a point where he prioritises himself above the truth then he will damage and deprive himself from that real source of virtues and honour; that is truthfulness.
Lecture 19, 27/04/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Haqq
Avoiding commitment and sacrifice
Guidance and misguidance
Allah has created bil-Haqq (According to Haqq)
Summary of this session:
Recap Haqq Avoiding commitment and sacrifice Guidance and misguidance Allah has created bil-Haqq (According to Haqq) “It is He who created the heavens and the earth with reason, and the day He says [to something], ‘Be!’ it is. His word is the truth, and to Him belongs all sovereignty on the day when the Trumpet will be blown. Knower of the sensible and the Unseen, He is the All-wise, the All-aware”62.
Previously, we discussed the significance of truthfulness (Sidq) in Islamic ethics and how it can be the origin for other virtues. We also discussed that in Islam, moral instructions are not given arbitrarily and they are based on a reality.
Haqq means absolute reality. Its opposite is Batil which means anything other than reality; a void. There is a confusion in regards to the translation of Haqq into English because it is a word which can be a noun or an adjective; therefore Haqq has several literal translations into English.
The Quran is a book like no other because all other books are based on human knowledge that is limited. Whereas the Quran is based on the wisdom of the all-wise. It is a book which cannot be finished nor fully researched, its teachings are never-ending. Haqq is a fundamental concept in the Quran as it describes God as ‘the reality’ (Al-Haqq) 57. His authority is based on this concept as the Quran also says “That is because Allah is the Reality, and what they invoke besides Him is nullity, and because Allah is the All-exalted, the All-great”58
. Allah says in the Quran, “what they invoke besides Him is nullity (Al-Batil)” to show that the reason for His authority is that He is the only reality and anything other than Him has no reality behind it; much like the pagan god made of dates among the pre-Islam Arabs.
Therefore, Allah is not to be worshipped arbitrarily, rather He is the reality that anyone must commit to because besides Him there is only void. No sane human would choose to commit to a mere imagination with no reality, whereas we all understand that it is only rational to commit to a reality. Therefore, worship is only possible for a reality that is existent and Allah is the only reality. Commitment and worship is only possible for something real, so it has no meaning to be committed to other than Allah because commitment to void is no commitment at all; in reality.
If some people choose to ignore the truth, it does not necessarily mean they do not love the truth. It may mean they do not want commitment to the truth; where they have to live by laws and pay the costs of faith by foregoing some of their comforts or habits.
Commitment to Al-Haqq (The truth and reality) requires a person to be truthful. Telling the truth is harmful for some in their worldly life. In a world where communication is possible only due to most people being truthful, some cheaters take advantage and lie their way to worldly gains. Their worth is below what they lie for because their worth is equivalent to their commitment to the truth. If someone lies for £10, their worth is £9.99p because at £10, they sold the truth and their commitment to reality.
Imam Husayn (AS) said “people are slaves of this world, and religion is just something on their tongues. When they are exposed to some difficulty, the religious ones are very few”.
“That, then, is Allah, your true Lord. So what is there after the truth except error? Then where are you being led away?”59
If we opt for other than Haqq (Reality), then the result is misguidance. Any diversion away from reality is a diversion towards Batil (Void) and those who are seeking void are upon the path of misguidance (Dhalalah). Whereas those seeking Haqq are on the path of guidance (Hidayah).
A person may be misguided due to ignorance, as they may not recognise Haqq (Reality). It is also possible that the reality (Haqq) may be unclear due to our spiritual condition and worldly distractions. All of which would vanish after death; “On that day Allah will pay them in full their due recompense, and they shall know that Allah is the Manifest Reality”60
. At death the veils blurring reality for us would be lifted; “you were certainly oblivious of this. We have removed your veil from you, and so your sight is acute today”61 .
However, for those who are near to Allah, the veils do not have an effect as their certainty is not affected by them due to their detachment from worldly life as Imam Ali (as) says “Were the veils to be removed [from me] it would not increase me in any certainty”. Similarly Imam Husayn (as) says in his Dua Arafah “Since when were you absent that you require a proof”. That is because such near ones have knowledge by presence whereas we are at the stage of gaining knowledge. Although they are an exception to the norm.
For the majority of us, Allah would be the “manifest” reality after death. However, believing in Allah in the next world, when it is obvious that is the reality has no merit because there is no other choice but to accept that which is manifest. It is the element of being tested and our exercising of our free will that is valuable upon success. This is why Allah does not make Himself fully clear nor directly manifest. This is why ambiguity has been incorporated in the Quran to show us which of us have problems in our hearts. Hence, in order to be distinguished as a believer there must be some sort of epistemological distance between us and the truth.
By creating everything “with reason” (Bil-Haqq) it means Haqq (Reality) is the condition in which it is created. This simile may help in explanation; a knowledgeable scholar writes a paper using his knowledge. He has therefore written with knowledge (Bil-Ilm); in a commitment to knowledge. Whereas, others may write by ignorance. Similarly, when Allah is the reality, what He creates must be in commitment to reality, it cannot be in vain or for void; hence nothing is made in commitment to falsehood.
Lecture 20, 11/05/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Allah has created bil-Haqq
The religion of truth
The nature of Batil
Haqq is beneficial
Wider implication of bil-Haqq
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Recap Allah has created bil-Haqq The religion of truth The nature of Batil Haqq is beneficial Wider implication of bil-Haqq Conclusion
Previously, we discussed the role of Islamic ethics being closeness to Allah, which is equivalent to enabling humanity to flourish. Although, scholars have stated virtues, sometimes without an order, we opted to identify truthfulness as the most fundamental virtue. We also discussed Haqq (Reality and truth) to clarify truthfulness.
The Quran says that Allah is the reality (al-Haqq) and He creates according to the reality (bil-Haqq); “It is He who created the heavens and the earth with reason”63 . As a result, there is no disorder in His creation because nothing is created based on a void as everything is created within reality; there is nothing arbitrary about the creation. Therefore, the meaning of being created according to the reality is that everything is perfect; the design, purpose and function of creation.
Allah says “It is He who has sent His Apostle with the guidance and the religion of truth”. The term in Arabic is Din al-Haqq; meaning a path which leads to al-Haqq (the reality). It is also with “the guidance” because it guides towards the reality that is Allah. Therefore, Dhalal (misguided) is a term applicable only to someone who is actively searching, not a stationary person, but is lost.
The verse also says “That He may make it [the religion of truth] prevail over all religions”.64 This shows that the religion of truth will overcome all other religions because everything else is Batil (hollow and based on void). Hence it is not that victory is for one religion over others, rather it means the end victory will be for the reality.
Someone who does not appreciate the superiority of Haqq over Batil, could become demoralised in his struggle or even change sides under pressure when faced against falsehood because Batil can be overwhelming in appearance but in reality it is hollow and based on void, it is bound to perish.
The Quran states that Batil cannot survive; Allah (SWT) compares Batil to the foam formed over flood water65 , it can cover the water and seem overwhelming; however it eventually disappears and what is left is the water.
The verse also shows Batil is dependent on reality to exist although it is void and at odds with reality. Similarly, deviation follows guidance; where some people are guided and submit to the truth, others reject it and are opposed to it and hence they dispute over religion to safeguard their illegitimate interests. Even before guidance came to mankind, we disputed among each other. After guidance, we continued to dispute but now over the guidance.
A distinction of Haqq is that it is beneficial to people as the verse says “And that which profits the people remains in the earth”66 . Therefore, Haqq intrinsically benefits people. Whether our efforts are Haqq is defined by how useful it is to people.
However, some people take a pragmatic approach to truth, to define it solely based on what works; we do not support this view as we believe that truth is an independent reality; a person achieves it when his statements are in accordance to reality. Hence in Islamic ethics, we must discover the truth and mould ourselves to it.
Bil-Haqq does not mean to boldly tell the truth. We must be considerate not to cause harm by it. Therefore, the method of delivery must also be bil-Haqq as it must be beneficial to people. This shows the immense love Allah has for mankind; by defining Haqq as something beneficial to us. Islam very much honours all people; “You are the best nation [ever] brought forth for mankind: you bid what is right and forbid what is wrong, and have faith in Allah. And if the People of the Book had believed, it would have been better for them. Among them [some] are faithful, but most of them are transgressors”67 The verse does not promote the superiority of Muslims over non-Muslims. In Islam, there are no chosen groups of people above others. Rather the verse says “for mankind” not ‘over’ mankind. Meaning we are best for the benefit of other people.
Another verse concerning the establishment of truth68
; why must truth be established? It must be established because truth can be distorted, covered, ignored or denied. Therefore, it is natural to propagate for truth and naturally no human can be opposed to it. Although “Though the guilty should be averse”69 .
We often imagine Kuffar are those who wish to oppose the truth. Allamah Tabataba’i clarifies that the Quran mostly means al-Kufr al-Juhud by mentioning Kufr; meaning those who deliberately reject the truth. Therefore, it is not correct to say that every non-Muslim is a Kafir in this sense.
Batil cannot survive in this world as this world is created according to Haqq, making it intrinsically opposed to Batil. However, we can become attuned to Batil such that we would only feel comfortable in Batil. Our intellectual worship is therefore to find this truth and attune ourselves to it so, that we can reflect the truth and others are reminded of it by us.
In addition it is also important to maintain close ties with other servants of truth so that we can diversify and multiply our reflection of the truth in a larger scale; as a society. In fact some truths such as social ones can only be reflected in partnership with others. This is why it is important to form excellent communities dedicated to truth and Allah also says “O you who have faith! Be wary of Allah, and be with the Truthful”70 . Whilst piety and God-consciousness is extremely important, Allah commands that in order to achieve proper Taqwa we must join the truthful ones, and thereby we will be able to form a collective conscience in service of truth.
Lecture 21, 18/05/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Batil can never endure
The entirety of religion is based on Haqq and reflects Haqq
People may not treat Islam as a truth
Allah’s promises are Haqq
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Recap The entirety of religion is based on Haqq and reflects Haqq People may not treat Islam as a truth Allah’s promises are Haqq Conclusion
Previously we discussed that this world is created by truth and Allah (swt) is the absolute truth. Making this world naturally resistant to falsehood thus making falsehood bound to vanish. The Quran also showed that Haqq is beneficial whereas Batil may be attractive superficially but it is harmful in nature.
Batil can never endure
The Quran says:
“And say, ‘The truth has come, and falsehood has vanished. Indeed falsehood is bound to vanish.’”71
“Rather We hurl the truth against falsehood, and it crushes its head, and behold, falsehood vanishes! And woe to you for what you allege [about Allah].”72
These verses show us that Batil (Falsehood) is bound to vanish, it cannot stay on the earth for long. Also, Allah uses truth to vanquish the heads of falsehood and that’s how it vanishes.
“It is He who has sent His Apostle with the guidance and the religion of truth, that He may make it prevail over all religions, though the polytheists should be averse”73
Remember, this verse indicates that religion is serving the truth, not “true religion” as it is sometimes mistakenly translated.
The Quran says:
“Indeed We have sent you with the truth, as a bearer of good news and as a warner, and you will not be questioned concerning the inmates of hell”74
“That is so because Allah has sent down the Book with the truth, and those who differ about the Book are surely in extreme defiance”75
“He has sent down to you the Book with the truth confirming what was [revealed] before it”76
“Say, the Holy Spirit has brought it down duly from your Lord to fortify those who have faith and as a guidance and good news for the Muslims”77
“It is indeed the speech of a noble apostle, and it is not the speech of a poet. Little is the faith that you have! Nor is it the speech of a soothsayer. Little is the admonition that you take! Gradually sent down from the Lord of all the worlds. Had he faked any sayings in Our name, We would have surely seized him by the right hand and then cut off his aorta, and none of you could have held Us off from him”78
All of these verses indicate that the Quran was revealed in a wholly truthful process, starting from Al-Haqq (the absolute truth) that is Allah (swt), down to the Holy spirit who is also bil-Haqq (with the truth) and then the noble Prophet (s) who was known as a noble and truthful person, also being infallible, but in addition Allah shows how strictly He protects the truth by threatening even His most beloved Prophet in such a strict manner by saying
“We would have surely seized him by the right hand and then cut off his aorta, and none of you could have held Us off from him”79
If the Prophet had even faked anything in Allah’s name.
Allah also threatens those who would make up lies about Him with a “humiliating punishment”80 . We must take heed and remember to not say anything untrue about Allah. If we don’t know, we must admit our ignorance; not try to bluff an answer.
Although until the noble Prophet (s) the message has come down in truth; however once it is delivered to the masses, people react differently. While some accept the truth, others are averse to it in different ways:
1. They may knowingly reject the truth; “They impugned them, though they were convinced in their hearts, wrongfully and defiantly. So observe how the fate of the agents of corruption was!”81
2. People do not expressly reject the truth, but they use unnecessary doubts to keep aloof from the truth. This is a sign of not wanting to commit to the responsibilities that come with knowing the truth and accepting it. “This is the truth from your Lord; so do not be among the sceptics”82
However, this is different to genuine doubts and criticism brought forth for the sake of learning; such doubts are justified. It is wrong when we know the truth, but to escape responsibility, we excuse our misdeeds by raising unnecessary doubts about the truth in order to avoid the feeling of guilt.
3. People mix the truth with falsehood. While Allah says “And do not mix the truth with falsehood, nor conceal the truth while you know.”83
However, sometimes we are exempted from declaring the truth but we do not mix it with falsehood. This may be due to the great harm it could cause e.g. the death of someone or a mental breakdown due to shock. Or we may be exposing another’s sins. Or we may be publicizing a person’s secrets entrusted to us. These are instances where the stating of truth is withheld out of ethical considerations, not in denial of the truth.
4. People may exaggerate the truth; Allah says in response to the exaggeration of trinity “O People of the Book! Do not exceed the bounds in your religion, and do not attribute anything to Allah except the truth.”
We must not exaggerate, as we are adding to the truth what is false.
The Quran states that on the Day of Judgment both the evildoers and good doers will find the promise of Allah to be true84 . Hence the process of judgement will also be just as Allah has promised.85
On that day, there will not be a two sided scale, where on each side good and evil are weighed against each other. Rather it will be a day where evil doesn’t exist, hence it will be a one sided scale and so, the one whose deeds weigh heavy means they have amassed that much goodness in them.
In conclusion, everything is done in truth by the absolute truth that is Allah (swt). The true religion is also the one that serves the truth, not a subjective selection of a group of people. This world is created by truth and so it is naturally deterrent to falsehood and hence falsehood is bound to ever perish in this world; it cannot have a permanent form; although it may come repeatedly in different forms.
May Allah (swt) enable us to understand the truth, commit to it and reflect it.Then in the end, definitely, the promise of the absolute truth is truthful.
Lecture 22, 14/09/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Central value
The significance of Al-Haqq (The truth and reality)
Different types of Sidq (Truthfulness)
Training children to be truthful
Truthful Faith
Summary of this session:
Recap Central value The significance of Al-Haqq (The truth and reality) Different types of Sidq (Truthfulness) Training children to be truthful Truthful Faith
Previously we discussed the nature of the science of Akhlaq, its subject matter, what constitutes a good action and a good quality. The views we discussed were the teleological view based on outcome, the ontological view based on duty and virtue ethics.
We then discussed the Islamic theory on ethics and the ultimate end of Islamic ethics that is achieving nearness to Allah and developing our humanity; both being the same end. We then started discussing the content of Islamic ethics; that is which values does Islam promote? We tried to find a structure by which to prioritise different values in a hierarchy.
Achieving an organised system by which we may prioritise different values above one another would have lots of practical benefits when faced with dilemmas. We decided on finding a quality which could be a root quality for other virtues; one that would enable us to solve our many ethical problems by fixing that one root cause. This is essential as we want to fix our moral problems as quickly and as efficiently as possible so that we can enjoy a new life (Hayyat Tayyibah) and a better relationship with God.
Haqq can mean ‘truth or ‘true’. Previously we presented a Quranic view on Haqq in which Allah (swt) presents Haqq as central to all of existence; Him being Al-Haqq (The absolute truth), Him creating by Haqq (Based on a reality, not arbitrarily nor based on void), Him judging by Haqq, sending prophets by Haqq, whom then delivered their messages by Haqq and lastly the response of the people to the message must be by Haqq. We will therefore continue to understand other issues in light of Haqq.
To summarise; we must all be truthful and humble before Haqq. I believe this will be the cause of other virtues developing within us. One must be Khadi’ and Khashi’ before the truth (this will be explained later).
One must seek the truth; a lover of truth would not be idle without knowing the truth. We must therefore search for it and follow it and then express it and act upon it unless the context needs Taqiyyah. However generally, a Muslim is one who expresses their faith and shares it with others. Therefore, one aspect is to acknowledge and express the truth, we will discuss other aspects gradually.
For this session, we will discuss the different meanings of Sidq. To do this I will be using my teacher’s; Ayatollah Sayyid Kadhim al-Ha’iri, book; Tazkiyat al-Nafs chapter 26. His approach is based on spiritual stations that the wayfarer must traverse. It is not translated into English, which is why we need more learned people in English and Arabic.
Ayatollah Ha’iri says there are different meanings and usages of the term ‘Sidq’:
1. Sidq meaning truthfulness in speech; opposite of Kidhb (Lying).
Imam Sadiq (as) quotes the Prophet (s) “There are three things that if a person possesses them then he is a Munafiq (hypocrite), even though he may be fasting and praying and thinks he is a Muslim: When he is trusted he betrays, and when he speaks he lies, and when he promises he breaks it”86
We can see these are all linked to truthfulness, one who lacks truthfulness is a Munafiq and hence lacks ‘Iman. Therefore, we can conclude that ‘Iman is truthfulness and a truthful/Mu’min person is one who keeps his promises and is truthful. For this reason, we must be very careful.
Regarding importance of truthfulness Allah (swt) says:
“And if you fear treachery from a people, break off [the treaty] with them in a like manner. Indeed Allah does not like the treacherous” .87
In other words, we must be trustworthy.
“And a fifth [oath] that Allah’s wrath shall be upon him if he were lying”88
“And mention in the Book Ishmael. Indeed he was true to his promise, and an apostle and a prophet.”89
As a role model, the truthfulness of Ishmael is highlighted by Allah to show us its importance.
Imam Mohammed Baqir (as) said “Allah (swt) has made some locks (Aqfal) for evil, and has made keys to open these locks; one [of the keys] is drinking, and worse than drinking is lying.”
As a result by lying we open the doors for evil onto us, while remaining truthful we keep evil away from us.
I think from childhood we must teach children to be truthful. Both by speech and by practice, we must set ourselves as good role models for them, especially in truthfulness. Since true ‘Iman lies only in truthfulness then we must first teach them truthfulness if we wish to raise them as real believers. Since this is the core of religion and faith, if we do not teach them truthfulness then we have not taught them religion. To further emphasise; remember we discussed that all Prophets and their successors were sent for promoting two traits; Sidq al-Hadith (truthfulness in speech) and ‘Ada ‘al-Amanah (Trustworthiness).
2. Sidq (Truthfulness) in keeping promises; opposite of Khulf.
“O you who have faith! Keep your agreements.”90
If a Mu’min agrees to something, he must keep it. It is better to be hesitant in agreeing and checking beforehand than to promise and then break it. I wish that believers and Muslims had this quality such that everyone, both Muslim and non-Muslim, would know that all contracts with Muslims would always be honoured; if we had only this quality, then goodness would envelop the world.
Imam Sadiq (as) reports from the Prophet (s) that “Whoever believes in Allah and the Day of Judgement then when he promises, he must keep his promises.”
This shows that ‘Iman is connected to keeping promises.
3. Sidq in the sense of being firm upon and possessing the truth.
Sidq means strong and reliable. In Arabic, Rumhun Saduq translates to “firm spear”; Saduq is also used as a moral trait for people to signify their utmost truthfulness. Therefore, Sidq also means to be firm and reliable. Those who aren’t truthful are unreliable. Therefore a significant effect of truthfulness is to bring stability and tranquillity; to give people confidence in you due to your reliability. Life as individuals and as societies becomes sweeter when truthfulness is promoted as people can rely on one another due to trust. As individuals, a truthful person does not have to worry about his lies being exposed, whereas a liar constantly lives in fear of being exposed.
This is the most fundamental and comprehensive meaning of truthfulness because it means being firm on truth. It shows the beauty of Haqq because it gives peace (Sukun) to everyone.
“Allah draws an example: a man jointly owned by several contending masters, and a man belonging entirely to one man: are the two equal in comparison? All praise belongs to Allah! But most of them do not know” .91
Carrying out the requirements of one cause is clearly lesser than the requirements of several causes. If we are dedicated to one cause; the truth, then our life would be simpler and easier than if we were to try and please everyone and every different theory other than the truth. Therefore, he who is committed to the truth is committed to only one cause. Being distant from the truth causes us to be enslaved to many different causes such as our desires, greed, worries and fears.
In conclusion Sidq is what brings strength, reliability, firmness and tranquillity. It is what allows us to trust each other, work together and be helpful to each other.
Ayatollah Ha’iri believes a good description of truthful faith (‘Iman Sadiq) in this saying in Nahj al-Balaghah:
“The greatness of the Creator is seated in their heart, so everything else appears small in their eyes”92
If we understand the greatness of Allah in our hearts then all else will seem insignificant in comparison. When a person is always dealing in trillions, a few pennies seem insignificant. Whereas, someone who has never had a thousand will never be able to imagine what it’s like to have a trillion. Yet Allah is beyond comparison. So true faith is to acknowledge Allah in our hearts, not just by our tongues:
“The Bedouins say, ‘We have faith.’ Say, ‘You do not have faith yet; rather say, “We have embraced Islam”, for faith has not yet entered into your hearts. Yet if you obey Allah and His Apostle, He will not stint anything of [the reward of] your works. Indeed Allah is all-forgiving, all-merciful”93
Being a Bedouin isn’t bad at all, but at the time they were known for not possessing knowledge. Allah corrects their claim because our narrations define faith as “acknowledgment by the heart, attestation by the tongue and practice by the limbs”. Although, a mere attestation by the tongue is sufficient to become labelled as ‘Muslim’ but true faith is more than mere attestations. Therefore, in order to have true faith we must acknowledge and accept the truth, live by it and speak by it because neither mere attestation nor mere recognising is enough;
“They impugned them – though they were convinced in their hearts – wrongfully and defiantly. So observe how the fate of the agents of corruption was!”94
Although some people knew the truth but did not accept it ‘though they were convinced in their hearts’ that it is the truth. So mere knowing isn’t enough because we can know the truth yet reject it knowingly.
Haqq is either the complete truth, which is Allah (swt), or a branch of truth that goes back to Allah (swt). There is no Haqq in this world that is neither of these. The selfish regard everything subservient to them, even Haqq. Whereas a Mu’min regards Haqq as greater. As a result, e.g. in a marital dispute, the Mu’min or Mu’minah would desist before passing judgement; his aim would be to find out who is right and hence they will have a good marriage due to his/her faith. Whereas the selfish person would look to twist the truth in his/her favour; just to win an argument but ultimately ruin the marriage. You must not behave in a way that you try and silence, deceive, or defeat the other party, as these are signs of not being Mu’min; Mu’min is one who tries to find the truth, if the spouse is right then Mu’min should accept it with all pleasure. If a person accepts it without pleasure then there is still a problem.
Now, I ask you, when was the last time you admitted you had made a mistake? Why is it we feel we are always right and that others are making mistakes? It is because we are not servants of Allah and we are worshipping ourselves. Even if we acknowledge a few mistakes, we are in reality overlooking thousands of other ones.
I always admire people who easily admit that they made mistakes. I have great love for them. It is a great quality to say: ‘I made a mistake’ or ‘I didn’t know’ or ‘That was my problem’. This is a great quality and a sign of being very close to Haqq and being Khashi’ (humble) before the truth.
May Allah (swt) make us all truthful and obedient and all praise is for Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 23, 21/09/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
The quality of Karamah (Honour, Dignity)
Dignity in Islam
Meaning of Aziz (derived from Izzah)
Izzah in the Quran
Summary of this session:
Recap The quality of Karamah (Honour, Dignity) Dignity in Islam Izzah in the Quran
Previously we discussed that truthfulness is the most fundamental value in Islam. Hence, for several sessions we discussed the subject of truth (Haqq) and truthfulness (Sidq).
Ayatollah Mutahhari (ra) introduced Karamah as the central value in Islam. He said “the more research I do leads me to become more convinced that in Islam everything is done in order to achieve Karamah, or to strengthen or increase our Karamah”.
Initially, it may seem contradictory with our view that truthfulness is most fundamental. However, as we discuss it further we will see that in reality both are in confirmation of each other. We will therefore discuss the relationship between Karamah and truthfulness.
In a very famous hadith, Prophet Muhammad (s) said:
“I have been raised [as a prophet] only in order to complete noble traits of character.”
We can learn several points from this narration:
1. The mission of the holy Prophet was concerning morality; not just actions but virtues.
As educators, teachers, parents and scholars we must learn that simply teaching children to act goodly isn’t sufficient as we would not be developing virtues within them. Hence it is possible they hide their ill feelings but act nicely to please us or they become adept liars. We must help them develop a good base such as acquiring the virtue of truthfulness. Hence, they would do what is right without being dictated by anyone.
2. Prophet Mohammed (s) came to perfect noble ‘traits’. Therefore, his concern was qualities of character.
3. He came to show us a higher level of morality which is better than just being ‘good’. Because he says “Makarim” meaning noble not e.g. “Mahasin” i.e. good.
“Is the requital of goodness anything but goodness?”95
Although being human means reciprocating goodness done to us. This is what good (Mahasin) traits would mean; e.g. to do good to those who are good to us. Any lesser would be inhumane. However, noble (Makarim) traits are concerned with doing good to those who wrong you; to teach them a better way by practice. Makarim al-Akhlaq is when we are good and honourable people, and we desire to give. A Karim person wishes to follow the example of Allah (swt); al-Karim. Consider how Allah (swt) helps people; is it because they have helped Him? Does He have to reciprocate? No; Allah (swt) gives without receiving anything from us.
4. The Prophet (s) improves us in character so that we may improve the world. By alleviating poverty, ignorance, injustice; at times we may need to mobilise militarily in order to uphold justice. Therefore, utmost effort must be made to make the world a better place.
However, under no circumstances is Islam trying to do this through military Jihad and war. Fighting only becomes necessary as a last resort against the heads of tyranny. A Mujahid is someone who does not enjoy killing; Jihad is not done out of choice, it is done out of necessity. It is bitter but it is made necessary upon us sometimes by the evil doers. Hence, everything is done to assist people with Taqwa and this is a spiritual purity; not a condition achieved by war.
5. The narrations also shows that Islam is heavily concerned about the relationship of people with each other. Noble traits of character is something that manifests in interactions with other people; it has no meaning for a hermit.
Islam is a way of fixing our social problems. It is a very socially-oriented religion. Whilst it does not ignore individuals, it emphasises social interaction to a great extent.
6. The narration says “to perfect”. This indicates that it is a process already begun by previous Prophets but Prophet Mohamed (s) came to perfect and finish it.
This narration supports Ayatollah Mutahhari’s view that Islam has come to establish Karamah because Karamah and Makarim share the same root and are linked.
In Arabic, dignity is ‘Izzah’. Within the Quran it has been used 119 times in different forms. It has been used Allah (swt) mostly, but also for the wife of Pharaoh and Prophet Yusuf (as).
Meaning of Aziz (derived from Izzah)
Izzah means power, strength and ability to overcome, Aziz has been defined as something which refuses to be affected and nothing can overcome it.96 Hence Aziz is something that is strong and resistant.
Izzah has also been defined as a condition which stops a person from becoming defeated97 . Hence Aziz is someone who overcomes but is not overcome. Or a condition which brings with itself strength, the ability to overcome while not being overcome or defeated.
According to the Quran, Izzah comes only from Allah:
“Whoever seeks honour [should know that] honour entirely belongs to Allah. To Him ascends the good word, and He elevates righteous conduct”98
This means Allah is the source of it and we can possess it if we follow Him. “The good word” means belief and this causes us to rise while “righteous conduct” elevates us further.
“Those who take the faithless for allies instead of the faithful. Do they seek honour with them? [If so,] indeed all honour belongs to Allah”99
Kafir in this context means one who rejects the truth. Therefore, we must not take enemies of truth as allies, not non-Muslims. The prohibition is from joining a group which works against truth and justice.
Unfortunately, when people seek Izzah; they turn to the side which has more sophisticated weapons, money and numbers whereas time and again we see how a small group has overcome a larger one. E.g. The Prophet (s) and the Muslims were very poor and ill equipped compared to the Quraysh of Mecca, while the Meccans were also greater in numbers. As a result, their numbers only swelled because people thought Izzah was with Quraysh. However, time and again the victory from Allah came for the Muslims. Today, the same principals apply, however the party of Allah are no longer that weak. Hence this verse clarifies for us that Izzah comes only from Allah.
“Do not grieve at their remarks; indeed all might belongs to Allah; He is the All-hearing, the All-knowing”100
Unfortunately, believers have and are having people ridicule them by calling them mad, fool hardy etc. Allah (swt) here comforts us by telling us that all Izzah belongs to Allah; so the believers would not be harmed by their ridicule and they will remain Aziz.
May Allah (swt) give us from His Izzah and dignity, in this world and the Hereafter and all Praise for Allah Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 24, 28/09/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Tasbih
Back to our discussion on Izzah (honour).
Etiquette of supplication
Al-Aziz
Karamah (Dignity)
Summary of this session:
Recap
Previously, we discussed Ayatollah Mutahhari’s view regarding Karamah (dignity) as the most fundamental value. In support of it we mentioned that the Prophet (s) said:
“I have only been raised in order to teach the noble traits of character.”
The word used for ‘noble traits’ in Arabic is Makarim, derived from Karamah (dignity). We explained the merits of noble traits over good traits. We also discussed that Allah (swt) is described as Aziz (honourable & dignified) and that He is also the possessor of honour 101 ; therefore He is the only source.
More verses from the Quran
سُبْحَانَ رَبِّكَ رَبِّ الْعِزَّةِ عَمَّا يَصِفُونَ
وَسَلَامٌ عَلَى الْمُرْسَلِينَ
وَالْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ
“Clear is your lord from what they attribute
And peace be upon the apostles
All praise belongs to Allah, Lord of the worlds.”102
This verse also mentions the honour (Izzah) of Allah (swt). Tasbih Back to our discussion on Izzah (honour) Etiquette of supplication Al-Aziz Karamah (Dignity)
The above verses are helpful in relieving negativity after a pessimistic and negative conversation or argument.
دَعْوَاهُمْ فِيهَا سُبْحَانَكَ اللَّهُمَّ وَتَحِيَّتُهُمْ فِيهَا سَلاَمٌ وَآخِرُ دَعْوَاهُمْ أَنِ الْحَمْدُ لِلّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ
“Their call therein will be, ‘O Allah! Immaculate are You!’ and their greeting therein will be, ‘Peace’ and their concluding call, ‘All praise belongs to Allah, the Lord of all the worlds’.103
This verse shows that the people of heaven speak in this format;
1. They start with Tasbih; meaning to acknowledge His purity from what is attributed.
2. Their middle is ‘Salam’; to send peace upon others.
3. Their end is Tamhid; to praise and thank Allah (swt).
This is similar to the pervious verses’ structure. This is the format of Allah’s speech as well as those in heaven. We should also try and follow this beautiful manner of speech.
Although the verse says ‘clear is your lord from what they attribute’ there are a small number of utterly sincere believers who do not attribute wrongly to Allah (swt):
“Clear is Allah of whatever they allege [about Him], [all] except Allah’s exclusive servants.”104
“They say, ‘When we return to the city, the honourable will surely expel the abased from it.’ Yet all honour belongs to Allah and His Apostle, and the faithful, but the hypocrites do not know.”105
The hypocrites thought they had honour and could expel the believers from Medina. However, Allah is the possessor of honour and so the hypocrites failed and the believers succeeded in Medina. Honour is also hierarchal, it belongs to Allah then the Prophet (s) and then the believers.
As far as I know, honour is always mentioned besides another quality of Allah such as ‘the honourable, the all wise’106
The verse 2:127-129 also shows us how to supplicate to Allah (swt) as Prophet Ibrahim (as) and Prophet Ismael (as), after laying the foundations of the Ka’ba, they pray to Allah and end their supplication by mentioning the relevant attribute of Allah.
We must also supplicate similarly by asking sincerely and then mentioning the relevant attribute of Allah (swt). This is to show that we are not just asking anyone, we know who we are asking and we know He is the one who is the right being to ask.
“Do not eat [anything] of that over which Allah’s Name has not been mentioned, and that is indeed transgression. Indeed the Satans inspire their friends to dispute with you; and if you obey them, you will indeed be polytheists”107
Therefore, we must involve the name of Allah in all of our affairs, including supplication.
Al-Aziz is one of the most repeated names of Allah in the Quran such as:
“Indeed your Lord is the All-honourable, the All-merciful”108
“[It is a scripture] sent down gradually from the All-honourable, the All-merciful”109
In some instances, the honourable (al-Aziz) is mentioned alongside the name the all-mighty:
“Your Lord is indeed the All-mighty, the All-honourable”110
As far as I know, all-mighty (al-Qawee) is mentioned before all-honourable (al-Aziz). This may be because the source of honour is strength. A weak nation is less likely to be honourable however this strength which brings honour is not limited to brute power or money etc. although these help in being independent and strong, but knowledge too brings power and hence a scholar who lacks money may still be honourable.
Karamah is as similar to Izzah as dignity is to honour in English. Although Izzah has been used more often than Karamah but Karamah is still used a few times in the Quran:
“So exalted is Allah, the True Sovereign, there is no god except Him, the Lord of the dignified Throne”111
In this verse, Karim is used as a description of the throne to show that mischief has no place around Allah and so only good can happen.
It is also used for Allah (swt):
“O mankind! What has deceived you about your dignified Lord?”112
It is also used for the inmates of Hell, as a mockery of their arrogance and a punishment for their mockery of believers:
“Taste! Indeed you are the [self-styled] honourable and dignified!”113
“Read, and your Lord is the most dignified”114
“And as for man, when his Lord tries him and [thus] is generous to him and favours him, he says, ‘My Lord has dignified me.’”115
People judge Allah (swt) depending on what Allah gives them. They are thankful if they are granted their wishes but are ungrateful and unappreciative of all else when their desires aren’t met. If they are poor, they think Allah has humiliated them but in reality being poor is good for them yet they do not know.
For many of us, if someone is generous with us then we think of him greatly but if he does not favour us then we think badly of him.
“Whomever Allah humiliates will find no one who may bring him dignity.”116
This is because honour and dignity comes from Allah and if He humiliates someone then no one can help him.
Lecture 25, 05/10/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Dignity of other beings
How to become dignified to a greater extent
Exception to forgiveness
Summary of this session:
Recap Dignity of other beings 3. The pious How to become dignified to a greater extent Imam Ali (as) also said: Exception to forgiveness
Previously we discussed Ayatollah Mutahhari’s view on Karamah (honour & dignity) being the most fundamental value. In order to understand its significance and its relation with truthfulness, we looked at verses related to honour and dignity.
We also said that Allah (swt) is the only one who can honour a person and if He humiliates someone then no one can do otherwise.117
According to the Quran, other beings that are dignified are:
1. Angels:
“They say, ‘The All-beneficent has taken children.’ Immaculate is He! Rather they are [His] dignified servants. They do not venture to speak ahead of Him, and they act by His command.”118
The pagans thought that angels were the children of God, but Allah (swt) dismisses it saying angels are dignified servants.
1. People of heaven:
“They will be held dignified”119
For others, reward is based on actions however for the utterly sincere servants of Allah (swt), they are given a position from which they enjoy limitless bounties.
2. Prophets
“It is indeed the speech of a dignified apostle.”120
“Certainly We tried the people of Pharaoh before them, when a dignified apostle came to them.”121
“Indeed the most dignified of you in the sight of Allah is the most God wary among you.”122
4. Human beings
“Certainly We have honoured the Children of Adam.”123
Similarly, the Quran narrates from Iblees that Allah (swt) honoured Adam (as) above him:
“He said ‘Shall I prostrate before someone whom You have created from clay?’ Said he, “Do You see this one whom You have dignified above me? If You respite me until the Day of Resurrection, I will surely destroy his progeny, [all] except a few.”124
Some people, like Iblees, become jealous over the merits of others by which Allah dignifies them. Although Iblees is weak however:-
“Certainly Iblis had his conjecture come true about them. So they followed him—all except a part of the faithful.”
Therefore, human beings in general are dignified by Allah (swt) however this means that we cannot dishonour other humans. It does not mean we do not need to develop.
How to become dignified to a greater extent
There are several qualities that makes a person dignified:
1. Loyalty; as Imam Ali (as) said:
“A sign of being dignified is that you fulfil a commitment.”
2. Forgiveness; as Imam Ali (as) said:
“A dignified person, when he promises he is loyal, and when he is in a position to punish, he forgives.”
A dignified person would never insist on punishing others. He does not satisfy his anger.
3. Forgiveness; as Imam Ali (as) said:
“One who does not repay evil with goodness, is not from among the dignified.”
In fact, it is better to sometimes ignore a wrong done, completely forget it or if possible not take any offence at all as Imam Ali (as) is reported to have said:
“I sometimes pass by a mean person, swearing at me; I pass by and say to myself: ‘He didn’t mean me.’”
“To take the initiative to forgive very quickly [without the other party asking for forgiveness and embarrassing themselves] is from amongst the morals of the dignified. To proceed to revenge and retaliation quickly is of the quality of the mean.”
In conclusion, a faithful and dignified person is one who does not take offences too seriously unless there is something seriously wrong. Such a person is forgiving and overlooks the misdeeds of others.
However, there are some moments when we cannot forgive and it is not good to forgive. E.g. when someone has invaded a country; we cannot forgive invasions nor the rights of others such as murder or usurpation.
Lecture 26, 12/10/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Honesty
Good nature
Inclination towards good
Summary of this session:
Recap Honesty Good nature Imam Ali (as) said: Inclination towards good
Previously, we discussed the significance of honour and dignity and mentioned ways of becoming dignified and honourable people, they were loyalty, delivering on promises and forgiveness. In addition we said a dignified person is one who forgives without allowing the offender to embarrass himself by apologising.
Although it is a part of our innate nature (Fitrah) to be honest, we still learn to become liars from our surrounding. Our upbringing plays a significant role in making us liars as we do so to avoid punishment. Therefore a noble person is one who is honest.
Sinning is bad but what makes us love sinning is worse. If we lie and feel fine about it, this is more alarming than if we lie but regret it. A dignified and honourable person does not feel fine about lying as they are not compatible with his character as Imam Ali (as) said:
“Lying and betraying others are not characteristics of honourable people.”
Imam Husayn (as) said:
“Truthfulness is honour and dishonesty is incompetence.”
“A dignified person that has protective jealousy would never commit adultery.”
A dignified person who values the sanctity of their own family would never defile the sanctity of another family.
A dignified person is good natured. It is easy to deal with him as we have a narration that says:
“A faithful person will pay you back, and it is a very easy process, and when he lends to you it is also very easy.”
Such a person is more observant of others’ rights than his own and so people find dealings with him very easy. A dignified person does not stare into people’s eyes especially when it comes to the opposite gender.
“The dignified person will cause himself to be heedless and allows people to deceive him.”
It is not that he is stupid and is actually heedless, it means that he knows everything and he is aware that the person is doing something wrong however he pretends he hasn’t noticed. If we want to correct people, we must not be harsh with them as we would lose them entirely. In order to be a dignified person we need to allow people to think they are cleverer than us. Our narrations mention that one of the key traits of good leadership is to have a big heart.
A dignified person does not need motivation to encourage him to do good as he is naturally inclined to do so.
“Someone that has a level of value for himself, then lower desires will become insignificant for him.”
He would refuse to do evil without hesitation just as he would do good without hesitation. Imam Ali (as) said:
“Dignify yourself away from every lowliness even if it leads you to your desires.”
Our self-respect must be such that it discourages us from committing sins and being lowly.
Imam Ali (as) said:
“When you do something good for any person, you have indeed honoured yourself by it, and you have beautified yourself and your reputation with it. So then do not seek people to thank you for what you have done for yourself.”
A dignified person does not wait for people to thank him. He beautifies himself by his good deeds and is thankful to Allah (swt) for being given the opportunity to help others. Therefore, a dignified person does not forget when someone shows kindness to him but he never expects people to thank him for his own good deeds, although it is human courtesy to thank those who are kind to us.
Lecture 27, 19/10/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
The relationship of an honourable person to the world
Patience and persistence
Freedom
Asking others
Summary of this session:
Recap The relationship of an honourable person to the world Patience and persistence Freedom Asking others
Previously, we discussed characteristics of noble people and what we must do in order to become dignified and honourable people ourselves. We said they are naturally inclined towards goodness and away from evil including sins.
For us, the greatness of this world for us is in correlation with our character. The greater we are the smaller the world would seem to us. Therefore, those who consider the world as great are in reality considering themselves small in comparison to it. As Imam Ali (as) said:
“I had a brother in the past and he was great in my view because the world was small in his view.”
And in the sermon of the Pious, Imam Ali (as) said:
“The greatness of the creator is seated in their hearts so everything else appears small in their eyes.”
Hence the dignified believers are those who do not regard the world great, rather the world seems insignificant for them as Imam Ali (as) said:
“Whoever possesses an honourable soul then this world is very insignificant for him.”
He also said:
“Is there not a free and noble person who is willing to leave this residue of food in the mouth for those that deserve it?”
Imam Ali compares this world to leftover food in between the teeth. So those that are dignified aren’t fooled by the image of this world. The dignified do not sell themselves for anything less than their worth as Imam Ali (as) said:
“Beware that there is no price for you except heaven, so do not sell yourselves except for that.”
Imam Husayn (as) said to Abu Dhar:
“Ask Allah for perseverance and assistance.”
“Seek refuge with respect to lamenting for losing something of this world. For surely patience is from religion and from honour.”
Being patient is a necessity in keeping our faith as another narration states:
“Patience to faith is like the head to the body.”
A dignified person can maintain self-control in hardships and overcome them. Imam Sadiq (as) also said:
“We are patient, but our Shias are more patient than us, because we are patient with respect to what we know, and they are patient without knowing.”
To know help is near or the reward is near, helps in keeping patient. Hence why for followers of Ahl ul-Bayt patience is harder because we must do it in ignorance.
“O Allah, I ask you for the patience of those who are thankful to you.”
Those who are thankful are appreciative and hence feel no attraction to sin. We must seek their type of patience where we not only act on temptations but we also do not become tempted. Those who have refined their souls feel no regret at avoiding sin but for others they may still see the avoidance of sins as an opportunity lost.
Imam Ali (as) said:
“Do not be a servant to other than yourself, for surely Allah has appointed you free.”
Of course it is good to willingly help others whilst maintaining our dignity.
Prophet Muhammad (s) has advised us to be careful about asking others for our needs. Some people may humiliate us if we ask help from them. Therefore, we must be careful. In addition, we must not seek to become a burden on others unnecessarily and avoid asking for things we can manage without. We must manage our lives so that our asking others is kept to the minimum.
We must seek our needs and work with others. However, there are some people who see their employer as their sustainer and are willing to compromise on Sharia for the sake of gaining money. This is wrong, we must maintain our faith and our honour while working with others.
Lecture 28, 26/10/2015
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This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Further characteristics of those with Karamah
Backbiting
Psychology
Self-respect
Hope
Respecting others and being on good terms with them
Sympathy for others
Patience and Perseverance
The end does not justify the means
Well being
Not afraid of being alone
Free thinkers, working for freedom
Not feeling worried nor stressed
Independence of character
Developing honour and dignity
Summary of this session:
Recap Further characteristics of those with Karamah Backbiting Psychology Self-respect Hope Respecting others and being on good terms with them Sympathy for others Patience and Perseverance The end does not justify the means Well being Not afraid of being alone Free thinkers, working for freedom Not feeling worried nor stressed Independence of character Developing honour and dignity
We have been studying the position of Karamah (Honour & dignity) in Islamic ethics. We mentioned that this quality is attributed to Allah as well as other beings such as angels and humans. We mentioned some characteristics of those who are Karim. We will now discuss further characteristics of those with Karamah.
Tama’
The possessors of honour & dignity do not have Tama’. This means they do not have unjust expectations of others. A need that would cause them to be lowered in dignity and honour. E.g. expecting charity from the wealthy.
Our narrations advise us not to expect much from others if we wish to have good relationships. Once upon a time in Najaf, the Ulema became very poor. A rich person wanted to donate but had bad intentions as he wanted to give the donation in public to receive praise or to perhaps degrade the honour & dignity of the scholars. The Marja was gathered with his students when the man offered it, straight away the Marja refused to take it and showed a complete lack of interest or need. The donor then asked if he could give it to the students; they all refused. Hence it is important for us to follow in their footsteps and not accept nor expect anything from others that would degrade us.
I am not saying we must never ask others for help. We must be careful not to lose our dignity and honour.
Imam Ali (as) said:
“Whoever starts developing tama has humiliated himself.”125
It is due to Tama’ that we praise the unworthy of praise, many worthless people gather around corrupt, rich and powerful individuals simply because of Tama’ seeking money and power. Whereas a person possessing honour always depends on his own efforts.
A person who possesses honour cares about the honour of other people. Hence he would not ruin their honour by backbiting. Only those who are weak and miserable in character resort to backbiting because they are incapable for themselves. A narrations states:
“Backbiting is the strenuous effort of one who is incapable [of anything else].”
Such people cannot raise themselves by attracting others, instead they seek to raise themselves using fear and humiliation of others. A possessor of honour is needless of such pathetic means.
We previously said, moral issues are universal, not necessarily bound to any religion however religion helps in understanding and encouragement. Therefore, if a person has a good character; this is enough for him to avoid sins.
Unfortunately, some people are not brought up with a focus on character development. It is only by using the threats and rewards of religion that they stop doing immoral actions. E.g. many people do not backbite out of fear of losing their good deeds and acquiring the bad deeds of the backbitten; they refrain out of fear of punishment of sins. However if we raise children well, then they would not succumb to backbiting due to the goodness of their own nature.
Hence our focus in education and nurturing must be to develop the character of people so that they refrain from immorality due to their possession of honour.
The mental state of a person is a mutual concern in both psychology and Islamic ethics. We will therefore discuss some psychological findings besides our narrations regarding people of honour & dignity.
According to Islamic ethics and psychologically, people who have honour have self-respect.
Imam Ali (as) said:
“Do not feel safe from the evil of one that has no respect for himself”
Self-respect is very important and it is different from self-admiration (‘Ujb) because they do not have an exaggerated idea about themselves.
Imam Ridha (as) said:
“If someone sees [in himself] that he feels he has privilege over or is better than another person, then he is form the arrogant ones”
However, they do not underestimate themselves either. They are humble without feeling useless. There is a difference between humbleness and feeling valueless. It is a very fine line but those who possess honour are humble yet they do not feel inferior nor useless.
The possessors of honour are always hopeful and optimistic. How could a person not be so if he believes in Allah (swt)? However the optimism is realistic; the possessors of honour do not rely on Allah without efforts and endeavours; as Imam Ali (as) said:
“Do not be of those who is hopeful of the Hereafter without having done any good actions”
We cannot become learned without studying. Hence a believer who possesses honour is hopeful and ambitious. As a person grows so does their ambition; for many people this ambition is limited to material wealth. However, for believers it is a growth in ambition regarding spirituality. Hence a believer must be realistically hopeful and very ambitious beyond our personal or societal needs, we must be ambitious for all people of all generations to come! Therefore, ask Allah (swt) to enable you to teach good things to all humanity from now until the end of the world; once this ambition is achieved, you would then realise how much you need to study.
According to our narrations as well as psychology, a person possessing honour also respects and honours others. Hence they are in good relation with others. If a person is lowly, suspicious and negative of others in himself, he will not be able to have good relationships with others. Such a person will either be aimlessly pessimistic and critical of others or he will imitate others very easily. It is difficult for such a person to maintain a balance and a control over himself.
Another quality of people with honour is that they sympathise with others’ pain and difficulties. They are not indifferent to others.
People who possess honour are patient and they persevere with hope. Imam Ali (as) said;
‘Karamah is to have good patience.’
The possessors of honour do not justify the means based on the end. They do not succumb to lowly tricks and cheats to achieve what they want. Only lowly people would utilise immoral means in order to gain what they want.
Possessors of honour have a strong sense of responsibility for themselves and for others as well as for other societies.
People who have honour are not afraid of being alone. Yet those who are void within must distract themselves from their solitude to escape their fears and anxiety about themselves. The person who has self-respect and honour may even enjoy being alone. This is a good way to measure ourselves.
People of honour are free thinkers and they strive for freedom because an important aspect of honour is to be free, not enslaved. They neither tolerate themselves being enslaved nor others.
The possessors of honour do not worry or stress easily. They are confident in themselves and hence enjoy being put to use or even challenged. Therefore, an honourable student or a scholar would not become angry at being criticised nor fear being questioned.
Possessors of honour are independent in character. This does not mean they are arrogant nor rebellious. There is a fine line between being independent and refusing to learn from others. Some people who think they are independent are in reality rebellious against everyone. On the other hand, some who fear being rebellious commit excess and are blindly obedient.
We must try to be independent in the sense that we decide what to believe and whom to follow. Be positive in the face of criticism. Unfortunately, sometimes even religious people fall so much in love with a sheikh, or a teacher, or a spiritual guide, that for them it is as if Allah (swt) has created none other than that person. They then follow such a person without any kind of distinction or discerning.
Therefore, the correct form of independence of character is one that comes with humbleness and openness to other people’s opinions.
We will now discuss methods of developing ourselves to possess honour:
Change the inner world
It is not possible for most people to change the external world. However it is possible for all people to change themselves. Everyone must focus on improving themselves because it is inside where we have control. No one can force us to disbelieve or become immoral; in fact the more pressured we are the stronger and defiant we become for our faith and morality.
“The difficulties only increase their faith and submission”
Therefore, in order to change the world inside ourselves, the first thing that is required is to possess a proper understanding of ourselves (Ma’rifat al-Nafs).
Imam Ali (as) says:
“You think you are an insignificant germ, whereas inside you is summarised the larger universe”
The external world is the limited physical world but the world within us is linked the higher realm (Malakut). It is therefore foolish to ask for more! Some people complain why they have not been given more responsibility and ability. We would answer them by saying they are yet to use the 90% of what they have been given, let alone asking for more.
“Then, that day, you will surely be questioned concerning the blessing”126
You will be asked about the blessing that Allah (swt) has given you so in one way it is a blessing for you that you were given less. The more a person actualises his potential, the more he is given;
“And excessive giving does not increase Him, except from the point of view of generosity and kindness”127
Hence, a very important step of developing a balanced and sound understanding of ourselves (Ma’rifat al-Nafs). To know our potentials; despite Allah having many angels near to Him, He chose humans as his vicegerents despite some problems that were known to the angels;
“When your Lord said to the angels, ‘Indeed I am going to set a viceroy on the earth,’ they said, ‘Will You set in it someone who will cause corruption in it, and shed blood, while we celebrate Your praise and proclaim Your sanctity?’”128
Allah responded:
“He said, “Indeed I know what you do not know”129
Allah (swt) pointed out that human beings have something that even the angels do not have. And this was not a matter confined to Adam, because if it was then the angels would not have referred to the human species when they said ‘they’ will shed blood.
Therefore, every human has the potential of being the vicegerent of Allah (swt). And if we knew ourselves and if we understood just how much Allah (swt) has granted us, then we will never have a negative image of ourselves, and we will never be easily pleased with the little that this world has to offer. So, the more a person knows about himself, the more successful he will be. This is why a hadith mentions that knowing one’s self (Ma’rifat al-Nafs) is the most beneficial knowledge, as it leads to knowing Allah (swt):
“Whoever knows himself, will come to know his Lord.”
In addition to this, we must understand our own strengths and specialties to develop onto. Many people who were seen as unintelligent later would become renowned scholars and scientists; only because they had a specialty they needed to identify and develop on, which they did.
Hence, sometimes you may not be successful due to different reasons, you must not give up. You must review the situation, may be try again or do something different. It could be that you need a guide to put you in the right direction. Therefore, knowing one’s self (Ma’rifat al-Nafs) is also about knowing our skills but also shortcomings.
Lecture 29, 02/11/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Ma’rifat al-Nafs (Knowing oneself)
Individual ethics and abilities
Maintaining good relationships with others
Importance of childhood
Goals and ambitions
Criticism
Self-control over emotions
How to control our emotions
Summary of this session:
Recap Ma’rifat al-Nafs (Knowing oneself) Individual ethics and abilities Maintaining good relationships with others Importance of childhood Goals and ambitions Criticism Self-control over emotions How to control our emotions
Previously, we discussed different ways a person may develop an honourable character. We discussed that we cannot control every aspect of the world, in fact most of the time we don’t have control over anything external so we cannot even change our own family. However we always have a sufficient degree of control over ourselves; someone can be the wife of Pharaoh and still have an honourable life or be the son of Prophet Noh (a) and still choose a dishonourable life.
To know oneself is essential. Considering we spend our lives studying auxiliary subjects such as physics, maths etc. why do we neglect what is essential? We must spend at least the same if not more time on what is essential for us and that is knowing ourselves; Imam Ali (as) says:
“I am surprised how people go after a thing they have lost, and have no rest until they find it, but they do not go after themselves and do not try to discover themselves.”
In life, we search for what we lose of material wealth but never our own lost selves. We endeavour to find everything but never to know ourselves, our Imam (aj) and our Lord, Allah (swt).
In addition to knowing ourselves and the greater world within us, we need to know our own specialties. Allah (swt) has not mass produced humans as copies of one another. Every person has been created uniquely and to Allah, each person is important as if no other humans exists but him. Therefore, Allah has the utmost care for every single person because there is no one identical to another. His love and care for us is similar to that of parents but far greater! Just as parents love all their children despite having many, and the multitude of their children do not cause them to love their children less, Allah (swt) also loves us all to the utmost. Our numbers do not affect his love for each and every individual.
Allah (swt) treats us as if there is no one besides us, however we treat Him as if there are other lords and sustainers for us besides Him even though in reality there are other humans besides us but there are no lords nor sustainers besides Allah (swt). At times, we may be unfair in our relationship with others if we feel needless of them but despite knowing our utter poverty to Allah; Allah encourages us to follow him with kindness and favours. Yet still, we disobey. If we treated the kindest person as we treat Allah, for sure they would not tolerate us, let alone showing mercy and kindness.
Therefore, in order to build an honourable and steadfast character, we must try to be fair in our relationships, including with Allah (swt). We must know ourselves and in addition know our specialties. Identifying what we are individually naturally attuned to would help us greatly in achieving success in this world. If we fail at something, it could be that we are naturally attuned for something else; what is a point of success for someone else may not be for me. What is best for me may not be best for someone else. We must therefore identify our individual talents as soon as possible to utilise it in achieving success.
Another essential factor for developing an honourable and strong (Aziz) is to maintain good relationships with other people. One who lacks social skills cannot maintain good relationships and this will manifest as a weakness in him. In addition, social success brings a feeling of confidence and internal strength (Izzah).
As teachers and parents we must teach people how to be successful in society, teach them how to make the right relationships with the right people and avoid becoming friends with bad influences. Thereby educating them about the good and evil of society realistically without frightening them. Hence they need to be taught how to engage in society especially our own community; we must become like family.
If due to lack of social skills and experience, a person encounters bitter experiences while growing up he will suffer in his social and personal life. He may develop a dark image of the world due to their bad experiences of it. Whereas if they have a good experience growing up then they will think the world as a heaven. A balanced view is required, neither too optimistic nor too pessimistic. Generally the world is more good than bad. Therefore a right view is to be more optimistic but to a realistic extent.
The positivity is because the world belongs to Allah. It is a world full of angels and light and darkness is weak here;
“Those who have faith fight in the way of Allah, and those who are faithless fight in the way of the Rebel. So fight the friends of Satan; indeed the stratagems of Satan are always flimsy.”130
Since Satan is weak, we would only be strengthening him by overestimating him and thereby demoralising ourselves. Satan is often just an excuse we use for our failures.
Therefore, every person needs to develop good social skills and build good relationships in society in order to strengthen their internal strength and become honourable and confident. A confidence which is accompanied with humbleness to Allah (swt) and independence from people, not arrogance.
A person’s childhood is very important as it affects his entire life. Not that we are pre-determined by our childhood, but that damage done in our childhood is difficult to compensate for later in life. Good treatment of children increase the reserves of positivity within them for future hardships whereas bad experiences undermines their confidence and positivity. As a result a person may have to grow up with an emotional baggage.
Hence why Islam says that for the first seven years of a child’s life, they are to be treated as masters. Such that they must feel wanted, needed and loved; as a result they should be given everything they want so that they do not build a negative emotional baggage for later in life. Later than seven years a child becomes capable of understanding the love behind being denied something by their parents e.g. sugar. However until seven years, a child does not understand the love behind a parent’s denial of something. They only assume that his parents don’t love him hence why he is being denied. Therefore, we must not disappoint children and show them unconditional love at this age because they view parents as their Gods;
“When you promise your children you must keep your promise, because they see you as their lord and sustainer”
However, there are times when it is necessary to discipline them. This must be done in a nice and caring way when the child has grown and is able to understand the love behind the disciplining. Alhumdolillah Allah (swt) has filled the hearts of parents with love for their child and every child thinks their parents are the best due to the immense love of parents.
Therefore, to raise honourable children, they must be made optimistic, hopeful and positive by treating them with love and surrounding them with a loving and positive environment of friends, family and activities.
For an honourable character we need to have goals in life. Someone without goals will be hopeless of success because he will never yield any sense of achievement. As a result he will never be hopeful or optimistic.
However goals that are set must be realistic, manageable and measured. Something we can measure ourselves against to see where our progress in life has reached. Seeing our small achievements accumulate would encourage us for further tasks and give us a sense of internal strength and increase our determination.
Hence achievements lead onto more achievements. It is therefore important we set achievable tasks for children and then reward them for completion to build their determination and self-confidence. Those who are arrogant are people who feel inadequate and inferior and in an attempt to cover their faults; they are arrogant. Whereas someone who feels confident, successful and has good social relationships with good social skills; such people become humble. It is the opposite of what we usually think; that the superior are arrogant and the humble are inferior. Rather it is that someone weak in personality is arrogant whereas a strong and honourable personality is humble.
Imam Sadiq (as) says:
“The dearest friends/brothers of mine are those that gift me [information on] my faults.”
An honourable person is able to welcome and also encourage criticisms. Someone who is unaware of his faults can never improve against them, therefore only one who welcomes criticisms can be honourable in character. The faults of a person must also be told to him, not to others or else it would be backbiting. Therefore, in front of others, we must cover each other’s faults but we should inform one another of our faults in private. So if someone asks for consultation, you should give your most honest opinion, otherwise do not accept do be consulted because we must do what pleases Allah (swt).
An honourable person is able to control his emotions especially anger and jealousy. We can never be happy by following our emotions because it can change quickly, without control and other people largely influence our emotions. We must not let emotions take over us, if we are upset by something then we must not let it affect others. Unfortunately some people think venting out our anger at others helps; in reality our emotions are not something we can pass to others by being bad to them.
A rational person is one whose emotions are under the control of his Intellect (Aql). Allah (swt) has given us a love for goodness, once we find something is good for us then we love it. Hence when a rational person realises that which is good for him, he will love it. Whereas an emotional person will do what he likes because he feels like it. Therefore, an intellectual and rational person (Aqil) is one whose feelings follow his understanding, he loves that which he has understood to be good.
Many people ruin their lives because they let their emotions lead them. Our emotions are our weakest point in the battle against Satan because it is easily influenced to action. What is worse is that some people only follow their emotions. They either hold Majalis (events & gatherings) for laughing or crying. There is no Ma’rifah (understanding) involved. They correctly vilify the Yazid of the past by their emotions but due to their lack of understanding, they are unable to identify the Yazid of their own time. However, people who are based on rationality would not be fooled by a modern day Yazid because rational people control their emotions. Therefore, we would be much stronger as a community if we became more rational.
1. Develop our intellectual capacity.
Everyone has been given intellect but only those who use it become known as “’Ul ul-Albab” (Possessors of intellect) and the way to develop our intellect and put it to good use is by gaining knowledge.
2. Practice.
“So many a scholar who was killed by his own ignorance”. Knowledge without practice is destructive whereas knowledge which is practiced not only increases but also benefits us and protects us from harm.
3. Thinking
“The thinking of an hour is better than the worship of one year/sixty years/seventy years”. Thinking here means the type which is useful regarding life decisions. Such as the thinking of Hurr on the day of Ashura. A plan for life without thinking is a useless plan. A good honourable person and a believer is someone who is full of useful thinking regarding problems and solutions in life.
4. Enjoinment
The Quran says that only those who enjoin each other are successful;
“By Time! Indeed man is in loss, except those who have faith and do righteous deeds, and enjoin one another to [follow] the truth, and enjoin one another to patience.”131
We can help each other control our emotions by encouraging patience among each other against our emotional urges.
Lecture 30, 09/11/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Concern with people’s judgements
Conclusion
Deep connection with the source of Izzah (Honour)
Summary of this session:
Recap Concern with people’s judgements 1. The main concern of an honourable believer is Allah’s (swt) will. Conclusion Deep connection with the source of Izzah (Honour)
Previously we discussed the importance and method of developing an honourable character. We also discussed the means of gaining Izzah (Honour) and Karamah (Dignity).
Some people are not bothered by what others think of him. They do whatever they want and behave however they want. Although this is bad, it does mean that those people do not have a need to show off and so they will show who they really are. However, in the more developed cultures such as eastern cultures mixed with Islam; there is a great sense of Haya’ (Shame). We tend to be careful about our reputation with others and hence there is also a greater chance of showing off (Riya). If we are not careful, an unbalanced approach will lead us away from virtuousness and into extremeness. It is therefore important to identify the Islamic approach for guidance.
An honourable person is one who has a balanced concern regarding people’s opinion of him. We must be concerned about our reputation and never sacrifice it nor our honour. Imam Ali (as) said:
“Be aware of going to the places of ill-repute where your reputation may be questioned.”
Therefore, in order to protect our reputation we must not go to every gathering with every type of people. Unless it is being done to guide them. However, there have been people who have gone with such intentions and have ended up being ruined themselves rather than guiding anyone. Hence, like a doctor dealing with an epidemic, we must be properly equipped before we go into an infected area or else we risk catching the disease.
Hence our concern is how far a person should go for other people’s happiness? Without a balance we may either become careless or oppressed. A person’s main motivator must not be people’s opinion because there are people who aren’t happy with what is right and some people are only critical. However, at the same time, we must care about people’s opinion because Islam greatly emphasises on enjoining good and forbidding evil. One who doesn’t care for people’s opinion has denied this aspect of Islam because he doesn’t care about people’s approval or disapproval. Although I cannot draw a definitive clear line; here are some points that can guide us:
“Does he not know that Allah sees?”132
Whatever we do must be with attention to Allah (swt) as our observer. Someone who acts in a way that he secures Allah’s pleasure has achieved most of his objective. However, for a complete success, Allah (swt) would want us to also achieve the pleasure of His creation, as much as possible. Hence the main motivator is Allah; most importantly we must have a good reputation in front of Allah (swt).
2. The Prophet Muhammad (s) and the Ahl al-Bayt (as).
Although their will and Allah’s are the same, still it helps to know that our conduct is presented to the Prophet (s), Imams (as) and the Imam of our time (aj) and we must therefore have a good reputation in the eyes of these noble figures;
“And say, “Go on working: Allah will see your conduct, and His Apostle and the faithful [as well], and you will be returned to the Knower of the seen and the Unseen, and He will inform you concerning what you used to do”133
3. The faithful believers
The believers are indirectly representatives of our Imam (aj) and hence Allah (swt). It must be noted that this does not include the Muslims who are ignorant of their religion’s teachings. It is in regards to the real believers who understand Islam and are rational and experienced. Their opinions are indications towards truth (Haqq). Therefore, if the faithful are pleased then it is a good sign that Allah (swt) is pleased.
4. Other people
Lastly, ordinary family and friends who do not have Taqwa nor an understanding of religion as well as the faithless. It is important that we receive their respect by our behaviour. Hence if alongside pleasing Allah (swt) we can also please these people then we must do so and this is a sign of success. In the past for some holy figures of Islam, even non-Muslims would mourn because they would uphold justice and fairness as well as lead respectful lives.
If we can please Allah (swt) as well the Prophet (s), Imams (as) and the believers as well as ordinary people of little or no faith then we have achieved success in maintaining a good reputation. It means we have acted righteously and hence people have a good opinion of us and we have taken people’s opinion in a correct proportion when correcting ourselves. This means that we do not base ourselves based on people’s opinion; No, our main motivator is Allah (swt). However, we have tried to accommodate for the opinion of others as much as possible. Therefore we would be pleased with our success even if there may be some people who are still critical of us because some people are only critics; they cannot be pleased or are unreasonable in their demands. Hence, we have not sacrificed Allah’s pleasure for people’s pleasure.
It is important we build in ourselves and those around us, a deep respect for others and a genuine concern about other people’s opinion of us, albeit according to the hierarchy we discussed. As a narration states:
“The worse people of people are those who do not bother about what is being said about them.”
We must therefore take the opinion of others seriously and teach our children and students the same.
It is important to have a deep connection with Allah (swt) who can fill us with honour and dignity;
“Whoever seeks honour [should know that] honour entirely belongs to Allah.”134
“Those who take the faithless for allies instead of the faithful. Do they seek honour with them? [If so] indeed all honour belongs to Allah.”
If a person can connect himself and others to Allah (swt) then he will have a life full of the remembrance of Allah (swt), then he would have reached the ultimate source of strength, power and honour. He would not feel alone even if he would be an orphan with no one.
When it comes to people of no faith, maybe we the faithful have no idea of how difficult life is for them. When we are in hardship, we have an ever present companion that is Allah (swt) and we know He is with us, all knowing, all powerful and all loving and hence none of our hardships are wasted. This alone gives us strength to carry on in hardships and against betrayals. We have a reason to trust others because we know betrayals and injustices are punished and hence we also would not betray nor be unjust. However, imagine someone without faith, in God or the Hereafter (Akhirah). If he is oppressed he feels weak and alone and his oppression; he feels it is not noted. He cannot trust others because he cannot identify a need in them to honour his trust. He is demoralised by every difficulty and so he is deprived of a great source of strength in life.
Therefore, if we connect to Allah (swt) by making his presence clear in our lives then He would have an active role in our lives. Then we would be able to be dignified and honoured by Allah. Although this does not mean a person of no faith cannot have dignity; it just means that without Allah it is more difficult but the expectation for people of no faith to be honourable is still there, as Imam Husayn (as) said:
“If you do not have a religion, and nor do you fear the Hereafter, then at least be free in your worldly life.”
Lecture 31, 23/11/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
The relationship between truthfulness and dignity
Summary of this session:
Recap The relationship between truthfulness and dignity
Previously we discussed truthfulness and Karamah (dignity) as the two most fundamental values and their relation with each other. We also discussed how to understand Haqq (The truth), from the teachings of the Quran. We also discussed the importance of Izzah and Karamah (Honour and dignity) and how the children of Adam (as) have been granted Karamah so that we may build upon it.
The Quran says;
“Indeed those who deny the Remembrance when it comes to them and indeed it is an honoured book. Falsehood cannot approach it from before it nor from behind it; gradually sent down from One all-wise and all-praiseworthy.”135
Since the Quran is the word of the absolute truth (Al-Haqq) that is Allah (swt) and it is also a truth (Haqq) itself, therefore falsehood cannot effect it. This shows that where there is honour 136 (Izzah) there can only be truth. Falsehood can only have a chance if there is a deficiency of honour. Therefore, in order to be committed to truth we must strive to be honourable in character.
Imam Hasan al-Askari (as) has said:
“An honourable person will not abandon the truth except if he loses his honour and a dishonourable person will not start holding onto truth except that he becomes honourable.”137
Therefore, an honourable person does not become dishonourable except when he loses his commitment to truth and a dishonourable does not remain so if he commits himself to truth.
“Whoever seeks honour [should know that] honour entirely belongs to Allah”138
Allah (swt) is the absolute truth, this is why honour can only be from Allah (swt) because other than Him there is only falsehood. Therefore, both of these qualities are essential to Him.
The acknowledgment of the Prophet’s (s) prophethood is also essential in our commitment to the truth as he has the utmost commitment to the truth. Hence, he does not reflect anything except that it is the truth from his Lord and as a result, Allah says that all might/honour (Izzah) belongs also to the Prophet (s) and the faithful139 because they do not represent anything from themselves, they are sincerely mirroring only the truth.
Therefore, the Islamic value of truthfulness is fundamental. Ubudiyyah (servitude) means to search and submit oneself to the truth and any manifestations of the absolute truth (al-Haqq) that is Allah (swt) because besides Allah, the alternative can only be falsehood;
“One whom Allah has not granted any light has no light.”140
As He is the only source of light, hence besides Him there can only be darkness.
“Ali is with the truth and the truth is with Ali”
If a person commits themselves completely to the truth, as Imam Ali (as) did then they become manifestations of the truth. If someone is 100% committed, nothing will appear from them except that it is the truth.
Lecture 32, 03/11/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Humbleness
Outcomes of humbleness
How to become humble
Summary of this session:
Recap Humbleness Outcomes of humbleness How to become humble Imam Ridha (as) said:
Previously, we discussed the importance of truthfulness and Karamah (honour & dignity). We concluded that truthfulness is more fundamental than Karamah as the latter is based on the former.
The third Islamic value in our discussion is humbleness. The Prophet (s) said:
“The best servants of Allah (swt) are those who are humble, but out of highness”
At times a person may be humble but due to his defects. Whereas real humbleness is not due to being inferior. It is humbleness alongside being equal or better than others as the Prophet (s) also said:
“Good tidings to those who are humble without any deficiency and who degrade themselves without being poor or needy”
Hence, humbleness is not to be weak and poor. It is from a position of strength and independence. Imam Ali (as) said:
“There is no social position like humbleness”
One may have the social position of a rich person or an Imam or leader in a society but their positions are nothing in comparison to the humble; if this humbleness is coupled with other social positions such as a humble Imam or a humble rich person then it is even better. However, to possess any social position without humbleness isn’t good, it is better to be humble yet lack social position because humbleness itself raises a person.
Imam Ali (as), regarding the pious, says:
“Their dress is moderate and their gait is humble”
Therefore, the pious are moderate and balanced. We must not have clothing which are excessive in price nor clothing which lowers our dignity. In addition the Imam says the pious are humble. We will discuss later how humbleness is linked to piety.
Imam Ali (as) also said:
“How beautiful is the humbleness of the rich in front of the poor because they seek what is with Allah but even more beautiful is the disregard of the poor towards the rich.”
We must always keep our honour intact. Hence why it is beautiful when a poor person does not succumb to greed and lower himself for the sake of gaining favours from the rich.
Imam Ridha (as) said:
“Humbleness is to give people what you would love to be given”
In my opinion, this means that a humble person is one who does not feel special. He desires for himself equal to that which other people have. A humble person will not consider himself to be more important than others. Whereas those who are arrogant consider themselves better and more valued than others. They expect a special privilege and admiration from others.
Imam Sadiq (as) said:
“Truly, one aspect of humbleness is that a person sits down in a place that may not be very special or high”
The arrogant want to sit where the elders, scholars and the respected of the community sit. Whereas the humble sits at places of no special value without hesitation even if he is deserving of that special seat; as the Imam also said:
“One aspect of humbleness is to be pleased with sitting in a place and not in another place, it may be lower than you deserve, but you do not want more; and to say ‘Salam’ to whoever you meet and to stop disputing even if you are right and to not expect any praise for your piety.”
Hence, those who are arrogant also hesitate to greet first and say ‘Salam’. The humble, however, try to say ‘Salam’ first and approach the other. Expecting others to greet us first before we reply is due to arrogance on account of feeling higher than them due to money, age or social position. In addition, the Imam says the humble stop disputing even if they are right; when the debate no longer serves the truth and is not productive; it simply becomes a battle of the egos. The humble are those who are willing to kindly, not with bitterness, put aside this conundrum after having made themselves clear, even if they are right.
Lastly, the humble do not expect praise for their piety. Praise is expected when we feel we are special and praiseworthy; whereas the humble do not feel especially valued above others. Hence they have no expectation of praise.
1. Allah (swt) raises a humble person. As the Prophet (s) said:
“Indeed humbleness adds to the highness of its possessor. So be humble, Allah will raise you”
“One who is humble for the sake of Allah, Allah will raise him. So he will be weak in his own estimation but mighty in the eyes of others. And one who is arrogant, Allah will lower him. So he will be weak in the eyes of others and mighty in his own estimation, so much so that people will take him to be worse than pigs and dogs.”
Therefore, we have two choices: either we try to raise ourselves, and this will cause people to feel offended, or we try to be humble and let Allah (swt) raise us. However, when Allah raises us then no one can bring us down whereas if we raise ourselves then it is temporary and at the expense of vilifying ourselves in society. Therefore, we should never try to be great because only Allah (swt) is great; our attempt to seem great can only manifest as us trying to be what we are not and hence arrogant.
2. Love; Imam Ali (as) said:
“The fruit of humbleness is love. And the fruit of arrogance is [to face] words of abuse.”
A humble people is loved by people whereas everyone detests arrogance. Their reactions will therefore follow similarly and the arrogant will only face the anger and dislike of people towards them.
3. Solving problems; as Imam Ali (as) says:
“By bringing down the wing of humbleness affairs can be regulated”
Arrogance makes dilemmas and difficult situations worse. When someone is impatient, responding with impatience will only escalate the difficulty. Similarly, humbleness helps to solve problems whereas arrogant tendencies aren’t helpful at all.
4. Wisdom; Imam Kadhim (as) said:
“Indeed a plant can grow in a level ground. And this is wisdom. Wisdom cannot flourish in the heart of an arrogant person because Allah has made humbleness as instrument for the intellect and arrogance an instrument for ignorance.”
All good things in society, ultimately, reaches the humble. If a heart is humble then its wisdom can reach it and flourish in it. Hence if a person is humble, his intellect can function better.
Imam Kadhim (as) said:
“Allah has not raised the humble people in proportion to their humbleness but rather He has raised them proportionate to His own greatness.”
Imam Ali (as) said:
“You will not be helped with humbleness except with the good health of the chest”
By chest, the Imam is referring to our spiritual heart. A pure heart is required in order to achieve humbleness because humbleness is not a matter of the body but it is the heart.
In another narration Imam Ali (as) said:
“Humbleness is the fruit of knowledge. It is not befitting that a person who knows the greatness of Allah to try to be great and privileged. Those who know the greatness of Allah, their highness comes when are humble for Allah.”
Therefore, humbleness can only be achieved with a pure heart and knowledge. Someone who is actually knowledgeable is humble. Those who know Allah are humble because they see what greatness is and this humbleness is what raises them.
“One rank [of humbleness] is that a person knows his own limit and measure with a pure heart, and that he would not love to go to anyone except in the manner that he would love them to come to him. If he is wronged he tries to turn it into good [and does not do bad in return], he suppresses anger, and he forgives people.”
From this narration we learn:
1. Do not overestimate your limit.
2. Do not treat others how you wouldn’t want to be treated.
People are careful when they are in danger. Hence they ignore any offence caused to them by e.g. a manager. Whereas they would not be so forgiving to those beneath them such as their wife and children. Therefore, humble people are kind to others even if there is no threat of harm or insecurity.
3. Forgive others.
Our lack of forgiveness is due to arrogance. We feel we are too great to be offended and therefore the offender doesn’t deserve forgiveness. Whereas a humble person sees himself as insignificant and hence would easily forego any wrong done to him. We must not take bad treatment of us too seriously from the believers. Through humbleness we would have inner strength to not allow ourselves to become easily offended.
Lecture 33, 07/12/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
The root of humbleness
Analysis of humbleness
Takkabbur (Arrogance) and Kibr (Greatness)
Some verses regarding humbleness
Some narrations
Summary of this session:
Recap The root of humbleness Analysis of humbleness Takkabbur (Arrogance) and Kibr (Greatness) Some verses regarding humbleness Some narrations
Previously we discussed the Islamic value of humbleness, its outcomes and description. We will now discuss humbleness and its opposite further.
Ghazali quoted from Fudhayl regarding humbleness:
“It is to be humble before the truth and obedient to it, even if you hear it from a child you accept it, and even if you hear it from the most ignorant of people you accept it.”
Normally we think humbleness is related to our behaviour with people such that a humble person will never be arrogant towards anyone. However, in reality humbleness is rooted on our devotion to the truth (al-Haqq) that is Allah (swt). That is why when Allah (swt) commands us to be arrogant against the arrogant; a humble person would do so since humbleness is not based on appearance; it is a condition of the heart which manifests into our behaviour. Hence, even when a humble person behaves arrogantly, he isn’t so out of arrogance; he detests it yet deems it necessary; similar to one who tells a lie to save another’s life, he is truthful in nature and so he does not like lying although he is forced to do it due to the circumstance.
Therefore, humbleness is ultimately to the absolute truth that is Allah (swt). Hence, a humble person does not have a choice but to be dedicated to the truth because any disobedience or denial of the truth is against the absolute truth, Allah (swt).
In order to understand humbleness we must understand the opposite that is arrogance (Kibr).
Ayatollah Ha’iri says it is a condition of the heart that makes a person feel lowly such that it influences his feelings towards Allah, the Prophet (s), the Imams and the faithful. The opposite of humbleness is arrogance (Takabbur). This is to think that you are too great to obey Allah (Ta’ali). It leads to disbelief and is therefore a great sin.
Since humbleness is a matter of the heart, one who appears humble may not be so because there are people who pretend to be humble but have an internal arrogance. In order to be truly humble, we need to have an acknowledgement of how insignificant our achievements are and how poor we are. Hence, when such a person remembers Allah, he is fully obedient. Therefore, although it is a condition of the heart, it manifests in our behaviour with other people.
We must therefore, as Ayatollah Ha’iri said, tie our hearts with humbleness just as we must tie our minds with proper beliefs. To think of ourselves as in utter poverty in front of Allah (swt); as the Prophet (s) said:
“Poverty is my honour”
Poverty (Faqr) has several usages, two of them being good and two of them being bad:
1. Poverty meaning an inability to generate wealth. Such as a lazy person or someone who is prevented from earning a living. This meaning is not good.
2. Poverty meaning one who has no good deeds on the day of judgement; when the only valid currency will be what good we did in the world. A poor person then is one who has no good deeds and has taken the rights of others which must be paid back. This meaning is also not good.
3. Poverty meaning voluntarily living a simple life despite being able to afford luxuries. Such as the life of Imam Ali (as) and the Prophet (s) whom worked hard and could afford to live extravagantly and they had at some points access to a lot of wealth yet chose to live a simple life. This is a good meaning.
4. Poverty meaning a sense of humbleness after knowing our utter dependency upon Allah (swt). This is good and this is where humbleness is from.
Kibr (greatness) is when someone thinks they are great and high. This is an attribute only suitable for Allah (swt) because only He is great. When humans think themselves as great, it is an attribute not suited to us as we are in utter poverty and dependency to Allah; as a result this thought of greatness only manifests as arrogance (Takabbur). Although internal arrogance isn’t visible, it leaks out like a bad smell; the people around sense it yet the owner is used to it. Similarly if a person has humbleness, although it is hidden as an internal quality, it leaks out but like a good fragrance; the people around sense it but the owner is used to it.
“Do not walk exultantly on the earth. Indeed you will neither pierce the earth, nor reach the mountains in height”141
“The servants of the All-beneficent are those who walk humbly on the earth, and when the ignorant address them, say, ‘Peace!’”142
‘Ujb
Ujb refers to when a person thinks he is better than someone else. Its difference with arrogance is that it is relative to others. It is a feeling of having something rare in relation to others and then such a person compares himself to others.
Imam Baqir (as) said:
“Kibr (Greatness) is the apparel of Allah, and a Mutakabbir (arrogant) is one who tries to remove the apparel from Him”
Imam Sadiq (as) said:
“Kibr is the apparel of Allah and whoever tries to remove from Him something that is His, will be put into the fire on his face”
This is when a person tries to put himself in the position of Allah, he blocks for himself all room for improvement and afterwards only degrades in character. He will have no value for others and their rights and this is destructive to himself and everyone around as a result he has problems with all creatures of Allah (swt).
Lecture 34, 21/12/2015
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Sins
Potential
Source of pride and honour
The value of humbleness
Knowledge and worship
Reflection
Summary of this session:
Recap Sins Potential Source of pride and honour The value of humbleness Knowledge and worship Reflection
Previously we discussed humbleness and the dangers of arrogance. We also discussed that greatness is an attribute only applicable to Allah (swt) therefore, any attempt by humans to seem great when we are essentially weak would only result in arrogance.
We do not possess anything great except sins. We cannot be great in our knowledge, nor power nor wealth. We have been created weak and as Imam Ali (as) said in a supplication:
“O my Lord! Have mercy on my weak body.”
However, our sins are great because Allah is great. Since we are completely dependent on Him, receiving His favours and hence to turn around and insult Allah by sinning as a response to His kindness and mercy makes any sin truly great.
However, no matter how great our sins, Allah’s mercy is greater;
“If my sin is great in Your sight, your forgiveness is greater than my sin”
“And He taught Adam the Names, all of them; then presented them to the angels and said, “Tell me the names of these, if you are truthful”143
Prophet Adam (as) was created and chosen as the representative on the earth because of the key difference between us and the angels; that being our potential. We have been given a great capacity to learn. However, we are also at risk of misusing our freedom and disregarding our potential for goodness and hence we can regress and reach a degraded position like no other being. Therefore, we have limitless potential to improve or to worsen.
We cannot be proud just by having potential. This potential is also only achievable in servitude to Allah therefore, we can only be proud to be servants of Allah (swt) as this is what makes us special;
“My God, it is sufficient for me as honour that I am Your servant and it is sufficient for me as pride that You are my Lord”
When Prophet Isa (as) was born he said;
“Indeed I am a servant of Allah! He has given me the book and made me a prophet”144
Also, regarding Prophet Mohammed (s) we declare he was Allah’s servant and messenger. For them and us it is a great achievement to be considered a servant of Allah (swt). Hence, to think we can be great without servitude to Allah (swt) is truly a failure.
Humbleness does not mean we lack honour and dignity. It means we do not seek honour nor dignity with people or places that do not yield honour nor dignity. The only way to reach honour is by humbling ourselves to the possessor of all honour and dignity and that is Allah. Therefore, it is meaningless to try and rise based on our comparison with other people. Honour is only in humbleness in servitude to Allah (swt).
Scholars have presented different methods of dealing with arrogance. Ayatollah Ha’iri says that arrogance is from a lack of honour in themselves. It is due to attempts at filling an inner void and hence they act very important to cover the feeling of poverty within. Similarly, the oppressive resort to oppression due to a weakness;
“Indeed it is only those who are weak that resort to oppression”
Such people fear a threat and to protect themselves they resort to oppression.
Regarding the arrogant, who feel a void within them, Allah says;
“When you see them, their bodies impress you, and if they speak, you listen to their speech. Yet they are like dry logs set reclining [against a wall]. They suppose every cry is directed against them. They are the enemy, so beware of them. May Allah assail them, where do they stray?!”145
Due to their weakness, they develop a paranoia. Any question directed at them without intending for their weakness, they will take as an attack on them. Hence why some arrogant teachers become annoyed at questions they cannot answer; feeling that the students are trying to harass his weakness. In reality it is due to a sense of inner insignificance and being valueless. Such a person must develop a better connection between him and Allah and consider the blessings of Allah. Only then will he realise that rather than lowering others, he should develop himself.
Another cause of arrogance is feeling humiliated. One who feels humiliated would want to gain back his honour. Some resort to arrogance as a means of gaining honour but in reality only through servitude to Allah can a person gain honour.
This loss of honour which may lead to arrogance could be due to sins. Therefore, the solution would be to stop sinning. When a person is not sinful, that in itself will give him an intrinsic value and he will feel good about himself.
Ayatollah Ha’iri says some people become arrogant due to their knowledge and worship. They compare themselves to others and regard themselves better on account of their worship and knowledge. Whereas the godly scholars are those who are humbled by their increase in knowledge because with more understanding, comes more recognition of one’s own ignorance and insignificance compared to Allah (swt) and creation.
In the beginning when a person has only tasted some knowledge, it causes arrogance within them because they have just taken a step which distinguishes them from other people; at least in their own minds. However, once a person develops and truly becomes knowledgeable he comes to understand what little is actually known and how limited his knowledge is.
Similarly, a worshipper who does not understand may think his worshipping benefits Allah and thus Allah owes him something. Such a worship does not increase anyone. That is why two units of prayer of a learned person is said to be more valuable than seventy units of a worshipper alone because a learned person understands and is humbled in his heart.
In Islamic ethics the intention is essential in the judgement of an action. During the Prophet’s (s) time, people regarded a person as a martyr. However, the Prophet (s) told them that he became a martyr for the sake of a donkey because his intention was only to steal a donkey and was caught and killed. That person did not give his life to help the cause of Allah (swt) but rather he gave his life to loot a donkey. Therefore, the physical appearance of an act is not as important as the intention;
“He, who created death and life that He may test you [to see] which of you is best in conduct. And He is the All-mighty, the All-forgiving.”146
By “best in conduct” this verse is indicating to the quality of actions not quantity. However, if quality is achieved then the quantitive multitude of actions help.
Nothing is as effective as contemplation (Tafakkur) in achieving humbleness. If we are not humble, the first step towards improving would be to at least know that we are not humble. If a person doesn’t realise there is a problem, he can never fix it. By contemplating we can get rid of misconceptions about our value and social positions that lead to arrogance and thinking of ourselves as special above others.
Once we have identified a source of arrogance we can shed some lights on it:
1. The light of death: By contemplating about what we have whilst remembering our death; many things which we consider to be valuable now would be exposed and we would see how useless it is for us at the moment of death and after death. No amount of money, power nor fame can stop death nor help us in the afterlife.
2. The light of history: By contemplating about the past we can identify what truly matters in life. Thousands of generations have passed living all kinds of worldly lives of power, wealth and pleasures such as the pharaohs, kings, emperors and queens. However, none of it can help them now that they have passed on. Their possessions are of no use to them nor their honour. The Quran says;
“How many gardens and springs did they leave behind?! Fields and splendid places, and the bounties wherein they rejoiced! So it was; and We bequeathed them to another people”147
Think of how many generations lived in our places. Therefore, if we shed the light of death and history on our lives, many of the veils that deceive us into valuing meaningless material wealth and pleasures are removed and our vision for our future becomes free of deceptions. Only through such contemplation can we achieve humbleness.
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Lecture 35, 25/01/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Fairness (Insaf)
The sayings of Ahl al-Bayt
Summary of this session:
Recap Fairness (Insaf) The sayings of Ahl al-Bayt “[They are as well] for those who were settled in the land and [abided] in faith before them, who love those who migrate toward them, and do not find in their breasts any need for that which is given to them, but prefer [the Immigrants] over themselves, though poverty be their own lot. And those who are saved from their own greed—it is they who are the felicitous” “O Allah, I cannot thank You enough for what You have given me, even after so many years of life I still cannot understand how much You have given me, let alone be grateful for it. But, if possible and if it does not conflict with the general plan You have for me, and for others and for the world, then could You please, if possible, give me, and I am completely happy if You do not give me.”
Previously we discussed the fundamentality of some moral values over others and concluded that truthfulness is the most fundamental value. Organisation of values in a hierarchy is important so that we may give each value its due attention. Wisdom dictates that we prioritise in order to be efficient in spending our limited time and resources. We also discussed how Ayatollah Mutahhari believed Karamah (honour and dignity) was the core of Islamic ethics. Thus we discussed the relationship between the two values and concluded that Karamah and truthfulness are linked in the sense that Karamah has its roots in truthfulness. We also discussed humbleness and its relation to truthfulness.
The next value that can help solve many of our social problems is fairness. As Imam Ali (as) said;
“Fairness is the best trait of character”148
Imam Ali (as) also said:
“Fairness brings hearts together.”
A person who is fair will not expect too much, he will not be too demanding of others and will also assess his own role and actions. As a result people will like him because he is fair.
Imam Ali (as) said:
“With fairness do relationships continue”
So fairness not only brings hearts together in initiating relationships but it also allows relationships to continue. Whenever there is a breakdown in relationships, we see that either one or both sides are unfair however none of them are willing to admit it nor accept it.
“With fairness, those who relate to you increase.”
Meaning a person who is fair will increase in friends as people’s love of fairness will attract them to him.
“The Zakat of power is fairness”
There is a Zakah for everything. For power it is fairness. One who possesses power is in a real position to do much good or much harm and so it is especially important for powerful people to observe fairness as powerless people are incapable of doing harm anyway. However, power here does not mean kings and politicians; it includes parents or anyone with power over anyone. Being unfair can always damage us and those we have power over. That is why we must be responsible with whatever power Allah (swt) has given us by observing fairness.
Imam Mohammed Baqir (as) said:
“There is no justice like fairness”
Fairness is therefore a quality that allows the practice of justice. One who isn’t fair cannot observe justice because fairness is the means to understanding it.
Alhumdolillah, we are a community that are blessed with leaders (Imams) whose sayings are able to teach us so much. No other people have this, their figures may have said a few things in the past and it has been recorded due to their fame but we have many books, compiled from the Imams’ sayings and all of them are very deep and helpful in our understanding. Hence in Ziyarat ul-Jami’ah we say to the Ahl ul-Bayt:
“Your names are with the names [of people], your speech is with the speech [of people], your graves are amongst the graves [of people], but somehow yours is different!”
Imam Ali (as) said:
“A faithful person observes fairness with respect to those who are not fair with him.”
Fairness is not optional, nor is it conditional. It is what we must strive to be even if someone else is not fair with us. Therefore, we cannot be unfair to others because we believe they are unfair to us. In addition, no one will ever accept that they are being unfair if they are unfair; therefore to base fairness on the condition that the receiver must be fair is to validate excuses for not being fair because those who are unfair always excuse themselves by accusing the other side.
However if someone is violating the rights of others, of course we can stand against him but this doesn’t mean we can oppress them because a faithful person is one who observes fairness even with wrongdoers. As Imam Ali (as) said:
“The most just person is one who is fair with respect to one who has wronged him.”
Therefore, if you can be fair to the one who has wronged you then you are the most just person. Even in punishment, to be fair is to apply the right amount of punishment deserved. We cannot be cruel to a person simply because he has committed a crime, punishment must be in proportion. Therefore, a fair victim would defend the offender if he were to be given a harsh sentence.
Imam Sadiq (as) said:
“Connect to those who disconnect with you, and if someone has been hostile with you, be fair to them.”
The Prophet (s) said:
“Whoever shares what he has with the poor and is fair with people then he is a truly faithful person”
One step is Muwasat; to share what you have with others. A higher step is ‘ithar; to prefer others over yourself. As the Quran states:
وَالَّذِينَ تَبَوَّؤُوا الدَّارَ وَالْإِيمَانَ مِن قَبْلِهِمْ يُحِبُّونَ مَنْ هَاجَرَ إِلَيْهِمْ وَلَا يَجِدُونَ فِي صُدُورِهِمْ حَاجَةً مِّمَّا أُوتُوا وَيُؤْثِرُونَ عَلَى أَنفُسِهِمْ وَلَوْ كَانَ بِهِمْ خَصَاصَةٌ وَمَن يُوقَ شُحَّ نَفْسِهِ فَأُوْلَئِكَ هُمُ الْمُفْلِحُونَ
Therefore, Muwasat is to share a cup by drinking half and giving half whereas ‘ithar is to give all of the water to others. The Prophet (s) says that whoever shares their possessions with others and is fair is a truly faithful person.
Fairness is not to give to others what you have. Rather it is to decide on what is your right and the right of others. To then share your right with someone needy is more than fairness. This may be why the Prophet (s) added fairness on top of sharing with others.
Imam Ali (as) said:
“The most fair of people is one who observes fairness against himself without any judge or ruler standing over him.”
Many people do not break rules nor take the rights of others because they are afraid to be punished. Would everyone behave the same if there were no punishments for injustice? Would we observe fairness simply for the sake of being a good and faithful person?
Imam Ali (as) said:
“Beware, that indeed one who observes fairness with respect to his relationship with people, Allah will not increase him except in honour.”
This is the connection between fairness and honour we previously discussed.
Imam Ali (as) said:
“It is sufficient for a person for being intelligent that he is fair and a requirement of fairness is that he accepts the truth when it becomes clear for him.”
This is the connection between fairness and truthfulness. The narration says that unfairness is due to stupidity. One who has cultivated his intellect (‘Aql) would not be unfair. In addition, a fair person is concerned with the truth.
Imam Ali (as) said to his Shia; Malik Ashtar:
“Be fair with Allah.”
Sometimes we may not be fair with Allah. We think we are the centre of the universe and so Allah must alter everything according to my needs and wants, without realising all that we have been given already. If we knew how much we have been given, we would feel embarrassed to ask Allah for more. However, due to His kindness he urges us to keep asking. Although we must ask Allah with a better attitude and perhaps ask Him like this:
Therefore, we must be fair with Allah and be more considerate of the reasons why we may not have something.
Imam Ali (as) continued to say to Malik Ashtar:
“Be fair with Allah and be fair with people, and those who are very close and intimate to you.”
I think this means we that in addition to observing the rights of Allah (swt) and people, we must also not have unrealistic expectations from Allah (swt) nor from people in order to not misuse our position.
Imam Baqir (as) said:
“Indeed Allah has a garden in heaven, none may enter it except three… one who has judged about himself truthfully.”
I always say that I love people who admit their mistakes; this is a great quality.
Imam Ali (as) said:
“A good person should not expect fairness from a person who is bad and a knowledgeable person should not expect fairness from an ignorant.”
If we encounter an unfair person, before advising them to be fair we must see if that person has the capacity to be fair. Otherwise it is unrealistic to expect him to become fair. First we must raise that person’s capacity by improving him and changing him. And change is not possible except through taking him out of his ignorance. Therefore, we cannot expect anything from him until he is ignorant.
Imam Ali (as) explains:
“Three groups should not expect fairness from three others: an intelligent person from a stupid person. A good person from a bad person and an honourable person from a lowly person.”
Therefore, the only people who expect stupid people to be good, are the stupid people. Otherwise we should not waste our energy in pointless efforts.
Lecture 36, 01/02/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Fairness (Insaf)
What is fairness?
Comparison with justice
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Recap Fairness (Insaf) What is fairness? Comparison with justice Conclusion
We previously started discussing fairness. In order to understand it we compared it with justice.
The term Insaf (fairness) has not been used for Allah (swt) in neither the Quran nor the narrations as far as I can recall. Even justice hasn’t been attributed directly, instead the Quran has negated injustice from Allah:
“Indeed Allah does not wrong [anyone] [even to the extent of] an atom’s weight, and if it be a good deed He doubles it[s reward], and gives from Himself a great reward.”149
“That is because of what your hands have sent ahead, and because Allah is not tyrannical to the servants.”150
However, regarding fairness; unfairness hasn’t even been negated from Allah. Although some narrations define justice as fairness. For example, regarding this verse:
“Indeed Allah enjoins justice and kindness and generosity towards relatives, and He forbids indecency, wrong, and aggression. He advises you, so that you may take admonition.”151
Imam Ali (as) says:
“Justice is fairness, and kindness is to confer favour [upon someone].”
However, this does not mean they are the same because we previously discussed how the most just person is fair to those who wrong him. Thereby, indicating that there are levels of justice that do not include fairness since only the most just are fair.
To understand, we must examine the context in which fairness applies. That context is when there is a conflict between two sides, one close to us and the other strange to us. In normal circumstances, a person would take his own side, the side of his tribe or family i.e. the close ones. However, to be fair means to be objective in our judgement. It means to place oneself in the middle, at the same distance from both sides so that our egoistic emotions aren’t involved in our judgement.
If a person goes further than half way and shows extra compassion to the other side, this is called mercy (Rahmah). This is beyond fairness because the person is no longer in the middle to judge objectively, now he is slightly in favour of the other side out of altruism.
Justice is to simply give what is people’s right. It does not entail sacrificing one’s own right for others. Whereas fairness is to observe justice and in addition if needs be, sacrifice some of our rights because of the neediness of the other side. There is altruism involved in fairness. Justice is concerned with punishing wrongdoings but fairness tries to excuse a person’s wrong by using his context as an excuse. Therefore, to be fair is to consider what I would like others to do for me if I was in the situation of the other.
A fair person therefore, goes out of his way and treats others as he would like to be treated. He acts based on the truth of the other side but in addition is prepared to sacrifice his own right for the betterment of the other side.
Lecture 37, 08/02/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Hamiyyah and Asabiyyah (bias)
The root cause
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Recap Hamiyyah and Asabiyyah (bias) Imam Zayn al-Abidin (as) said: The root cause Conclusion
Previously we discussed fairness as one of the most fundamental values in Islam and tried to identify what fairness is by comparing it to justice and mercy. We will now discuss what the opposite of fairness is and see what kind of behaviour an unfair person exhibits.
The root cause of unfairness is bias. Regarding bias Imam Sadiq (as) says:
“If someone is biased or allows people to be biased in his favour, then he has removed the rope of faith from his neck.”152
True faith (Iman) is based on obedience to the truth. Whereas those who are biased are in reality not promoting the truth. They only promote themselves or anything that they relate to. Those with bias would argue for the superiority of their side, not because they are upholding truth but because it is their side. Hence, such a person would not be considered a truly faithful person (Mu’min) because to be a believer is to be committed to truth, not our own egos.
Imam Sadiq also quotes the Prophet (s):
“Whosoever has even a very small particle [like dust] of mustard of asabiyyah, Allah will resurrect him on the Day of Judgement with the A’rab of the age of ignorance.”153
A’rab means those ignorant and morally vicious Bedouins before the advent of Islam. The Quran refers to them as;
“The Bedouins are more obdurate in unfaith and hypocrisy, and more apt to be ignorant of the precepts that Allah has sent down to His Apostle, and Allah is all-knowing, all-wise”154
They were stubborn and insistent on their false ideas. Hence those who have the slightest bias would be resurrected among such people.
“Asabiyyah is when a person considers bad people from his group better than good people from another group. And it is not asabiyyah when a person loves his own people. However, it is asabiyyah when such a person helps his own people do dhulm to others”
From this narration we understand the following:
1. Bias (Asabiyyah) is to consider your evil better than the goodness of others;
Those who value their own side over others are not judging based on truth and virtue of others, but rather based on their ego.
2. Bias is to help your own be cruel against a people who aren’t your own;
Indeed, our main consideration must be justice, truth, and the pleasure of Allah (swt). We should not ever support a person just because he is in any way closer to us. Allah (swt) says in the Qur’an:
“O you who have faith! Be maintainers of justice and witnesses for the sake of Allah, even if it should be against yourselves or [your] parents and near relatives, and whether it be [someone] rich or poor, for Allah has a greater right over them. So do not follow [your] desires, lest you should be unfair, and if you distort [the testimony] or disregard [it], Allah is indeed well aware of what you do”155
3. However it is not bias to love one’s own if it does not entail the two other characteristics above.
Although this love must be genuine and educated. We must love them based on truth and a real value such as the pleasure of Allah (swt) because love which is based on selfish emotions such as tribalism or nationality would mean that we would not be fair to the same people if tomorrow they turn against us since fairness to them would no longer serve our own selves.
4. Bias does not allow one to see the truth;
Those who are biased, do not see the goodness of others or their own evils hence why they value themselves so much over others. Otherwise if a person was aware of the truth then no one in submission and awareness to the truth would ever be cruel and oppressive towards others.
Imam Zayn al-Abidin (as) said:
“No hamiyyah will cause a person to enter heaven except the hamiyyah Hamza has for the Prophet Muhammad (s).”
Hamiyyah means a special attachment, positive or negative. It is because Hamza saw him as an oppressed person under the harsh bullying of the pagans in Mecca. If a person does not possess this inclination to help the oppressed then he isn’t a human. Therefore, the difference between a good bias and a bad bias is to see what it is based on. If a person is biased in service of truth and justice then it is good whereas a selfish bias is bad because it ignores truth and justice. Hence a good bias is the one that does not allow us to be indifferent to the sufferings of others.
Imam Sadiq (as) said:
“Indeed the angels considered that Iblis was one of them, but Allah knew he was not.”
Allah (swt) knew what was hidden in Iblis, what would surface when he is tested by Adam (as). Similarly we humans often have great problems within us but due to ease and comfort we do not exhibit it. However, when difficulties fall upon people, they become vicious. Hence Imam Husayn (as) says;
“People are slaves of the world, and religion is a thing that remains on their tongues. When they are afflicted with calamity, the truly faithful become very few”
We display religiosity in ease and comfort but like a thing on our tongue, we are quick to spit it out when a difficulty tests us. As a result, those who are truly faithful in ease and in hardship are very few.
It is fine to have many friends with whom we laugh and enjoy our time. However, we must not rush in choosing close friends whom we share our secrets with. One way to discern the nature of a person is to journey with them due to the difficulties of travelling that tests everyone.
However we must not seek to expose others because the more sins are exposed the lower falls the society’s moral standards. If we see that everyone has the problems I have then it helps to normalise my problems and hence we would be barred from improving ourselves. Hence, if we do not maintain a good moral image of society, the morality of society as a whole and individual members will continuously become worse.
At the same time, if we do not acknowledge the problems of society and only focus on keeping up a fake image would only result in us deceiving ourselves without fixing any problems among us.
Lecture 38 part I, 15/02/2016
Video Audio
Lecture 38 part II, 15/02/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
The narration of the prophet
This narration reminds us
Saying of Imam Sadiq (as)
According to this narration three things are the most difficult duties upon us
How can we be fair?
Summary of this session:
The narration of the prophet This narration reminds us: Saying of Imam Sadiq (as) According to this narration three things are the most difficult duties upon us: How can we be fair?
In continuation of our last session, the Prophet (s) said:
“One who is inspired [by Allah (swt)] to be truthful in his speech, and to be fair by giving from himself, and is kind to his parents, and connects with his kin, his deadline [of life] will be postponed, and his sustenance will increase, he will benefit from his Aql, and he will be dictated his response when he is questioned [on the Day of Judgement].”
1. Fairness is to distance yourself from your own side and see both conflicting sides equally.
2. Truthfulness and fairness are two factors in increasing one’s life and sustenance.
3. By being committed to truth and being fair; we benefit from our intellect (Aql).
Every human has been given intellect yet very few actually benefit from it. Those who listen to their intellect and follow the truth are actually encouraging their intellect’s influence. However, those who are not committed to truth would disregard the influence of their intellect that tells them the truth. After successive suppression of their intellect, eventually their intellect would overcome and they would therefore no longer benefit; as we recite in Dua al-Sabah:
“My Aql is overcome”.
4. At the time of questioning after death, he would know the answers. Not because it is arbitrarily given to him but because a fair and truthful person does not act in vain; as a hadith states:
“Take account of yourself before an account is taken of you.”
Hence he has an answer for everything since had taken account of himself in this world.
“Shall I inform you of three things that are the most difficult things that Allah has made obligatory for his creation?” Then he said “to be fair to people [by taking] from yourself, doing Muwasat with your brother, and to remember Allah in every condition.”
1. Fairness; to be objective in our behaviour during conflicts and judgement. This is more difficult than military struggle since millions of people can become Mujahedeen but very few can become fair.
2. Muwasat: to give to the needy what belongs to you. This selflessness can only apply to other believers but not your enemies. Whereas fairness must be for all including enemies.
3. To remember Allah (swt) is every condition is also very difficult as Imam Sadiq (as) continued;
“But I do not mean saying subhanallah wa al-hamdu lillah wa la ilaha illallah wallahu Akbar, even though that is also of remembrance. Rather, to remember Allah whenever you are faced with the choice between obedience and disobedience”
This remembrance is in reference to moments that would test our obedience to Allah; to observe obedience to Allah when we are tempted by disobedience.
In the beginning of our self-development, it is difficult to be fair because we are inclined to be egoistic. We therefore have to continuously pressure ourselves to be fair. We may be able to be fair in a few cases but we won’t be completely fair straight away. We may be fair selectively; so fair with friends but might not with enemies or fair with one group over another. However, we must continue to exercise fairness as much as we can until it becomes a part of our nature. When we become fair innately, only then can we claim to be servants of Allah (swt). Since servitude means serve Allah at all times, not selectively. One who serves his ego cannot be called a servant of Allah.
Often we may feel we are losing out by being fair. This is because we have built ourselves upon Batil whereas if we had built ourselves on Haqq, we would know that truthfulness and fairness adds nothing to us except honour.
Therefore, at our current state we may be selfish. However, at least we have a superficial obedience to Allah (swt), from here we can grow and evolve to become people who are only concerned about the truth and truthfulness.
“In the abode of truthfulness with an omnipotent King”156
Such is the position of the truthful and it will benefit them with a great success;
“Allah will say, ‘This day truthfulness shall benefit the truthful. For them there will be gardens with streams running in them, to remain in them forever.’ Allah is pleased with them and they are pleased with Him. That is the great success”157
May Allah (swt) make us be among the people of truthfulness and then we would not have any problems.
Lecture 39, 22/02/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Loyalty (Wafa)
Exceptions
Summary of this session:
Recap Loyalty (Wafa) Therefore, a believer is one who ensures they deliver on their promise and if unable to do so, they regard it as a debt because to break a promise is much worse as the Prophet (s) would repeatedly say; Exceptions
Previously we discussed truthfulness as the most fundamental quality. It is important to identify and prioritise the more important values over others so that we are more effective by allocating due attention to each quality. We discussed honour, humbleness and fairness and their relationship with truthfulness. Now we will discuss loyalty.
Loyalty is closely-knit with truthfulness and trustworthiness. It can manifest in several forms;
1. Loyalty to a covenant: this is regarding an agreement from 2 or more sides to deliver goods or services in return for something else. We must not question our commitment to an agreement after agreeing. Once we give our word, we must deliver on it as Allah (swt) commands us:
“And fulfil the covenants, indeed all covenants are accountable.”158
Also, to be pious means to fulfil our covenants as Allah (swt);
“Piety is [personified by]… those who fulfil their covenants when they pledge themselves… they are the ones who are true to their covenant.”159
Imam Zayn al-Abideen (as) said all religion is encompassed by these three values:
“Speaking the truth, judging according to justice and keeping promises.”
Therefore, believers are only those whom deliver on their agreements.
2. Loyalty to a promise; this is unilateral and the promisor doesn’t ask for anything in return. Although agreements are more serious than promises yet still the Prophet (s) said:
“A promise is a debt.”
“Woe to those who promise and then break it.”
He also said;
“The promise of a believer is like a debt and when a believer promises it is as if it’s grasped by the hand.”
This means that when someone secures a promise from a believer, it is as if he has already acquired that promised thing. This is how we must strive to become; to give such certainty and trust by our promises.
3. Loyalty in kindness; this is when you are indebted to a person due to their kindness towards you. We must be loyal and grateful to such people out of their kindness. To forget the favours of others on us is detrimental to the development of our social relationships with our family as well as friends and people in society. Therefore, we must be loyal in keeping our relationships and developing them by way of remembering and being grateful for others’ kindness; as Imam Ali (as) said:
“Whoever teaches me one letter has made me his servant.”
Furthermore, in addition to loyalty to teachers, we must be loyal to our organisations. If we are employed and entrusted with secrets, we must not spill their secrets even after resignation.
4. Loyalty to leaders
An important aspect is the loyalty of followers to their leaders; such as that of the companions of Imam Husayn (as) as he said;
“I do not know of any companions better and more loyal than my companions.”
We must not be like the people of Kufa whom were with Muslim ibn Aqeel when he was in ease and power but deserted him when he need them.
5. Loyalty to a trust; this means we must always deliver back to the trustors what they entrusted to us. Here there is no exception as Imam Sadiq (as) said:
“There are three things for which no one is excused: delivering the trust whether to a good person or a wrongdoer, to be kind to your parents whether they are good or bad.”
However, if necessary we may only delay delivery in order to prevent a serious harm e.g. we must not return a weapon to an angry person because out of anger he may kill someone. In such circumstances we must delay delivery to make sure it is then safe to return the property to its owner.
As we previously said, regarding qualities, there are no exceptions; we must always have all good qualities. However, there may be exceptions when we should not exercise good qualities. For example, if truthfulness will endanger an innocent person’s life then it’s best to not tell the truth but in nature we must be truthful.
Regarding loyalty, it must be rooted on truth and pleasure of Allah (swt). Hence if a group we are loyal to, a leader, a family member, a friend or anyone who has been kind to us, if they require disobedience to Allah from us then we cannot act on our loyalty; here we must remain loyal to Allah (swt) as He is the origin of all of our loyalties. Therefore, those to whom we owe loyalty, we only owe loyalty as long as they do not misuse our loyalty to command us to do evil.
Lecture 40, 29/02/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Different types of loyalty
The relationship between loyalty and truthfulness
What are the causes of not observing loyalty?
Closeness to the Prophet (s)
Summary of this session:
Recap Different types of loyalty The relationship between loyalty and truthfulness What are the causes of not observing loyalty? Closeness to the Prophet (s) From this we understand that the best people near Allah (swt) and the Prophet (s) are those who are:
Previously, we discussed loyalty (Wafa) and said that there are different types and hence the word ‘loyalty’ loosely matches the Arabic.
1. Loyalty to agreements (al-Ahd): This is when we agree to do something in return for something such as business contracts or any bilateral or multilateral contracts.
We must be loyal to all agreements we make with others and we must also remain loyal as some people tend to misunderstand and think that a change in prices or circumstances gives them the right to go against their agreement. The Prophet (s) before the advent of Islam, joined a treaty called Hilf al-Fudhul which was among some youths in Mecca to protect the rights of strangers in Mecca. After establishing Islam and becoming a middle aged man, he said he was still loyal to that agreement he made in his youth. Therefore, the Prophet (s) showed that a change in time, position, money, power or age does not invalidate past agreements. Hence, we must always remain loyal to our agreements.
2. Loyalty to promises (al-Wa’d): This is when we unilaterally agree to do something; in other words when we promise. Regarding the importance of this the Prophet (s) said:
“The promise of a believer is a debt and a promise is like actually taking it by the hand.”
The Prophet (s) says that a believer is so loyal to his promises that when he promises it as if you’ve got your hands around it. We must be loyal to our promises if we want to be believers. A promise can be in regards to family, friends, country and any place we have benefitted from. By becoming a citizen of a country, we take a vow of loyalty and we must remain loyal to it, the land where we are born deserves our loyalty. That which benefits us deserves our loyalty, we cannot say we owe nothing to those that benefitted us after sometime as this would not be gratitude. Gratitude is to maintain loyalty to whoever and whatever benefits us. Hence, we cannot be careless in regard to past workplaces, schools, teacher, colleagues, scholars or countries. Therefore, even when formalities stop, our relationships must continue.
This also applies to marriage, one of the best unions. We must not be careless towards our past spouses and we must feel responsible towards them because these are people we shared good times with. Hence, our loyalty must continue after divorce. Therefore, loyalty is very comprehensive.
Loyalty has a close relationship to truthfulness. If we sign an agreement or make a promise while having no intention of honouring our words then we are not being truthful. Likewise when we honestly agree but then we refuse to abide by the agreement later, we are also not being truthful because a part of being truthful is to fulfil what you say. Therefore, a believer must remain loyal to his words if he wants to be truthful.
In addition to general truthfulness, we must be in servitude of the absolute truth (al-Haqq) which is Allah (swt). Even though there may not be legal obligation on us to remain loyal to our promises or agreements, there is always a moral obligation. Hence, someone who wants to be truthful must be in servitude to Allah (swt), the absolute truth and reality. Being in servitude to Allah means that we must observe rights given to people by Allah (Haqq al-Nas). Rights of people on us include our loyalty to them after agreements or promises. Hence, it also includes loyalty to them after our formalities such as employment ends. Therefore, we have a god given right to fulfil by being loyal to them. This is the relationship between truthfulness, loyalty and the truth.
Allah (swt) says:
“But humans desire to go on living viciously.”160
When a person is not spiritually trained, they avoid anything which would restrict their desires because they want to do whatever they wish. The rights of people, loyalty and commitment to truth & Allah (swt) are factors that limit us from being vicious. This is another relation between truthfulness and loyalty; a truthful person is committed to truth, loyal to it. Hence, those who do not observe loyalty are reluctant of observing the truth because both these are restricting factors against vices.
The concept of the absolute truth (al-Haqq) and the observance of truth necessitates that humans stop living viciously and become virtues in living. Hence, either we must adhere to what is the reality because it is according to the absolute truth or if we are living viciously, change our living to what should be the reality i.e. one based on virtues not vices.
The noble Prophet (s) said:
“The nearest of you to me tomorrow when we all stand before Allah (swt) are those of you who are most truthful in speech, most careful as trustees, most loyal to covenants, best in their ethics (Akhlaq) and those who are nearest to people.”
1. Truthful in speech.
2. Most trustworthy as trustees.
Ada al-‘Amanah is more inclusive than being good trustees because it concerns all safeguarding such as supporting the most qualified person for a role. If we were to support a person for a position, knowing they are not most qualified then we are not fulfilling the requirement of ‘Amanah which seeks to bring security; here we would be doing Khiyanah (Betrayal) by betraying the trust of people and undermining the integrity of a community by positioning lesser people over better people.
3. Most loyal to agreements.
4. Ethically best in their character.
5. Near to people.
Therefore, in order to be closer to Allah (swt) and the Prophet (s) we must be close to people. This can only be done in humbleness towards people. The more a person becomes humble, the more he loves other people and understands them. If a person feels he is above others, he is becoming distant from people as well as from Allah (swt).
No one who claims greatness is great whereas those who are humble are great. What the Prophet (s) wants from us is truthfulness, loyalty, trustworthiness, being good natured and being close to people.
Lecture 41, 07/03/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
A narration for reflection
Connection to other virtues
Gratefulness
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Recap A narration for reflection Connection to other virtues Gratefulness Conclusion
Previously we discussed loyalty and said it can be in regards to Allah (swt), other people, bilateral and unilateral agreements. We also said that loyalty to a person, group, organisation, country or land, is important in the sense that we must be thankful to them for their benefit to us.
Imam Baqir (as) said:
“There are four things that whoever possesses them his Islam is complete, he would be assisted with respect to his faith, he would be cleansed from all his sins, and he would meet his Lord while He is pleased with him, and even if this person has sins from the top of his head up to his feet, these sins will be dropped by Allah (swt): to be loyal to what he undertakes to do for Allah (swt); to be truthful in speech with people; to have shame (Haya) from doing things which are considered as ugly by Allah (swt); and to have a good temperament with his family and with people”.161
Four qualities would give the following benefits:
1. Completion of the person’s Islam
2. Assistance in faith.
3. Cleansing of all sins.
4. Pleasure of Allah (swt).
The four qualities are:
1. To be loyal in regard to what he undertakes to do for Allah (swt).
2. To be truthful with people
3. To have shame from committing immoral acts that are seen as ugly by Allah (swt).
4. To have a good nature with his family and with people.
Then Imam (as) said:
“There are four things that if any faithful person has these then Allah (swt) will let him settle in the highest of positions, in a room above all other places, and in a place of honour which is perfect in being honourable: one who cares for an orphan, has concern for him, and acts as a father for him; one who shows kindness and mercy (Rahmah) to a person who is weak and helps him and provides him with what he needs; one who spends on his parents and is very kind and considerate with them, makes them happy, and does not make them sad; and one who helps a slave/maid/employee, and does not force him to do something that he cannot do.”
Four actions will allow a person to be in the highest of positions near Allah (swt) and to attain honour near Allah (swt):
1. Caring for an orphan; being a parent to him/her.
2. Showing kindness and mercy to the weak and helping him and providing for him.
3. Spending on one’s parents, making them happy and avoiding making them sad.
4. Helping a slave, maid or an employee in their tasks and not forcing them beyond their limit.
As we can see, the first of the four qualities is loyalty. This shows how important loyalty is. In addition the Quran also stresses upon loyalty:
“So long as they are steadfast with you, be steadfast with them. Indeed Allah loves the God-wary.”
The verse tells us that a requirement of god wariness (Taqwa) is being loyal to agreements. The context of the verse is that the pagans who were killing and torturing Muslims were granted amnesty by the Prophet (s) and then the Quran says you must be loyal to your agreement and not commit any hostile acts against them as long as they honour their side of the agreement.
In addition to being loyal to your former killers and torturers’ amnesty, Allah (swt) says you cannot even help Muslims if your help to them is against a faction with whom you have a treaty with:
“And if they seek help of you for the religion, then you must help, except against a people with whom you have a treaty. And Allah is seeing of what you do.”162
This shows how important it is to be loyal and the Prophet (s) said:
“The one who does not show loyalty to his treaty is not a believer.”
In another narration the Prophet (s) said:
“Whoever has faith in Allah and in the day of judgement must keep his promise when he promises.”
Islam wants a society full of trust. Otherwise if there is no trust then nothing works, you cannot trust anyone when it comes to business, family and everything else even the concept of language would not work if people say what they don’t mean; life without trust is hell on earth. For this reason loyalty is fundamental because it maintains a level of trust in society by which we can function.
Hence loyalty is connected to truthfulness and justice because loyalty means to be true to one’s word and promises. When we agree to do something, we are giving the person a right over us, even if it’s unilateral. If we do not observe that right then we have committed injustice. To be truthful and honest means to do your best to carry out your promises. If it is not possible then it must be compensated and the damages must be prevented because you have misled someone to expect from you and plan based on your words.
It is also important to be grateful for every good thing in our past and present. Even after commitments end e.g. graduation or divorce, we must be grateful for the good times we had with people in the past such as a former spouse, teacher, friend, employee and employer. Betrayal is never acceptable including to one’s country.
Ultimately, we must be in service of the truth (al-Haqq). Then we would not do anything which would reduce trust in society such as disregarding promises.
May Allah (swt) make us people of loyalty and let us be known by it.
Lecture 42, 14/03/2016
Video Audio
Lecture 43, 04/04/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Mubahathah (Discussion)
Islamic studies
Study (Mutala’ah)
Subject interests
Summary of this session:
Recap Mubahathah (Discussion) Islamic studies Study (Mutala’ah) Subject interests
We previously discussed the etiquettes of Mubahisah and some aspects of Hawza studies.
Shaheed Thani says regarding Mubahathah:
1. It is a reconstruction of the class.
2. It helps to memorise.
3. It improves our ability to communicate, express ourselves and ask questions.
4. It must be done straight after class.
5. It must be done with regular attendees.
6. It must be performed with a fresh memory, quickly after class.
7. We can verbalise what we have learned with ourselves if no one is available and this is helpful as we can hear ourselves speak.
8. Success is unlikely for a person who does not do Mubahathah.
9. It should not be done in the presences of the teacher unless the teacher asks.
Traditional Islamic studies must be done in groups. Friends are very important to study and discuss with. Discussions must be done without assigning the speaker beforehand because it will cause laziness in others. If we do not do Mubahathah then we will later realise that what we had thought we understood, we cannot teach to another person because we haven’t developed our presentation skills.
In discussions it is important to avoid arguing unwisely (Mira’); an argument for the sake of arguing or ego.
“May Allah’s mercy be upon the person who stops Mira’ even though he is right.”
If we are right but we see that despite repeating ourselves clearly three times, the other side refuses to listen then we must leave it. It is may be due to a problem in you, the other or perhaps the time is not right. People’s egos become involved and hence discussions must stop as it may lead to bitter confliction. Just as countries have rounds of political talks, not one long talk, we must also try and approach an issue to discuss in several rounds. We must also bear in mind not to insist on our opinion, it is possible we are mistaken.
Although self-study is possible, but it will never be as effective as learning with a teacher. The best teacher will not forcefully make a person a learned person. We must control our own studies in order to become so. We must know what we want to learn and achieve and why we are studying a subject.
We must also check ourselves to see how much we have progressed every few months. If we don’t notice good advancements, then it is a point of concern. We must be doing something wrong. We must be conscious of our study plan and make sure to apply it.
We may have a particular interest in a subject. This is helpful in those subjects as it grants us more concentration however it may also cause a disinterest in us for other subjects. Hence it is important to know that Islamic studies is a holistic package and we must study all necessary subjects for becoming a well-rounded scholar and develop a holistic understanding of Islam. We cannot start specialising in one subject without having a basic understanding in all other necessary subjects. Specialisation comes later when we are learned in all the subjects of Islam.
We should also try to take extra classes in holidays because Hawza time is limited and we must utilise our free time for extra studies. If we do not study in our holidays, then it will cause us to lose our edge. Hence, studies must never stop because it will cause forgetfulness and it will take time to start studying again. There is a saying:
“If you do not give your whole self to knowledge then it will not give part of itself to you.”
Hence, we must dedicate all of our efforts and time for gaining knowledge.
“They question you concerning the Spirit. Say, “The Spirit is of the command of my Lord, and you have not been given of the knowledge except a little.”163
Lecture 44, 11/04/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Etiquettes of studying and reading
Reading
Choosing what to read
Rational judgements
Reading list
Making reading part of our lives
Summary of this session:
Etiquettes of studying and reading Allah (swt) says: Reading Choosing what to read Rational judgements Reading list Making reading part of our lives
After etiquettes of Mubahathah, we will now discuss etiquettes of studying and reading and their importance.
Part of rationality is to have an interest in learning because a necessity for rationality is knowledge and hence, a rational person is always hungry for knowledge. Since knowledge is important, it necessitates the means of knowledge. One such means for knowledge is listening. Hence a requirement of rationality is to be good listeners. If someone just wants to speak and refuses to listen, then it’s a sign of overconfidence in his knowledge. Therefore, a sign of rationality is good listening as a rational person wants to receive information through criticisms, feedback so that their intellect can continue to function and improve.
“So, give glad tidings to my servants who listen to speech and follow the best of it. Those are the ones Allah has guided, and those are people of understanding.”164
The rightly guided and rational people are those who listen to all speech and act on the best of it. This is for those who are able to discern. However, for those who struggle to discern between truth and falsehood, it is not good to listen to everything. On the other hand, for those who can discern, they must listen to religious and non-religious people as well as friends and enemies and then act on the best of all.
Reading is another important means of gaining knowledge; which rationality requires. We must seek to make reading a habit for ourselves. Have you considered how, generally, people who are habitual readers are more rational and serious than people who do not read? This is only due to their taking knowledge seriously.
Rationality also comes with challenging questions however, this is not necessary at a young age. Instead we must teach children to learn, listen, debate and read.
We must also try to read only that which is useful to read; any text which helps a person to increase their useful knowledge. Texts which are useful also tend to be less entertaining than other texts which may give quick and instant enjoyment. However, we must desist from laziness to read longer and more useful texts. For the sake of our mind, we must be involved in mentally stimulating and educational activities such as listening, discussing and reading.
For normal people, who work every day for a living, those who have little free time, must at least read an hour a day. However, for students, there is no limit. If they’re able to, students must spend 12 hours per day studying, reading, discussing and any shortcomings due to necessities of living such as shopping, travelling, family time are excused, but the point is that their main occupation must be gaining knowledge.
Therefore, we must make reading a habit and to read serious texts. Of course, for children, we can start by getting them attached to reading through entertaining story books.
Not every book is worth reading. What we read occupies our mind, especially subconsciously and hence shapes our behaviour. In this sense, it may be harmful to read some books that are encouraging a deviant mentality.
However, reading worthy books must be incorporated in our daily lives. Its importance is highlighted by Allah (swt) when he commands us in the Quran to read:
“Read! In the name of your Lord who created.”165
Unfortunately, today we have a trend of reading little and quickly. This lacks depth and potential for development because by such reading we can never understand any topic properly. Which is why instant things being not necessarily good. To be instant in deciding is also not rational and hence why immoral marketing practices exist today where they give a limited time offer in order to make people rush into making quick and irrational decisions. Some other people rush into marriages and businesses that end up unsuccessful because due time was not taken for proper thinking and consultation before deciding.
What differentiates humans from animals is our rationality. We take time to think and try to develop and change for the better. Whereas animals are reactionary and quick to respond to prey and predator. Therefore, we must be human by being rational and continuously seek to improve ourselves with consultation, learning from others’ experience and rationality.
However, we must not hesitate too much in the name of careful decision making. Those who are successful take small risks and those who don’t progress aren’t risk takers. We must take risks but in a measured way because nothing will ever give us complete certainty regarding its outcome e.g. marriage, we can never know if it will be successful or not and hence it is always a risk. However, those who don’t take that small measured risk remain unsuccessful and single for far too long; even in the end the possibility of divorce exists. Therefore, we must be rational in our judgement; timely and with consultation.
Rational people are also predictable, hence reliable. Whereas emotional people are reactionary to immediate situations. A rational human can be trusted to not act emotionally without thoughtful consideration. Whereas an emotional person just acts based on whatever is influencing his emotions.
It is essential to receive feedback for our works even if we are not going to act on it because simply knowing our performance is good for us. It is useful and necessary to see how much we are achieving our aims through feedback, even if it is done for the sake of Allah, we must ensure we are doing it properly.
Although, we must bear in mind that a rational person may struggle to benefit from feedbacks if he is able to find faults and disagree with the feedback. Therefore, we must not become closed minded to feedback even if we see that it is not wholly true.
As a result, in today’s culture, we must make further efforts to encourage everyone to develop a habit of reading, especially reading in depth and according to a useful structure.
Every person should have a reading list. For students, the main component of their studies are the textbooks however, in addition they should have supplementary books to study in their free time. A list could be for 6 months or a year.
However, there are people who have a long list of books but people who put aside books without finishing them, such people would not succeed because they leave everything prematurely. We must try to study in an organised structure to better help with a certain area of learning. we must prioritise our reading list and this would vary for each person based on their background.
In Islamic studies, you can have three types of lists; one for teenagers, one for adults and one for those who wish to become experts and carry on in formal studies.
We must also be consciously picking what to read, not due to publicity or advertising. We must have control over what we read.
We need to have activities and tactics to make reading a habit. One suggestion is to maintain a strong connection to the Quran and the Ahl ul-Bayt by focusing on verses and narrations as a whole family, for some minutes on one narration each day for a week. Another suggestion is to have family and friends with whom to read something, this would make it more beneficial and interesting. In addition, in order to understand the Quran, we must read other texts in explanation of the Quran to have a proper understanding.
Lecture 45, 18/04/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Time of reading
Place of reading
Setting of furniture
Wudhu
Supplication before reading and studying
Choosing an appropriate book
Methods of reading
Taking notes
Self-study and taught books
Q & A
Summary of this session:
Recap Time of reading Place of reading Setting of furniture Wudhu Supplication before reading and studying أللهمّ أخرجني من ظلمات الوهم و أكرمني بنور الفهم We supplicate to Allah (swt) because the deposit of everything is with Allah (swt): Choosing an appropriate book Methods of reading Taking notes Self-study and taught books Q & A
Previously we discussed the etiquettes of reading, the significance of reading and what we should read.
For students there isn’t a limitation on how much they should read as studying is their main occupation. However, times which are more suitable for reading must be used for reading difficult texts. Other times where there may be some noise, it is best to read other materials which are easier to understand.
For normal people, who have only an hour or two per day to study besides their main occupations, they must reserve the best time for reading. This is when the body is fresh and awake such as early morning. One must not try studying after eating as this causes tiredness especially a heavy meal.
We need to have a suitable place for reading. Although everyone has different preferences but normally a study room or the library is good. In such places our minds are aware that it is for study. Therefore, as much as possible we should reserve our place of study for only studying. It is not good to try and study in a place we normally sleep because our bodies would naturally feel sleepy there. If we need to speak to someone then it’s better to train ourselves to only speak when outside our study room.
In addition, we should hang some pictures of righteous scholars such as Ayatollah Mutahhari as role models to motivate us in our study room.
If possible, we should set our furniture in a way that it faces Qiblah because the studying is also worship.
We should be in Wudhu during studying and face Qiblah and start in the name of Allah because knowledge comes from Allah (swt).
This short Dua is good to recite before studying:
أللهمّ افتح علينا ابواب رحمتك و انشر علينا خزائن علومك
برحمتك يا ارحم الراحمين
“O Allah, take me out of the darkness of misunderstanding, and honour me with the light of understanding. O Allah, open for us the gates of Your mercy, and spread for us the treasures of Your knowledge. By Your mercy, O the Most Merciful of the merciful.”
“And there is not a thing but that with Us are its depositories, and We do not send it down except according to a known measure.”166
The Dua also teaches us to say ‘me’ when we are mentioning a fault and say ‘we’ when we are mentioning something good.
We must choose books that are at our level and matches our interests. If they have prerequisites, then we must study them first. In order to find out whether a book is suitable we must ask other people who have studied it.
In Hawza, we consider a book from several aspects before approving it for studies such as its prerequisites, what it leads to, the author’s ability in presentation and the style of the book. If it still proves difficult for the reader it may be that it’s the best available choice but it’s not perfect.
We also want to train students. Sometimes books are picked despite being difficult to read in order to strengthen the students reading ability. This is the benefit of being under a structured program led by the expertise of others.
After choosing a book which is suitable, we must ensure to carry on with it until the end and not to leave a book unfinished. Unless we realise the book is actually bad. If we don’t finish anything then it will not allow our confidence to grow.
Depending on the book, especially scholarly ones, it is not sufficient to read it once as this does not allow us to retain enough of the information. Therefore, we should have a first quick reading and then a second in depth reading so that we first build a frame for the book in our minds and then fill it with content afterwards.
1. Do not copy and paste from the book, instead read, understand and then write in your own words what you’ve understood.
2. Only write down two components; 1. The main flow of ideas for mental organisation and 2. The key points that are enlightening or references to other good books.
Overtime, as a person’s knowledge increases his note taking decreases because more becomes obvious to him. It is also necessary to review one’s notes or else it’s pointless.
The best way of learning is by having questions related to that subject. This creates a thirst and motivation for reading on the subject and hence allows for better concentration and understanding. Therefore, before reading a book, try and come up with questions that the book may be addressing.
Not all books can be studied alone. Some books require a teacher otherwise we may misunderstand. While misunderstanding isn’t as serious in material sciences, in religious studies a misunderstanding in religion would cause a loss of faith, which would in turn ruin our lives in this world and the Hereafter. Hence, some books such as Asfar by Mullah Sadra need prerequisites and a teacher.
In Hawza we ensure we are studying a book properly by paying close attention to each line. Without finishing one book we do not move on unlike universities. Ours is not based on a number of modules. Alhumdolillah, we also do not have unhealthy differences in opinions because of the patience in studying as many people study for 15 to 20 years and in addition they discuss with others to ensure against mistakes.
Listening to the teacher and physically being present with them is also far better than online lectures. Recordings must only be used as substitutes when the teacher isn’t available.
There is a theory for reading called the 80/20 rule because 20% of the book is the main content and 80% is explanation of the 20%. As previously said, reading quickly once and then reading against in detail helps to identify the 20% first and then examine the 80% in the latter reading.
Question: Is it good to highlight while reading?
Answer: Yes, that is one way of taking notes. However, it is better to summarise what we read in our own words and then examine how much we have taken in.
Question: What is the best time to read?
Answer: it is best to read before Fajr and if not possible then at least between Fajr and sunrise. Although this requires that you must have enough sleep so that you are fresh in those early hours. Other than these, any time is good opportunity, but we must select the right text for the right time.
Question: In England it is very difficult to be well rested before Fajr, what then?
Answer: Yes, it is difficult to organise due to the changes in the length of the night over the year. So as far as possible we can try but I don’t want to disturb your ordinary life.
Question: How many hours is ideal to sleep in 24 hours?
Answer: 6-8 hours depending on age and lifestyle.
Question: But Imam Khomeini only slept 3 hours per night.
Answer: I don’t know about that. However, I know he must have slept properly to be able to study.
Question: How long should each reading session be before taking a break?
Answer: About 40 minutes before taking a break, although some individuals may differ from the norm.
Question: Is it fine to spend a whole day with just one book?
Answer: It is acceptable if it’s done in preparation for an exam. However, normally we should have a selection of books for reading so that if we get tired of one book, we can switch to another.
Question: I sometimes read a whole book in 2 days but then end up not being able to read for a whole month, what do you suggest?
Answer: Imam Ali (as) says:
“The little you do that is continuous is better than the great amount that is then abandoned.”
Therefore, you should always keep at least the minimum one hour per day for reading but for students one hour is too little.
Lecture 46, 19/09/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Gratitude
Hadith
A prayer
Summary of this session:
Recap Gratitude Imam Hadi (as) said: A prayer
We began with discussing Akhlaq, its subject, development and differences with philosophy of ethics. We then discussed different theories of normative ethics, Islamic theories and its ultimate aim. We concluded the main aim of Islamic ethics is nearness to Allah which equates to the development of humanity. We then identified truthfulness as the core quality that is most fundamental and we also discussed its relation to honour & dignity in Islam.
In addition we discussed the fundamentality of fairness, humbleness and loyalty. After which we studied etiquettes of Mubahathah, studying and reading.
We will now continue our discussion of virtues within Islamic ethics.
Gratitude is the key to success whether in this world or in the Hereafter, in gaining nearness to people and/or Allah. Whereas ingratitude is the key to failure and it will get us nowhere.
Gratitude (Shukr) is inclusive of thankfulness, love and humbleness. If one is not humble then he cannot be grateful.
Allah (swt) says:
“And when your Lord proclaimed, “If you are grateful, I will surely enhance you [in blessing], but if you are ungrateful, My punishment is indeed severe.”167
This verse suggests that the key to ever succeeding from a godly perspective is to be grateful whereas the end of ingratitude is a severe punishment.
Allah (swt) also says:
فَاذْكُرُونِي أَذْكُرْكُمْ وَاشْكُرُواْ لِي وَلاَ تَكْفُرُونِ
“Remember Me, I will remember you and thank Me and do not be ungrateful to Me.”168
This verse may also translate as:
“Remember Me, I will remember you and thank Me and do not disbelieve in me.”
Both translations are correct and complement each other’s meanings because the word ‘Kufr’ which is used can mean ‘ingratitude’, ‘disbelief’ or ‘denial’ of truth. Therefore, not accepting the truth is considered disbelief in the absolute truth (al-Haqq). This disbelief is one of denial of the truth but also of the multitude of blessings from Allah (swt). Hence, denying that we received anything is ingratitude because it is in denial of the truth which is that we are utterly dependent on Allah and everything which we have is from Him.
In addition, it is not that Allah (swt) has forgotten us and our thanks will cause him to remember us. Rather by ‘I will remember you’ it means Allah (swt) will remember our needs and will further favour us with blessings.
Then the opposite of this would be to forget Allah (swt) meaning deny the truth and disbelieve and as a result they will be forgotten, meaning they will not be favoured;
“And whoever turns away from My remembrance – indeed, he will have a depressed life, and We will gather him on the Day of Resurrection blind. He will say, ‘My Lord, why have you raised me blind while I was [once] seeing?’ [Allah] will say, ‘Thus did Our signs come to you, and you forgot them; and thus, will you this Day be forgotten.”169
Allah (swt) says:
“O House of David, observe thanksgiving, and only a few of My servants are very grateful.”170
Regarding this verse Imam Sadiq (as) says:
“Had there existed any kind of worship in the eyes of Allah that those who are pure performed better than thanksgiving, Allah would have mentioned that in this verse. However, because there was nothing more important than thanksgiving, Allah only mentioned thanksgiving and the people who have are grateful.”171
Allah (swt) also says:
إِنَّا هَدَيْنَاهُ السَّبِيلَ إِمَّا شَاكِرًا وَإِمَّا كَفُورًا
“Indeed We have guided him to the way, be he grateful or ungrateful.”172
The term used for ‘grateful’ is not a superlative, but the term used for ingratitude is a superlative. This means that one cannot be fully grateful for everything however, our smallest ungratefulness is indeed great because we are so greatly blessed by Allah (swt) and so any ingratitude to Him is severe due to the denial being so vast and clearly erroneous.
To be ungrateful to Allah (swt) also causes disbelief in Allah (swt), disobedience to Allah (swt) and displeasing Him as well as all other bad outcomes. This is because a natural tendency of humans is to seek out the one who has favoured us and has gifted us something; we would naturally seek that person in order to thank him, if we are good humans. Therefore, one who acknowledges that he has been blessed by a being with existence and all else, would seek out that being, which is Allah (swt). However, one who denies being favoured and blessed would not feel any need to seek out the giver and hence he would not have any motivation to seek and thank Allah (swt). Therefore, thankfulness is the response of believers whereas ingratitude is the attitude of disbelievers.
So the verse is saying that after we have been created free and have been guided to the right path, we can either believe which is gratitude or disbelieve which is gross ingratitude.
Regarding Allah (swt), one of his attributes is that He is the ‘very grateful’. Whereas very few, special servants of Allah (swt) are able to achieve being ‘very thankful’ to Allah. This is because when we thank Allah (swt), we are never able to fully appreciate all of his blessings. However, when Allah is thankful to us for the good that we do, He is rather thanking us about something which Allah (swt) doesn’t even need, so since His appreciation for our acts are more than what we deserve He is being ‘very grateful’ and hence why His name is superlative; al-Shakur. His gratitude can be likened to that of parents from their one year old child who does something to help the parents, even though his help is more of a burden to the parents because now the parents have to leave everything to make sure the child doesn’t hurt himself. Yet parents still become so grateful and happy that their child cares about them and is wishing to help. Similarly, Allah (swt) is very appreciative and thankful for our good deeds even though it does not benefit him the least.
Allah (swt) says:
“Who is it that would loan Allah a goodly loan so He may multiply it for him many times over? And it is Allah who withholds and grants abundance, and to Him you will be returned.”173
Allah (swt) is the bestower of everything we have. Then He asks us to loan Him some of what He has given us, then He multiplies our loan several fold in return. This is why He is overly thankful, not just thankful because He is thankful to us for loaning Him a very small and insignificant amount of what He has bestowed upon us.
We should therefore be always thankful to Allah (swt) and this requires acknowledgement because you cannot be grateful without knowing what you have been given. Another requirement is humbleness because someone who is arrogant will not acknowledge that what he has is given to him, instead such people claim that they were capable and have what they have due to their own efforts like Qarun:
“Indeed, Qarun was from the people of Moses, but he tyrannized them. And We gave him of treasures whose keys would burden a band of strong men; thereupon his people said to him, ‘Do not exult. Indeed, Allah does not like the exultant. But seek, through that which Allah has given you, the home of the Hereafter; and [yet], do not forget your share of the world. And do good as Allah has done good to you. And desire not corruption in the land. Indeed, Allah does not like corrupters. He said, ‘I was only given it because of knowledge I have.’”174
Hence due to his arrogance he was ungrateful. He lost everything;
“And We caused the earth to swallow him and his home.”175
Then people who wished to be him realised:
“’Oh, how Allah extends provision to whom He wills of His servants and restricts it! If not that Allah had conferred favour on us, He would have caused it to swallow us. Oh, how the disbelievers do not succeed!’”
Therefore, having more does not necessarily mean we have been favoured. As the verses show us that Allah restricts provision for His servants or else it can lead us to further harm ourselves. This is a mercy from our Lord when we are limited in our power and resources because everything comes with responsibility. Hence, the more we are given the more we would have to answer for. The worst is when a person becomes so corrupted and sinful that he rejects every message and warning, such a person is then given whatever he desires so that they continue increasing in sin:
“And let not those who disbelieve ever think that [because] We extend their time [of enjoyment] it is better for them. We only extend it for them so that they may increase in sin, and for them is a humiliating punishment.”176
However, with gratefulness, when we receive more, it is due to our capacity and responsibility growing and hence we are capable of using what we have rightly.
“’Said Jesus, the son of Mary, ‘O Allah, our Lord, send down to us a table [spread with food] from the heaven to be for us a festival… and a sign from You… Allah said, ‘Indeed, I will sent it down to you, but whoever disbelieves afterwards from among you – then indeed will I punish him with a punishment by which I have not punished anyone among the worlds.’”177
Those who disbelieve after Allah (swt) has become more manifest for them are more deserving of punishment than one who has received less. Hence, why those who receive more are answerable to more. If someone disbelieves after having the Quran and the Ahlul Bayt then they are worse than someone who disbelieves without any of them:
“Then, that day, you will surely be questioned concerning the blessing.”178
Hadith
Imam Ali (as) said:
“The first thing that becomes obligatory upon you for the sake of Allah is to thank Him for His blessings and to seek His pleasures.”179
Hence, why I mentioned gratitude as one of the most fundamental values in Islam; because Imam Ali (as) says the foremost duty of ours to thank Allah and seek whatever pleases Him.
“One who is gives thanks is happier due to his thankfulness than that which makes him be thankful.”
If, for example, a thankful person is given wealth, and he thanks Allah, thanking Allah gives him more felicity than the wealth he is thanking for:
“Because the blessings are provisions; but gratefulness is a blessing and will last [for the Hereafter].”
Provisions are asked about but thankfulness is rewarded in the Hereafter.
May Allah (swt) enable us to thank Him properly by understanding and humbleness and realise that we can never thank him enough. And all praise is for Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 47, 26/09/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Further verses on gratitude
Narrations on gratitude
In relation to this the Prophet (s) has said
Being grateful requires gratefulness
Imam Sadiq (as) has said
Reality of gratitude
A prayer
Summary of this session:
Recap Further verses on gratitude Narrations on gratitude In relation to this the Prophet (s) has said:“Never has Allah (swt) opened the gate of gratefulness to any servant but then closed the gate of increase.” Being grateful requires gratefulness Imam Sadiq (as) has said: Reality of gratitude A prayer
We started discussing gratefulness, we mentioned some verses of the Quran and narrations.
“Why would Allah cause you to suffer if you are grateful and believe? And ever is Allah appreciative and knowing.”180
I believe the verse is saying “how is Allah going to punish you if you are grateful and believe?” Here gratefulness is mentioned before belief which confirms the relationship between faith and gratefulness:
“Indeed, We have guided him to the way, be he grateful or ungrateful.”181
This shows that we can either be grateful for the guidance by believing or we can be ungrateful and disregard the invitation to guidance, but of course we must be grateful and accept:
“O you who have faith, answer Allah and the messenger when he calls you calls you to that which gives you life and know that Allah intervenes between a man and his heart and that to Him you will be gathered.”182
Therefore, a believer is one who is grateful, and this means he has acknowledged and accepted the call towards guidance. The acceptance here doesn’t mean only a verbal acceptance of Islam but rather it means a proper commitment to all requirements of true faith (‘Iman) such that he is faithful and righteous by nature. Since he does not act contrary to his faith, he has no way of ending up in Hell.
The Quran states:
“And when your Lord proclaimed, “If you are grateful I will surely increase you but if you are ungrateful, indeed My punishment is severe.”183
Therefore, whenever we are grateful, we will be increased.
Imam Ali (as) said:
“Allah (swt) has not blessed a servant a blessing which he has been thankful for by his heart except that it has entitled him to increase in that blessing before he declares his gratefulness on his tongue.”
There is a time between feeling grateful and verbally expressing it, Allah (swt) increases us for our gratefulness as soon as we feel it, before we even get the chance to express it verbally.
Even the feeling of gratitude is a blessing that is granted by Allah (swt). Hence, we must be grateful for being granted this feeling; Imam Zayn al-Abideen (as) in his prayers said:
“How can I achieve gratitude while being grateful to You requires me to thank you again. So, whenever I say, ‘All praise is due to You’ then it is obligatory on me to repeat ‘All praise is due to You.’”
This shows that we can never do anything for Allah to show thankfulness, yet it also shows us that it is very easy to get closer to Allah (swt) because all we need to do is improve our understanding. It also shows that the fact that we are able to thank Allah is a blessing as there are many people who cannot thank Allah due to their arrogance.
In addition when we thank Allah (swt), we place ourselves among the thankful servants of Allah such as the prophet Muhammad (s), the Ahlul Bayt; hence by thanking Allah we are promoting and honouring ourselves as those who praise goodness are only able to because they are good natured as a bad person cannot be bad if he is an admirer of goodness just as a person who admires evilness cannot be good.
“Allah (said) revealed to Musa (as) ’O Musa! Thank Me in the way that I deserve to be thanked.’ He asked: ‘O my Lord! And how can I thank You in the way that You deserve when every thanking is a blessing that You have blessed me with?’ [Allah (swt)] said: ‘Now that you have understood this [feeling of thanking Me] was from me you have thanked Me properly.’
Therefore, we must be thankful to Allah but in addition to truly thank Allah, we must acknowledge that the ability to be thankful to Him is also a blessing that deserves further gratitude.
It is wrong to think we are returning something to Allah by thanking Him as it will lead to arrogance. To be humble means to realise that we are not doing anything significant by thanking Him. Those who are arrogant find it difficult to accept that others have done them a favour. They lessen what is great whereas the humble magnify the good deeds of others. Hence, we must also consider our actions very little when done for others and be thankful for their kindness to us.
Since there are obstacles to being thankful it shows that the ability to be thankful is not granted arbitrarily. Rather something allows some to be grateful and others ungrateful.
“Thankfulness for every blessing is to keep a distance from what Allah has forbid.”
Gratitude for blessings is what protects the blessed from sins. In addition, it is to keep a distance, to not even allow an opportunity for sinning.
“The most cautious [from sins] among people are those who do not even go near what is doubtful.”
“We said, ‘O Adam, dwell with your mate in paradise, and eat thereof freely whenever you wish; but do not approach this tree, lest you should be among the wrongdoers.’”184
Therefore, in order to be truly grateful and not pretentious is to not misuse blessings for acts of disobedience or for harming others;
Imam Ali (as) said:
“If you gain power over you enemy, making pardoning him a means of gratitude for having been granted power over him.”
The fact that Allah (swt) has made you able to overpower him should make you feel that now, as a sign of gratitude to Allah (swt), you should forgive him. Power is also a blessing that must only be used to please Allah (swt). Therefore, if we gain power over our enemies, we must show mercy e.g. even if it’s gaining power over colleagues or employers, we must observe mercy as a means of gratitude to Allah (swt).
May Allah (swt) makes us conscious of our utter dependence on Him and make us grateful to Him. May Allah (swt) increase us in knowledge, His acknowledgement and keep us away from temptations of Shaytan and our own egos, so that we may serve Allah (swt) day and night.
Lecture 48, 03/10/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
More narrations
Grateful people
Summary of this session:
Recap More narrations Grateful people
Previously, we discussed the reality of gratitude. We ended on a narration which introduced forgiveness as a means of being thankful for overpowering your enemies.
Imam Baqir (as) said:
“Consider your small amount of sustenance from Allah (swt) as a lot, so that you reach a position of gratitude.”
Those who are grateful never underestimate what they have been given. Even when nothing is given, we still have a lot to be thankful for such as family, friends and other resources besides money. Hence, we must not only consider our wealth but rather we have many things to always be thankful for.
Imam Sadiq (as) said:
“Gratefulness for a blessing is to avoid committing a sin and the completion of gratitude is to say “Alhumdolillah Rabb al-‘alamin.”185
Even if a person only acknowledges in his heart, without expressing his gratitude verbally, he has thanked Allah (swt). However, to also verbally thank Allah is an enhancement of his gratitude.
Imam Sadiq (as) said:
“Whenever Allah’s prophet (s) would encounter a matter that made him happy, he would say ‘All praise is due to Allah for this blessing.’ And when he would encounter a matter that made him sad, he would say ‘All praise is due to Allah upon every state.’”
Therefore, we must be grateful at all times, not just when we receive what we like. Just as when a doctor prescribes what we like or we don’t like, we are obedient and appreciative of his service even if we are not happy with it, we know he is prescribing for our good; so does Allah give us what is good for us, be it what we like or dislike, it is good for us whether we know it or not and we must be thankful. If we are only grateful when we get what we like, then we would be nothing better than dogs whom also appreciate being given food, but they don’t complain if left hungry; to be a human means we must be better than dogs. Hence, we must be grateful for what we have and what we don’t have. When we have, we should share with others and when we do not have, we must be grateful to Allah (swt).
Imam Sadiq (as) said:
“The lowest level of gratefulness is to see that the blessing you have received comes from Allah, without attributing it to any other than Allah. And to be pleased with what Allah has bestowed. And not to disobey Him with His favour. And not to disobey Him in what He has commanded or prohibited, because of these blessings.”
Hence the lowest level is to:
1. Acknowledge it is from Allah (swt) despite other people are involved as means.
This means we must also thank people, but we must not see them as independent from Allah.
2. Be pleased with what we are blessed with.
3. Not to use the blessing for disobeying Allah.
4. Due to gratitude for the blessings, we must be ashamed to disobey Allah in anything else.
Therefore, gratitude is a matter of understanding. In addition, it is to acknowledge it because sometimes we understand who the bestower is, but we do not have the decency to acknowledge it in our hearts. E.g. someone might advise us kindly, but we take it in a bad way, rather than being thankful. Hence, true gratitude is what causes love and respect to develop for the bestower; whether that is Allah (swt), our spouse, children, teachers or any other people. Once a person develops that love and respect then they would be restricted by that love from committing displeasing acts.
Imam Ali (as) said:
“The most thankful of people is the most content. And the most ungrateful of people towards bounties are the greediest.”
The thankful do not forget past blessings, as a result they are content because they remember what they have. Whereas those who are forgetful of blessings are ungrateful and hence there is no remembrance by which they can be content, as a result they are always greedy for more, always forgetting whatever they already have. Therefore, those who are grateful are content.
In addition, those who are content are also happier and as a result are more successful since they do not stress as much as if they were forgetful of the blessings. Hence, they do not become mentally tired as quickly as they would if they had been ungrateful and stressing for more.
Imam Zayn al-Abidin (as) said:
“The most grateful to Allah are the most grateful to people.”
Although Allah (swt) is the source of all goodness, all praise is due to Him for everything but in order to be thankful to Allah, we must be thankful to people. This is the link between humbleness and gratefulness because a person cannot be humble while disregarding the efforts of people towards him as this is to view people as insignificant; hence arrogance. Whereas the humble people consider the kindness of others as something great.
People love those who are grateful. Hence, if we wish to test ourselves to find out whether we are grateful or not, we must see what people in the community think of us.
Sometimes people mistake honesty with ruining their gratefulness. They consider criticism along with gratitude something good whereas in reality they are ruining their thanksgiving. You cannot think it wise to thank your wife for the food and at the same time criticise her cooking. Therefore, flattery is sometimes good if it is done with a good intention such as raising their self-confidence for the sake of Allah (swt) as sometimes flattery is necessary to give your children, parents, spouse and friends, confidence in themselves. In fact, in the Duas of the Ahlul Bayt we recite statements which are true of ourselves such as “I thank you from the bottom of my heart, with all the cells of my body, all the hairs on my head…” However, it is allowed to say such as a way of setting an ideal and encouraging ourselves to work towards it, and in this sense, it is not dishonesty.
However, the problematic flattery is when it is done to deceive people as a means of achieving something unholy, not in order to improve.
May Allah (swt) make us grateful towards Himself and others and all praise is to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 49, 17/10/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Involving Allah (swt) in one’s life
A prayer
Summary of this session:
Involving Allah (swt) in one’s life A prayer
Based on my reflections, there are several levels of basing our lives on Allah (swt):
1. Seeking assistance from Allah (Isti’anah).
“You alone do we worship, and you alone do we ask for help.”Quran 2:128
“O you who have faith! Seek help through patience and prayer, indeed Allah is with the patient.”186
Therefore, we can ask Allah for help or we can seek his help through means such as patience and prayer.
2. Reliance on Allah (Tawakkol)
The difference between relying and seeking help from Allah is that in seeking help, we are partly relying on our own efforts. Whereas in reliance, we are relying on Allah to do what He wills as a means of getting us to our aims. We are not relying on ourselves partly, we are fully reliant on Allah. Therefore, we have our own aims, but we rely on Allah to get us there.
3. Entrusting one’s affairs to Allah (Tafwidh)
The difference between entrusting one’s affairs to Allah and reliance is that we do not even have our own aims. Hence, we entrust both our aims as well as the means to Allah (swt) to do as He wills.
“Soon you will remember what I tell you, and I entrust my affair to Allah. Indeed, Allah is seeing of servants.”187
Therefore, entrusting is to understand that because Allah knows best and He is seeing of His servants, therefore we entrust Him to take us to the aim He wills and through the means He wills.
4. The highest level is submission (Taslim)
“When his Lord said to him, ‘Submit,’ he said, ‘I submit to the Lord of all the worlds.’”188
“But you do not wish unless it is wished by Allah. Indeed, Allah is all-knowing, all-wise.”189
Submission is to completely forget oneself. This is the difference between entrusting and submission. When we entrust, we feel we do have our own life which we are entrusting to Allah, something separates which we are entrusting to Allah. Whereas submission is to realise that we are nothing, we are a shadow. So, what can a shadow have of itself, separate from the owner?
Here submission is to be a servant that is only concerned with being and remaining a servant; our affairs being only the affairs of our owner and master. In this way we do wish unless it is wished by Allah. Whereas in entrusting one’s affairs, we may entrust it and act only according to what Allah (swt) wants but we may have our own wishes; there is still room for ‘me’. In submission, nothing bothers us as a problem, we are only concerned with Allah and being His servant.
Therefore, we ask Allah (swt) to enable us to serve Him as true servants at all times. If there is any impurity in us that would disqualify us, we ask Allah (swt) to remove it.
We ask Allah (swt) to make our community a submitted community to serve Allah (swt) as a community of sincere servants as submission can also be as a whole society:
“Our Lord and make us in submission to You and from our descendants a nation in submission to You. And show us our rites and accept our repentance. Indeed, you are the Accepting of repentance, the Merciful.”190
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 50, 12/12/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
A question asked to Allamah Tabataba’i
The answer
Summary of this session:
Recap A question asked to Allamah Tabataba’i The answer
Previously, we discussed self-assessment (Muhasabah) and being ever conscious of Allah (Muraqabah). Therefore, consciousness is to observe the pleasure of Allah in all our actions and intention.
Some of our scholars such as Allamah Tabataba’i have held Muraqabah as very important. Towards the end of his life he had stopped holding normal conversations and would hardly eat. However, when Ayatollah Ibrahim Amini asked him what the best way is for improving ourselves, he replied. It shows that he wasn’t interested in normal conversations except if it was for Allah (swt). Similarly, Ayatollah Hujjat also stopped speaking towards the end of his life. Yet when he was asked a question regarding a ruling, he replied because it was his duty as a Marja.
The reply of Allamah Tabataba’i was “Muraqabah, Muraqabah, and Muraqabah”. To show its importance and inclusiveness he repeated the same, thrice. Therefore, according to him, the only thing that is a summary of everything that can help us is Muraqabah which is being ever conscious of Allah.
A 22-year-old young man wrote a letter to Allamah Tabataba’i regarding the difficulty that he was going through due to his lower desires. He felt it wasn’t allowing him to have peace and happiness nor allowing him to develop spiritually. He wanted something different, other than the usual advice from Allamah and so he said, “I need practical instructions, not someone who says, “Be good, be pious”. He was a very clever and very bright young man as can be seen by the way he requests help:
“I should also mention, that I think that you are not able to give an answer verbally to me, and I am also very embarrassed to take your valuable time, therefore I beg you as a father, that if you find it appropriate and if you find this request genuine, to help me. If the answer is “no”, please do not laugh at my incomplete thought, just privately tear my paper and leave me to myself, thank you very much.”
Hence, he showed the urgency of his need and with respect and a show of appreciation.
Allamah replied that in order to be successful in this matter you must:
1. Have determination.
This is not something we can gain easily, we must grow it within us.
2. Then Perform repentance.
3. Be very careful about observing self-monitoring and self-accounting.
This self-monitoring is constant throughout the day and self-accounting is to have a few minutes in the end to review your actions of the day.
4. Every morning, upon waking up, make a serious intention to observe the pleasure of Allah (swt) during the entire day.
This means to not do anything except that is pleases Allah.
5. Before every action, bear in mind the benefit of it for the afterlife. If it is not beneficial for the Hereafter, then do not do it. Keep this condition until bedtime.
6. Before sleeping, review your actions of the day.
7. Give thanks for the good you have done
8. Repent for any disobedience to Allah.
This is not limited to Fiqhi Haram. Rather Halal misuse that is immoral must also be repented for because it is not befitting of Allah’s servant.
9. Keep it up daily
“Although in the beginning this methodology may be difficult to the untrained soul but it is the key to salvation and success.”
10. Before sleeping, recite the chapters of the Quran which start with Tasbih (Praise) of Allah; namely: Hadid, Hashr, Saff, Jumu’ah and Taghabun.
As Tasbih is the food of angels and the language of the people of heaven.191 The reason why it is encouraged before sleep may be because Allah (swt) examines us during the day and rewards us when he takes our souls at night by our sleeping. Similar to when a child plays with the parents or helps them all day and then the parents express their love to the child when he/she sleeps.
11. After 20 days, inform me of your situation.
So, it is necessary to check our progress after keeping this up for 20 days, to see how it has helped us.
Let us all practice this and report back to Allah (swt) or the Imam (aj). In order to maintain this, we may need a constant reminder, hence it is good to place a reminder at our frequent places of sitting.
Lecture 51, 19/12/2016
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Another letter of Allamah Tabataba’i
Some other lessons from the letter
Summary of this session:
Recap Another letter of Allamah Tabataba’i Some other lessons from the letter
Previously we discussed a letter of Allamah Tabataba’i in response to a letter by a young man regarding spiritual improvement through Muraqabah; self-monitoring from the beginning of the day until bed time at which point we must perform self-assessment of our actions during the day.
If we remember we did something good, then we must be thankful to Allah and if we remember something not good then we must regret and repent for it.
The sender said in the letter to Allamah that he feels a spiritual lacking and wants to improve but doesn’t know where to begin or what to achieve so he asks, “Which ship should I board that will take me to the coast of salvation.” He asks Allamah to show him a way to love Allah (swt) so that he may become closer to Allah, the Prophet (s) and the friends of Allah.
He shows humbleness by admitting that he is ignorant of the Quran and the Ahlul Bayt. Allamah replies very politely that the method of achieving nearness to Allah, the methodology of being a servant and knowing Allah is the same with everyone; according to the Quran and Sunnah, it is to:
1. Remember Allah plenty and every morning make an intention to not forget Allah.
2. Implement Allah’s commands.
3. Do self-accounting at the end of the day
4. Do self-monitoring during the entire day after waking up.
5. Be in Wudhu, always.
6. Imagine yourself present before Allah.
7. Repent for any negligence of Allah’s will, ask forgiveness and scold yourself.
Sometimes it is good to give yourself a light slap to make the scolding serious.
8. Thank Allah if there had not been any negligence.
9. In order to strengthen your remembrance of Allah (swt), for 40 days, in the mornings, recite 1000 “La ilaha illallah” with concentration.
Similar to medicinal prescriptions for our body, we need spiritual prescriptions for our spirit. Just as a qualified doctor must prescribe medicine, a qualified scholar must prescribe different ways of remembering Allah. Hence, this prescription by Allamah may not be good for everyone. In spiritual prescriptions, the prescriber must also be good because who we choose as our teacher and role model affects us. We must have someone who we can proudly say is our teacher. Therefore, do not listen to anyone’s advice or the internet, find a qualified scholar and turn to him.
10. The condition of servitude that comes from this remembrance of Allah can be a measure by which to measure the conditions of life.
As we get used to remembrance, it would stay with us as a good habit throughout the year when we are busy doing other things.
The sender of the letter to Allamah was not very polite as he called Allamah his ‘brother’. This is similar to calling your father ‘brother’. Although everyone is each other’s brother and sister, we must give due respect to everyone based on their position. Therefore, call a teacher a teacher and speak to him more politely than others and call your father ‘father’ and your brother ‘brother’.
Although he did not give due respect to Allamah, yet Allamah replies with the utmost respect that is suitable for a teacher by saying “I humbly mention to Your Excellency.”
In addition, if we read carefully we can understand a lot more from the texts than if we read quickly. For example, in these letters, the emotions and feelings of the writers are captured, these are only visible with careful reading. If we read carefully, it will become a habit and our reading would improve whereas if we read quickly then we would miss much of the meanings in texts and our reading would become less enjoyable.
May Allah (swt) bless the souls of all scholars especially Allamah Tabataba’i and include us among the sincere seekers of knowledge.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
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2017
AKHLAQ COURSES IN HAWZAH
2017
Lecture 52, 23/01/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Knowledge
Reminders
A prayer
Summary of this session:
Introduction
It is a great honour to have a Hawza here at a scale never present before. It benefits both us and our community. It is our responsibility to make it prosper and pray that Allah does not take this blessing form us. We will therefore be discussing the importance of knowledge. Knowledge A narration about Musa (as) asking Khidhr (as) to advise him: Reminders It is important to remind ourselves about how important it is to be grateful. It is the key for success in this world and the Hereafter. Whether you want to be loved by Allah (swt) or people, be grateful. If we are grateful then Allah will bless us with more. A prayer O Allah, make us grateful for everything we know of and everything we don’t know of. Accept our gratitude and our confession that we cannot thank You enough. Allow us to use the best of our time, resources and energy only for You.
“Khidhr said: ‘O seeker of knowledge, do not make people who sit with you bored. Know that your heart is a container, try to understand Dunya and then throw it aside because Dunya is not a place of permanent stay. It has been made a place that you take your provision for the Hereafter. O Musa! You must prepare yourself for patience then you will meet your expectations. Let Taqwa touch your heart and if you train yourself to be patient then you can avoid committing sins. O Musa! Make time for gaining knowledge. If you really want knowledge then knowledge is only for one who makes time for it and do not speak too much.”
We understand from this narration that:
1. Do not bore your audience and those you sit with.
The one who speaks is worried about his speech and is kept busy by it and so he doesn’t become bored whereas the audience cannot speak nor move and so they become bored very easily.
2. For our hearts there is a limit and so we must be careful about what we fill it with.
We cannot let everything enter our heart as it is a very special, limited and significant space. We must only allow the best of goodness to occupy our hearts.
3. Understand Dunya and then throw it aside.
Dunya is anything lowly. Hence our studies, religiosity, charity and all else which are not for the sake of Allah (swt) are Dunya. After understanding what this lowly life is, it is wise to throw it away and not become attached to lowliness while we understand its lowliness.
4. Dunya is a transitory place for provision.
It is a place designed for collecting provisions and moving on, not for settling as nothing here lasts forever.
5. Only through patience can we achieve our expectations.
Nothing valuable can be achieved without patience. We may start different plans, studies and join institutions but unless we exercise patience and see the program thoroughly until the end, we will never be able to achieve anything valuable. Therefore, if we want to be successful in Hawza, whether we are students, teacher or admins, we need to be patient to succeed.
In addition, patience is of three types;
1. Patience in doing what is obligatory
2. Refraining from what is forbidden
3. Suffering through calamities.
A patient one is he who has control over his emotions and is actively working to overcome obstacles for betterment. Hence, he does not do any, say anything or go anywhere except that he has a reason for it. If we were to be patient, we would find much more time for doing what is important and many of our problems would be solved and many more prevented.
6. Knowledge requires dedication
Khidhr (as) said, and this is nothing but truth, knowledge is only for those who make time for it. Therefore, we must have a serious dedication to it in order to become knowledgeable. Although this is not to discourage those who struggle to find a little time; that is still respectable. However, to become knowledgeable people, we must be dedicated and we must allocate the best time for knowledge.
If we are too busy, perhaps we can reduce our other non-essential activities to make time for gaining knowledge. We can also be productive whilst we are idle in line or on a journey, read a book or listen to a lecture. As knowledge is only for those who make time for it.
It baffles us to think how some of our scholars managed to achieve so much despite having lacking the facilities we have today. They did not have electricity, lacked money to burn oil for light, lacked money for heating and proper food. Yet despite being in dark and cold rooms, they managed to achieve great things such as Jawahir that is authored by one person in such times and scholars say that if a person can fully understand even a single page of the 43 volume then he is a Mujtahid. Such scholars often fell ill yet it wasn’t due to their carelessness. Rather they were in love with learning that they would forget their basic needs and after some time they would realise they’re feeling ill.
7. Have Taqwa in your heart.
If a person merely observes the limits set by Allah, superficially, is not enough. We must feel it within us. Many people undertake similar paths yet only a few succeed, one factor which distinguishes some over others is Taqwa. When someone is pious, Allah would grant that person further knowledge and it would benefit him.
Imam Ali (as) said:
“Indeed, I train myself for Taqwa.”
8. Do not speak too much.
The wise person speaks because he has something to say, whereas the fool speaks because he has to say something. When we speak beyond our limit, the quality of our speech falls because our knowledge is very limited. Those scholars such as Allamah Tabataba’i or Ayatollah Mutahhari were able to speak for hours without losing their quality because they had so much knowledge.
In addition, when we speak too much, we end up speaking about topics which we are ignorant about. We need to be careful from doing so because misinformation can poison the minds of others as well as ourselves when we speak falsely. Sometimes such discussions even lead into backbiting of others and underestimation of scholars due to the ignorance of the one that is speaking to much about a field that he is not an expert in.
Therefore, we must speak very little and at times of necessity, when we have something to say, something which is beneficial.
Also, we must work as a team. Our efforts not only benefit us but it also encourages those around us. Hence, individual efforts lead to the success of the entire institution. Therefore, being punctual, committed and hardworking is essential not just for ourselves but for encouraging those around us towards good habits. We must all have a deep sense of responsibility to our institutions.
Once we learn something, it is important to share it with others. It is not necessary to study many years before spreading knowledge. We must teach as we learn. However, we must only teach what we are certain about, not what we are in doubt about. Therefore, this is not only about just learning, it is also about spreading the message of Allah (swt).
Please resurrect us with the great scholars, the Prophet (s) and the Ahlul Bayt (as). Keep our community together and united such that Shaytan may not find a weakness to penetrate through. Please bless our studies and allow us to practice what we learn.
And all praise is for Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 53, 30/01/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Problems and vices
Narrations on deception
Deception by knowledge
Summary of this session:
Problems and vices Deception is the translation of ‘Ghurur’ in Arabic, the Quran says regarding deception: Narrations on deception 3. One who expects to benefit from what he does not own. Deception by knowledge
So far, we have been discussing virtues, we also mentioned the importance of self-assessment and in order to do so we need to be aware of possible problems and vices we may have. There are many potential problems we may have yet be unaware of. One of them is being in deceit.
“Do not let the lower/worldly life deceive you, nor let the Deceiver deceive you concerning Allah”192
Everything with the power of attraction has the power to deceive us and this world or a life of lower desires is something that can attract us using our desires. In addition it mentions “The deceiver” which is believed to be in reference to Shaytan. Therefore, Allah (swt) tells us to not be deceived by this world nor by Shaytan.
The hypocrites (Munafiqoon) also are people in deception and they ask the believers on the day of Judgement:
“Did we not used to be with you?” the believers reply “Yes, but you led yourselves to temptation and you awaited and were doubtful, and wishful thinking deceived you until there came the command of Allah. And the Deceiver deceived you concerning Allah.”193
So, on the day of judgement when the believers are in a better position than the hypocrites, the Quran shows us why the hypocrites end up being worse off:
1. They had the capacity because they were with the believers in the world, meaning they had everything which the believers had, however they did not use it correctly.
2. “Led yourselves to temptations.”
Human beings have desires alongside reason however if we continue following temptations while disregarding our intellect, eventually we become blinded by our desires. Hence, we would then follow our desires to the destruction of our life in this world and the Hereafter as the hypocrites described in this verse.
3. “And you awaited.”
The hypocrites delay doing anything good and keep postponing any serious steps to do righteous deeds.
4. “And were doubtful.”
The hypocrites doubt when it is unnecessary. It is good to doubt for the sake of learning and reaching the truth however, the hypocrites create doubt in order to confuse themselves about what they know to be right.
5. “And false hopes deceived you.”
Being ambitious and working hard to achieve those ambitions is good however, the hypocrites have hopes in things that they do not make effort to achieve. Hence, they deceive themselves with their false hopes.
6. “Until the command of Allah arrived, and the Deceiver deceived you concerning Allah.”
Shaytan is al-Gharar, one who deceives a lot. He deceives and the hypocrites invite his deception by not acting rationally based on their intellect, rather they blind themselves into deception by blindly following their desires.
Imam Ali (as) said:
“The intoxication from heedlessness and deception lasts longer than the intoxication from wine.”
Intoxication from alcoholic beverages last only a few hours or maximum for a day, but it can take years, decades, a life time or until death without waking up from their deception and heedlessness.
Imam Ali (as) said:
“There is an obstacle of deception between you and advice.”
Many of us do not benefit from others advising us because we are in deception and we think their advice does not apply. As Imam Zayn al-Abideen (as) said:
“There are many people who are in deception. Yet they start their day meaninglessly, laughing, eating and drinking not knowing that the anger of Allah is fixed upon him by which he may taste the fire of hell.”
Although we may think we are on the path of guidance, we may be on the path of those who have incurred the wrath or are misguided. There are many of us whom think everything is fine and they live on happily when in reality they should be concerned with their spiritual state.
Imam Sadiq (as) said:
“Whoever trusts these three is deceived; one who affirms something the does not exist, one who trusts someone untrustworthy and one who expects to benefit from what he does not own.”
According to the narration, we meet the criteria of being in deception if we meet any of these three:
1. One who affirms what he doesn’t know to be true.
2. One who trusts someone that is not trustworthy.
Usual cases of this involves people getting into bad partnerships, whether in business or in marriage, without doing proper prior research. Therefore, those who trust the untrustworthy are in deception because they decide based on whims rather than a rational process.
We must never expect to benefit from other people’s property or reputation, including our family. Whatever people have are for themselves, we must rely on our own efforts, wealth and reputation if we want to be successful. We would only be deceiving ourselves and wasting time by having hope in what belongs to others.
The people of knowledge can also be in deception. Not just those who are beginners in the path of learning but even those who have understood the religious and intellectual sciences very well. They have engaged rigorously in studying yet have neglected their souls. Their knowledge becoming a means by which they deceive themselves into thinking Allah (swt) does not hold them accountable for their wrongs because they know so much and they spread knowledge to others. Yet, even worse than these are those whom believe they can intercede for others because of their knowledge while sinning themselves.
May Allah (swt) protect us all from deception, it is the destruction of efforts.
And all praise is for Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 54, 13/02/2017
Video Audio
Lecture 55, 20/02/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Focusing on one’s heart
Fame
Accepting these teachings
Summary of this session:
Recap Focusing on one’s heart Fame Accepting these teachings
Previously we discussed deception and self-deceit. We particularly discussed the deception that some scholars may be under where they deceive themselves thinking they are exempt above others because of their knowledge.
We will now discuss the self-deceit of those who are practicing their obligations in Islam. This group of us are successful in avoiding what is forbidden and they perform their obligations. However, they believe their problems are fixed by observing the Islamic laws only. They are apparently clean and have a good image.
However, they have not investigated their own hearts. They may suffer from vices worse than committing the forbidden yet they are oblivious to it. Hence, they cannot fix problems such as arrogance, jealousy, seeking power and superiority. This is very worrying because the Quran states:
“This is the abode of the Hereafter which We shall grant to those who do not desire to domineer in the earth nor to cause corruption.”194
A person who performs his obligations must still meet the condition required in this verse. That is to not even desire being above others, let alone actually being arrogant. Many of us have vices within us that do not manifest in our actions only because we lack the means to achieve them and we say we don’t want them. Hence, the problem is within us, but we do not know, or we deceive ourselves. Therefore, it is good that we perform our obligations however we must also correct our hearts from spiritual illnesses such as arrogance.
People who desire to be recognised above others would wish ill for others. If he be a scholar, he would not want people to attend the lectures of other people, nor spread their praise as he wants all praise for himself. This is a type of jealousy towards people of similar calibre.
“Indeed, those who like that immorality should be spread [or publicized] among those who have believed will have a painful punishment in this world and the Hereafter. And Allah knows and you do not know.”195
Why do we want to be famous? Where is this desire coming from? While it is better to not be famous because it restricts our freedom. However, it is sometimes necessary to be famous in order to gain the trust of people for helping them and people can only trust us if they know our background. Therefore, it is difficult to identify whether we should introduce ourselves to people or not. If we are doing so with a sincere intention to help others for the sake of Allah (swt) then it is good. However, we must not try to be famous for the sake of it.
We must also be sincere when we introduce ourselves to others. Whether it be on our CV or in person, we must not claim to be better than we are.
“Is he who walks prone on his face better guided or he who walks upright on a straight path?”196
Hence, people who are oblivious to their moral illnesses fall on their face as they are not able to fix their problems. In addition they neglect narrations such as this:
The Prophet (s) said:
“The lowest level of showing off is polytheism.”
“The one who has even a particle of greatness (Kibr) in his heart will not enter heaven.”
As we previously said, only Allah is great and when we claim greatness (Kibr) we are lying since we are not great, rather we are totally dependent, as a result it only manifests as arrogance in us.
“Jealousy consumes what is good the way fire consumes wood.”
“Love for wealth and honour will produce hypocrisy in the same way that water produces greenery.”
If a person has wealth or honour, it is good. However, having a love for it is destructive. If a person is not honourable in character but wants to appear special to people will fake an appearance. The result is hypocrisy because he doesn’t have honourable intentions and only helps others for the sake of exalting himself in people’s views.
Therefore, people who observe the Islamic laws of Islam yet neglect their morality and ethics are decorating their apparel while rotting from within. Whereas, Allah (swt) does not look at our appearance but rather looks at our hearts and actions.
Question: Why is it that Fiqh is only concerned with outward actions while ethics is so much more important?
Answer: The study of Islamic laws and ethics have been separated into different subjects of study. Both are important however, since Islamic laws are easier to observe, people have applied them better. Whereas, ethics is underestimated by people and they forget about the inward by focusing only on the outward rituals and practices.
They focus on actions but not their hearts while the Quran says no one will be saved;
“Except one who comes to Allah with a sound heart.”197
Such people are deceiving themselves. Their simile is like that of a farmer who grows crops while weed grows with it, taking the energy from the soil and harming the crops. Yet the farmer only trims the weed, leaving its roots to remain strong. Such are the people who focus on the outward without fixing their inner problems.
Some people when they are informed about these ethical points, they do not allow it to change their lives as they see it as disruption. Without any care to retain it nor to practice it, they forget it and continue in their deception. Allamah Tabataba’i wrote notes for himself about the Prophet (s) so that he may use it as reminders to practice by it. In the end his notes grew and became books. Therefore, we must also learn for the sake of implementing it in our own lives and then try and improve others.
On the other end we have people who are extreme in these matters and hence, they are thrown into despair of failure by seeing how serious ethical matters are. For example:
“Allah accepts only from the God-wary.”198
In addition to this verse, everything we have discussed today, is taken too seriously by them and they feel incapable of achieving success. We must neither despair nor take it too lightly.
The balanced approach is to not dismiss it, nor accept it verbally but not try. We must do our best and ask Allah (swt) to help us. God willing, little by little we will improve ourselves:
“And that there is nothing for humans except what they strive for.”199
If we make serious efforts we will succeed, god willing. In addition, it helps to keep a record in order to check our progress so that we can see our progress and if we do not progress then at least we can better understand our problems.
Persistence is necessary to success. Having people who motivate us are helpful in keeping up our persistence towards success. Therefore, it is very important to have a good circle of friends who are good motivators for us.
Much of our failures is due to our own laziness. Let’s ask ourselves, why can we not wake up at night to pray? Everyone can, it isn’t impossible, it just needs determination. If we do not at night, then why not during the day? What stops us from supplicating and worshipping Allah during the day? The best act we can do for success is to pray and supplicate to Allah; we must ask ourselves why we don’t supplicate persistently because supplication is the least and biggest thing we can do. Hence, why it must be kept up as much as possible for His help and “If Allah should help you, no one can overcome you; but if He should forsake you, who is there that can help you after Him? And upon Allah let the believers rely.”200
O Allah help us, keep us under your guardianship which takes us from darkness into the light. Include us among those who love You and are loved by You so that we may support each other. Please remove all the illnesses of our hearts and enable us to acquire the noble traits of character.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 56, 27/03/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Self-deceit
Fame
Traps of fame
Alertness
Helping one another
Summary of this session:
Recap Self-deceit Such knowledgeable scholars in deceit may be thinking their motive is Allah (swt) whereas his hidden intention is something else, yet he doesn’t notice. If one person becomes a godly scholar, it is worse for Shaytan than millions of laypeople. Due to this Shaytan will try everything to destroy that person’s efforts and mislead him. Their struggle is very serious. Fame Traps of fame Alertness Helping one another
We have been discussing self-deceit and deception based on al-Mahajjat al-Baydha where we reached page 315. We were discussing a group of knowledgeable people who are genuinely learned yet are in deception. We will now continue to study self-deceit for this group of us.
Those who have observed their obligations and avoided the prohibited, spent their time productively, making good use of it to gain knowledge, observed virtues and avoided vices, still may be in deception. Even though they have cleansed themselves of inner spiritual problems but they have not uprooted them completely. They have beautified their appearance with acts of obedience and have avoided sins, they were careful of not showing off, jealousy, and enmity and stayed aloof from power and position. Nevertheless they are deceived.
Their example is like that of a farmer who has ensured that he takes out the weeds growing beside his good crop yet he has not uprooted the weed and has allowed it secretly grow again elsewhere or ruin the roots of his good crops without him knowing.
The threat to our heart does not need to be big because the area it is in is very delicate and important. Physically, a single microbe can harm the whole heart which can in turn be the cause of our death; the same goes for our spiritual hearts.
It is heedlessness which causes the farmer to neglect the regrowth of weed and it is heedlessness which allows small problems to re-emerge in our hearts. A good farmer who yields crops successfully always pays attention to his crops all year round so that the weed does not grow back and if possible he takes it out from the root. There is no time for a holiday because that is neglect from our problems. Hence, if we become heedless, we are allowing old problems to grow back within us. Therefore, we must always be alert, it could be that we are in the same position as Jibra’il and have a problem in us which we do not notice. We may be with the Imam (as) and think “He has met me because I am special.”
We must be aware not to allow Shaytan to use our apprehension to discourage us from seeking knowledge by saying ‘there is no point since scholars also have problems’ or ‘even if I study hard, maybe it is because of Shaytan’. Rather we must strive hard for knowledge and at the same time struggle against laziness, ignorance, our ego and be careful about our intentions.
We may think we are promoting religion but in reality, we are promoting ourselves. It is difficult to distinguish when we are promoting ourselves and when we are promoting religion, especially since religion is a part of our identity. When a merchant promotes his wares, it is easier to see because it is separate from him whereas when the religious promote religion, the lines are blurred and it becomes easy to promote oneself thinking we are promoting religion. Such a scholar may in reality want to be a renowned scholar, international speaker and a celebrity.
A way to identify whether we are promoting ourselves or religion is to see whether we become happy when others promote religion. However, more must be done as this is a delicate case. We can also check whether we enjoy promoting religion because we are famous or would we feel less motivated if there are less people listening to us.
When someone becomes known for his knowledge. People from around their city, country or even the world start praising him. They listen carefully and nod their heads at his words and this leads to the scholar deceiving himself thinking he is so great that people listen so well. It is good to appreciate people receiving the message of Allah (swt) well however what is dangerous is when we become pleased due to our performance as a person and presenter. He derives pleasure from people listening to him because of his ego.
When people cry at his gatherings, he thinks he did so well as a speaker that he managed to stir their emotions so well. He is very happy at the number of his followers and students thinking it is only because of him due to his knowledge.201
After recognising his own Taqwa and knowledge, he starts looking down on others as lovers of worldly life and starts blaming them. He doesn’t do it because he genuinely wants to take them away from a worldly life, rather he does it to promote himself as someone distinguished from the rest because he doesn’t live a worldly life like others. The hidden motive is to say ‘I am better than all of you’.
If people’s opinion of him and his approval drops then his life is upset, his tranquillity is lost and he can’t perform his worships without being distracted about his image. He tries to find excuses to show people he is not bad and they should not blame him.
As a result he becomes very vicious in upholding his image. To do so he divides people, he selects those who respect him and discriminates against those who do not respect him. He defines his followers as good and those that do not respect him as bad. Even if he knows that his praisers are flattering him, still he gives them more attention and respect.
On the other hand, if someone knows his limits and his problems, his heart becomes detached from that person. He is not happy that someone sees through him, instead he prefers the people who only praise him and are obedient.
The praisers may be honestly praising him because they see him as a good person who is knowledgeable and they want to learn and benefit from him. However, the knowledgeable person in self-deceit thinks he is special and those that praise him. As a result on the day of judgement some scholars see that their followers are higher than them because they practiced better what they learned from him.
These hidden problems cause more damage when the scholar has a higher position among people. Someone with little to no authority are very limited in their effect, be it for good or bad. However, if that scholar has hundreds, thousands or millions of followers then his smallest faults are destructive since people observe him more closely and follow him more sincerely.
Hence Shaytan tries his best to destroy scholars from without and our selfish ego (Nafs Ammarah) from within. We are attacked from both sides when we try to uproot the problems in our hearts. This is why we must always be alert and continuously assess ourselves. While alert we are aware of friend and foe and benefit and harm. Allah (swt) has equipped us with the ability to discern:
“And inspired it [with discernment of] its wickedness and its righteousness.”202
We must not allow our past success to make us underestimate the threat. Allah (swt) helping us achieve success in the past is not a sign He is pleased with us now. If we did not have a problem in the past, it doesn’t guarantee our safety for the future. We must thank Allah for the past for seeing some value in us however, we must still improve ourselves. Therefore, we must remain alert as every day has its own tests, doing well today doesn’t mean we will be successful tomorrow.
“A believer is a mirror for another believer.”
We must help each other by informing each other of our faults. We must be happy in receiving these notifications. Those who advise must also have some close relationship with the advised so that the advice is taken positively. However, those who advise must do so in a loving and caring way in private, not in front of others:
“One who advises his brother in private, has added to his beauty. Whereas one who advises him in front of others has ruined him.”
And all praise is for Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 57, 03/04/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Lack of asceticism (Zuhd)
Carelessness in ethics
Showing off
Company with the elite of society
Reflection
Summary of this session:
Recap Lack of asceticism (Zuhd) Carelessness in ethics Showing off Company with the elite of society Reflection
Previously we discussed deception and those who are in self-deceit. One of them being knowledgeable scholars who have observed their obligations and are aware of possible spiritual problems but never attribute them to himself. We will now continue our discussion on different types of deception in relation to people of knowledge.
Their problem is not ignorance, rather their problem is in the application of their knowledge. They apply it to other people and notice bad qualities within others but not themselves.
They deceive themselves and think they are so close to Allah that He would not test them with such problems. They feel only laypeople can be afflicted with greed, anger, jealousy and hunger for power.
Hence they underestimate the bad qualities within them. Just as you should not dismiss a small pain in the physical heart, you must not dismiss a small problem in your spiritual heart because it is a delicate and influential area. If we feel people are not respectful enough to us or a small incident causes us to have an entire bad day, we must ask ourselves what the cause is.
The deceived scholar recognises arrogance and the thirst for fame and power but he dismisses them and finds a way to convince himself that what he craves is not arrogance or seeking greatness. He deceives himself by claiming to be doing it for the sake of Islam. They think “since I represent Islam, me being honoured is Islam being honoured.” In this way we can fail to distinguish what is for Islam and what is for ourselves. He thinks “I want believers to be honoured above hypocrites so that everyone is given due respect.” It is through these rationalisations that scholars deceive themselves and through these they justify why the best seats must be reserved for them, why they must dress luxuriously, all in self-deceit.
Such people see their humility as a humiliation of Islam. This is Shaytan deceiving them and making them forget how the noble Prophet (s) served Islam. Was the Prophet excessive in his spending? Did he have a big house? Did he claim he needed luxuries so that Islam is honoured? The Prophet would live just like other people; no scholar can represent Islam more than its Prophet.
In addition to forgetting the Prophet, deceived scholars forget what the greatness of other scholars of the past have been in; their humbleness, asceticism and the low quality of their material requirements.
They may start backbiting other scholars or talks badly about them because he is jealous. However, he doesn’t admit what the problem is; instead he claims to be upholding truth and justice and opposing falsehood. Whereas, if another injustice was committed elsewhere, he would not be so quick and decisive to oppose it because he isn’t serving the truth, in reality he is serving himself. Therefore, if we want to see whether we are acting for Allah or for ourselves, we must ask ourselves whether we become uneasy at every injustice or is it just the ones committed by the person we don’t like.
The deceived scholar shows off with his knowledge and actions. He realises that perhaps he is crossing boundaries and doing Riya’ (showing off). However, he deceives himself by thinking he is doing so in order to allow people to follow him. Again, the lines are blurry and this intention can be good if he really is someone good to be known and followed. Especially today where if people do not know good scholars, they will end up following the wrong people with no knowledge or sincerity for religion. However, every person must ask himself, am I seeking fame for serving Allah (swt) or for myself?
This can be a good measure; am I able to help other people become known? Or is there something in me that wants fame to be only mine? Is your presentation of yourself realistic or are you claiming to be what you’re not? Am I happy to be given titles I am not qualified for? These are some questions we must ask if we want to check whether our intention is sincere or not.
If we see that we are exaggerating ourselves then this is a problem because we cannot claim to be wanting publicity for Islam when we are not even being honest. A deceived person is not happy when other scholars are followed the way he becomes happy when people follow him. He does not become happy at the thought of more people going to different mosques because he wants people to come to his mosque; since it’s about him.
To rationalise his desire for fame he may say “I want more reward from Allah which I will get if they follow me instead of others.” Even if a prophet says to him that for him there is more reward if he hides his knowledge instead of promoting himself, still he would want to appear before the public because for him the mosque and pulpit are his places of publicity and fame.
It is good for scholars to influence the leaders of their society if they are strong enough to not be influenced negatively in return. However, many times people deceive themselves by claiming to be doing it for Islam but in reality, are doing it for the sake of gaining power. He tries to be loved by powerful people for the sake of gaining power.
Although we must bear in mind that “half of intellect is to make people love you”. A good believer is one who establishes good relations with others. However, some scholars misuse this and deceive themselves into allowing themselves to love and be beloved by unjust and illegitimate rulers. Such scholars know the saying “humbleness before unjust rulers is not permitted” however, he is deceived by Shaytan and he convinces himself that he is doing it to protect Muslims and their interests.
If there is an alternative to him who is already interceding for Muslims and protecting Muslim interests, still he is uneasy because he wants to be close to the king himself. The protection of Muslims is merely an excuse.
For us this is most difficult because we cannot separate our religiosity and our common actions. For people of other occupations, their business and their personal lives are separate and so it is clear what they do for themselves and what they do for their occupation. Whereas scholars, teachers, and religious activists are known publicly and so whatever they do in public is mixed for both their personal lives and for their religion; we cannot separate the actions into what is done for himself and what is done for religion.
This can be beautiful because my relationship with Allah (swt) depends on every moment of my day. However, it is difficult because we can easily act for ourselves in the name of religion. We can also fall into Riya’ (showing off) because our performance is public and we want to do well, yet when we perform it is possible we show off because our occupation is also our life. Whereas, someone with an ordinary profession e.g. engineering, he cannot fall into Riya’ because he simply does his job and he can boast about himself and the two would be separate. His work isn’t ruined by his boasting. Whereas a part of being religious and teaching religion is to not boast but also teach not to boast.
Having a public position is very difficult because we cannot do anything unless we have a sincere intention for it. This can diminish our productivity because we are scared of having a wrong intention for a good action. In addition, we have to practice what we preach; this means that we also feel guilty by preaching what we don’t practice:
“It is greatly outrageous to Allah that you should say what you do not do.”.203
However, we must not allow Shaytan to misuse this against us and render us useless. We must preach good things but also practice them rather than not preaching and not practicing. However, do not dismiss doubts and worries because we must always check ourselves to make sure we do not become deceived.
Public appearance is another difficulty in having a public position because you cannot be effective if people do not take you seriously but if you have a good appearance then it may ruin your sincerity and people’s image of you. Therefore, it is understandable, at least not blameable, when some people keep up an entourage them for effect or they spend on publicity; but we must do what we are sure about as the best course of action.
If you have a simple lifestyle, don’t blame those who don’t because they may have concluded a different understanding of society than you. Find what is best for yourself. Some people who do not lead a worldly life are also deceived by Shaytan by making their asceticism a means of being critical of other people. Therefore, we must focus on ourselves and if we see others different from us then assume they have a good reason.
May Allah (swt) take us towards perfection; a beautiful journey with many challenges and opportunities, place us among people who help each other with supplications and sincere advice. Make us sincere in our intentions by His love and His wisdom.
And all praise is for Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 58, 24/04/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Irrational and excessive debating
Preachers
Sincerity
Jealousy
Self-assessment
The true goal
Be sincerely dedicated to Allah only
Examine yourself
Summary of this session:
Recap Irrational and excessive debating Preachers Sincerity Jealousy Self-assessment The true goal Be sincerely dedicated to Allah only Examine yourself
We have been discussing deception (Ghurur) which can be caused by ourselves, Shaytan and worldly desires. We have particularly focused on people of knowledge and the deception they can be in. We will now continue this discussion.
Although it is necessary that we educate ourselves and others about our faith as well as the faith of others, but some people conflict too much with people of other faiths and denominations through debates and argumentation. They want to corner others yet forget to practice their knowledge themselves. The Ahlul Bayt (as) would stop their followers who would do so:
“One day the Prophet (s) went out and saw his companions were arguing and fighting over religious issues; he became very angry and it appeared on his face. He said ‘Is this what you are supposed to do? Is this what you are asked to do? You bring verses of the Quran against each other and you keep debating day and night? Be careful about what you been asked to do and do it, and what you have been asked not to do, avoid them.”
Therefore, we must not spend too much time debating. It can make us forget ourselves, our own practice and also makes others hostile to us and our views; so even if we are right, they will not listen because of the insistent arguing that we do. Hence, we must not bombard them yet be available for sharing our views and be very polite.
Another group in deception are those who write, teach and deliver sermons that include ethics and spirituality. Since they teach ethics, they think they are free of those faults. We must be careful to not become people who think themselves safe from immorality and vices.
They may teach sincerity and think they are sincere. Whatever they teach to others, they think they are in full possession of that nice quality; they think they are very pious and virtuous but Allah knows they are far from it. They think their ability to speak intricately about these virtues is an indication that they have them.
When they don’t fear Allah, they name it hope in the mercy of Allah. Allah knows they are deceiving themselves. They do not make any serious efforts for Allah yet have high hopes for achieving great things; hence it is important to remember Imam Ali (as) said:
“Having hope in the mercy of Allah in one thing but being careless is another.”
Hence these preachers guide others to Allah (swt) yet day by day they themselves become farther from Him.
Preachers in deception tell other people to be devoted only to Allah (swt); to not care about the opinion of other people. However, they themselves are very much concerned about their own public image.
If he sees another preacher doing better than him and has more followers, he becomes jealous. It is as if people do not listen to him they can’t reach Allah through anyone other than him. If we are genuinely concerned, only, about the guidance of people then we should be happy about the result being achieved. Not become disheartened because it isn’t happening through me.
If one of his followers were to praise his peers whom he is jealous of, although that follower is a sincere servant of the mosque and loves both preachers, he becomes the most disliked person in the eyes of this jealous preacher.
However, at least these preachers who are in deceit are not misleading people away from Allah. It would be worse if they did. We should be thankful that they have a good effect for others but it is unfortunate that they do not benefit from their own knowledge.
As for people who are ignorant, their solution is knowledge. However, these scholars already have knowledge; if we mention one ethical saying to them, they reply with ten others. They cannot be helped because they think they know everything. For him, knowledge has become a veil.
Such people must test themselves if they are to improve. In fact, we must all test ourselves because we may be one such person. If you claim you love Allah (swt), ask yourself; “What have I done only for His sake?” What difference has this love brought for me which other people do not have? If my life is the same as others, if I have every luxury affordable to me then where is my asceticism? How can I claim to be a lover of Allah (swt) when my life is the same as that of a worldly person? How much does my love for Allah prevent me from being bad to others?
A lover always wants to be alone with his beloved; then why do I not desire to be alone with Allah (swt)? Why is it that when I am among my admirers I am happy but when I am alone with Allah I am not?
However, it is noteworthy that we must have a group of believers with us as much as possible. Yet still we must ask ourselves about the cause of the happiness among them; is it because I am with believers or is it because I am praised here?
If you are really clever, you would not waste your time seeking aims which are not worthy; praise of people, money, power and desires cannot be a worthy goal because all these things come and go, and they do not last forever.
We must seek to do what is right, achieve what is worthy and that is only the pleasure of Allah (swt). Imam Khomeini once said that “All these people who chant for me, were they to chant against me it would not make a difference.” Meaning that if we are doing what Allah (swt) wants then it must not matter what people think of us.
Of course, when believers criticise you, it is a different matter worth considering. Perhaps I am doing something wrong that all the believers have turned against me. Yet still we must be careful not to be swayed away from Allah’s will by people’s will.
From my experience, never work for anyone other than Allah (swt). Any other goal will disappoint you sooner or later. Act in a way that even if people do not praise you for it, you do not regret it. As much as possible, down to our eating, we must try to be for Allah (swt).
This is an ongoing process; to keep being only for Allah’s will. It is very wrong to do anything for other than Allah (swt), especially religious activities. It does not help in this world nor the next; it is but a mirage.
It is sad to look back and see how many efforts of the believers have been ruined by us involving our personal problems in religious affairs. Don’t take a position because you need money or else you will deprive someone who is better than you of doing a better job; you are preventing many blessings.
Imagine we are in a fierce battle and our companion happens to have taken our boots without permission. As he is being attacked, we distract him concerning the boots; how silly is this? To risk jeopardizing the greater interests of everyone for our personal problems? We must forego many things for the sake of Allah because we are all together at war with Shaytan and his armies; being attacked from all sides, we do not have time to settle personal disputes. Hence, why in our supplications we say to the Imam (as):
“I am at peace with whoever is at peace with you and at war with anyone at war with you.”
It means I am foregoing my personal disputes for the sake of the greater cause; hence I am dedicated to you and to Allah. However, instead of this, what we do is label our personal enemies as God’s enemies. Wake up! He is not a bad person, you have a problem with each other. Either both are guilty or one of you is. Yet, those that are true followers of the Imams (as) are at peace with whoever is at peace with Imam Husayn (as) and Imam Mahdi (aj).
Our lives are to short and too precious to be dedicated for anything other than Allah (swt). We have personal problems that are confined to us e.g. eating excessively or extravagance. However, once we represent religion as students or scholars and believers then our personal problems affect how we represent religion; now we must be at our best to ensure we represent religion as it is in its purity.
The clever examine themselves. So ask ourselves “what is my reality? As much as we can, we must be critical of ourselves so that we are always better prepared for tests; whenever they arise.
O Allah (swt) help us to live such that we do not regret it? Awaken us from our self-deceit and deep sleep. Include us among those who utilise Allah’s blessings only for His pleasure. Make us honest and obedient servants. Make our Imam happy with us. Teach us wisdom and help us unite.
And all praise is for Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 59, 08/05/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Money and deception
Another problem
Signs of showing off
Charity
Miserliness
Conclusion
A Prayer
Summary of this session:
Recap Money and deception Another problem Signs of showing off Charity Miserliness Conclusion These people prepare themselves for a difficult exam and they are afraid of having any evil to account to, will find it easier due to their preparation. Therefore, we must always take account of ourselves, assess how we are. There is no need to despair, we must trust Allah (swt) and be observant over ourselves. Review our intentions, relationships, decisions, and ideas and be with sincere people who give us good advice. We must be accepting of advice from sincere believers because even the Prophet used to ask Jibra’il to advise him. A Prayer
Previously, we discussed a few groups who suffer from self-deceit and deception from worldly life and Shaytan. One of them being scholars, students and people who possess knowledge. The other being people who worship a lot yet they are nonetheless deceived.
Another group are people with money. Some of these people are passionate about spending on charity by building mosques, schools and other public infrastructures. They do all this good but they do it so that people can see and praise them for it. Ultimately, it is done for attention because they want their name to be known and leave a legacy behind by which people remembers them by. They are in deception.
Firstly, some of them haven’t earned the money morally or in a Halal way. They think they are cleansing their dirty money by building a mosque with it. They incur the wrath of Allah in both earning and spending. Rather than spending it, they must return the money to their rightful owners and repent.
Secondly, their intention is wrong. If they were to think of giving it to the needy without any publicity, they are disheartened because it doesn’t satisfy them that they are not building a legacy for themselves among people. Ultimately, they are building noticeable changes because they want praise from people.
Allah knows whatever good we do and He doesn’t forget. So why the need to show off? Even if people don’t know my name, they can pray for ‘whoever built this mosque’ and that would be me. Therefore, we should keep certain issues just between ourselves and Allah, nobody else needs to know, in this way we can be sincerer.
Whenever we hear these advices and warnings about bad qualities and insincerity, we tend to brush them aside and neglect them thinking it does not apply to us. This is deception, we must always think of ourselves when we think of a bad quality instead of finding the fault in others. We do not have the right to judge and it is best we focus on ourselves.
These people with money, the ones in deception, who spend on mosques and other infrastructures, building and beautifying them, they have poor people near them who are needier of that money. While there are poor people in need, such people spend money on decorations of mosques. They beautify a mosque while it is devoid of spirituality.
Of course it is good to have mosques in a good state, however they are not supposed to be places of worldly distractions. Rather mosques must be simple and neat so that people forget the world there, focus on Allah (swt) and have a humble presence of the heart during prayers. Instead we beautify mosques, distracting people within it, filling their hearts with worldly distractions and making them suffer when they go home because their houses look inadequate compared to the fancy mosque.
The deceived person who is decorating the mosque thinks he has done a great favour yet he has made the mosque a means of corruption for the attendees. Once the disciples of Isa (as) were impressed by the decoration of a temple and Isa (as) replied:
“My people, my people! I tell you in truth, Allah would not leave any stone of this temple standing on another except that He would destroy it due to the sins of its inhabitants.”
Allah (swt) does not care about the marble or gold displayed in mosques. He wants the hearts of its inhabitants to be righteous. It suffices for a mosque to be at the standard of its city, it shouldn’t be distant from the living standards of others, neither above nor below. The most important purpose is to be a means of remembering Allah (swt) for the people; Abu al-Darda narrates:
“The Prophet (s) said: ‘If a time comes that you coat mosques with gold and the Quran with jewellery, you are destroyed.’”
This may be because we make our means of attachment to Allah into a means of attachment to worldly life. Rather than understanding and valuing the contents on the Quran, we make it into a decoration by giving it an expensive cover.
Another group are those who spend on charity. The previous two groups were not concerned with the poor. This groups spends on charity for the needy however, they do not like giving spontaneously to whoever is in need. Instead they want to distribute into a crowd of people. Thereby, showing that their true intention is publicity, but they deceive themselves into thinking they are doing something pleasing to Allah (swt). In addition, they discriminate among the poor, between those who are more and those less grateful. He only chooses the poor people that publicise his generosity.
They do not like giving it secretly, just for the sake of Allah (swt). If a poor person refuses to mention his favour upon him, he feels as if the poor person has committed a crime against him.
Also, despite having needy people around, rather than helping them, they do Hajj each year; when they do not need to.
Another group claim to be ascetic. They do not spend money because they claim other, insincere, people are already spending enough. In this way they deceive themselves, naming their miserliness something else. They are in self-deceit and they perform the worships which do not need money to be spent. They are being destroyed by their miserliness and greed yet they prioritise other minor things over their main problems.
We must be wary at all times. We cannot cover every type of people but what we can understand from what we have done so far is that we can never think we are safe from deception. The moment we do, we are deceived. Therefore, we must always be critical of ourselves and examine our actions and intentions without mercy.
However, if we are the type to lose hope and despair then we should have a little mercy on ourselves while being careful. Still we must ask ourselves different questions and review ourselves from different angles e.g. Why do I like one person but not another? How am I making money and spending it? Am I more concerned about appearance than Allah (swt)? How is my marriage, my children?
When we deceive ourselves with how we appear, we think the world would be in tranquillity if everyone were to be like me. However, when we scrutinise ourselves, we see that in reality my problems are from myself; my behaviour and attitude towards life and its series of events.
When we look at the people near to Allah (swt), we see they lived a life of tranquillity despite facing many enemies and hardships. From the time someone emerges, they are gripped by the jealousy of others. Yet they still have a tranquil life because they prioritise correctly, are critical of themselves and they do not expect from people. If we lower our expectations, we can easily live with others.
“Take account of yourself before it is taken of you.”
“But they impugned him. So, they will indeed be arraigned [before Him]. [All] except Allah’s exclusive servants.”204
All will have to answer one day before Allah (swt) except the sincere servants who took account of themselves beforehand. For them, if Allah declares their deeds, it would be an honour since nothing will be announced except all the good that they did. Hence, those who are critical of themselves for Allah (swt), may not even be brought forth for judgement on the day of judgement:
“Those who join that which Allah has ordered to be joined and fear their Lord and are afraid of the evil of [their] account.”205
O Allah, please help us in our efforts for happiness, felicity and nearness to you. Help us towards perfection, against our whims, desires and ego. Place us among sincere believers who may be a means for us towards you and keep us distant from bad influences and insincere people. Cure our illnesses of body and heart and remove all obstacles between us and You. Keep us, our families, friends and brother & sisters on the right path, under your guidance.
Please make our efforts of those for which Imam Mahdi (as) prays for. Forgive us and our parents, teachers, martyrs, scholars and Maraji’. Please make the last moment of our lives the best of moments.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 60, 11/09/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Introduction
The heart
Possible entrances for Shaytan into our hearts
A reminder
Summary of this session:
Recap Introduction The heart Possible entrances for Shaytan into our hearts A reminder
Previously, from volume 6 of Mahajjat al-Baydha, we discussed the problem of deception; self-deceit, deceit from worldly desires and Shaytan’s deception.
We will now move on to volume 5, page 57 concerning the gates through which Shaytan enters our hearts. This book is an improvement of Ghazali’s ‘Ihya ulum al-Din’. It is also available in English online.
The heart itself is secure and the saying “There is no God but God” is the fortress of Allah (swt) by which we deny entrance to all else except Allah. Problems arise in our hearts when we do not defend it properly and leave the gates open for the enemy. Shaytan is an enemy that is seeking to overcome this fortress and occupy our hearts fully so that he may dominate us through our hearts. If he is successful, we would then wish what he wants us to wish. This is very dangerous and destructive for us and hence we must take all measures to defend ourselves from being dominated by Shaytan.
Just as a fortress is defended by the deployment of troops on all weaknesses of it, we must deploy our efforts to resist the assaults of Shaytan from possible points of entry. Protecting one’s heart is therefore an Islamic obligation upon every individual. Obligations are not limited to practical rituals such as praying or fasting, vigilance and defence of our hearts are crucial in order to be Muslims.
The gates through which Shaytan enters our hearts are the qualities of the heart. If any quality within us is left uncultivated it can become a source of corruption in our heart and an opening for Shaytan. There are many qualities, however some qualities are like extensive gates through which an entire army of Shaytan may enter, and some of them are:
1. Greed & jealousy:
When a person is greedy and jealous, he is blind and deaf to Shaytan and Abu Dawud narrates:
“Your excessive love of something makes you blind and deaf.”
Excessive love and greed blinds one to truth and when Shaytan finds us deaf and blind, he finds an opportunity to take over our hearts. In order to defend against this we need insight of ourselves. The ability to analyse ourselves and discover weaknesses within our hearts.
Like a clever besieger who targets his bombardment towards the weak point of the walls to cause it to crumble, Shaytan discovers the weakness of greed and adds to it to prepare for his entry, he attacks us from our weak points.
The author narrates a story:
Upon preparing for the flood, Noh (as) came onto his ark and saw an old man he did not recognise. He discovered that he was Shaytan and had come to enter the hearts of the believers so that nothing is left for Noah except the bodies of believers yet their hearts being with Shaytan. Shaytan was made to confess two of the five traps by which he overcomes people and they were greed and jealousy. Shaytan revealed that it was his jealousy of Adam (as) that led to his downfall and in return he used the greed of Adam (as) to cause his downfall:
“Then Shaytan tempted him; he said “O Adam! Shall I show you the tree of immortality and an imperishable kingdom?”206
Therefore, the entire history of mankind and our struggle with Shaytan begins by greed and jealousy. Shaytan fell because he was jealous and Adam fell because he had greed in him which Shaytan exploited.
2. Anger and lowly desires
Another possible entry to our hearts for Shaytan is anger and lowly desires. A desire that weakens our intellect and blinds our judgement. Anger too, hinders our ability to think clearly. A person who is angry, is like a toy for Shaytan; easily manipulated, rash and incontrollable. He forgets all formalities, ethics and good behaviour.
Iblis met Musa (as) and asked him to intercede on his behalf so that Allah forgives him. Musa prayed to Allah and Allah (swt) accepted but the repentance of Shaytan would be to right the wrong he did; not bowing to Adam (as). He therefore, only had to prostrate to Adam’s grave, just once, and he would be forgiven for his past. However, Shaytan’s arrogance and anger kicked in and blinded him and he replied “I did not prostrate when he was alive, do you think I will prostrate to him when he is dead?”
This is the blindness brought forth by anger. When Shaytan was calm, he referred to God as “my Lord” but due to his anger he refers to him later as “your Lord”. It does not matter whether it is Adam or a stone, when Allah commands, all must obey. Shaytan did not and we do not realise who we are disobeying when we are angry. Our anger at someone causes us to disobey and show enmity to Allah (swt) without realising. Furthermore, as Musa had interceded for him, Shaytan felt obliged to thank him:
“Iblis said: ‘Because you have interceded for me before your Lord, you have a right over me. If you remember me in three situations, I will not destroy you.’”
If we remember Shaytan is ready to exploit our weaknesses when we are weak, it will motivate us to prevent ourselves from becoming vulnerable:
3. At the moment of anger:
“When you are angry, remember me. When you are angry, my spirit is in you; your eye is my eye and I am flowing within your body in the way that blood flows.”
“If a person becomes angry, I manipulate him as a child manipulates the ball he plays with.”
4. When armed conflict is necessary:
“When you are in battle, remember me. When a child of Adam rises for a just battle, I go to him and remind him of his wife and family, until [I induce him to] run away from battle.”
It is a just cause to fight oppression and defend the religion and guidance of God from being uprooted. It is detrimental to the efforts of Shaytan when believers don’t allow his schemes to actualise by stopping his armies from preventing the guidance of god from reaching people. Hence, Shaytan is quick to prevent believers from defending by using their love for their families as a bait to pacify them in the face of threats.
5. When around the other gender:
“Do not sit alone with a woman who is not mahram207 to you. If you do, I will act as the intermediary between you and that woman.”
At such moments, when we are vulnerable, weakened by our lower desires, Shaytan utilises our weakness against us to enter our hearts.
One of the prophets said to Iblis: “With what instrument do you defeat the son of Adam?” He replied: “I take control over human beings when they are angry or desire something greatly.”
6. Over indulgence
The third of the large gates to our hearts is excessive beautification of clothing, furniture and housing. When Shaytan finds this in someone’s heart, the heart becomes a breeding ground for Shaytan.
He will continuously increase his desire for refinement and beautification of his home; to keep improving. In this way we are kept occupied, oblivious to the detriment of our hearts. We also become causes of jealousy and greed for others and thereby victimise them to Shaytan with us. Like a people who are besieged but they compete in spending their resources for beautification instead of fortification. Hence, this cycle of material pursuits continue until a person dies while his heart is overrun by Shaytan.
Let us all guard our hearts from greed, jealousy, anger, lusts and excessive beautification of our homes. We must not confuse excessive beautification with being attractive, pleasant and healthy living since a believer must take care of his appearance well. However, we must not be fixated on only material improvements; drawing unnecessary attention to ourselves.
O Allah, please help us against our selfish desires and Shaytan.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 61, 18/09/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Gluttony
Expectations from people
Haste
Summary of this session:
Recap Gluttony Expectations from people Haste
We discussed the heart and some possible weaknesses through which Shaytan may enter. They were greed, jealousy, anger, lowly desires and excessive beautification. We will now continue and discuss more ways Shaytan can gain power over us.
One of the great gates though which Shaytan can enter the hearts is having a full stomach. When we eat to finish and to fill ourselves, we cause our lower desires to increase and this is a tool by which Shaytan overcomes us:
“Lowly desires are weapons for Shaytan.”
Even if the food is Halal, the effect of gluttony is detrimental to our hearts, it increases desires and hence hinders our intellect and diverts our efforts. The solution is to eat what is needed and stop eating before we become full. Hunger is a very useful and powerful tool for us; it lowers our desires and increases our intellect thereby making us ever more resistant to Shaytan. In fact it is recommended that those who cannot get married should fast to curb their lustful urges, if fasting isn’t possible then be hungry. Therefore, gluttony is the key to many other evils and we must not ruin ourselves through our stomachs.
Another important gate to our hearts is having expectations from people. If we want to live a pleasant life with others we must lower our expectations. Even with family, the lesser I expect from my father for money the more pleased I will be with him whether he gives or not. Whereas if I do expect from him he may become annoyed at my expectation. Similarly we must not expect from others.
When expectations dominate our hearts, Shaytan gives you hope about them and encourages you to achieve them by all means such as showing off, hiding the truth and flattering. The expector becomes so engrossed in his expectations that he exhausts all means; the expectee becomes the lord God of the expector in his eyes. Thus, he tries everything to gain his love and attention and he compromises on the truth:
“They are eager that you should be compromising, so that they may be compromising [towards you].”208
The expector stops enjoining good and forbidding evil as it may be detrimental to his flattery for achieving his expectations. Not caring that flattery isn’t acceptable in Islam when it is done for material possessions, power and position. Hence a narration states:
“Never ask anyone other than Allah (swt) in a manner that reflects eagerness and expectation.”
Hence, whenever we ask someone, be it doctors, experts, family and friends, we must not be overly expectant. Flattery may only be done when it is not lying and it is done only towards teachers for the sake of knowledge and parents.
Another gate for Shaytan is Haste; being rash in decision making. The Prophet (s) said:
“To be hasty is from Shaytan and to take time is from Allah.”
Whether we want to marry, make a business deal, purchasing or befriending, we must not be rash. Enquiries, seeking council and researching is a necessity prior to the agreement. In socio-political movements, patience is required against being rash and against the pressure of different groups of people and influences. Therefore, in all circumstances, it is wise to exercise patience against being rash:
“Man is a creature of haste. Soon I will show you My signs. So, do not ask Me to hasten.”209
“Man supplicates for evil as he supplicates for good, and man is ever hasty.”210
A young man once asked an old man why he was planting trees the fruits of which he will never see in his lifetime, he wisely replied:
“Our ancestors planted and we ate. We plant so that others may eat.”
It is with patience and farsightedness that communities grow successfully. We must all work to prevent ourselves from short-sightedness; wanting to undertake only the projects the fruits of which we can see in our lifetime. This severely limits us and prevents our development over generations.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 62, 02/10/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Detachment from a worldly life
Miserliness and fear of poverty
Religious prejudice and sectarianism
True followers
Summary of this session:
Recap Detachment from a worldly life Miserliness and fear of poverty Religious prejudice and sectarianism True followers
We previously discussed how Shaytan can manipulate our hearts through some vices. We discussed gluttony, expectation from people and rashness. We will now continue our discussion.
It is narrated that Prophet Isa (as) used a stone as a pillow. Iblis came and said “O Isa! You are showing some eagerness for the world!” Then Isa (as) threw the stone and said “This is for you with everything else from the worldly life.”211
Although sleeping on a pillow is fine, the story shows that Isa (as) did not allow any chance of attachment to worldly life. Becoming attached to a worldly life starts from small comforts and leads a person to continuously seek more comforts endlessly. The more comfortable our sleeping place is, the harder it is to wake up for prayers. Therefore, our comforts should not become a means of hindering our spiritual development.
Another entrance Shaytan uses to enter our hearts is by utilising our fears. A clever enemy manipulates his adversaries by making them panic and defeating them while they are in despair. Shaytan does this well with many of us, he scares us using the threat of poverty. Once we are in panic about poverty, we forget Allah (swt) and seek every means of gaining money and hoarding it, legitimate or illegitimate, it does not matter to us then. Out of fear we ignore Allah (swt) when he says:
“Those who treasure up gold and silver and do not spend in the way of Allah, then give them tidings of a painful punishment.”212
The verse says gold and silver because that was the currency and so it applies equally to paper currency. Out of fear of poverty we ruin ourselves by miserliness and then we are causing further poverty by stopping the flow of currency.
Another problem is that out of fear of poverty we then spend too much time in the market; a place which causes one to forget Allah (swt) as well as good virtues such as honesty. Therefore, it is not wise to spend too much time in the markets and businesses.
Another major opening for Shaytan is prejudice for one’s own religion or sect. This leads to condemnations, excommunications, hated, animosity and armed conflicts. This is common among both the practicing and non-practicing.
Within humans there is a tendency from the faculty of anger; to attack others. If someone is irreligious they either do not justify this tendency or their justifications are weak. However, when someone has a religious prejudice they are willing to die on that path thinking they are upholding the truth and would become martyrs; he enjoys being prejudiced. This is why religious people can become fanatics. They become insensitive to the sufferings of others because they have a different view. Religious people can cause unimaginable cruelties without feeling guilty because they are adamant that they are right and Allah (swt) is on their side. Therefore, he devotes himself to his prejudice thinking he is supporting religion but in fact he is following Shaytan.
There are those of us whom claim to be followers of Imam Ali (as). We indulge in a worldly life while Imam Ali (as) looked like the poorest man despite being the Caliph. Yet they harass other people due to their sectarian prejudice. For such people who claim to be following Imam Ali (as); the Imam would be the first to oppose their claim. How can you claim to be his follower when you don’t actually follow him in anything? They don’t even try to live life as the Imams did and yet they attack other Muslims in the name of Imam Ali (as). How can a person attack a child in the name of the child’s father?
Without a doubt, one who loves the father is kind to his child and family. Those who claim to love the Prophet (s) and Imam Ali (as) must be lenient and kind to Muslims. Shaytan has persuaded this so called Shias that if they die loving Imam Ali, the fire would not touch them. Whereas the Imams themselves have refuted this silly expectation:
“O Jabir! Does the one who claims to be a Shia think it is sufficient for him to say that he loves the Ahl al-Bayt? By Allah! Our Shias are only those who fear and obey Allah.”
If we claim to be Shias, we must ask ourselves; in what do we follow the Ahlul Bayt?
“And our Shi’as are not known except by these qualities: humility, humbleness and softness of the heart, trustworthiness, excessive remembrance of Allah, fasting, Salah, goodness to parents, commitment in looking after their neighbours – especially the poor, needy, indebted, and orphans amongst them, truthfulness, recitation of the Qur’an, speaking only well of people, and they are also considered honest and trustworthy in their tribes and communities.”
If we claim to be followers of Imam Ali (as), we must possess these qualities.
“The faithful are only those whose hearts tremble [with awe] when Allah is mentioned, and when His signs are recited to them, they increase their faith, and who put their trust in their Lord.”213
“If someone says: ‘I love the Messenger of Allah’, and the Messenger of Allah was better than Ali, but he does not follow his example and his tradition, then what is the benefit of his love? Hence, you must have Taqwa and act for the sake of what is with Allah. Between Allah and any person, there is no kinship.”
“The noblest of you in the sight of Allah is the most God-wary among you.”214
“By Allah, no one can attain proximity to Allah except through obedience [to Him]. And we do not possess a guarantee of protection from the fire.”
When Allah (swt) decides, it is final. The Imams are with us if we are obedient to Allah (swt). There is no special kinship between us and Allah that would exempt us from facing the consequences of our actions. Therefore, we must focus on ourselves and our families; make sure we are on the right path. If we are then we will inspire others. As a community we must set some fundamental qualities such as honesty as a standard practice because Shias are those “considered honest and trustworthy in the tribes and communities.”
Perhaps there isn’t any community in the world which has embodied a quality properly but since we claim to be Shias, we must be better than others in our efforts to establish virtues. It is with our virtues that we are resurrected on the day of judgement.
O Allah, please help us to be true followers of the Prophets and Imams wholeheartedly. Make us witnesses for the truth, forgive our sins and faults and give us the determination to live a virtuous life in obedience to You.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 63, 09/10/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Goodness to people
Importance of modesty
Back to Ghazali’s Ihya Ulum al-Din
A prayer
Summary of this session:
Recap Goodness to people Importance of modesty Back to Ghazali’s Ihya Ulum al-Din A prayer
Previously we discussed the importance of detachment from worldly life, Shaytan utilising our fears against us and lastly we discussed what a true follower of the Ahlul Bayt (as) is. We discussed the narration in which the Imam converses with Jabir about the qualities of true Shias. We will now continue therefrom.
Abu Sabah spoke to Imam Sadiq (as) about how he has to tolerate bad treatment due to his affiliation with the Imam. He said “when we discuss with someone, he says ‘you are the followers of Ja’far and you are evil’.”
The Imam replied:
“By Allah, how small is the number of people who follow Ja’far. Those who are truly my followers are those whose piety is very strong, who act sincerely for their creator and whose hope is only His reward. These are my companions.”
It seems that Abu Sabah thought he was doing the Imam a favour by being associated to him whereas the Imam replied by defining the high standards set in order for someone to be his companion and follower. We must never think we are doing the Ahlul Bayt a favour; rather Allah has favoured us by giving us this opportunity:
“They count it as a favour to you that they have embraced Islam. Say, “Do not count it as a favour to me, your embracing of Islam. Rather, it is Allah who has done you a favour in that He has guided you to faith, should you be truthful.”215
Being a Shia is only authenticated by high degree of faith and virtue; for the rest it is better if we say ‘we are trying to learn from the Imam’. If Abu Sabah had been a true follower of the Imam, he would have been beloved of the people. The narration implies he wasn’t good to people and so attracted their hatred. It is important for us to remember this:
“Be a source of adornment for us, not a source of embarrassment.”
It is only by interacting with others in the best manner can we hope to be qualified as a Shia.
Imam Sadiq (as) said:
“Our Shias are only those who speak with restraint to women behind their veils.”
Islamically, we must not speak in an open or informal way with the other gender. Our appearance must be modest but in addition we must have restraint to not speak about an inappropriate subject or in an immodest manner. Otherwise such a person is not Shia.
“Our friend is not one who lives in a village of 10,000 people and among them are people more pious than him.”
Meaning that if among our community, our town, there are people more pious than us then we are not true Shias. In other words, Shias are the most pious in comparison to non-Shias. We must strive to embody the examples of the Ahlul Bayt, and when we do then we are Shia. This extends to all good qualities and manners e.g. politeness; Shias are only those who are politest of people. If those without access to the Ahlul Bayt are more pious than us then not only is it a point of embarrassment for us but those people are better followers of the Ahlul Bayt without having our resources.
One way by which Shaytan enters the heart is prejudice and bias towards a faith or denomination. The majority of people are destroyed by Shaytan through their religious bias. Pulpits are given to those who lack good content to teach. Since they lack good content about useful and important subjects such as Islamic ethics, they end up utilising people’s prejudice to increase their following and secure themselves a pulpit.
Preachers who are keen to extend their following, they know the so called Shia public are easily induced in attacking others. They capitalise on this and excite the prejudice of so called Shias against Sunnis to give themselves a sense of superiority. These speakers, since they are following people’s prejudice, soon find their popularity and following to increase in the process. This in turn becomes a competition between people of different denominations; about who can outdo the other in prejudice.
In their hearts they see these actions as virtuous but in reality they are deceived and instigated by Shaytan to create division among people. Iblis first tries to beautify people’s sins, if he is defeated by repentance then he beautifies sins for which they do not seek forgiveness such as following their own whims and opinions. He therefore, occupies people’s minds and hearts by fixating them on the faults and criticism of others while neglecting themselves.
If Shaytan is unable to stop our worshipping and remembrance of Allah directly, he affects us indirectly; by utilising other human beings. He will cause a weak minded group to fight each other so that the strong minded are sucked in by the conflict and the drama makes them forget Allah (swt).
Another strategy of Shaytan is to encourage weak minded and ignorant people to engage in deep theological and philosophical discussions. They are then confused and misguided due to their misunderstanding of difficult concepts. This is especially dangerous because after reaching false conclusions about God, they consider it a great intellectual achievement and develop a compound
Ignorance; thinking they now know when in reality they do not. Hence, these deluded people then think they have reached such a lofty position that no one else has.
O Allah please save us from the plots of Shaytan, keep us united, protect us from our desires that follow Shaytan instead of our intellect. Please give us insight so that we know what is best for us and most pleasing to Allah (swt).
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 64, 16/10/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Another gate for Shaytan
Suspicion
Difference between caution and suspicion
Preventing suspicion
Causes of suspicion
Imam Zayn al-Abideen (as)
Summary of this session:
Another gate for Shaytan It is good to question for the development of knowledge. However everyone’s morsel must be proportionate to them: Suspicion Difference between caution and suspicion Preventing suspicion Causes of suspicion Imam Zayn al-Abideen (as)
One way by which Shaytan enters our hearts is through analysis of deep philosophical questions when we don’t have sufficient capacity nor knowledge. Such a person thinks he is performing a virtuous act of seeking truth but in reality he is being led to doubt the entire basis of his faith due to his lack of intellectual capability.
The Messenger of Allah (s) said:
“Indeed, Shaytan may come to you and ask, ‘who created you?’ The answer you’d give is ‘Allah (swt)’. Thereafter, Shaytan would ask ‘who created Allah?’ If this happens to any of you, then he should say ‘I believe in Allah, the exalted and His messenger’ and then the doubt will depart.”
Such a discussion is good for scholars or those willing to study in depth to understand the answer. This question has been answered so it is not that we are covering up the truth by avoiding questioning. The answer is that not every being needs a cause, only contingent beings do; Allah(swt), the necessary existent being incontingent cannot have a cause. However, it is such questions that lead untrained minds into misguidance and confusion e.g. Bertrand Russell says the question came to his mind one day: “If God has created everything then who created God?” Since that day he says he stopped believing in God.
Had his circumstances been different and someone clarified to him the difference between contingency and incontingency then he may have remained a believer. Therefore, some doubts are ill placed and ill-timed by Shaytan to misguide people, not lead them to academic discussions. They are worse than sins because a sin leads to either repentance or not but either way the person can remain a believer, however such doubts damage a person’s faith making them more harmful than sins.
Another major gate by which Shaytan enters the hearts is suspicion and hence why Allah (swt) says:
“O you who have faith! Avoid most of suspicion. Indeed, some suspicions are sins. And do not spy on or backbite one another.”216
By creating suspicion about others, Shaytan prevents us from having good relationships with each other and spark a circle of hate and distrust among us. In most cases we must drop our suspicions of others as they are misleading and harmful.
Only in a very small number of cases are we allowed to be suspicious; e.g. about a person who is famously deviant or in a society in which the majority are untrustworthy. Other than these cases, suspicion only misleads us towards hating others.
Suspicion does not allow us to think positively of a person whereas in caution we are not influenced by our emotions. If a suspected person is nice, we think he is deceiving us. Whereas if a cautioned person is nice we are able to take his kindness genuinely. In making friends, it is good to be cautious but not suspicious because caution leads to making a rational judgement that acknowledges the goodness of the other but suspicion does not allow us to recognise their goodness. Suspicion may lead to sins such as backbiting but caution only prevents us from sinning. Therefore, caution is mostly good, but suspicion is mostly bad.
Suspicion is so destructive that we must avoid having it and also avoid being a cause of it for others. The noble Prophet (s) said:
“Avoid circumstances that may incur false accusations.”
A person may be pure in his intention but his appearance may arouse the suspicion of others. This goes for all, scholar or not, everyone can arouse the suspicion of others; even the Prophet (s); once the Prophet (s) was talking to his aunt Safiyyah when two persons walked by and noticed. The Prophet clarified that she is his aunt and therefore a Mahram from his household. The two persons said there was no need for clarification but the Prophet replied:
“Indeed, Shaytan flows within the sons of Adam like the way blood flows within them and indeed I was worried that Shaytan may enter within you.”
If the Prophet needs to prevent suspicion about himself then we are definitely in danger of arousing suspicions against us by appearing in suspicious places or with suspicious people. If we avoid arousing suspicions and being suspicious of others then as a whole society reduces in hate and increases in love because when we are happy with someone it becomes easy to overlook their problems or completely miss them. Therefore, avoidance of suspicion allows us to maintain a balance between pleasure and displeasure at people.
Suspicion of others may stem from internal diseases. When a person has a negative quality, he thinks negatively of others. When a person is continuously suspicious of others it shows the evil within that person; his own vicious character reveals itself.
Whereas a virtuous person has a good opinion of others and does not find fault nor treats other suspiciously thereby denying their goodness.
However, it is also possible that a person may be good yet be suspicious of others due to his environment of continuously dealing with bad people e.g. lawyers and policemen; such people are innocently suspicious due to their environment but this suspicion must still be curbed to avoid unwarranted suspicion of others. Since, without a doubt, a believer is one who seeks to excuse people’s shortcomings rather than jumping to negative conclusions about them. A believer has a pure heart with respect to all creation, Muslim or non-Muslim; unless there is evidence to the contrary.
The gates mentioned so far are some of the many possible points of entry of Shaytan into our hearts. However, every moral deficiency in our hearts are weapons against us for Shaytan. Although if we remain alert about the main gates we have discussed then we should become aware of smaller ones as a result. Therefore, every moral weakness within a person is a source of strength for Shaytan.
He was born on either the year 36, 37 or 38 AH. When Imam Husayn (as) became martyred he was 23, 24 or 25 years old. He was martyred either on the 12th or 25th of Muharram. The dates in history are conflicting. He lived for 56, 57 or 58 years.
Prior to Karbala he faced many difficulties when his father and uncle, Imam Hasan and Husayn (as) both had to endure a bitter peace and a tyrannical rule of the Ummayad Muawiya and his son Yazid. Having to see his grandfather’s Ummah being misled against the Prophet’s household; Imam Ali (as) being cursed from the pulpits as per orders of the Caliph Muawiya, Imam Hasan (as) being poisoned, lovers of the Ahlul Bayt being prosecuted and being under constant threat and spying of the Ummayad. All are too much to bear for some already but the Imam remained patient.
The situation deteriorated further with the assassination of Imam Hasan (as) and then Yazid (la) trying to force Imam Husayn to pay allegiance to him and legitimise his anti-Islamic tyranny. They fled Medina for Mecca and left Mecca at the request of those in Kufa yet ended up being cornered in Karbala and seeing his household around him, including his father and grandson of the Prophet, along with the granddaughters of the Prophet being martyred and mistreated by the hypocrites of Yazid.
When a relative passes away naturally, it is difficult especially if they are beloved. When they are killed it is even more difficult; yet to have your own beloved father killed in a most brutal manner; being killed thirsty, slowly with multitude of injuries instead of a decisive blow and then being trampled upon by warhorses, in front of you is unbearable. What further made it difficult was their attack on the tent of the defenceless women and children; causing panic among them and terrorising them. All being witnessed by the Imam.
Yet when he was asked what was most difficult for him he cried thrice “Al-Sham” meaning Syria. There he and the women and children of the Prophet’s household were paraded as slaves in chains and dragged across the town while the ignorant folks cheered at their sorrow and threw garbage at them. Upon entering the palace of the tyrant Yazid he had to witness the further desecration of Imam Husayn’s severed head; while the filthy men of the court stared at the women of the Prophet’s household shamelessly. For the Imam, this was most difficult; worse than the murder of his father, was the desecration of the women; the children of the Prophet (s).
As a result of all this, when he would drink water he would weep about the thirst of Imam Husayn as he was martyred. If a person would slaughter a sheep and the owner would say they have given the sheep water before slewing it as required per Islam, he would weep and say “But my father was killed thirsty!” Islam requires that a slaughter knife be sharp so that it is painless and quick for the sheep and at the thought of this the Imam would weep and say “they killed my father slowly”.
Any other person, even the most patient of them would become mad after such difficulties; the Imam looked like an old man and his hair grew white at the distress he went through. Yet still the Imam was not broken by his sufferings. He reminded people of the cruelty of the Ummayad yet did not dwell on the past. He enabled Shias to move forward when any other community would be devastated beyond recovery if their Imam is killed and their cities such as Medina is massacred and raped; Yazid gave his army permission to do whatever they willed for 3 days to the inhabitants of Medina; for 3 days thousands of women were raped, the men were slaughtered and the Prophet’s shrine was turned into a stables. It was indeed a great blow to the believers.
Any other community would have been pacified by such cruelty yet the Imam strengthened the community of his grandfather with patience and persistence while exposing the hypocrisy of the so called Islamic Caliphate. Despite having a broken heart, the Imam held the community together across this tough time. None of it would have been possible if it hadn’t been for the Imam’s deep connection with Allah (swt); in all of this depression and difficulty, the Imam was peaceful and in equilibrium in himself. He never allowed hatred to blind him; even when a governor sought his refuge for his family, the Imam helped him and saved his family even though the same people did not give the same privilege to the Imam’s family.
When we recite his Duas, we must remember his history and then we would see how amazing it is that a man so besought by troubles was in so much peace within himself. He was truly like Prophet Ibrahim (as) in the fire; yet what surrounded him was worse than fire.
Imam Zayn al-Abideen (as) summarised all of religion as:
“Speaking the truth, judging with justice and loyalty to promises.”
If we are religious yet lack these then we have a hollow faith. To be true followers of the Imam, we must have these core qualities in our faith; only then are we believers.
O Allah, please endow us with the noble traits of character of Imam Zayn al-Abideen such as those mentioned in Dua Makarim al-Akhlaq and enable us to be truthful, just and loyal believers.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 65, 23/10/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Protecting the heart from Shaytan
The role of remembrance of Allah (swt)
Criticism
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Introduction
Previously, we completed the chapter that details the different gates by which Shaytan enters the heart. Protecting the heart from Shaytan Remembrance of Allah is ineffective if the heart is already occupied by Shaytan. If a person is jealous, greedy, prejudiced or licentious then remembering God verbally while being a slave of Shaytan has no meaning. Therefore, the treatment of an ill heart is to first seal the gates and purify the heart from bad qualities, only after that can we benefit from the remembrance of Allah (swt). The role of remembrance of Allah (swt) Criticism Conclusion In conclusion, spiritual problems cannot be resolved by superficial verbal remembrance of Allah (swt). If one’s heart is in service of Shaytan due to its filling with evil qualities then remembering God has no benefit; it is like eating faint medicine over a full stomach, the food does not allow the body to benefit from the medicine or the medicine is corrupted by the food. Similarly remembering Allah superficially while being an embodiment of satanic qualities does not allow one to benefit from the remembrance, it may even make it worse as it leads a person to hypocrisy and deception.
Now, we will continue our discussion about the heart in Mahajjat al-Bayda, page 67.
“When those who are God-wary are touched by a visitation of Satan, they remember [Allah] and, behold, they perceive.”217
Once the gates are sealed, if Shaytan visits the gates then remembrance of God is what drives him away. However, this is only possible for a God-wary person (Muttaqi) who has purified his heart. Since God-wariness (Taqwa) only means a pure and God-conscious heart.
For the impious, they are not on alert against the plans of Shaytan in order to foil them. They are thus overcome by Shaytan and they cannot challenge the threat of Shaytan. The only solution is to remove the roots of evil qualities from their hearts and then remember God whenever Shaytan tempts them.
Therefore, in order to defend our hearts from Shaytan, we must keep the gates of entry shut by cleansing our hearts of all bad qualities. However, once the heart is secure, it cannot be overtaken by Shaytan but he can still assault the heart by desires and temptation but he cannot overtake it.
After the heart is secured and the bad qualities uprooted from it then the way to defend against the visitation of Shaytan is by remembering Allah (swt). If upon visitation, Shaytan finds stern guards at the door he quickly departs but if he finds weak guards who are willing to give the keys to a gate then he has found a point of entry to the heart. The stern guards to the heart is the remembrance of Allah upon Shaytan’s visit:
“Should a temptation from Satan disturb you, invoke the protection of Allah; indeed, He is all-hearing, all-knowing.”218
However, this remembrance is only beneficial for those who have a heart in the first place and that is why Allah (swt) says that remembrance is for one who has a heart:
“Indeed, in that is a reminder for whoever has a heart or who listens while he is attentive.”219
Therefore, remembrance is beneficial only for those whom have a pure heart. One who allows himself to build bad qualities in his heart has given the keys of his heart’s gates to Shaytan and has helped him to dominate the heart. The remembrance of Allah, verbally, is of no benefit therefrom because he has cut the means by which he may be helped; that means being the heart. By willingly allowing Shaytan to enter, he has taken him as a friend and guardian while Allah (swt) has said:
“It has been decreed that should anyone take him for a friend, he will lead him astray and guide him toward the punishment of the Blaze.”220
There is a narration that:
“The remembrance of Allah repels Shaytan.”
Someone could argue that this narration shows that remembrance is always beneficial.
However, the clarification is that every general rule has its conditions and exceptions. If a person looks into his own soul he would see that there is prerequisite that enables a person to remember Allah. Thus, thinking over our own state and seeing this reality is more convincing than hearing about it from another.
As an example, let us consider our prayers; the best form of remembrance. Notice how Shaytan distracts us during our prayers. Whenever we stand for prayers, all sorts of matters come to our mind such that we forget Allah (swt) during our prayers and are instead remembering our business, money, objects of desires etc.
It is because our hearts are not secure from Shaytan. Since he dominates our hearts, he diverts us from remembering Allah (swt) even during the best form of remembrance. Hence, during prayers, our lips utter words and our limbs move but we are in deep thoughts about worldly matters.
Therefore, prayers are the measure of the strength of our heart against Shaytan. If we enjoy prayers and maintain concentration; a presence of mind and heart, only then are we truly remembering Allah (swt). Hence, the prerequisite of remembering Allah is having a pure heart.
Allah (swt) has said:
“Call Me and I will answer you.”
Hence if a person’s call is not answered it cannot be that God hasn’t kept his promise. Rather it must be that our calls are not genuine. It is not a genuine calling if a person replaces God with Shaytan in his heart but then superficially remembers God. Neither would the call be genuine nor would Shaytan depart.
Remembrance of Allah is like patrols around a fortress; there is no point patrolling a fortress that you do not control because patrolling is only to keep the fortress aware of encroaching enemies. Similarly, remembrance only has meaning when our hearts are secure and we patrol our hearts to keep Satan away from approaching the secure gates.
To cleanse the heart, God-wariness is required. A healthy heart is one which is exclusively filled with Allah (swt) and godly attributes alone:
“The day when wealth and children shall not benefit anyone except one who comes to Allah with a sound heart.”221
Regarding this verse Imam Sadiq (as) says:
“The sound heart is one that meets its Lord whilst it contains none other than him.”
“Every heart in which there is Shirk (taking partners with Allah) or doubt has thus failed.”
Therefore, weakness in one’s belief or being partially dedicated to God and partially to other than God are both signs of a failed heart. We must endeavour to dedicate our hearts only for Allah because:
“The heart is the sanctuary of Allah; do not settle anything other than Allah in the sanctuary of Allah.”
Therefore, we cannot be dedicated to Allah without purifying our hearts of anything other than good qualities that are pleasing to Him. Only then can we be mindful of Him and genuinely remember Him.
May Allah (swt) help us in our struggles, especially against our own selves, and all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 66, 06/11/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
The study of the heart
Seeking forgiveness (Istighfar)
Negative and evil ideas
Summary of this session:
The study of the heart
We are continuing our discussion from Mullah Muhsin Faydh Kashani’s Mahajjat al-Baydha, page 69. Ghazali quotes from Ibn al-Adham; who was a spiritual sage that we can benefit from, 8 points regarding why the heart dies and hence supplications aren’t heard by Allah (swt): Ibn Al-Adham therefore replies that it is because the heart is dead due to the following reasons: Seeking forgiveness (Istighfar) The first step to prevent our hearts from dying or to revive a dead heart is seeking forgiveness. Although this is also a supplication but it is one that does not have the prerequisites of other supplications; all a person needs to do is right the wrong committed as much as he can and to not insist on his sins. In Dua Kumayl we ask: Negative and evil ideas On page 73, the discussion is about evil thoughts and how to address the problem. In the Quran and narrations there are some apparently conflicting verses and narrations where some state that evil thoughts aren’t sinful whilst others state that they are. However, the answer is a clarification of both. We know good intentions and actions are rewarded and evil actions are punished, the discussion is about thoughts: Therefore, evil thoughts which arise unintentionally are not recorded as sins. Other evil thoughts that are intentional may be forgiven by Allah (swt) due to their pettiness or Allah’s mercy. However, that which is detrimental to our souls must be avoided because they take us towards our destruction and are hence a sin.
A person complained to him that his supplications aren’t being answered while Allah (swt) says in the Quran:
“Your Lord has said ‘call upon Me and I will hear you!’”
1. You understand the rights of Allah yet you do not observe them.
For example His right to be obeyed and thanked.
2. The Quran is recited yet it is not acted upon.
3. You claim to love the messenger of Allah but you do not follow him in his example and traditions.
4. You fear death yet you do not prepare for it.
5. Satan is your enemy:
“Indeed, Satan is your enemy, so treat him as an enemy. He only invites his party so that they may be among the inmates of the Blaze.”222
Yet you take him as a friend, knowing Satan is your enemy, you follow him.
6. You say “we fear the fire” yet you place yourself in it by sinning.
7. You say “we love paradise” yet you do not work for it.
8. At the start of your days you begin by neglecting your own defects and focus on the faults of others.
These are 8 reasons Ibn al-Adham lists for the death of hearts. As a result of these 8 crimes, we anger Allah and as a result our supplications aren’t responded to.
“O Allah, please forgive the sins that block the supplications.”
Therefore, by seeking forgiveness of our sins, we revive our hearts and make way for our other supplications to be serious and acceptable.
It is narrated from the Prophet (s):
“My Ummah is forgiven for the inner conversations within their souls.”
It is narrated from the Imam (as):
“Whoever desires to perform an evil deed but does not perform it, no sin will be written for him.”
Narrations such as these show that evil thoughts are not counted as sins however, some verses indicate that evil thoughts are:
“Do not conceal testimony and whoever conceals it then his heart is sinful.”
“Allah does not impose blame upon you for what is unintentional in your oaths, but He imposes blame upon you for what your hearts have earned. And Allah is Forgiving and Forbearing.”
These verses indicate that Allah holds us responsible for our inner state such as our thoughts.
The answer is that there are two types of evil thoughts; one which harms us and the other being harmless. Similar to when a patient has a physical illness; some forms of stress or depression can hamper or even damage a person’s physical recovery or health. It is advisable for them to not stress and to surround themselves with positivity. Similarly in spirituality, our souls are damaged by persistent negativity and hence why some of them may even be sinful. As a result, those evil thoughts which are detrimental to our spiritual wellbeing they are sinful.
As an example; despair from Allah (swt). Someone who losses all hope has caused his own defeat. Henceforth he cannot build any virtues and he hopelessly commits sins thinking there isn’t any way for him to save himself from eternal damnation. Such an evil mental state is a great sin because of how destructive it is.
In conclusion, there are no contradictions; rather to the general rule, there are exceptions.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 67, 13/11/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Thoughts and intentions without action
Accountability
Prevention
Pre-occupation
Variation in temptation
Seeking advice
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Introduction
Previously we started discussing whether thoughts and intentions that have not manifested into action are sinful and accountable. We will now continue that discussion from Mahajjat al-Baydha, page 73-75. Thoughts and intentions without action There are 5 stages that occur in the mind between a thought and a sinful action: Accountability Among the 5 stages, where there isn’t an exercise of free will, there is no accountability. Therefore, the first, second and third stages aren’t accountable because the thought and desires are natural and appear without the agent choosing. This is referred to as the ‘internal conversations’ by Prevention If a person wishes to stop sinning, the best solution is to tackle it at the early stages before a decision is made to act. By preparing oneself to sin; by stimulating its thought all the time, by justifying it and then deciding to do it, we are only strengthening our lower desires and hence inclining towards sin. To avoid sinning at the latter stages is very difficult but still possible. However, to distract oneself from sinful thoughts and temptations and to not justify them by misuse of our intellect is easier: Pre-occupation Another means of avoiding sins and weakening our lower desires is to be busy in higher pursuits. The Caliph sent an attractive woman to the cell of Imam Kadhim (as) in the hope to seduce him yet she was seen as a mere interruption and hence he easily ignored her due to his worship and connection to Allah (swt). Another example is during the month of Ramadhan, because we are engaged in a higher pursuit by fasting, not eating becomes much easier. Variation in temptation Many people who come to see the ugliness of their sins become repulsed at the thought of it and hence they are stronger against those sins. E.g. someone who has quit smoking may now regret and hate the concept and so it does not tempt him at all. However, other addictions especially those linked with natural desires, may remain tempting even after some degree of control is achieved such that the mere thought entices us. Seeking advice ‘Uthman ibn Madh’un thought about different actions which all would have been detrimental to his life in this world and the next had he not consulted the Prophet. As he did, the Prophet’s advice guided him away from evil thoughts: Conclusion According to Ghazali, thoughts and intentions that are made with free will are accountable whereas thoughts without free will are forgiven. However, for us we must ask our Maraja to clarify for us what is sinful and what is not because the discussion is a complex one.
1. Thought: thinking about a sin.
E.g. realising there is a woman that I can look at.
2. Attraction: feeling a desire to act upon the thought.
E.g. a desire to look arises.
3. A strengthened attraction: the desire is reinforced.
E.g. the desire to look is stimulated and the more a person thinks over it, the more the desire is strengthened.
4. Judgement: thinking whether the action should be committed or not.
E.g. the person decides whether or not it is worth to look at her. Often at this point there are barriers that guide us away from sins such as modesty and fear of either people or Allah (swt) to not commit the sin. However, we rationalise and justify our sins by misusing our intellect. Therefore, we deceive ourselves by arguing against barriers such as modesty and God-wariness.
5. Decision: a firm decision to act.
E.g. the person, now being in self-deceit by justifying his sins, decides it is acceptable to commit this action.
Whether or not a person succeeds in physically committing the sin is based on it being possible for him due to his context. It could be that the person looks hoping to see a beautiful woman but instead realises that was a man. He could also regret his decision to sin and awakens from his self-deceit.
The Prophet (s):
“My Ummah is forgiven for their internal conversations within themselves.”
However, when a person passes a verdict for himself in support of sinning and when he decides to act on it; here free will is exercised and so there is accountability. Therefore, the fourth and fifth stages are accountable.
“And she certainly inclined [to seduce] him, and he would have inclined to her had he not seen the proof of his Lord. And thus [it was] that We should avert from him evil and immorality. Indeed, he was of Our chosen servants.”223
Therefore, it is best to not incline to sin in the first place than to incline and hope to stop oneself from sinning.
‘Uthman thought of divorcing his wife, the Prophet replied:
“Stop. Surely marriage is from my Sunnah.”
He thought about castrating himself, the Prophet replied:
“Monasticism is in striving [in the way of Allah] and performing Hajj.”
He thought about avoiding eating meat, the Prophet replied:
“I love meat and if I had meat every day, I would eat it. And if I asked Allah for meat, he would give it to me.”
Therefore, before we decide to act on our thoughts, we must seek counsel from the wise and knowledgeable scholars to find out what is actually pleasing to the soul and to Allah (swt).
It is good to remember that even if a person sins, he may still be forgiven out of Allah’s mercy. Therefore, we must not fall into despair after sinning as that is detrimental to us and a great sin.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 68, 20/11/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Thoughts and actions
Further clarifications
Clarifying a doubt
The importance of the heart
Complete removal of evil thoughts and temptations
Summary of this session:
Recap
Previously, we discussed various stages of thought that occurs before an action is performed. We concluded there is a difference between thought and decision; the former being sinless and the latter being sinful due to the element of free will. Thoughts and actions The Prophet (s) said: Further clarifications When this verse was revealed: Clarifying a doubt Those who believe all thoughts and intentions aren’t accountable have not distinguished between the various stages of thinking; points at which free will is exercised and involuntary thoughts. How can we say that decisions made intently and evil qualities of the heart aren’t questioned, qualities such as self-praise, hypocrisy, jealousy and arrogance? While the Quran states that the heart is accountable:228 The importance of the heart The Prophet (s) pointed to his heart and said: Complete removal of evil thoughts and temptations Temptations are of 3 types:
We will now continue our discussion from page 73 of Mahajjat al-Baydha by Mullah Muhsin Faydh Kashani
“The angels said:
‘Our Lord, your servant wants to commit an evil action whilst aware.’
Allah (swt) replied:
‘Watch over him. If he performs it, record it as it is and if he abstains from it then record for him a good deed. Indeed, he has left it for My sake.’”
Abstention from performing a bad deed which requires a firm decision to turn away from sinning is like compelling a charging horse to turn direction. Due to its difficulty, efforts for abstention are rewarded by Allah (swt):
“But as for he who feared the position of his Lord and prevented the soul from [unlawful] inclination, then indeed, paradise will be the refuge.”224
How can someone then be rewarded for not committing the action, not by prevention, but by an obstacle? Since there is no effort from the agent’s side, there is no merit and no reward in the inability to perform it. It is for this reason the Prophet (s) said:
“Indeed, people will be resurrected according to their intentions.”
Meaning those intentions that were going to be acted upon, had an obstacle not prevented the person; as a result his intention is counted against him. For example, a person who intends to fornicate but is killed on his way there. Such a person is held to account for his decision because an obstacle prevented him that forced him to not be able to commit it.
“A believer’s intention is better than his action.”
A believer has the best intentions but his context prevents him from achieving what he intended ideally. Whereas, evil people are worse in their intentions than their actions because contextual circumstances prevent them from achieving the evil to the extend they intended. The good intention is rewarded and the evil intention is recorded because “the intention is the basis of an action.”
The Prophet (s) said:
“When two Muslims meet with their swords, both the killer and the one who is killed will be in the hell-fire.”
People asked:
“This is justifiable for the killer, but why is the killed punished?”
The Prophet (s) replied:
“Because he also intended to kill his companion.”225
Therefore, both are held accountable for their intentions because both of them acted on them. Hence, a person who intends to commit a sin but becomes unable to do so due to unforeseen circumstances such as death then he has not changed from his intention and is guilty of it.
The only way for exoneration for the evil is to do Good and one good deed is regret. Therefore, if a person regrets performing something or regrets their evil intention then they are forgiven, God willing.
In conclusion, whatever a servant of Allah (swt) commits with free will then he is accountable and this includes the decisions and intentions he makes by his choice. Whereas, whatever is committed without free will is not accountable because the agent had no active choice.
“Say: ‘whether you hide what is in your chests or disclose it, Allah knows. And he knows what is in the heavens and what is in the earth; and Allah has power over all things.’”226
People assumed it meant all thoughts, voluntary and involuntary. Then it was revealed:
“Allah does not task a soul beyond its capacity. Whatever it earns is to its benefit and whatever it incurs is to its harm. Our Lord! Take us not to task if we forget or make mistakes! Our Lord! Place not upon us a burden as You placed on those who were before us!”227
It is narrated that Imam Ali (as) said the burden mentioned in this verse are the involuntary thoughts which were lifted by the revelation of this verse. Hence, believers only need to exonerate themselves from voluntary evil thoughts.
Wisdom dictates that we must not allow evil thoughts to persist in our minds as it leads us to develop our desires to commit evil which in turn makes avoiding evil more difficult. Therefore, even if a person does not intently choose to have evil intentions, it is still wiser to avoid being negative since it affects our spirituality even if it is not counted as a sin. E.g. jealousy is not punished unless it is acted upon, however we must relinquish jealousy because the mere feeling is bad for us. Hence, we cannot tolerate evil qualities merely because we don’t act on them. Even if qualities such as arrogance, jealousy, greed aren’t manifested, they still harm us.
Such evil qualities are rooted in our spiritual defects; they have a cause. If we wish to improve ourselves then we must not allow ourselves to be platforms on which evil qualities grow. E.g. jealousy may grow out of lack on contentment with Allah’s blessings, ingratitude, lack of trust and/or being small hearted in the sense that he cannot be happy when something good occurs for others.
It is noteworthy that it is good to be envious of the good things other people have but jealousy is when you are upset about why others have it but you don’t. We must pray to also have what they have, not be angry about why they have it.
“Indeed, the hearing, the eyesight and the heart, all of these are accountable.”
“God-wariness (Taqwa) is found here.”
And the Quran states:
“It is not their flesh nor their blood that reaches Allah. Rather it is your God-wariness (Taqwa) that reaches Him.”229
1. When Shaytan covers truth with falsehood.
E.g. He tells us to prioritise pleasure over purpose by telling us life is long and that avoiding pleasures is a cause of pain and discomfort.
This is cured by remembering that facing hell is more difficult than leaving pleasures and by renewing our faith and certainty by remembering Allah (swt) and His reward and punishment.
2. When Shaytan encourages self-admiration.
E.g. He boasts about the person’s servitude to Allah (swt), his worship and his knowledge of religion. A narration states:
“The one in whose soul, self-admiration has entered, is destroyed.”
This is cured by remembering that all praise belongs to Allah (swt). By remembering everything is from Him, we stop Satan’s inflation of our egos.
3. Activation of desires.
In regard to actions which a servant is certain of its prohibition, Shaytan cannot convince him. Instead he stimulates the desires of the servant to perform the forbidden action.
In regards to forbidden actions which the servant is not certain of its prohibition, Shaytan tries to persuade him that it is not forbidden. Hence, doubts are a weakness in us that Shaytan utilises.
The cure is to exercise caution and not perform what is doubtful until we investigate the matter objectively and resolve the doubt.
[Discussion to be continued]
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 69, 27/11/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Another type of satanic temptations
Love and hate
Greed and fear
The love of the world
Extremism
Doubts
Self-admiration
The nature of the heart
The Intellect, the soul and the heart
Fluidity of the heart
Summary of this session:
Recap
We discussed three different ways in which Shaytan leads us to ruin ourselves. They were disguising the truth, promoting self-admiration and convincing us to act on doubt or he stimulates our desires for a sin. Another type of satanic temptations On page 80 of Mahajjat al-Baydha, another form of Shaytan’s tactics is distraction. Whilst remembering Allah, we are constantly distracted by Shaytan about worldly matters. If we try and focus, it becomes a constant changing of remembrance and distraction such that it seems as if our hearts are divided in two. However, this is still possible to be fully devoted to Allah’s remembrance because the Prophet (s) would not have encouraged achieving it if it had been impossible and so he (s) said: Love and hate A lover can fully concentrate on the beloved for a very long amount of time, not just for two units of prayer. Likewise people can become fixated on hating someone so much they forget all else. Therefore, it is not possible to pray with full concentration to Allah except when the person’s heart is filled with love to the point of obsession. Greed and fear Another powerful factor in concentration is greed. A person can become completely engrossed about wealth or a deal such that he remembers nothing for the time except the money he will gain or has gained. Similarly Imam Ali (as) describes the God-wary (Muttaqin) as such: The love of the world Temptations of worldly attractions and desires cannot be completely dismissed unless we can detach ourselves from worldly desires. We cannot fully focus in remembrance of Allah (swt) when we continuously think over our worldly possessions and desires. Therefore, in order to safeguard ourselves against Shaytan, we must detach ourselves from our desires. Extremism If a person refuses to sin or adopt distortions of Islamic rulings, Shaytan attempts to deceive him by leading him to take permissible actions as impermissible. Such that the person later feels Islam is a very restrictive, impractical and burdensome faith and hence difficult to practice. Doubts For those who resist Shaytan’s temptations, he makes them doubt excessively about his ablution and prayers. By placing him under excessive doubts, Shaytan is able to distract him from real knowledge and understanding about Allah (swt) and our duty to Him. This condition only affects those who are keen to practice Islam seriously, the rest who take practices lightly or they don’t practice do not suffer from this. Self-admiration If a person resists all of the previous deceptions of Shaytan, he then makes everything easy for the person until he becomes famous for being a virtuous person and then he hears his own praise more often from people until eventually Shaytan utilises this praising of people and his self-admiration as a tool to destroy him: The nature of the heart Hearts are divided into two; the stable and the fluid. Lexically “Qalb” (Heart) refers to changing from one state to another. The heart is surrounded by conditions that change it for the good or better. The heart very easily inclines to good or evil depending on the influence of Shaytan and angels. It is possible that two Shaytans conflict over the heart to commit one sin or another and it is possible that a heart may be disputed in by angels over one good act or another. Therefore, what is certain is that the heart is constantly under the influence of either Shaytan or an angel: The Intellect, the soul and the heart The soul is what contains both the heart and the intellect. The intellect is the governor of the soul, whereas, the heart is the meeting point of different emotions and desires. Fluidity of the heart These three narrations from the Prophet (s) show us that the heart is very susceptible to change:
We said that doubts within us are a source of strength for Shaytan. Hence, we must learn against our doubts, identify the truth among falsehoods and refrain from acting on doubts.
We will now continue our discussion on whether the heart can be completely free of Shaytan’s influence.
“Whoever prays two units of prayers whilst he does not consider himself or any worldly affair will be forgiven for all his previous and future sins.”230
“It is as if they are seeing paradise before them and are within it, enjoying bliss.”
Therefore, just as we can have such intense greed for wealth that we forget everything, we can have greed for heaven and hence be able to concentrate properly for its sake.
A fearful person also forgets many things including lower desires. Why can we then not be this fearful of Hell? Hence, our lack of emotions towards the hereafter is due to our lack of faith and if we improve in our faith then we will treat it as we treat worldly gains and worldly threats.
Those who refuse to sin, Shaytan attempts to deceive them through whisperings that lead him towards interpreting Islamic rules to suit his desires. In this way Shaytan cleverly manipulates his understanding of Islamic principles and rulings; leading him to doubt the prohibition and obligations of acts.
“Whoever allows self-admiration to enter him is destroyed.”
Hence, the respect of people becomes his undoing. This is a very difficult stage because Shaytan knows that this person is strong and he will enter paradise unless he is ruined and so this last stage is a utilisation of the goodness of the person and the people around, against him.
“And obey Allah and His Apostle, and do not dispute, or you will lose heart and your power will be gone. And be patient; indeed, Allah is with the patient.”231
There are also different selves within us that influence the heart alongside a Shaytan or an angel. The self which calls to evil helps Shaytan over our hearts. The conscious self helps the angels over our hearts and the certain self is so powerful that the battle is already won by its presence. Therefore, our hearts are influenced both by Allah (swt) and Shaytan:
“We transform their hearts and their visions as they did not believe in it the first time, and We leave them bewildered in their rebellion.”232
Hence the Prophet (s) would frequently ask Allah (swt):
“O the transformer of hearts, keep my heart firm upon my faith.”
People asked whether he was afraid of losing faith and he replied:
“What can provide me with security when my heart is in the hand of Allah, between His two fingers and He can change it?”
“The example of the heart is that of a sparrow that is continually shifting.”
“The heart is comparable to a boiling pot.”
“The heart is like a feather on a high land that is carried by the winds.”
Hence, if a person wishes to improve, it is possible due to this fluidity. In the same time, we must not become upset if we see that our hearts constantly change in its behaviour regarding our attitude to worship. Even the closest friends of Allah are not in a constant state, rather they also change. We must therefore treat our hearts like an untamed horse; sometimes to tame it cooperation is needed whereas other times harsher treatment is necessary. However, to fully tame the heart requires time.
And all praise is to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 70, 04/12/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
The changes of the heart
Importance of charity
Light
Summary of this session:
Recap
We have been discussing ways in which hearts are transformed. The ways in which Shaytan influences us and traits which the heart is corrupted by such as greed, jealousy etc. The changes of the heart The changes that occur in a person’s heart are very subtle and only those who are careful about their relationship with Allah are able to understand them. There are three states for hearts: Importance of charity Regarding the importance of giving charity, Allah (swt) says: Light The purified heart is filled with light. Like a light burning next to a glass, the glass further reflecting the light, causing light upon light like the light of Allah (swt):
1. A state of goodness.
2. A state of evil.
3. A fluctuation between good and evil.
We must question which state our hearts are in. The first type is conditioned by God-consciousness (Taqwa). It is purified by training and Imam Ali (as) said:
“This is my soul; I train it with God-consciousness.”
This type of heart is spiritually refined by emptying it of all evil and vices, then it is beautified and then it is polished once it is filled with virtues and goodness. Hence, one cannot polish a heart or beautify a heart which is corrupted by vices and sins; emptying is necessary first. Depending on how serious we take it, we may achieve a pure heart at a single night or if we do not take it seriously and be relaxed, our lives may pass but we may still not achieve anything. The night of Qadr is particularly useful as its effect is more than that of a thousand months.
When we know we need to improve, we must undertake it quickly, there is no point in delaying goodness. Especially since internalising virtues requires time and repetition of good actions. The more we delay what is necessary, the harder and more cumbersome it becomes.
Once the heart is trained and conditioned by God-consciousness and purified from evil traits then good ideas emerge therein from the higher realms; the realm closer to God which is immaterial. The intellect then reflects and understands the subtleties and secrets of the ideas and then their spiritual reality becomes known to him through this gained insight. The intellect then calls on the person to act on the goodness he has come to know.
The angels are drawn towards such a heart due to its purity. It becomes a dwelling for angels and the influence towards goodness and virtues is ever strengthened. He is influenced towards goodness upon goodness, one better than another. They are on the right path heading towards a good destination.
“You will never attain piety until you spend out of what you hold dear, and whatever you may spend of anything, Allah indeed knows it.”233
“As for him who gives and is God-wary, and confirms the best promise, we shall surely ease him into facility.”234
It is recommended that we must give charity when in difficulty and try to be God-conscious and then Allah (swt) eases our difficulties. However, as for those who are stingy Allah (swt) says:
“But as for he who withholds and considers himself free of need and denies the best, We will ease him toward difficulty.”235
Therefore, those who withhold charity and avoid what is best, will inevitably find themselves consistently moving from one difficulty to another.
“Allah is the Light of the heavens and the earth. The parable of His Light is a niche wherein is a lamp – the lamp is in a glass, the glass as it were a glittering star – lit from a blessed olive tree, neither eastern nor western, whose oil almost lights up, though fire should not touch it. Light upon light. Allah guides to His Light whomever He wishes. Allah draws parables for mankind, and Allah has knowledge of all things.”
For further details of this verse and Surah Nur. Refer to Sheikh Shomali’s lectures on Surat al-Nur.
The light illuminates any hidden problems in the heart such as hidden polytheism. It is hidden for most people because most of us have some shortcomings in our sincerity in servitude to Allah, piety and virtuousness. We are hindered by hidden plagues such as pride, vanity, hypocrisy, self-deceit and being in servitude to lower desires. However, for one who has purified his heart, the light from it reveals to him all that is hidden for us.
Shaytan cannot influence him anymore. He tries to influence him with hollow and evil inspirations that are beautified on the outside but it has no effect because the wise heart is illuminated and sees through the beautiful cover into the evil nature of what Shaytan inspires towards.
This is a heart which is beloved by Allah and He helps it. Upon its purification, nearness to Allah is achieved. It is strengthened and characterised by virtues which are means of spiritual salvation such as gratitude, asceticism, vigilance etc. while being free of all spiritual plagues.
Therefore, the first type of heart which is in a state of goodness and conditioned by God-consciousness is the content heart, it is sincerely absorbed in the remembrance of Allah and are of:
“Those who have faith and whose hearts are assured in the remembrance of Allah. Beware, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find assurance.”236
It is these hearts that Allah addresses:
“O the assured soul, return to your Lord pleased and pleasing then enter among My servants and enter My paradise.”237
Such a heart is a blessing for himself and for the people around as his heart can illuminate the hearts of others.
May Allah (swt) help us in purifying our souls from evil qualities and help us beautify our hearts and be able to sincerely be in only His remembrance.
And all praise is for Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 71, 11/12/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
The second type: filled with evil
The control of desires upon the heart
Qualities to ensure spiritual well-being
Summary of this session:
Recap
Previously, we discussed the first type of hearts which are based on goodness and trained by God-consciousness which guides him towards further goodness. The second type: filled with evil We will now discuss the second type which is neglected, filled with lower desires and evil qualities such as greed, jealousy, pride and licentiousness. These qualities are all gates by which Shaytan enters our hearts and one who is neglectful has left the door open to Shaytan. As a result his heart is ruled by Shaytan and he sows his seeds in there and reigns over the heart. The evil in the heart is like darkness from a thick smoke that covers all light. As a result guidance cannot reach such a heart as it is blocked from all good influences including angels. The control of desires upon the heart The person may be blinded by a particular desire or a whole range of desires. Hence, a person may observe some Islamic principle while neglecting others e.g. he may fast and eat only Halal, but he may be licentious and immodest in his behaviour with the other gender. Such a person has lost his light of insight and his modesty. It is also vital to remember that Shaytan only needs a single gate by which to enter our heart, so we must not feel relaxed that we do not suffer from a certain trait instead of another. Qualities to ensure spiritual well-being One quality which must be cultivated in order to ensure we are not corrupted is to be aware and remember that Allah (swt) is always watching us:
Evil takes hold as mere thoughts but the intellect confirms the evil thoughts because the intellect is also at the service of lower desires. As a result the intellect only rationalises the pursuit of lower desires. The heart is like a city in which the judge, the jury and the executioner are all corrupt and so evil reigns and goodness is overrun.
Evil actions become beautified to him because Shaytan reigns over him with deception and since there is no insight he cannot see the ugliness of his actions due to the gold coating. Despite being aware of the day of judgement, the person is not affected and he continues in his transgression.
Such a person has become in servitude to his desires and Allah (swt) says about them:
“Have you seen him who taken his desire to be his God? Will you then be over them a solicitor?”238
“Already the word has come into effect upon most of them, so they do not believe.”239
Hence, for such people, they follow their desires as they should follow their Lord and despite warnings and admonishment, they do not believe.
We must be modest and possess shame because it allows us to shy away from committing evil actions and it is vital for our relationship with Allah (swt).
“Does he not know that Allah sees?”240
“And say, “practice! For Allah will see your deeds, and His Messenger and the believers. And you will be returned to the Knower of the unseen and the witnessed, and He will inform you of what you used to do.”241
Therefore, one way to care for ourselves is to remember Allah as a witness over our actions and in addition to Him, the Prophet (s) and the Imams are also witnesses. Knowing this with some shame will hopefully curb the evil in our hearts and our actions.
Another way to care for our spiritual well-being is to maintain a sense of moral dignity. Adherence to the moral standard of our position and the norm and expectation of people will hopefully increase our self-respect and respect for others and this will in turn help us to avoid sins out of a sense of dignity.
In order to help someone whom we know are in such darkness, we must not advise them because it has no effect as his heart is blocked. He is like a person freezing, we cannot tell him “don’t freeze!” and so we must help with our warmth. Hence, we must support them with courage, love, hope and genuinely care for them rather than simply trying to tick enjoining good and forbidding evil from our moral to do list. If we show genuine concern, put recognisable efforts to help and set a good example, he may be inspired to change himself. Otherwise if a person refuses to change then no one can change him.
May Allah (swt) help us in safeguarding our hearts and intellects from the influences of Shaytan and strengthen us against our lower desires and make us sincere, in remembrance of Him. May Allah (swt) have mercy on the ill and those who have passed away, and in the end, all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 72, 18/12/2017
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
The third type of hearts
Summary of this session:
Recap
Previously, we discussed the heart inclined to goodness and the heart inclined to evil. The darkened heart becomes such that it blocks the guidance from the intellect and from other sources, internal and external. However, the intellect never betrays its essential function of guidance: The third type of hearts The third type is one which is disputed by evil and goodness. His lower desires and satanic insinuations invite him towards evil whereas his intellect, faith and angelic influences call him towards virtue and goodness. Such a person is motivated to sin but at the same time he considers the long term effects of it; his motivation to sin is from the evil side and his consideration of long term effects is the guidance from his intellect.
“And they say, ‘had we listened or intellected, we would not have been among the inmates of the blaze.’”242
Our animalistic wishes to pounce upon our prey to gratify our lower desires. Whereas, our intellect cautions us and instructs us to consider the consequences. Hence, an indication of our souls being more inclined to our animalistic selves is if we do something quickly and then end up regretting e.g. eat something quickly and then regret.
When the soul inclines towards the intellect, Shaytan tries harder and says “why do you place yourself in difficulty? Why do you ruin yourself? Why do you refrain from your desires when nobody else does? Especially when you are making yourself a fool in front of people. Look at so and so, they are religious and respectable but they don’t restrain themselves like you.” Then the person feels he is wrong because Shaytan has persuaded him that he is being old fashioned and isolated from the real world. He incites fear within us from people, to be licentious and careless about virtues and God’s commands.
Then when the soul inclines towards Shaytan and lower desires, an angel calls out to him “Is a person destroyed for any reason other than pursuit of worldly pleasures and forgetfulness of the ultimate end? Are you content with transient pleasure instead of eternal pleasures? Do you find the pain of resisting your desires too difficult while considering the consequences of sins and disobedience light and insignificant? Will you continue to deceive yourself and follow the heedless followers of Shaytan and their desires?” Thus the sinner is helped against the evil in his heart by such reminder from the angels whom advise following the intellect.
Therefore, the heart is in constant struggle and the victor is the side which we choose to support and follow. In addition to resisting our worldly desires, we must place ourselves among good people who are truthful believers as Allah (swt) says:
“O you who have faith, be God-conscious and be with the truthful.”243
The environment around us is very influential in bettering us or worsening us and so it is necessary to build a social circle around us of people who embody virtues and influence us positively away from servitude to worldly whims and desires towards servitude to Allah (swt):
“Allah has promised the faithful, men and women, gardens with streams running in them, to remain in them [forever], and good dwellings in the Gardens of Eden. Yet Allah’s pleasure is greater [than all these]; that is the great success.”244
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Lecture 73, 22/01/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Gratitude and patience
Gratitude and patience form faith
Forbearance
Merits of patience
Summary of this session:
Recap
Previously, we discussed the three different states of the heart. One dominated by evil, one dominated by goodness and one contested between good and evil. We will now move onto discuss patience and gratitude but mostly patience because we have already covered gratitude previously. We will discuss their merits, definition, application, context and the means to achieving them. Gratitude and patience Starting from page 105 of volume 7 of Mahajjat al-Baydha is ‘The Book of Gratitude and Patience.’ Patience is required both in times of ease and in hardship. Exercising patience is more difficult in ease than in hardship because it is easier to take a blessing for granted and sin by it then it is to deal with the lack of it. Hence, gratitude must be in both ease and hardship for a good outcome. Gratitude and patience form faith Faith has two parts, patience and gratitude. If a person possesses one, then he does not have half his faith, rather he does not have any faith. Similar to a runner, a person cannot be a runner if he is missing a leg nor can a bird fly with one wing. Therefore, one who lacks either gratitude or patience has failed, and failure cannot be said to be half of success. Successful are only those who have attained faith and this is the composition of patience and gratitude. Forbearance A form of patience is forbearance; the tolerance of misdeeds. The degree of patience required is dependent on the difficulty faced. We often assume it is harder to be patient in poverty while in reality more wealth and power comes with more responsibilities and capabilities. Therefore, a rich and powerful person can retaliate, and this makes him more prone to doing so whereas a weak and poor person cannot retaliate, and it is easier for him to forbear difficulties because he cannot do much even if he wanted to. Hence, power and fame come with its own difficulties. Merits of patience Merits of patience
Patience and gratitude are also attributes of God. A person who has not understood these two have not understood God and have not achieved faith in God. Since faith is essential for gaining nearness to Allah, one who has not understood these two are unable to gain nearness either.
In the Quran, Allah (swt) has described the patient with many qualities and has introduced patience as the means of many rewards:
“And amongst them We appointed imams to guide by Our command, when they had been patient and had conviction in Our signs.”245
Hence, Allah (swt) provides leadership to those who are patient. To be a leader also requires patience.
“We made the people who were abased the heirs to the east and west of the land which We had blessed, and your Lord’s best word was fulfilled for the Children of Israel because of their patience.”246
“That which is with you will be spent but what is with Allah shall last, and We will surely pay the patient their reward by the best of what they used to do.”247
The reward of being given based on the best of what we do are for those who have achieved a good way of life:
“Whoever acts righteously, [whether] male or female, should he be faithful, We shall revive him with a good way of life and pay them their reward by the best of what they used to do.”248
Allamah Tabataba’i believes this reward is based on the best action ever performed by anyone in the category e.g. for prayers, the reward for the best prayer of the Prophet (s) may be rewarded. However, what is safe to assume is that we will be rewarded at least by the best of what we have done and this alone is a great reward for patience.
“Those will be given their reward two times for their patience. They repel evil [conduct] with good and spend out of what We have provided them.”249
Here it says the rewards for the patient are given twice but other places it says their reward is without measure:
“Indeed, the patient will be paid in full their reward without any measure.”250
The patient is rewarded without accounting whereas every other act is rewarded according to a known amount. Among all acts, fasting has been attributed by Allah (swt) to Himself because of it requiring patience. Therefore, the greatness of patience over other good acts are incomparable.
“And obey Allah and His Apostle, and do not dispute, or you will lose heart and your power will be gone. And be patient; indeed, Allah is with the patient.”251
Allah (swt) is with those who exercise patience as Allah (swt) says:
“Yes, if you remain patient and conscious of Allah and the enemy come upon you [attacking] in rage, your Lord will reinforce you with five thousand angels having marks [of distinction].”252
“And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient, whom when disaster strikes them say ‘Indeed we belong to Allah, and indeed to Him we will return.’ Those are the ones upon whom are salutations from their Lord and mercy. And it is those who are the guided.”253
These verses indicate that we will be tested but it is the patient who receive good tidings meaning they succeed. In addition, they also receive salutations and mercy from their Lord and are guided. Salutations are especially important because they take us out of darkness and into guidance:
“It is He who salutes you and so do His angels, so that He may bring you out of darknesses towards the light and He is with the believers, merciful.”254
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 74, 29/01/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Non-Shia narrations as reported by Ghazali
Shia narrations
The reality of patience
The position of humans
Summary of this session:
Recap
Previously, we discussed the merits of patience according to the Quranic verses. We reached page 106, chapter 7 of Mahajjat al-Baydha. Now we will continue by mentioning the merits of patience from narrations. Non-Shia narrations as reported by Ghazali The Prophet (s) said: Shia narrations A shared narration between Sunnis and Shias, through Imam Sadiq, from Imam Zayn al-Abideen, from Imam Ali (as) who reports from the Prophet (s): Imam Sadiq (as) said: The reality of patience Patience is one of the hierarchical ranks of religion and a means for traversing towards Allah (swt). Ranks in religion are based on: our understanding of religion, our spiritual condition and our actions. The position of humans Knowledge is a necessity for patience. Hence, we must know where humans fit within creation in order to understand patience. Patience is inapplicable to animals because they do not have anything but instinct which directs their actions; there is no choice. It is also inapplicable to angels because their only motivation is servitude to Allah; they don’t have negative desires against which they can exercise patience. Therefore, patience is only applicable to human beings because we are in between and able to choose between angelic influences and animalistic tendencies. We have lusts we must resist with patience; there are means of instant satisfaction which we must exercise patience against.
“Patience is half of faith.”
“From that which you have been given, the least are certainty and a strong determination to be patient and whoever receives a sufficient amount of these two, would not be bothered if he has missed recommended prayers and fasting.”
Hence, he who attains patience, even if he misses recommended prayers and fasting then he is not bothered. Although it is still better to be patient and also perform these:
“And if you add patience to the same rituals that you have, this is more beloved to me than if you bring with you, without patience, the practicing equal to all people.”
Therefore, to be patient and practice as a single individual, is more beloved than to practice equal to that of all Muslims combined, without patience.
“But I fear that the world will become available to you after me.”
The Prophet (s) was very concerned that people would become attached to a worldly life after him and hence the problems of such a life would follow such as greed and conflict over worldly possessions and the distancing of brothers from one another due to worldly interests.
Allah (swt) revealed to Dawud (as):
“Try to acquire traits of character like My traits.”
This narration is similar to:
“Mould your ethics according to the ethics of Allah.”
Therefore, we must mould ourselves to embody traits attributed to Allah (swt), except the exclusive ones for Him such as greatness.
“And indeed from my ethics is that I am very patient.”
We must therefore mould ourselves to become very patient. As patient, Allah (swt) does not punish a disobedient one immediately, He gives them time to better themselves and repent. We must also adopt a similar patience.
From Prophet Isa (as) it is narrated:
“Verily you cannot achieve what you like unless you are patient with respect to what you do not like.”
What we plan and execute do not yield ideal outcomes nor is the process always ideal. Many problems arise while we try to achieve what we like and we cannot achieve it without overcoming the problems we do not like and in all of it, patience is key.
“Patience is to faith like the head for a body. There can be no body without a head and no faith without patience.”
A body cannot live without a head and this simile is to show the necessity of patience for faith. Our faith in dependent on our patience. Without it we cannot be faithful.
In another narration, in the intermediary world, when we are questioned to the point where our prayers, charity and God-wariness are exhausted, then our patience steps in and the questioning then ceases. This shows that patience is of a complete different calibre than other essential qualities and actions.
Imam Sadiq (as) says:
“When a believer is facing calamities but remains patient, his reward is similar to that of a thousand martyrs.”
Of course a martyr who is also patient is higher but in comparison between martyrs without patience and a patient believer in the face of calamities, the latter is higher. This is not to belittle the greatness of martyrdom or martyrs but it must be acknowledged that patience is higher. This shouldn’t be surprising because calamities in life can render one wishing to not exist; there is no appetite for living.
In addition, a martyr dies once but a patient believer may be dying everyday due to calamities. It could be that the wife of a martyr is higher than him because he was martyred once but she has to patiently live the rest of her life, alone with hungry children to feed; thereby having to take on the role of the missing husband whilst being a mother.
“Allah (swt) sometimes gives blessings to people but they are not grateful, so these blessings become a burden. He puts people into calamities, but they are patient. And these become blessings from them.”
This is how gratitude is connected to patience; when we are grateful, whatever we have is a blessing and hence patience becomes easier. Whereas, if we are not grateful, blessings become a burden for us and we find patience more difficult.
Imam Baqir (as) said:
“Heaven is surrounded with difficulties and patience.”
Whoever wants to attain Heaven must face difficulties with patience. Whereas, Hell is achieved by easily submitting to lower desires and instant pleasures.
The Prophet (s) said:
“Soon upon people will be a time when power will not be attained except by murder and coercion, not become rich except by usurping and miserliness, and not be loved except by giving up religion and obedience to desires.”
Perhaps this time has already reached us and the Prophet (s) continued:
“So whoever experiences that time and remains patient in poverty, although he can become rich [by immoral means] and remains patient in dislike while being able to gain the love of people [by immoral means] and is patient with being lowly while he is capable of becoming respected [by immoral means]. Allah will give him the reward of fifty of the ever truthful.”
The ever truthful are the group blessed by Allah, only second to the prophets;
“And whoever obeys Allah and the Messenger – those will be with the ones upon whom Allah has bestowed favour of the prophets, the ever truthful, the martyrs and the righteous. And excellent are those as companions.”255
Yet one who is patient with poverty, being disliked and treated lowly instead of gaining them through immoral means, Allah (swt) rewards him with the reward of 50 of the ever-truthful people.
Our knowledge and understanding of religious concepts are the roots which affect our spiritual condition and our condition then manifests into actions. Hence, when we say ‘faith’ we sometimes mean an understanding of God whereas other times we mean; knowledge, a spiritual condition and actions, all together defining faith.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 75, 12/02/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Human beings
What is patience?
How patience is developed
Awareness against desires
Desires in deciding
Summary of this session:
Recap
Previously, we discussed the definition of patience, its merits according to narrations and started discussing the position of human beings in creation, in order to understand patience. We will now continue our discussion on the reality of patience. Human beings We said patience is exclusive to human beings because we have both animalistic tendencies as well as angelic influences to counter our desires; as a result, we are free to choose. What is patience? With the different stages in mind, patience is concerned with prioritising important matters above desires. As children we are not patient because the only drive within children is that of desiring to play and we don’t know better. However, thanks to Allah’s guidance, at the age of discernment we are awakened by our internal guidance that is the awakening of the intellect and angelic influences. It is said that two angels are assigned for us when we reach the age of discernment, one tasked with guidance and the other tasked with strengthening our resolve. How patience is developed As we described, it all starts with the guidance form Allah (swt), our intellect and the angelic influences. Therefore, the root cause of patience is knowledge; particularly knowledge pertaining to God and religion so that we know what to prioritise in life and death. Awareness against desires Knowing desires are an enemy to us helps in our struggle. Indeed one who has certainty about Allah (swt) or a strong understanding of religion, knows that desires are the enemy because: Desires in deciding When we desire something and then judge whether we should do it or not, we are not objective. Our mind becomes a slave to our desires and we propose different arguments to approve the path of our lower desires. Hence it is very important to attain certainty that lower desires will not lead us to anywhere good. Ask yourself, can anyone reach success just by following his desires? Especially success in becoming a true human being? Therefore, if we want to become good, human servants of Allah (swt) and succeed in knowledge, piety and servitude then we cannot obey our desires.
However in childhood, we are incompetent as our only desire is eating because we do not have any internal guidance about the better things in life. Later children just play games, one after another and this is just another desire.
As young adults we become concerned about beauty, marriage and other adult amusements such as movies, puzzles, novels etc. Indeed many people do not pass the point of childhood as they remain in a life of play and amusement far beyond puberty.
Then as adults, we count our achievements such as spouses, children, friends, material wealth and other achievements. At midlife we start boasting over each other about our possessions. Therefore people who are not careful about prioritising what matters in life and death, get caught up in such worldly distractions for most of their lives or even until death.
The ability to gain knowledge is what differentiates us from animals. Upon reaching puberty, as we grow, new desires arise whilst we also gain better understanding about what harms us and what benefits us. We are capable of gaining knowledge of Allah (swt), His Prophet (s), the Imams (as) and religious instructions.
This increased understanding of religion that is the guidance from Allah (swt) allows us to realise that the pursuit of desires will produce bad results. However, simply knowing something isn’t going to stop it e.g. knowing an illness is bad doesn’t mean we will not catch it. Therefore Allah (swt) strengthens our resolve to resist temptations through His angels as he strengthened prophet Isa (as):
“When I strengthened you with the Holy spirit.”
Since Allah (swt) doesn’t say ‘I taught you’ or ‘I guided you’ it is safe to say some angels strengthen us while the other angels guide us. This is so that we now know what is right and we have power to commit to it.
This light of guidance through religion, the intellect and angelic influences forms into an army to resist against the armies of Shaytan and lower desires; both vying for control over the heart. If our religious motivation is stronger, then we are drawn towards faith and servitude to Allah (swt). Whereas if our religious motivation is weaker than the desirous motivation, then we succumb to becoming servants of Shaytan and our lower desires.
So, what is patience?
Patience is the persistence of religious motivation against the desirous motivation. Those who overcome the motivation of their lower desires and establish their religious motivation over their hearts become one of the patient ones (Sabireen).
Patience is therefore a spiritual state which manifests into actions of refraining from what we like and performing what we don’t like. A state where we do not indulge simply because we enjoy. It is a state of abstention from instant gratifications.
This increased awareness and knowledge develops a spiritual state for us whereby we abstain from what we deem incoherent with the purpose of life and we prioritise spiritual ascension over instant material gratification. As a result we refrain from what is bad for us even though we may like it and we perform what is good for us even though we may dislike it. The abstentions therefore are the fruits of patience.
1. They misdirect an immense amount of our energy to be wasted.
2. It deprives us of many beneficial opportunities by misdirecting our resources and time instead of using them for important things in life.
3. A person who always follows gratification and comfort becomes weak, lazy and dependent because strength does not come by having every comfort.
In addition, we mistakenly think that just because we avoid what is forbidden, we are fine. In reality this is like saying ‘I don’t drink poison but I eat unhealthy foods’. Just because something is not forbidden doesn’t mean we should consume it or perform it. E.g. eating fast foods is not forbidden but it does not mean we should eat it. We should avoid whatever causes problems for our physical, mental and spiritual wellbeing.
Another example is in the month of Ramadhan, we stay strong during the day but ruin it at night by succumbing to lower desires by over eating. Simply because we can eat at night does not mean we should eat excessively. Rather we must eat reasonably.
Our Lord, guide us and strengthen us against our desires so that we perform what we know to be good and avoid what we know to be bad and grant us brothers and sisters in faith in this path to help and motivate each other.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 76, 19/02/2018
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This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Knowledge
Different spiritual states
The unseen world
Patience
Regarding children
Conclusion
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Previously we discussed what patience is and the context in which it can actualise, its causes and benefits. Of the benefits and definition of patience is that it is to struggle against animalistic desires and worldly whims. It is to strive for virtue and perfection while lower desires are hindrances on our path towards Allah (swt). Knowledge Knowledge and faith enable us to realise the evil outcome of following lower desires. The two angels appointed for our guidance and strengthening, note how we treat them. Those who take guidance and awaken themselves from a state of heedlessness have made themselves aware of what is harmful to their souls. Their efforts and kind response to the angel for guidance is noted by the angel to be displayed for judgement later at death and on the day of judgement. Different spiritual states Each person can therefore find themselves either heedless or conscious of moral pitfalls, they can either be complacent or striving for their spiritual state. The worst is when a person is both heedless and complacent; he can neither identify what is bad for him nor does he bother to protect himself, thereby becoming an easy target for Shaytan. The unseen world Our deeds such as respecting the call of the angels for guidance and empowerment, against our lower desires are noted as good deeds in the deep chambers of our hearts; no one is able to access them, and they are unveiled only on two occasions; the minor resurrection and the major one; Patience Patience is the strength to resist lower desires through faith. This ability to resist is exclusive to humans because animals do not possess guidance in opposition to their instinctive desires therefore they are only desires. Whereas for angels, patience is inapplicable because they do not have anything negative to resist against. Regarding children Those who are children and those insane, do not have any responsibility for their actions because they haven’t yet reached the ability to discern between good and evil. Until a child reaches this age of discernment, it is the duty of parents to ensure they encourage virtue and discourage vice within the children. If we do take responsibility for the moral wellbeing of children then we are effectively performing deeds which the noble angels of Allah (swt) perform in guiding and strengthening humans towards goodness. As a result, we will also achieve proximity and honour with Allah (swt); based on the narration when the Prophet (s) stuck two fingers together and said: Conclusion Patience is to establish the authority of the intellect over our desires. To resist temptations, to be reflective and striving for our spiritual growth. It is to establish an internal security system against threats to our journey towards virtue and perfection. Therefore, patience cannot be limited to only times of hardships since it is a necessity in times of ease as well to resist temptations and abstain from what we like. Then the strength brought by patience is as described by Allah (swt):
Whereas, he who remains heedless has oppressed his inner guidance and the angel appointed for him, he will also have to answer for his negligence.
However those who are striving but without knowledge are a people who are journeying without knowing where to go, nor how to get there. Whereas if we were to be reflective, seeking knowledge and guidance, we would become spiritually aware, respectful to the angel and able to journey correctly.
The Prophet (s) said:
“One who dies, his resurrection surely begins.”
Therefore, prior to the major day of resurrection, we are resurrected alone after death. Possibly because others are either still living in this world or they died earlier and have moved on, the solitary return at death is mentioned in this verse:
“Certainly, you have come to Us alone, just like We created you the first time.”256
Hence “the grave may be a garden from the gardens of Heaven or a flame from the fire of Hell” for the deceased.
During the major resurrection, we are judged before all other human beings. It is a day of humiliation if Allah (swt) does not protect us from the shame of our sins. Therefore, we will no longer be alone on the major day of resurrection;
“Those who were God-conscious will be driven to paradise in groups.”257
Likewise, those who are taken to Hell are also done in groups;
“Those who disbelieved will be driven to Hell in groups.”258
It is only humans who are able to exercise patience and resist temptations from their desires. We are tempted but we can use our intellect to discern good from evil and pursue a life of virtue and resistance against vice. This is why our efforts of resisting desires are recorded as virtuous deeds.
“The one who looks after an orphan is as close to me as the space between these two [fingers].”
This narration is usually used in reference to loving and providing for orphans but Ghazali believes it extends to an orphan’s spiritual needs.
“If there are among you twenty patient ones, they will overcome two hundred. And if there are among you one hundred patient ones, they will overcome a thousand of those who have disbelieved because they are a people who do not understand.”259
Hence, before a trial approaches us, we need to have built patience within us to resist the odds and remain steadfast. If someone has always been inactive and at ease, they will not be able to muster patience at once when a difficulty arises. Therefore, patience is a spiritual state that must be built internally at moments of ease and hardship.
Lecture 77, 26/02/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Faith and patience
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Faith and patience
In this lecture we will discuss the relationship between faith and patience. Therefore, certainty is decisive belief in religious principles. This belief informs us that disobedience is harmful and obedience is beneficial. Patience is the power which enables us to resist temptations for disobedience and succumbing to lower desires. Hence, patience is necessary with certainty because faith cannot be a result of certainty with disobedience, rather it must be coupled with obedience; and for that patience is required. Conclusion In either definition, faith compromises half of faith. If a person professes faith yet is not committed to it, then he is not really a believer. To commit, patience is required as it is the means by which we are empowered to resist our animalistic tendency for lower desires. Hence either certainty necessitates patience or our duty to our faith necessitates patience; to perform what we are certain of its goodness or obliged to do by religion and avoid what we are certain of its evil or believe in the prohibition of it by religion. Either way, the following narration is reinforced: A body cannot be alive without a head and faith cannot be real without patience. It is necessary for attaining and maintaining faith just as a head is necessary for a body. However, it helps to remind ourselves that with greater knowledge comes greater responsibility because a learned person should know better than a lay person, not to commit sins or do wrongs. Hence it is narrated: “Seventy sins of an ignorant person will be forgiven before one sin of a knowledgeable person is forgiven.” The higher we climb spiritually the harder we can fall, it is thus necessary to become more vigilant as we progress because the fall of a knowledgeable person is harder than that of a lay person. O Allah, grant us certainty, patience and gratitude and all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
There are two definitions of faith; patience is integral in both definitions:
1. Faith meaning an affirmation of principles and beliefs.
One who has certainty about religion, he requires patience to act according to his belief. One who then claims to be a believer cannot be lazy as its leads to disobedience of Allah (swt). Certainty must be coupled with strong patience that overcomes laziness as the Prophet (s) said:
“Of all that you have been given, the least is certainty and a strong patience.”
2. Faith meaning performing religious obligations.
One who has faith must fulfil the obligations of his faith. In this sense, faith is comprised of patience and gratitude. Since patience is the power to resist whims that tempt us to succumb to lower desires. Patience is what enables us to resist temptations. Therefore, patience is necessary for remaining steadfast in fulfilling our obligations and avoiding sins.
Also, lower desires are of two types; the seeking of pleasure and the repelling of what is disliked through anger. E.g. fasting helps in reducing our lust for pleasure but it weakens us against our anger. Therefore, fasting helps in securing only half of patience, as the Prophet (s) said:
“Fasting is half of patience.”
“Patience to faith is like the role of the head to the body.”
Lecture 78, 12/03/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Types and context of patience
Summary of this session:
Introduction
Previously, we discussed faith & patience; the necessity of patience as a part of faith. We concluded that regardless of how faith is defined; be it beliefs or actions, patience is half of it. Types and context of patience There are two categories of patience:
1. Physical patience: which is required to perform difficult actions e.g. fasting, Hajj, everyday chores and endeavours. This is further divided into two:
• Physical patience in relation to devotional acts.
Such as exerting ourselves for performing rituals and forbearing the pains of such actions.
• Physical patience in relation to non-devotional acts.
Such as forbearing the pains of bodily illnesses and injuries.
2. Spiritual patience: which is required to manage spiritual difficulties such as resisting desires. This is further divided as;
• Spiritual patience in relation to desires of the stomach and the private parts.
One who manages to exercise restraint and patience in relation to his stomach’s gluttony and his sexual lusts achieves what is termed chastity (Iffah).
• Spiritual patience in relation to calamities; the ability to forbear calamities with patience.
Someone who reacts to problems and calamities by displaying anger, violence, complaining and blaming is not exercising patience. Even if we lose something or someone precious, our sadness must be equal to what we have lost, so we must not become too sad nor too happy in relations to gains or losses.
At times we may be bombarded by a series of calamities but nonetheless it is important to remember that exercising patience allows us to preserve our energy whereas venting out only drains our energy thereby only making the situation worse.
• Patience with wealth
We must remember that wealth is a means by which our faith is tested; it is not an end in itself:
“Rather your possessions and children are a trial and Allah, with him, is a great reward.”260
If one possesses wealth as a means to an end, it is a sign of him owning the wealth. Whereas if he sees wealth as the end in itself then he is a slave to his desire for wealth.
Therefore, if our wealth is gained morally, spent morally, without bringing to us deviation and moral corruption nor neglect of our other duties; then it is good as it has been used as a good means to a good end. Otherwise, if it becomes a cause of heedlessness, arrogance and negligence in our lives then we have not passed the trial of wealth. Patience is necessary in order to restrain our love for wealth by restraining us from immoral means of gaining wealth, immoral spending of it and other ill practices brought about by the possession of wealth such as arrogance, boasting and extravagance.
• Patience with speech
A believer is one who restrains his tongue. True faith is when a believer does not reveal his hurt immediately; rather he only mentions it proportionally to serve a greater purpose. A faithful person keeps private information safe with himself and refrains from spreading private or irrelevant information about others. Patience is needed to restrain ourselves from the urge to speak uselessly or reply in anger. Patience in speaking is a sign of maturity as only an impatient and immature person speaks without considering it necessity first.
• Patience and contentment
In order to be happy we need to be content. Contentment is not to remain silent while feeling frustrated and envious inside. Rather contentment is to be happy with your possessions as what you possess is good or it could be that there are people who do not have what you have. Therefore, patience is required to restrain our endless desiring for what we don’t have so that we can focus on what we do have and what we have which others don’t and thus be thankful for the blessings.
In conclusion piety is to have faith; believe in Allah, the Last Day and prophethood, to spend our wealth for Allah (swt), for humanity, to worship, be truthful and be patient in stress and distress, in ease and hardship, as Allah (swt) says piety is personified by those who have faith, give their wealth for the love of Him, fulfil their covenants and most of all are patient; they are the God-wary who do these261. Therefore, patience is an integral part of faith and piety and we must develop it in order to succeed.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 79, 19/03/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Three conditions
Summary of this session:
Introduction
Previously, we discussed types and context of patience such as physical and spiritual patience and patience with wealth, calamities, speech and more. We will now continue onto the degrees or types of patience. Three conditions Every person’s spiritual condition is categorised in one of these three levels:
1. The victorious soul.
This soul has defeated the influences of desires in his heart and so the religious motive is strong and unopposed. It is done by exercising patience at all times which is the cause of victory and the suppression of desires.
These are the people who have achieved patience and remained steadfast on it and are therefore of the higher level of believers; among the most truthful ones:
“‘Indeed, those who say, ‘Our Lord is Allah!’ and then remain steadfast, the angels descend upon them, [saying,] ‘Do not fear, nor be grieved! Receive the good news of the paradise which you have been promised.’”262
They have achieved tranquillity because they remained committed to the right path by killing their temptations. And so Allah (swt) says about such souls:
“O reassured soul, return to your Lord, pleased and pleasing.”263
Very few people are like this.
2. The defeated soul.
The second type of soul which is more common is one which is defeated by lower desires. His heart is overrun by Shaytan because he does not bother to resist Shaytan or his desires. He has surrendered himself to his desires.
His surrender is either due to deception or hopelessness. Either he, stupidly, deceives himself thinking Allah (swt) will overlook his sins without any effort from his part or he believes resistance is futile as he is doomed to be a bad person. Hence, whatever the reason, he is heedless, and he is hopeless; enslaved to his desires:
“So, avoid those who turn away from Our remembrance and desire nothing but the worldly life.”264
These people only consider a worldly life in their decisions because their only motive is lower desires as they have betrayed the religious motive within themselves.
3. The contested soul.
“And [there are] others who have acknowledged their sins. They had mixed a righteous deed with another that was bad. Perhaps Allah will turn to them in forgiveness. Indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.”265
These are the most common souls in which people are in. At time they win and are righteous and at other times they falter and sin. It could be that regarding one particular desire, they are strong but in another trial they are weak. E.g. a person may be strong in resisting desire for wealth but he may be weak in resisting sexual desires. Thus his actions may be a mix of exercising patience against some desires while following some other desires.
The solution for such souls is that patience must be exercised constantly and be God-wary as Allah (swt) says:
“As for him who gives and is God-wary and believes in the best, We will ease him towards ease.”266
Therefore, there be difficulty but if a person remains steadfast in patience and God-wariness then Allah (swt) will ease his difficulties.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 80, 26/03/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Recap
The first classification; three ranks of patience
The second classification: patience based on rulings
When patience is especially needed
Patience and gratitude
Summary of this session:
Recap
Previously we discussed the three conditions in which a person can be in spiritually. They were the victorious soul, the defeated soul and the soul which is contested between the religious motive and lower desires. The first classification; three ranks of patience: 1. The lowest rank: Not complaining. The second classification: patience based on rulings: 1. Obligatory (Wajib) patience: When patience is especially needed Patience is essential at all times yet there are times in which we must be more vigilant to not be impatient: Patience and gratitude The link between patience and gratitude is that one who is patient does not misuse the blessings of Allah in servitude to his desires. He remembers the rights of Allah and the rights of people in what he has. This is thus gratitude and thankfulness in practice; when what is bestowed is used in a thankful manner. And so we have in our supplications:
We will now continue onto two classifications of patience.
The least a person trying to be patient can do is not complain when a difficulty befalls them. This rank consists of people who repent and hence is the lowest because it means the person is sinning.
2. The higher rank: to be pleased with occurrences.
Those who have detached themselves from worldly life, not only do they not complain, they are pleased with whatever difficulty befalls them.
3. The highest rank: to love what Allah (swt) does.
The most truthful of people are of this rank. They do not care whether they have food or not, in ease or difficulty because they know that whatever happens to them is what Allah knows to be best for them and so they love whatever happens to them as they see it all as favours from Allah (swt).
This patience is obligatory against forbidden actions. Hence, we must refrain from the forbidden and this is patience which is obligatory. E.g. backbiting is forbidden therefore patience in refraining from it is obligatory.
2. Forbidden (Haram) patience:
It is wrong to be patient when you or people you are responsible for, are systematically wronged. It is also forbidden to remain patient on a sin; meaning to continue committing the sin. E.g. to allow the oppression of one’s family to continue.
3. Recommended (Mustahab) patience:
This is when you must refrain from a Makruh act. E.g. it is good to be patient by refraining from drinking water during meals.
4. Discouraged (Makruh) patience:
This is in cases where you are blamed for doing something permissible but Makruh, yet people mistreat you for doing it. It is better to not be patient and clear your reputation from their blame by defending your right and freedom.
There is no neutral (Mubah) patience because in ethics, nothing is neutral; either we are acting righteously which is good or we are losing time which is bad. Hence neutral acts which neither benefit nor harm don’t exist because the least is that they waste time.
1. Patience against what we desire.
“O you who have faith, indeed among your spouses and children are enemies for you. So, beware of them.”267
These verses reflect the sad tragedy that befell Zobeyr. He was a close companion of the Prophet (s) and Imam Ali (as) when the Muslims were living in hardship and poverty during the Prophet’s time. However, after the Prophet, Muslims became rich and powerful in the region. When they were being tested by hardship, the companions such as Zobeyr were patient. However, when they were tested with ease, wealth and comfort, they failed. This is because in difficulty, it is easy to be patient with what you don’t have e.g. it is easy to refrain from gluttony when there isn’t enough food however, it is difficult to have patience with hunger when the best food is available.
Allah (swt) warns us that even the good things in life of ease, comfort and luxury are tests:
“O you who have faith, do not let your possessions and children distract you from the remembrance of Allah, and whoever does so then they are the losers.”268
Therefore, we must remember to be especially aware of not acting on our desires when we are rich in wealth and children. In ease and affluence, sinning is easier and Halal pleasures are readily available, it is at these times we must be ever aware of not becoming slaves of our desires, even if it be limited to only Halal pleasures.
“O Allah, grant me the patience of those that are thankful to you.”
2. Patience with what we don’t desire.
Performing our duties can be enjoyable but for most of us, duties such as prayers are what we have to bear with patience. However, we can improve such that these duties become beloved to us, as it was to the Prophet (s) who said:
“I am to prayers like you are hungry and thirsty for food and water.”
Yet to our immediate nature, responsibilities and restrictions are disliked and we dislike obedience and yearn for lordship. Allah (swt) tells the stories of the prophets as well as the stories of their staunch enemies to show how high we can go or how low we can stoop. Hence, our potential is great in either way and so we have the potential to become like the Pharaoh or prophet Musa (as).
We must patiently endure the pains of our responsibilities. When we become pained at the sight of failing or people not complying when we believe they must, we must be patient against such pains and assess ourselves; why is it that I am pained? Is it because an undertaking for God has been ruined or is it because my personal authority is diminished? Therefore, it is important not to deceive ourselves away from enduring patiently what we don’t like and to patiently endure the unwillingness of our souls when we do what we must.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 81, 09/04/2018
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This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Continuation
Three instances of patience
Summary of this session:
Recap
Previously, we discussed patience in relation to what we like and what we dislike. We discussed that regarding what we like, we need patience to refrain from misuse or indulgence in desires. Regarding what we dislike, we need patience to force our untrained soul to tolerate the pains of obedience to Allah (swt). Continuation Therefore, servitude is difficult for us due to our laziness and possibly miserliness. Hence regarding those who have a contradiction between their inner and outer; as termed as the ‘hypocrites’, Allah (swt) says: Three instances of patience We can organise patience into three:
We also discussed that we have the potential to be like the prophets as Allah (swt) mentions them as the good examples for us in the Quran and He also mentions the enemies of the prophets as examples of how low we can stoop, when we leave servitude of Allah (swt) for servitude to our desires.
“The hypocrites indeed seek to deceive Allah, but it is He who outwits them. When they stand for prayer, they stand lazily, showing off to people and not remembering Allah except a little.”269
Some worships require physical effort and hence people are lazy towards them e.g. prayers and working. Some worships require sacrifice such as Khums and Zakat but the people who spend thousands for material possessions show miserliness in paying a relatively small amount for religion. Whilst some worships require both sacrifice and physical effort such as Hajj and Jihad and so only real believers can sincerely sacrifice and endeavour to worship.
However at time, we deceive ourselves by using an easier worship as an excuse for avoiding something more urgent. E.g. someone needs help and we say we have to study while we were not studying at other times but now we want to in order to avoid being bothered by something else.
1. Patience before an action:
Regarding all that which occurs before acting. This means we must ensure we have a correct intention and with sincerity. Hence, we need patience against showing off and other motivations that are problematic. E.g. leading prayers; if we are unsure of our intention then don’t lead.
However, for teaching, there is an exception. Sheikh Ansari used to say “teach even if your intention is not good.” This may be because teaching is beneficial to the learners even if the teacher has a devious motive; yet we must continue teaching and work on improving our intention and God willing, it will help us purify ourselves.
Yet for judging, even if our intentions are sincere, we must still avoid becoming a judge. If you are qualified and no one else is available then the necessity is limited to you and you are then obliged to do it. When we understand what a great burden it is to be a judge, we realise what a mercy it is from Allah (swt) on women that they are exempt from this duty. People who claim women are deprived in Islam because they are banned from being judges are looking at it from a non-Islamic and ungodly perspective which is not concerned of the hereafter but is instead only concerned with the wealth and position that is associated with being a judge. Hence, they neither do women a favour in their hereafter, nor in their world nor do they understand it from the Islamic perspective.
Due to the importance of intention and the role of patience in intention, Allah (swt) mentions patience before righteous deeds to signify patience in intention:
“Excepting those who are patient and do righteous deeds. For such there will be forgiveness and a great reward.”270
2. Patience during action:
It is necessary to remain patient during actions so that we do not become heedless and forget Allah (swt) in the process. Especially when the action is a long one, in which we may forget our original intention little by little.
Patience during actions also means that we must act properly and do it in the best manner such that we also observe the etiquettes of it. E.g. prayer done properly, with patience, is one which is accompanied by recommended acts otherwise it is like inviting someone over, leaving tea with them and quickly leaving them alone; they would not want to return if treated this way. Similarly, when we rush our prayers, we are pretending to converse with Allah yet our attention is elsewhere; would anyone else want to talk to us again after we disrespect them like this? So we must not take advantage of Allah’s patience.
To show the significance of patience during the act, Allah has mentioned patience after mentioning action:
“How excellent is the reward of the actors! Those who are patient…”271
In contrast to the previous verse which mentioned patience before righteous deed.
3. Patience after the action:
Patience after completing an action is necessary so that we do not make our righteous deed void by showing off with it. Hence patience is needed against showing off, boasting about it or becoming proud. And Allah (swt) says:
“O you who have faith, obey Allah and obey the Apostle and do not render your actions void.”272
The verse would not say ‘render your actions void’ if they were already void. Which means that the concern here is righteous deeds that were completed with a good intention, which can be rendered void if patience is not maintained after the act.
We must remember not to deceive ourselves by thinking whatever of goodness we have is from us. Rather whatever goodness we have is from Allah, we are merely a shadow of His goodness. To be a shadow cannot be a source of pride and arrogance and so we can only be humbled by our goodness.
“O you who have believed, do not invalidate your charities with reminders or injury as does one who spends his wealth [only] to be seen by the people and does not believe in Allah and the Last Day. His example is like that of a [large] smooth stone upon which is dust and is hit by a downpour that leaves it bare. They are unable [to keep] anything of what they have earned. And Allah does not guide the disbelieving people.”273
Hence, we must always remember to not shame people by reminding them of our favours to them. We must keep to ourselves any goodness we have so that it does not become a means of showing off to people.
O Allah, please guide us and cure us of the illness of the body and spirit and have mercy upon the believers who are living in this world or the next.
And all praise due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 82, 23/04/2018
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This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Continuation
Patience against sins
The sins of speech
Patience with that which we do not cause
Summary of this session:
Recap
Previously, we discussed patience in relation to actions which we have control over such as acts of obedience. We said you need patience before, during and after a righteous deed in order to not invalidate it. These are different to calamities over which we have no control and we can merely react to them. Continuation Acts of obedience are either recommended or obligatory. For both we need patience against to restrain our laziness and forbear the pains of commitment to religion against our desires. Patience against sins In the same verse, sins are summarised: The sins of speech Patience with that which we do not cause Sins are what we cause, and we can control yet there are times when a difficulty is brought upon us without our choosing. Yet even after it occurring, we still have control over how we react to them in the process. E.g. when you are attacked, annoyed or cheated.
Allah (swt) has summarised both obligatory and recommended acts in this verse:
“Indeed, Allah enjoins justice and kindness and generosity towards the relatives, and He forbids indecency, wrong and aggression. He advises you, so that you may take admonition.”274
Justice here is referring to the obligatory acts and others such as kindness and generosity refer to recommended acts.
“He forbids indecency, wrong and aggression.”
The Prophet (s) also said:
“The one who migrates for Allah is not only one who moves from a place to another. The real migrant is one who has migrated from evil to good and a real Mujahid is one who battles against his own lower desires.”
Sins have motives; causes which influences us towards them. Likewise, avoidance of sins have motives which influence us to observe faith. The most difficult of sins to be patient against are habitual sins.
When a sin is both desired and has become a habit, it is an unfair battle against of two against one. It is desire as well as habit together fighting faith. Hence the motive of faith is more easily defeated in a person who habitually sins.
What is worse is when such sins are immediately available and easy to commit. In addition to it being according to our desires and habits. Sins of the tongue are such examples such as backbiting, lying, and egoistic debates and self-praise.
Self-praise can be either directly or indirectly. Directly, we can claim to be great or we can promote ourselves indirectly by degrading others with misplaced albeit correct criticism. You may criticise a deceased scholar who cannot defend himself anymore, degrade them to show people that you know something, while we must remember the deceased with their good qualities:
“Remember your deceased ones with goodness.”
It is also possible that we wrongly criticise others in front of the public without even understanding the argument of the criticised. Thereby leading many others astray, praising ourselves and tainting the honour of a scholar. As an example; Sheikh Ansari received a letter criticising his views without being understood. Sheikh then stopped teaching because it occurred to him that just as he is criticising other scholars, perhaps it is because he also doesn’t understand just like the writer of the letter. Then his students ensured him that they are in an academic environment where they would not accept his words blindly; without analysis and discussion. As a result he continued teaching only because he was ensured that his mistakes would be called out.
Therefore, criticisms are acceptable only in their correct places. The public pulpit is not a place for discussing the conflicted ideas about which the people have no idea. The public are not able to distinguish between scientific discussions and normal speeches. Hence we must discuss and criticise other views in academic environments such as classes.
Disclosure of someone’s evil conduct has strict guidelines in Islam which must not be transgressed. It is not the case that every injustice can be exposed in public using whatever platform. Allah (swt) says:
“Allah does not like the disclosure of [anyone’s] evil [conduct] in speech except by someone who has been wronged, and Allah is all hearing, all knowing.”275
If one is not careful and ends up transgressing Islamic guidelines set for mentioning the evil of others, he is effectively committing backbiting (Ghibah) and:
“Backbiting is worse than fornication.”
Therefore, whoever cannot control their tongue in public must discipline themselves by seclusion until a time they become in control of their tongue because patience in seclusion is easier than with people.
Even more difficult are sins which are habitual, easy and powerful. Sinful thoughts are much harder to prevent or control than sinful speech. Thoughts do not require actions nor the presence of others, we are more prone to them in seclusion. Therefore, it is possible that a person commits adultery several times a day in his mind.
In order to overcome evil thoughts, we must occupy ourselves about better things and remember Allah (swt) more. In addition, it would help to think of solutions for people’s problems as this would serve as a positive thought to counter evil thinking.
Therefore, patience is required against all sins, mental or physical. It is patience by which we restrain our desire to speak ill of others or think badly about others; the faculty of anger, desires and lusts within us must be restrained with patience in order to avoid sins in practice and in thought.
Patience on such situation is by not reacting or retaliating. Some companions of the Prophet (s) used to say:
“We would not consider someone as a believer unless he was able to be patient with respect to people annoying him.”
Likewise, the Quran states:
“And why should we not put our trust in Allah, seeing that He has guided us in our ways? Surely, we will put up patiently with whatever torment you may inflict upon us, and in Allah let all the trusting put their trust.”276
“And do not obey the faithless and hypocrites, and disregard their torments, and put your trust in Allah, and Allah suffices as trustee.”277
This verse instructs us not to retaliate to the torments.
“And be patient over what they say and keep away from them in a graceful manner.”278
Hence, we must not leave them by leaving a bitter comment or saying something unpleasant. Rather, we must leave them nicely in order to prevent further escalation.
There are many verses such as these that emphasise the importance of patience and forgiving when faced with people who have upset or mistreated us. Although in Islam, we are allowed to retaliate justly, in proportion to what we have suffered:
“And if you retaliate, retaliate with the like of what you have been made to suffer, but if you are patient that is surely better for the patient.”279
However, we deceive ourselves into not being patient by ignoring the greater emphasis Islam places on patience instead of retaliation by magnifying the need for revenge due to our anger. In society, mistakes occur and revenge is allowed but even then to be patient is better.
Rather than relying on patience, we rely on the exception from patience. It is only a minute number of cases which must be answered with retribution due to the systematic nature of the injustice; such that the God-wary and knowledgeable scholars would advise revenge or punishment because letting such injustices carry on will only result in repeat injustices. However, these are exceptions which do not arise most of the time. If we are mistakenly wronged by a believer who regrets, we must forgive.
The key to understand when to avenge or when to forgive is to assess how much we are under the influence of anger or intellect. Anger calls for blind retribution whereas the intellect calls for the correct response of either forgiveness or if necessary then retribution in proportion.
O Allah, please help us to develop all forms of patience, in doing good and avoiding evil, be it in thought or in practice. Help us to remain patient through calamities and make our motive our intellect rather than our anger or desires.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 83, 30/04/2018
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This lecture studies the following:
Recap
Continuation
Patience in uncontrollable situations
Awaiting
Further narrations from Shia sources
Definition of patience
The noble lady Rumaysa is a fine example of patience
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Recap
Previously, we discussed three types of patience: Continuation Ghazali quotes from the Prophet (s): Patience in uncontrollable situations There are times when calamities befall us, and we are neither the cause of it nor the sustainer of it but patience at such times is essential and helpful. Imam Baqir (as) said: Awaiting The Prophet (s) said: Further narrations from Shia sources Imam Baqir (as) said: Definition of patience Imam Baqir (as) was asked; “What is beautiful patience?” The noble lady Rumaysa is a fine example of patience: She had a son who died while her husband was away. Upon his return she hid the body and prepared food for him like normal. He then asked “How is our child?” She replied: Conclusion In conclusion, patience is one of the most essential qualities of a faithful person. It is as is narrated; the head for the body. You may find it difficult to completely achieve patience but faith isn’t possible without some degree of patience. Whatever endeavour we take on, without patience it would not bear fruit. E.g. marriage to the best match, without patience, will not be successful nor would a business. Hence whatever we do, we need patience because if we keep changing our mind after facing some difficulty, we will never achieve anything worth achieving.
1. Patience regarding occurrences we cause. E.g. acts of obedience.
2. Patience regarding occurrences we do not control in their inception but can control its continuation. E.g. being hurt by someone.
3. Patience regarding circumstances which we have no control over, neither in its inception nor its continuation.
We mentioned verses related to patience and now we will continue by mentioning narrations about patience.
“Connect with those who have disconnected from you. Give to those who have deprived you and forgive those who have wronged you.”
You basically turn the other cheek as Jesus famously said. That is if tolerance will not increase the problem. It is also wiser to be patient because bursting out in anger in retaliation will probably attract more sympathy for the unjust from the onlookers. Therefore, we must be wise in our response so that by our patience we expose the unjust rather than aid their injustice by our impatience.
“Patience is of two types; patience upon calamities, which is good and beautiful. And better than that is the patience to stay away from what Allah has forbidden.”
Patience to stay away from what is forbidden means to be aware at all times from approaching sin.
Allah (swt) is narrated to have said that when a servant of His endures calamities in his body, wealth or children with beautiful patience, and maintains his love for Allah, Allah feels embarrassed to question him or even set up a scale for measuring his deeds and so they are rewarded without accounting:
“Indeed, the patient will be given their reward without account.”280
Such is the position of those who have beautiful patience that on the Day of Judgement, they enter heaven before the martyrs and rightly so because a martyr dies once but the patient lives a life of hardship. Hence it is likely that wives of martyrs who are patient with the orphaning of their children are above their martyred husbands;
“The faithful and their descendants who followed them in faith, we will make their descendants join them.”281
“To await the delivery with patience is worship.”
Delivery can be from any difficulty such as calamities or the hardships of the age of occultation. Yet awaiting does not mean wasting time, inactive. It means an active awaiting such that we are productive in the mean time for preparations. Hence when Prophet Dawud asked Allah (swt):
“My Lord, what is the reward of someone who is in grief, but patient with calamities whilst seeking Your pleasure?”
Allah (swt) replied:
“His reward is that I will grant him the dress of safety which I will never remove from him.”
“Whoever falls ill for three days or more and does not complain to those who visit him, I change his flesh to a better flesh and his blood to a better blood. If he is given a cure in this illness, he would be cured while there is no sin left on him. And if I take his soul, I take it into My mercy.”
Of course, the exception is that he still has to give account of the legal rights of others over him if he has been unjust.
Complaining here does not mean discussing your problem with someone that can help. It means exaggerating and whining. Therefore, Islamic ethics does not teach us to not consult doctors of seek advice or comfort by speaking to others, rather it means we must not whine nor speak disrespectfully of Allah (swt) due to the calamity.
He (as) replied:
“It is patience in which there is no complaint to people.”
Although a person may not be able to change anything by being patient; it just shows that patience is an internal reaction to difficulties, it does not necessarily manifest physically. It could be remaining calm and maintaining your composure, not exploding or panicking in the face of a difficulty.
“He is in the best of conditions. From the time he became ill he has not been in such a great condition.”
Then she said:
“I am surprised about our neighbours! I gave something to them and when I wanted it back, the neighbour started complaining.”
The husband said: “Why should they complain? You had lent them something and now asked for it back, so they shouldn’t complain.”
That was when she gave him the dead body of their son and said:
“This is your son, he was lent to us by Allah (swt) and He has taken him back now.”
The husband was amazed by her patience and composure. The Prophet (s) prayed for them and they had many good children afterwards. The Prophet said regarding the noble lady:
“I saw in a dream that this lady is in heaven.”
This example illustrates what beautiful patience is.
What is essential is to keep your composure in hardship; feeling irritated and near bursting is a sign of impatience. In addition to judge whether patience is needed or action is; we must look at the risks and dangers to our health and the health of those we are responsible for.
If we are going to mention our problems, it should be with trustworthy people who know better and are more experienced than us so that we are not misled. To mention in order to solve problems is acceptable; what patience cautions against is whining unnecessarily. Seeking professional help is also included in patience. Therefore we must have friends and acquaintances to whom we can seek advice and help from while we exercise patience.
And all praise is due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
Lecture 84, 25/06/2018
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Lecture 85, 02/07/2018
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Lecture 86, 09/07/2018
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Lecture 87, 16/07/2018
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Lecture 88, 03/09/2018
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This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Importance of self-control
Characteristics of Our Age
Uncertainty
Access to Education is an Advantage, but the Disadvantage is Being Uncertain
Disconnectedness
Physical Strength is an Advantage, but the Disadvantage is Weakness of Spirit
Solutions
Selectivity
Brotherhood, Family and Community
Strength of Spirit
A community of Seekers of Knowledge
Summary of this session:
Introduction
In this lecture we will assess the goodness and shortcomings of our age, how they affect us and what we can do as individuals, families and communities to supplement our lives and have a wholesome and fulfilling lifestyle. Importance of self-control Although we may think we are in control of what we decide, in reality our decisions are tailored by external influences. Hence it is necessary that we have an independent assessment and decision making. Consecutively, we must pay heed to advice and warnings from others, but our decisions must be well thought out and rational rather than being driven by a majority or a minority. Analogically, an intelligent builder would not only evaluate the floor of a skyscraper he builds, but he also reflects over the entire building, its position in the city and the purpose of all buildings. Perhaps he may realise that what is needed instead are parks to give people a break from buildings. Although construction projects are more in his favour, he would realise the need of humanity for nature and so, he isn’t even influenced by his own self, thereby allowing him to put the greater good above his personal benefits. We must all therefore work harder to broaden our horizon, to care for the general state of humanity, not just ourselves or just Muslims. Characteristics of Our Age Firstly, I believe the characteristics we discuss here are just some of the many, but I think these three are more significant than the rest. Secondly, even though there may be problems in our age, I am optimistic and believe we must acknowledge problems and work with a heart full of hope towards the betterment of humanity. 1.Uncertainty Literacy today is very high; most people can read and write while many are educated at a higher degree. Additionally, there are movements to make free education available to all human beings. Furthermore, the internet has made it easy to access lots of information. However, a bombardment of information does not serve the need for knowledge since it is like pouring down a gallon of water into someone who is thirsty; rather than quenching his thirst, he is suffocated. 2.Access to Education is an Advantage, but the Disadvantage is Being Uncertain Hence, an advantage today is access to education and information, but a disadvantage is that we do not know how to process it. We lack direction and hence why we are very uncertain today. In the past, a young adult would have known the general direction of his future, even though it may have been limited. However today, a middle-aged man does not know where his life is headed. In the past, a grown man would have had plans for whom his children marry but today grown men don’t know who to marry themselves. 3.Disconnectedness In the past, travelling internationally was extremely rare. 70 years ago, a teacher of mine took his mother from Tehran to Karaj; a distance of 40 kilometres and she exclaimed “I didn’t know the world is so big!” Hence an advantage we have today is ease of travelling and communication thanks to technology. 4. Physical Strength is an Advantage, but the Disadvantage is Weakness of Spirit Another feature of our age is that we have improved in our physical capabilities thanks to empirical research and technological advances. However, we have become spiritually weaker due to our determination and independence decreasing. E.g. who is weaker; a person who walks to visit his parents or a person who doesn’t visit his parents despite having a car? A measure by which to judge which human is stronger is not physical, it is spiritual; our power to resist persist against pressure and problems and change threats into opportunities, to resist against temptations. Once the Prophet (s) was with companions and when asked who is better? The Prophet replied: Solutions Selectivity The technological advancements of our age are undeniable and very useful, and this is good. However, where there is a lacking, we must fill it with our own efforts. When we are still uncertain despite having so much information available, then we must be selective in order to be able to benefit from whatever is beneficial and filter against harmful material. I do not advise you not to use the advances of your age but only to know how to use them and for what purpose. Brotherhood, Family and Community Three concepts are emphasised on in Islam; Brotherhood, Family and Community. A narration states: Strength of Spirit We must train ourselves with hardships and adversities. The more we withdraw from challenges the weaker we become. The more comfort we indulge in the less appreciative we become. Hence, why people take many blessings for granted and hence why I think it is important for young adults to take gap years and live abroad in countries with tougher living conditions so that they come to appreciate the blessings they have in life. A community of Seekers of Knowledge Regarding us, we need to be a community based on seeking knowledge under the supervision of experienced and knowledgeable members. Through this we would then be more certain and have a healthier approach in gaining knowledge and information. Our friends would then also be close and reliable, and we would not feel lonely due to our integration in the community. Being surrounded by a community of religious, caring brothers and sisters would help to keep up our spirituality and keep us away from depression and hopelessness. Therefore, we can save ourselves by being a Hawza centric community, one that is under the guidance of our Imam (AF) and with the spirit of the Ahlul- Bayt.
A person’s maturity is defined based on how he reacts between receiving information and external influences and making a decision. Somebody who follows the majority or somebody who is easily influenced by certain individuals lacks that maturity because they lack independence in thought.
It is also important to bear in mind that we must never allow ourselves to be rushed. Those who plan to benefit from our lack of independent thinking try to rush us into making a decision because they know rushed decisions are not well thought out. E.g. When services or products are offered on a “limited time” basis, it’s not that the supply or demand of human needs will change, but businesses try to rush us into buying quickly in the fear that it may end. Whereas, a rational person would take time to assess whether that offer is the best out there and whether he even needs said service or product.
Moreover, rational and intelligent people are those who take time to assess every decision, but they also reflect from a macro perspective; such that they would not live life without a purpose or follow the majority in their view of life and living. They also reflect over greater concepts such as humanity; where it’s headed and what is happening to humans overall.
We will therefore check our age to identify some good and bad characteristics of humanity in our age. If we are right, then we should do something to improve the situation.
Literacy and access to information is there but has it improved our condition in the sense that we are more certain about life; about what is happening to us and what we should do? Are we more confident today or have we just accumulated data without being able to process or analyse it?
A common problem among children, teenagers as well as adults is that they think they know better because they have seen some videos or read some articles on the internet. Thereby creating for themselves a compound ignorance; where they think they know but in reality, they don’t, and this causes a barrier against their betterment. Hence, due to the large quantity of data, children underestimate the experience of their elders and parents; people who have processed data about life.
Among adults, there are those who maybe read a few books and then underestimate the knowledge of scholars and Maraji’, going so far as to even assume they know better than the scholars who have dedicated their life to learning.
Imagine a pharmacy, all the medicines have their names and specifications written on the packets and you can read these, you can search the internet regarding them, does it then mean that you can prescribe these medicines to others? Clearly there is a difference between qualified doctors with experience than lay people with data. Therefore, it is not a matter of how much information is available, but a matter of how one processes available information.
Yet, have we improved in our ties with relatives? We can spend more time talking to our relatives through social media and we can easily travel to be with them, yet the opposite has occurred, and we are less connected to the point that we are disconnected from the people living with us because of gadgets. At times we forget why these tools exist, rather than using them for a purpose, we end up becoming addicted to them such that when we are with friends or family, we are busy talking to those that are far away, it’s as if we have to use it now that we have brought it and some people prefer to text now, than meet and socialise in person. This can be dangerous because instead of connecting with those whom have priority and are close to us, we can become connected to strangers.
A very important need of humans is to know that someone cares for them. This has become less common in our age due to the disconnectedness among family members, relatives and friends. In Ziyarat Aminullah we say:
“I want to be loved among your friends, loved on the earth and in the sky.”
Humans cannot be happy without being cared about and loved by someone. It’s not enough that someone is considered a taxpayer or a citizen, they need maximum respect and honour. This need is relatively more important than the need for food; scarcity of food can only cause physical weakness whereas scarcity of care and love causes spiritual weakness to our souls.
Even if we have family around us and we love them and they love us, if this love is not expressed then we will still be lonely because we don’t see the love. In our community, Alhumdolillah, we still do express our love and care to our families. However, this problem does exist for other peoples of our age.
“The braver ones are those who can overcome their temptations.”
An achievement of the month of Ramadan is that we strengthen our souls by resisting against hunger and thirst, thereby gaining confidence and improving in our persistence. Gaining spiritual freedom, which means to do what is right and when it is right despite facing external and internal pressure and temptations. We must contemplate over our spiritual freedom.
The amount of material published for reading far exceeds our ability to read them all and so it is crucial that we research which books are worth reading and which ones need to be prioritised. We must have a clear understanding of what we want to do, and which material do we use since our time and resources are limited.
We must collect only reliable information; resources that provides a holistic and structured understanding. E.g. when building a house, you need a plan then the framework then the foundations and then everything else in a structure. Likewise, knowledge has a structure, a foundation and so we need to have a reliable and correct foundation to build upon.
“The most incompetent of people are those who cannot make brothers and even more incompetent are those who lose brothers.”
All Muslims are brothers and sisters to one another. The term brother here means friends and it is very important in Islam to make reliable friends. For guidance on friendships refer to my series about brotherhood in Islam.
Lastly, we need to preserve and promote the family and community. The community must be seen as an extension of our family. Unfortunately, in this age the family structure is dissolving. We must work to do the opposite; not only do we want to improve our familial life but also treat our community as important as family. Our behaviour and show of love in the mosque must not be superficial, we must have a genuine care and concern for each other. It is difficult but achievable.
If children are always pampered, they will never become strong. Camps and trips are good, but it would be better if these camps involved more hunger and hard work, especially for those in their teenage years wanting to get married. Working for a month or two in a remote place will strengthen them by showing how difficult life can be.
Such individuals and a community of such individuals are not only helpful to themselves, but they also help everyone around them. So, let us aim to be a source of motivation and inspiration for others, not a source of negativity and laziness.
Lecture 89, 10/09/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Distinction between what Allah likes and dislikes
Two ways of understanding what Allah likes or dislikes
Questions & Answers
Insight
Examples of creation and their known purpose
The purpose of this world
Wisdom behind money
Summary of this session:
Introduction
We are continuing our discussion about gratitude from Mahajjat ul Baydha volume 7, the book of patience and gratitude. The example we last used to define gratefulness was the horse and the king; if a king gifts us a horse, using it properly in his service and not misusing his gift against his will is gratitude. We will now start on page 160, “explaining the distinction between what Allah likes and what He does not like.” Distinction between what Allah likes and dislikes To be grateful requires knowledge of what the bestower likes and what He dislikes since gratefulness cannot be displayed by not using or misusing a gift against His will; that is ingratitude. Therefore, gratitude to Allah requires that we know what He likes. Two ways of understanding what Allah likes or dislikes There are two ways in which we can come to understand what God wants. They are listening and/or applying reason: Questions & Answers 1. Question: A heart which has indulged in constant sinning gets to the point where Allah seals it then does that person’s intellect still be functioning properly? Insight Hence there are two sources; listening to literature and gaining insight by observing and taking lessons: Examples of creation and their known purpose The sun أَنَّا صَبَبْنَا الْمَاءَ صَبًّا The purpose of this world When we benefit from someone and we acknowledge the benefit as well as to whom we owe thanks, it makes us love the bestower. Hence, why everything which exists for us must be used for their purpose with remembrance of Allah (swt) so, that the more we have the more our love grows for Him. However, using everything for the sake of using them while forgetful of Allah means that our love is misdirected at the worldly possessions and deepens our love for a materialistic and lowly life. Hence, why if we do not constantly remember Him, not only will we suddenly find ourselves in love with a worldly life, but we will never become acquainted with Him. Therefore, we must always be remembering Him and always thinking so that anything we do during the day is done with full knowledge of its purpose and benefit and the wisdom behind it. However, many people remember and think but they do not remember God and they do not think with Him in mind, instead they think and remember about how they may make more money to eat more; completely contrary to what we should be doing. Wisdom behind money Money is not a natural phenomenon like the sun and the earth. It is something brought about due to human activity and the author explains why Allah created Gold and Silver.
لَوْ كُنَّا نَسْمَعُ أَوْ نَعْقِلُ مَا كُنَّا فِي أَصْحَابِ السَّعِيرِ
“Had we listened or applied reason, we would not have been among inmates of the Blaze.”282
The Quran states that had the people of Hell listened or used reason then they would have figured out what Allah wanted and would have saved themselves.
A third method proposed by the author is the heart. However, this is not a definitive source of understanding and is not a Hujjah on us because it is not consistent and can change by bad actions, sins and thoughts.
Another issue with taking the heart as a Hujjah is that the heart cannot understand the micro details and so becomes confused in assessing what is right or wrong when facing a complicated dilemma, e.g. we all know by our hearts that lying is bad and so is breaking one’s promise but if these conflict each other people would be divided based on their hearts about what takes precedence.
Imam Kadhim (as) said:
“Indeed, for Allah, the Most-high, there is two arguments (Hujjah). An outer argument and this is the prophets, the apostle and Imams. And an inner argument and this is the intellect.”
Therefore, the argument of Allah cannot betray or make a mistake like the heart.
Answer: The intellect is imprisoned, it is not given its due place which is to rule the heart. When it is disobeyed then the heart is placed under the usurpation of desires. So, the intellect does not betray but its guidance is neglected.
2. Question: The input source for the heart and intellect is the same i.e. eyes and ears. Both of these can be sealed?
Answer: Good point, in the Quran its states that they have eyes and ears by which they do not see or listen. However, it never says ‘intellect by which they do not understand’ but rather it says they do not use the intellect available to them.
3. Question: There are some who claim to have used reason and the intellect in disproving religion and God. How is that compatible with what we have said?
Answer: They have misunderstood due to the inability to see the flaws in their arguments and as a result they attribute their flawed conclusions to be derived solely from the intellect. Whereas, in reality the intellect is a vehicle that needs a proper driver. Hence, why we have multiple schools of philosophy but not all of them can be right, so clearly, they are not speaking purely from the intellect. Therefore, it is necessary to study logic and philosophy to safeguard against mistakes in our argumentation or definitions.
Yet at the same time, discussions have never ceased because we know there must be an objective truth we can reach. So, the intellect is universal, and the truth is also single but there are multiple claims by different philosophies, thereby indicating that they have made a mistake somewhere in their intellection.
4. Question: Is ‘Aql what is understood as the intellect or does it also have a moral compass?
Answer: The term is used interchangeably; in philosophy it is referring to the intellect however, in our literature it refers to the intellect which is on a correct path and functioning properly.
5. Question: What kind of an intellect did the morally corrupt yet clever people like Muawiya have?
Answer: Imam Ali says regarding Muawiya: “By Allah, he is not cleverer than me, but he has satanic cleverness.”
Satanic cleverness is like a thief who has a high IQ. If we judge his intellect amorally then he may have a higher IQ than someone who works morally for a moral wage. Yet a thief is not someone we refer to as wise, smart or clever. Therefore, intellect is not a matter of what an IQ is, rather the judgement involves what the IQ is used for.
فَاعْتَبِرُوا يَا أُولِي الْأَبْصَارِ
“So take lesson, O you who have insight.”
A wise, rational and believing person is one who takes lessons from everything. Take lessons from people’s success as well as failures.
However, it is still very difficult to find the truth as well as identify the will of Allah solely with reasoning. This is why Allah, additionally, sent prophets for mankind to offer clear guidance
“So that mankind may not have any argument against Allah, after the [sending of the] prophets.”283
Now, we understand why it is important to know Islamic laws; because it informs us of what is forbidden, allowed, recommended, discouraged or neutral. It details God’s will far better than we ever could just by our intellect. By it we can know what God likes and dislikes and thus be able to be grateful and use what is bestowed upon us as He intended. Also, in order to know Islamic laws, we need to refer to the most knowledgeable expert and hence why Taqleed 284 is necessary.
We must also use our insight and intellect to understand for what purpose Allah created the multitude of different beings. Once we understand to some extent the purpose of everything then we can use them for their intended purpose to display our gratitude. If we are unable to see the wisdom behind a creation then it means we have not understood the wisdom behind it yet and it can never mean there is no wisdom because Allah, the Most-wise, does not create except by wisdom.
Today we understand better why the sun exists and to what benefits. It allows us to have night and day, one for rest and the other for work. This is why part of the night must be spent sleeping. Those who work at nights must not make it regular for themselves.
The clouds and rain
“We pour down plenteous water [from the sky]”
ثُمَّ شَقَقْنَا الْأَرْضَ شَقًّا
“Then We split the earth making openings in it”
فَأَنبَتْنَا فِيهَا حَبًّا
“And make the grain grow in it (80:27).”
وَعِنَبًا وَقَضْبًا
“As well as vines and vegetables”285
Likewise, our internal organs and bodily features are made with certain purposes and if we do not use them for their purposes then we are being ungrateful, and this is Kufranun Ni’mah .286
Therefore, everything is created so that we may remember Allah by them. Once our souls find reassurance we can return to Allah pleasing and pleased:
يَا أَيَّتُهَا النَّفْسُ الْمُطْمَئِنَّةُ
ارْجِعِي إِلَىٰ رَبِّكِ رَاضِيَةً مَرْضِيَّةً
فَادْخُلِي فِي عِبَادِي
وَادْخُلِي جَنَّتِي
“O reassured soul, return to your Lord, well-pleased and pleasing [to Him], and enter among My [righteous] servants and enter My Paradise.”287
And how do our souls find this reassurance? The Quran states:
الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَتَطْمَئِنُّ قُلُوبُهُمْ بِذِكْرِ اللَّهِ ۗ أَلَا بِذِكْرِ اللَّهِ تَطْمَئِنُّ الْقُلُوبُ
“Those who have believed and whose hearts are assured by the remembrance of Allah. Unquestionably, by the remembrance of Allah hearts are assured.”288
This remembrance needs knowledge of God and His will as well as servitude to Him. Everyone who uses a blessing in a way not intended, not in the journey towards Allah, has been ungrateful.
Long ago, primitive humans had very few tools as well as necessities of life and were self-sufficient in making these. As we grew into town and civilisations, our needs increased and it became impossible to be fully self-sufficient and so, exchanges had to be made but it was a tiresome practice because it would take long to find someone to exchange with. To facilitate trade and help us cover our needs gold and silver were adopted as currencies due to their rarity and reliability. Later, they used gold as reserves and the cheques became the paper money we have today. Unfortunately, people forget that the value of gold or money is arbitrary, and it is meant to be for facilitating exchanges to help improve the living conditions of humans but instead people start hoarding them into banks without having a need while depriving the needy of this means to exchange with for their needs. People should not ask “How much money have you got?” rather they should ask “How much has money got you?”
Once we realise the purpose of creation do we realise how futile attachment to worldly possessions are and how wrong we are and what great harms we cause when we do not use blessings as they are intended to be used.
Lecture 90, 24/09/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
The second pillar of Gratitude: What is a blessing?
The reality of blessings and their types
The second classification: Based on percentage
Summary of this session:
Introduction
We will continue on from page 160-162 and then our main discussion is from page 175. Last lecture we discussed the wisdom of creation and their purpose and right usage. We can understand the wisdom behind creation partly from our intellect and partly from revelation. Our discussion reached money, we said how gold and silver exist to facilitate exchanges in order to save time and help us cover our needs through buying and selling with currency rather than exchanging material goods we don’t need by finding someone with goods we do need. The second pillar of Gratitude: What is a blessing? In order to be grateful, we must know what we are grateful for because it is knowledge of a blessing that causes us to be grateful. We will discuss the reality of blessings, its types, ranks and categories. The reality of blessings and their types Everything which is good is a blessing; every desire, pleasure and happiness. However, it can only be considered a blessing if it leads to Heaven. This is because we can identify everything into 4 types: The second classification: Based on percentage In this world, pleasure and pain are intertwined. We have to go through pains to attain pleasure and we attain pain after pleasure. E.g. in order to have good food we have to work harder, cook, clean and even then we may end up with diabetes because the foods we eat are too good. So, there is never something which is 100% pleasure.
The author discusses how gold and silver are misused by conducting in illicit activities such as usury or hoarding it without any need. He says money is designed to facilitate trade between the needy but if someone hoards it then this is against that purpose. The wisdom behind currency is ruined by usury and accumulation without spending; this has been threatened with a painful punishment by Allah due to its immense harm:
وَالَّذِينَ يَكْنِزُونَ الذَّهَبَ وَالْفِضَّةَ وَلَا يُنفِقُونَهَا فِي سَبِيلِ اللَّـهِ فَبَشِّرْهُم بِعَذَابٍ أَلِيمٍ
“And those who hoard gold and silver and spend it not in the way of Allah – give them tidings of a painful punishment.”289
The accumulation of wealth without spending it in the path of Allah or making utensils out of gold and silver are ill practices that serve no purpose except to ruin the purpose and wisdom of currency.
We know we can never exhaust all the blessings bestowed upon us as Allah (swt) says:
وَإِن تَعُدُّوا نِعْمَتَ اللَّـهِ لَا تُحْصُوهَا ۗ
“If you enumerate Allah’s blessings, you will not be able to count them.”290
1. Something which is beneficial for both this world and the Hereafter. E.g. Knowledge.
2. Something which is harmful for our lives in both worlds. E.g. Ignorance.
3. Something which is beneficial for life in this world but bad for our Hereafter. E.g. licentiousness
4. Something which is bad for our life in this world but beneficial for our Hereafter. E.g. restraining one’s lusts.
We can agree that whatever is good for this world and there hereafter is definitely a blessing. Whereas, something which is only harmful both for our worldly life and the Hereafter is definitely a calamity.
How can something transient that we enjoy now but causes us immense suffering later be good or a blessing? Like poisoned honey which is sweet now but will kill us later. Clearly such a thing is not a blessing but a calamity.
However, that which we do not like in this world but have to tolerate and it helps us in our hereafter, that is also a blessing. Like a bitter medicine that we hate to drink now but it would cure us and allow us to have a better future. Someone ignorant would not deem this a blessing whereas the rational and wise people would definitely see it as a blessing because they have a vision that sees further into the future.
The life of this world is transient. The life of the Hereafter is eternal. Therefore, something cannot be a blessing in this world if it ruins us for eternity in the Hereafter. That is why all blessings can only be such if they lead to Heaven.
Additionally, whether we benefit from a clear blessing is dependent on our reaction to it. Indeed, the prophets are all blessings sent to us but many people would not benefit from them. That is why we will be questioned on the Day of Judgement regarding the blessing:
ثُمَّ لَتُسْأَلُنَّ يَوْمَئِذٍ عَنِ النَّعِيمِ
“Then on that day, you will surely be questioned concerning the blessing.”291
It is also not enough to just acknowledge something as a blessing, we must use it properly and benefit from it. E.g. in the Quran it narrates:
اللَّـهُمَّ رَبَّنَا أَنزِلْ عَلَيْنَا مَائِدَةً مِّنَ السَّمَاءِ تَكُونُ لَنَا عِيدًا
قَالَ اللَّـهُ إِنِّي مُنَزِّلُهَا عَلَيْكُمْ
فَمَن يَكْفُرْ بَعْدُ مِنكُمْ فَإِنِّي أُعَذِّبُهُ عَذَابًا لَّا أُعَذِّبُهُ أَحَدًا مِّنَ الْعَالَمِينَ
“Allah said, ‘I will indeed send it down to you. But should any of you disbelieve after this, I will indeed punish him with a punishment such as I do not punish anyone in all creation.”292
A table spread of foods from the sky is a clear proof for Allah and it is a great blessing but if someone disbelieves despite such a clear proof then that blessing is turned into a calamity onto himself by himself due to his reaction.
Gratitude can also be partial. If a stranger gives me something I must say thanks to show gratitude even though I may never use what he gave me and I will never see him again. However. with our teachers, families and friends, we are building a long term relationship in which we must acknowledge our close ties with them as well as thank them for individual blessings. In this way our relationships become deeper and stronger. Thus, it is very important that our gratitude is not partial by acknowledging our relationships.
If children do not acknowledge their parents’ parenthood over them then they may easily be deceived against their parents or they may run away. Allah (swt) said to prophet Musa (as):
“O Musa, make Me loved, endear me to My creation.”
Musa asked: “How?”
Allah (swt) said: “Remind them of my blessings.”
In the end Allah says:
“If you manage to bring back one person who has run away, it is great for you.”
Hence, Allah (swt) wants us to endear him by remembrance of His blessings and acknowledgement of His relationship with us so that we do not run away into the camp of Shaytan.
Likewise, wealth and children are not necessarily good because they test us with pains and challenges. Hence, why for wealth, respect and social position; if considered wisely, we should have of each as much so that it suffices. Having more may upset the balance and cause us difficulty as there are many people who are wealthy and have not managed to remain pious and spend that wealth in the path of Allah. There are those who have wished for fame but when fame is attained they regret and hate it because of the pains and difficulties it brings. Hence, why there is a saying attributed to Allah:
“Indeed among my servants is one whose righteousness is not except in affluence. If I make him poor I have corrupted him. And indeed among My servants is one whose righteousness is not except in poverty. If I make him rich I have corrupted him.”
In conclusion, we cannot generalise whether something is a blessing or not because it is based on the individual reacting to it. Nevertheless, excessive richness or poorness is bad and harmful, relatively speaking. Yet more people are able to maintain their faith in poverty than in affluence.
Lecture 91, 01/10/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Third classification of blessings
The fourth classification of blessings
Good and evil can also be
Absolute
Limited/conditional
Summary of this session:
Introduction
Continuing on from page 176, we discussed the second pillar of gratitude being knowledge of the blessing. We discussed that only that can be labelled as a ‘blessing’ which is ever lasting and good for the long term, not something which might give us a momentary of transient pleasure but end up poisoning us and ruining our future. Third classification of blessings Good things can be separated into three: 3. Good both by itself and as a means. E.g. Health and knowledge. The fourth classification of blessings A blessing can be categorised in the following way: Good and evil can also be – Absolute Absolute good is that which meets all three features as beneficial, pleasing as well as beautiful. E.g. Knowledge is beneficial, it comforts and gives pleasure to its possessor and it is beautiful. It is said that Sheikh Tusi would study tirelessly and when he would learn something new, he would go out and shout: “Where are the kings and princes to experience this pleasure of understanding something new?” – Limited/conditional Limited good is when something possesses one or two of the three features. E.g. Medicine is good as it is beneficial, but it is not good in taste or appearance. A man or woman may be beautiful but he or she may be very unpleasant to be with and/or harmful.
We also said that nothing in this world is always pure pleasure. However, for something to be considered a blessing, it must be overwhelmingly good in comparison to its evil.
1. Good in itself. E.g. Heaven & felicity, acquaintance with God.
Nearness to Allah is not achieved for the sake of something else because He is our ultimate end. Likewise going to Heaven is not so that we can achieve something else by Heaven, the end reward is Heaven.
2. Good as a means. E.g. Money, gold and silver.
Gold, silver and money have no benefit in themselves. We are only interested in them because of an arbitrary value that has been given to them. E.g. money is only valuable because it is common currency for buying and selling what we need. Had it not been such we would have viewed gold and money as worthless as grains of sand.
Once some students offered Allamah Tabatabai a house as a gift. He replied, “I want to have a house to live in, so it does not matter whether or not I own it.”
Ignorant people think that these are valuable in themselves and fall in love with them as though they are an end in themselves. Not only do they then want to accumulate wealth but also exchange it in usury.
This is like receiving a messenger from a beloved but overtime instead of using the messenger as a guide to the beloved, the lover just settles with the messenger and forgets who sent the messenger.
Good health is a pleasure in itself as well as a means of thinking, contemplation and remembrance of Allah. Although there are some people who want good health only to enjoy their worldly life. Thus, health is limited as a means only for this world. Believers can benefit further by using that health to work for their eternal life after death.
Likewise, knowledge gives pleasure by itself, it relieves us of pains and opens many doors for us in this world and the next. It is the best form of blessing.
Although it must be noted that even though something is a blessing in itself and as a means, it can still be misused and turned into a calamity. E.g. an evil scholar or someone with a good character who then uses their goodness to deceive others.
1. Beneficial.
Something can be a blessing due to its benefits for the future.
2. Comforting and pleasuring.
Something can be a blessing thanks to the comfort and pleasure it gives.
3. Beautiful in all conditions.
Something can be a blessing due to the pleasing appearance of it.
Absolute evil is that which lacks all three and hence it is harmful, displeasing and ugly. E.g. Ignorance is harmful, discomforting for the ignorant and ugly for others. Such that nobody likes to admit ignorance and it is an insult to call someone ignorant. Somebody ignorant might be in the bliss of ignorance but sooner or later his ignorance will manifest for him and it will cause him much pain and suffering because he knows it is ugly and he knows he is humbled by those who know better. Thus, he may educate himself by humbling himself and learning from the knowledgeable or become jealous and arrogant and decide to try and compensate his ignorance with accumulation of wealth.
Limited evil likewise is something which is evil in one or two of the aspects but falls short of absolute evil. E.g. something which is harmful but enjoyable like drinking water over food.
Lecture 92, 08/10/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Is the benefit of something good necessary or not?
Fifth division
Merits of knowledge over wealth
Those who cannot understand the pleasure of knowledge
Summary of this session:
Previously, we discussed something good can either be absolute or limited and likewise for evil. Something which is partially evil may meet one or two of the three features e.g. amputation due to an illness; it is painful and ugly but it is beneficial in the sense that it stops the spread of an infection. Is the benefit of something good necessary or not? 1. Necessary: It is beneficial and is needed. E.g. Knowledge and Wisdom are beneficial and necessary. Fifth division Pleasure is then divided into 3: Merits of knowledge over wealth: Based on a narration from Imam Ali (as): Those who cannot understand the pleasure of knowledge People who do not appreciate nor understand the pleasure of knowledge have a limited capacity in their understanding. Like a child that cannot understand what pleasure it is to be a mother or father. Therefore, there are 3 possible reasons:
2. Unnecessary: It is beneficial but not essential. E.g. Herbal performance enhancers.
1. Intellectual.
2. Physical and shared with all animals.
3. Physical and shared with some animals.
Intellectual pleasure is exclusive to humans as animals do not have this capacity. Likewise, humans who operate like animals also do not understand intellectual pleasures. Reason being that they haven’t tasted this pleasure and are oblivious to it and so they cannot even desire it. Like someone who has never tasted a certain food, he can never desire it nor understand it. In fact the people who enjoy knowledge are very few.
Intellectual pleasure is very honourable and permanent; its pleasure is never ending whereas physical pleasures are transient.
1. Whoever is satisfied with a lowly, worldly life are deprived intellectually.
2. Wealth needs to be guarded whereas knowledge guards its possessor.
3. Wealth finishes when spent but knowledge multiplies when spent.
4. You can be robbed of your wealth whereas knowledge is forever safe with you.
5. Those with position are always worried about their position and about the anger of their superiors whereas, those with knowledge are at peace and security because they do not need to be recognised by a king or ruler.
6. Knowledge is beautiful, pleasing and beneficial whereas money may lead to destruction and ugliness. The risk associated with knowledge is far less than the risk associated with money; while money has been said to be good in the Quran, it also blames it sometimes for the destruction of people:
وَإِنَّهُ لِحُبِّ الْخَيْرِ لَشَدِيدٌ
“And indeed, he is an avid lover of wealth.”293
1. They haven’t matured yet.
2. They have abandoned higher values for lower desires.
3. They are ill.
The prevalent condition among us are the first two whereas our role models; the Prophet (s), the Imams (as) and the close friends of Allah are people whom do not enjoy anything more in this world than knowledge.
Lecture 93, 15/10/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Causes of in appreciation of knowledge
What does it mean to be truly alive?
Second type of pleasure: Those shared with some animals.
Third type of pleasure: Those shared with all animals.
Summary of this session:
Introduction
We previously discussed the types of pleasure that blessings can bring. They are: Causes of inappreciation of knowledge 1. Some people haven’t matured. What does it mean to be truly alive? We tend to refer to those who are breathing, eating and talking among us as ‘alive’ and those in their graves as ‘dead’. This would be true if humans were their bodies but we are not. Our bodies are vessels for us, our souls. Hence, when a body dies, we are still alive. So, what is the real meaning of life? Second type of pleasure: Those shared with some animals. The desire and pleasure of leadership; to be admired by others and listened to. Although it is good to encourage some people by instilling a sense of greatness in them but at the same time we must be cautious not to instil a thirst for power and position among people. We are more in need of better followership than leadership. The natural and healthy way of having a good leadership is to have a good base of followers. Only as good followers can we become good leaders because we cannot inherit all the goodness of our superiors until we love them and come to know how they think. Third type of pleasure: Those shared with all animals. The lowest form of pleasure is those which all animals and humans share. E.g. the pleasures related to the stomach and sexual pleasures. If someone manages to stoop lower then they become attached to the pleasures. Those who are in a state of forgetfulness of God find themselves dominated by their desires and they are firmly attached to the lowest pleasures and their sources.
1. Intellectual pleasure
2. Physical pleasure similar to some animals
3. Physical pleasure shared with all animals
The first type being exclusive to only humans due to our valuing of and understanding of higher concepts such as knowledge and wisdom. Yet among humans, even among the religious, very few people actually value learning and wisdom even though knowledge and wisdom is regarded highly both by humanity and religion.
They lack the ability to comprehend why knowledge is important and have no value for it and are uninterested. They have not taken a step out of ignorance to experience the pleasure of knowledge and are oblivious to its taste.
2. Some people have matured but are diseased.
They are deprived of higher values because they have decided to indulge in base desires that blind them from enjoying higher pleasures such as that of knowledge. They are, morally and spiritually, too ill to understand its taste.
3. Some people are spiritually dead and are past recovering from their spiritual illnesses.
They have constantly lived a life of licentiousness, leaving their spiritual illnesses untreated until they have completely become dead in their hearts and are morally blind. For such people, higher values such as knowledge or wisdom are alien and they cannot understand. For too long they have trampled over their conscience and reason and are now rendered blind in pursuit of their desires.
Allah (swt) says:
وَلَا تَحْسَبَنَّ الَّذِينَ قُتِلُوا فِي سَبِيلِ اللَّـهِ أَمْوَاتًا ۚ
بَلْ أَحْيَاءٌ عِندَ رَبِّهِمْ يُرْزَقُونَ
“Do not suppose those who were slain in the path of Allah to be dead. Rather, they are living and provided for near their Lord.”294
Therefore, life and death in reality is about whether someone is spiritually alive in the path of God or spiritually dead by following desires and being dead on a path of licentiousness.
Although those who read more, seem as if they value knowledge and wisdom and it is good to raise our children with the habit of reading more. Yet it is not a definitive sign of a person’s spiritual life; he could be dead but read books because he enjoys fulfilling his habit. So even those who read may fail to value knowledge because they may be reading without learning or practicing it.
If we come to Hawza, it doesn’t necessarily mean we value knowledge. It is good as it shows we are not spiritually dead but if we are in Hawza and we do not take learning and implementation of what we learn seriously then we are still ill and not able to comprehend the value of knowledge properly yet.
Whereas, a thirst for leadership breeds contempt for our leaders and superiors as we may see their presence as an obstacle to our ascension to power. Rather than loving them and learning how they think, we end up envying and interpreting them according to our minds. E.g. one of the great scholars of Najaf would always refuse to become the Marja’. When people asked him why, he said when the previous Marja’ passed away, he felt a kind of happiness that his path to leading was now open. He understood his thirst and refused to become the Marja’ because he felt incapable as it was revealed to him that he desired position and power.
Therefore, the second type of pleasure from a blessing is that which we share with some in the animal kingdom which is to have power and be dominant over others.
Perhaps it is still possible for some people to resist these desires because they are apparent and easier to control. However, the desire for leadership and power is far more difficult to treat as it remains hidden within our hearts until we are tested with power. It is also the last desire to leave the hearts solely committed to Allah (swt).
If someone manages to control themselves past the lower pleasure then they can taste the pleasure of knowledge. Someone who enjoys knowledge, especially knowledge of God, would not accept an offer of leadership because nothing is more pleasurable to him than learning. The only circumstance by which such a person would accept to lead is by necessity and God given obligation.
Nobody can be relaxed about their desires especially the desire for power because these may be suppressed but they are beyond our capability to uproot. As students we may be in control but be controlled when we become great scholars and leaders.
The deception of power is very intricate. Someone may refuse to lead but nonetheless desire being special and different to others; to have more followers and admiration. Hence, why Imam Khomeini would not allow his students to be his entourage after his lessons and a narration states:
“Shoes do not follow a man except that he is destroyed.”
This shows how dangerous and misleading it is to have a following.
A believer’s heart can be dominated by the love for Allah yet in all cases we must all be wary and suspicious of our own selves and intentions.
Lecture 94, 22/10/2018
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This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
4 types of hearts
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Introduction
Previously, we discussed that there are 3 types of pleasure from blessings. 4 types of hearts: 1. Those who do not love except Allah. Conclusion In conclusion, there are 4 types of hearts. Very few remain constant in their love of Allah and even fewer love only for the sake of Allah. We must be cautious not to regress into total forgetfulness of Allah and try to acquaint ourselves with Him more so that we increase in our spirituality and are then better able to enjoy the higher pleasure than be encumbered by lower pleasures. We should take lesson from some companions; how they were very spiritual with the Prophet (s) but later became blinded by lowly pleasures and ended up ruining all their life’s achievements and ultimately dying in a wretched state. We may be spiritual today while attending religious gatherings and taking lessons but be careful not to become negligent when we become preoccupied with worldly affairs.
1. Intellectual.
2. Pleasure obtainable by some animals.
3. Pleasure obtainable by all animals.
Sometimes people are high in their spirituality and so feel empowered against pleasures of the body and are hence able to enjoy and appreciate higher pleasures such as that from knowledge. However, this state is never constant and may fluctuate.
This is the rarest of hearts. Such people do not love something except because Allah (swt) loves it. The main pleasure and comfort this heart enjoys is spiritual, that of acquaintance and nearness to Allah. For these hearts, other pleasures aren’t as valuable because they pale compared to the pleasure of knowing and loving Allah (swt).
2. Hearts which are not acquainted with Allah and are deprived of its pleasure.
This type of heart is common among people but probably not prevalent. Such people do not have any experience or value regarding Allah, or the pleasures that come from acquaintance with Him. Their motivation is in their desire for position, fame, power and material wealth. The pleasures they seek and enjoy are limited to physical pleasures and social position e.g. fame and power.
3. Hearts in which the love of Allah is prevalent.
Everyone has some level of acquaintance with God and so enjoy knowing Him and doing what is pleasing to Him. However, due to the fluctuating spirituality, sometimes we may regress back into being blinded by lower desires and become occupied with seeking physical pleasures.
4. Hearts in which love of worldly and lower desires are prevalent.
Most people either belong to this type or type 3 since it would be incorrect to assume most people in the world are devoid of any love for God. Most people are in between solely loving for the sake of Allah and being completely devoid of spirituality. So the last type is that it is preoccupied enjoying material, physical and social pleasures such as food, sex and being respected and followed by others. However, occasionally it enjoys some higher pleasures such as that of acquaintance with God and Knowledge.
Allah (swt) could predestine everyone to love only Him. Although, He has a set plan that will be achieved yet it does not mean it is done by force or predestination. We are still free to make our own decisions. Allah (swt) encourages us and then is patient regarding our progress. If one generation do not listen then another one will. Even though He is powerful and can influence us so much that we freely act as He wants.
Allah’s planning is such that the enemy plots are made to work against them:
وَمَكَرُوا وَمَكَرَ اللَّـهُ
وَاللَّـهُ خَيْرُ الْمَاكِرِينَ
“Then they planned, and Allah also planned, and Allah is the best of planners.”295
Allah (swt) has set the world in such a way that excess oppression will always come to ruin the oppressors and so the more they oppress the closer they reach their own destruction:
يُخْرِبُونَ بُيُوتَهُم بِأَيْدِيهِمْ وَأَيْدِي الْمُؤْمِنِينَ
“They demolish their houses with their own hands and the hands of the faithful.”296
So, although the faithful and the oppressors work against each other, in reality the oppressors are ruining themselves.
We must also remember that because people can fluctuate drastically in their spirituality, they can be a very faithful person today but turn into a vile person tomorrow. It happened that some companions of the Prophet (s) were very good but then changed into vile people once their worldly pleasure and material wealth increased.
Lecture 95, 05/11/2018
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This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
The Fifth Classification: ‘Ibrah
The Sixth Classification: Either a blessing is needed in itself or as a means.
Means
Tawfiq
Guidance
Summary of this session:
Introduction
We started reaching onto the topic of ‘Ibrah; which literally means passage over something. Technically, it means taking lesson from our experiences and education. The Fifth Classification: ‘Ibrah This world is a mirror reflecting the realities of the spiritual realm that is insensible. Just like we would use a mirror to learn about what it reflects, this world must be used as a means to understand what it reflects about the spiritual realm. Ibrah is exactly this passage by using the known world to gain acquaintance with the unseen world. The Sixth Classification: Either a blessing is needed in itself or as a means. We may want something for two reasons; either for itself or to achieve something else by it. The blessing which is wanted for itself is happiness in the Hereafter. This consists of four elements: Means There are several means by which we can achieve our end. The nearest is our virtues that help us in this world and the next. Then the nearer one is our physical health; nothing from our material wealth matters when we can’t use them. Then there are external things such as money, family and community. Tawfiq The term and concept are alien to the secular world because it is not counted as a means to success, yet we know that 2 individuals with the same circumstances don’t necessarily end up achieving the same. This is because Tawfiq is the matching of ability with opportunity. Some people are able but they don’t get the opportunity whereas others are unable to make use of opportunities because of their inability. It is only when Allah matches our ability with opportunity that we succeed. Guidance Allah (swt) says in the Quran:
Some people do not take lessons and are thus not able to increase in their understanding of the unseen reality that is beyond the material world. Whereas, others do take lessons because they are always questioning what everything implies for their Hereafter. They look at everything with God in mind and consider what is good for them in this world and the Hereafter. This taking morals from stories and experiences is what is called ‘Ibrah; that which raises our minds from the material realm to the immaterial realm.
لَقَدْ كَانَ فِي قَصَصِهِمْ عِبْرَةٌ
“There is certainly a moral in their accounts.”297
If we remain entrapped in worldly life, unaware of the reality of the unseen world then the gates of Hell are open to us and we risk endangering ourselves. If we were to gain certainty about Hell we would see it even in this life:
كَلَّا لَوْ تَعْلَمُونَ عِلْمَ الْيَقِينِ
لَتَرَوُنَّ الْجَحِيمَ
“Indeed, were you to know with certain knowledge, you would have surely seen hell [in this very life].”298
Therefore, Heaven and Hell already exist, we only come to know it fully when we die, and all the veils are lifted. Yet even in this life we can gain enough moral from our experiences to see Heaven and Hell. However, those who appreciate the higher pleasures such as that of knowledge are not many and so both in this world and the Hereafter, such people are rare.
1. Permanence:
We do not have to worry about it ending and so the happiness is not spoilt by transience.
2. The joy is not mixed with sadness:
In this world, we may enjoy something, but it is mixed with some negativity. For example food; we may eat the most delicious foods but then regret it when it causes health issues for us. For example marriage; we enjoy the good times but then have to also accept its struggles. Whereas, in the Hereafter, enjoyment is not spoiled by anything.
3. There is knowledge without ignorance:
In this world, nobody can truly be called knowledgeable because no matter how far we progress our ignorance is more than our knowledge. The one called knowledgeable today is in reality someone who has more questions and his knowledge is relatively higher than the average but in reality he is also someone whose ignorance outweighs his knowledge.
4. There is richness without poverty.
We will have everything we desire and more. In this world, it is impossible to achieve whatever we desire and if we do attempt to use our affluence for our desires then not only are we rendered poor but everything gets ruined from spirituality, to physical health to material wealth. Whereas, in the Hereafter we can take all and lose nothing.
These are some reasons why the Prophet (s) would always remind his companions and us that:
“There is no pleasure except the pleasure of the Hereafter.”
He would say this not only in hardship to motivate everyone but also in happiness and ease to protect us from forgetting Allah and the Hereafter.
He (s) also said:
“The complete blessing is entering Heaven.”
Therefore, we must never think that we are done when we are successful in worldly or even religious matters because the real end which we want to achieve is entering Heaven.
However, this does not mean we are unable and predestined to fail or succeed. There are known causes for and against Tawfiq e.g. someone with Tawfiq learns and benefits from knowledge by implementing it and kindness to parents is also a said to increase Tawfiq.
يُضِلَّ أَعْمَالَهُمْ
“Misguided are their actions.”
How does He misguide their actions? It is by taking away opportunity or using the context in such a way that the intended action does not achieve its intended effect. E.g. A sinful person and a righteous person face each other in battle, with a better bow the sinful person misses whereas the righteous person hits his mark. Therefore, while we follow God’s guidance, He helps us and covers many of our mistakes while turning some mistakes into a positive outcome. Hence, why Allah says regarding he who defended himself:
وَمَا رَمَيْتَ إِذْ رَمَيْتَ وَلَـٰكِنَّ اللَّـهَ رَمَىٰ ۚ
“And you threw not, when you threw, but it was Allah who threw.”299
Therefore, in order to be successful, we need guidance. It is in guidance where we can find the help of God in achieving success and entering Heaven. In guidance, a wise leader may make a mistake, but that mistake would be turned into his favour by Allah whereas, a sinful entity may plan but Allah plans better above them, turning their plans against themselves.
Lecture 96, 12/11/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Introduction
We began discussing Tawfiq. In Majma’ ul-Bahrayn it is defined as “Directing of means in a way which leads to obtaining something good.” Tawfiq is therefore the concoction of multiple factors needed for success; factors out of our hands and this is highlighted by Prophet Sho’ayb (as) in the Quran: Besides our discussion on Tawfiq, it is important to take lesson from the way the prophets address their people as a whole and do not neglect the less faithful people. By saying “O my people” he includes everyone, those who are firm believers and those who would oppose him. Similarly, when the Prophet Mohammed’s (s) uncle Hamza as well as many other Muslims were killed and the Prophet among many others injured in the battle of Uhud, imposed on the Muslims by the Pagan Meccans, the Prophet (s) did not invoke the curse of God unto them or remain silent. Instead he raised his hands and prayed for them saying: Regarding Tawfiq, Prophet Sho’ayb said: Conclusion Thus, a believer needs Tawfiq which is only from Allah. An internal preacher that is our heart and conscience which we must not silence by continuously ignoring and if we do feel bad for our bad acts then it means we haven’t yet killed our internal preacher. Lastly, a believer needs to accept advice from others because we cannot know everything ourselves and hence, in order to preserve our faith then we must accept advice from other people.
قَالَ يَا قَوْمِ أَرَأَيْتُمْ إِنْ كُنْتُ عَلَىٰ بَيِّنَةٍ مِنْ رَبِّي وَرَزَقَنِي مِنْهُ رِزْقًا حَسَنًا ۚ وَمَا أُرِيدُ أَنْ أُخَالِفَكُمْ إِلَىٰ مَا أَنْهَاكُمْ عَنْهُ ۚ إِنْ أُرِيدُ إِلَّا الْإِصْلَاحَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ ۚ وَمَا تَوْفِيقِي إِلَّا بِاللَّهِ ۚ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ وَإِلَيْهِ أُنِيبُ
He said, “O my people, have you considered: if I am upon clear evidence from my Lord and He has provided me with a good provision from Him…? And I do not intend to differ from you in that which I have forbidden you; I only intend reform as much as I am able. And my Tawfiq is not but through Allah. Upon him I have relied, and to Him I return.300
“O Allah! Guide my people for they do not know.”
Yet, these were the people who knew the Prophet since birth as well as knowing his family and ancestors. He was given the title “Trustworthy” in Mecca and he preached for 13 years among them. Yet still the Prophet says they need more time to know and excuses their animosity towards him.
Whereas many of us would despair after a week or two of trying to change someone. In order to bring positive change, we must be patient like the Prophet. All those people at Uhud became Muslims later but if they had been cursed and killed by the Prophet then they would have died upon misguidance and that is a loss for humanity and religion.
“And my Tawfiq is not but through Allah.”301
Therefore, we must bear in mind that many factors needed for success are out of our hands and we must rely on Allah to create a context suitable for success for us.
We need Tawfiq; the concoction of essential elements for success in all areas of life. Be it e.g. for sustenance or for repentance. Imam Ali (as) was asked why he taught Salat al-Ghufayla to a wretched person, he (as) replied: “He will not have Tawfiq to do it.” Regarding sustenance, maintaining ties of kinship is an aid to increasing sustenance whereas cutting ties of kinship is something that would ruin Tawfiq for sustenance. Therefore, we need to be wary of what brings Tawfiq and what ruins it because it is not something arbitrary where one person gets it from Allah, and another doesn’t for no reason; there is a clear correlation between what we do and whether we get Tawfiq or not.
Additionally, Sheikh Tusi says Tawfiq is out of grace and grace from God is anything which takes us nearer to obedience and away from disobedience. If our context is made such that it facilitates commitment to God without force then it is a grace from Allah.
Tawfiq is also listed as one of the three essential factors for the faith of a believer. The Imam says:
“A Mu’min needs 3 things; Tawfiq from Allah, a preacher from himself and acceptance from he who advises him.”
Later, we will discuss what factors cause or diminish Tawfiq. Hopefully we have understood the importance of Tawfiq as another narration states “The greatest thing that comes from Heaven is Tawfiq.” Therefore we must always pray to Allah for Tawfiq in order to be on the purest path.
Lecture 97, 19/11/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Causes of increase or decrease in Tawfiq
Intention
Summary of this session:
Introduction
Previously we discussed the significance of Tawfiq; the concoction of factors enabling success. Now we will discuss what increases Tawfiq and what decreases it or ends it. Causes of increase or decrease in Tawfiq In the Quran, Surat ul-Layl is said to explain what increases and decreases Tawfiq: Intention From Surah Hud we can also understand the importance of intentions in increasing Tawfiq: Regarding the rights of a teacher, Imam Sajjad Zayn al-Abideen (as) says:
إِنَّ سَعْيَكُمْ لَشَتَّىٰ
فَأَمَّا مَنْ أَعْطَىٰ وَاتَّقَىٰ
وَصَدَّقَ بِالْحُسْنَىٰ
فَسَنُيَسِّرُهُ لِلْيُسْرَىٰ
وَأَمَّا مَنْ بَخِلَ وَاسْتَغْنَىٰ
وَكَذَّبَ بِالْحُسْنَى
فَسَنُيَسِّرُهُ لِلْعُسْرَىٰ
“Indeed, your efforts are diverse. As for he who gives and fears Allah and believes in the best [reward], We will ease him toward ease. But as for he who withholds and considers himself free of need and denies the best [reward], We will ease him toward difficulty.”302
What isn’t and cannot be understood by secular education is how supernatural factors affect our success; how charity helps for success in seemingly irrelevant fields such as our education or business. However, a worldview from the perspective of God is holistic and so we have been made aware of how different factors in our life affect our success or Tawfiq e.g. maintaining ties of kinship, being good to parents etc.
Indeed our efforts in life are variant but he who gives as charity or to good causes and observes the limits and laws set by Allah and believes in the best reward which is Heaven then Allah (swt) says He eases them towards ease. This means Allah (swt) increases the Tawfiq of such people so that their efforts run smoothly and the concoctions of different elements needed to live a successful and happy life are formed. The key causes of Tawfiq listed here are thus giving to charity, being pious and observing the will of Allah and believing in the Hereafter.
Regarding charity, some people tend to think, giving their religious dues of Khums and Zakat is enough. However, what they fail to understand is that Khums is the right of the Imam (aj) that Allah has placed within all the blessings He gives us and Zakat is the right of the poor that Allah (swt) has placed within the blessings He gives us. These are to be paid in obligation so it does not prove someone’s generosity. Generosity is proven when we give out of something out of choice, without obligation and this is what is mentioned in the verse.
But as for those who deny charity and are stingy. He neither gives the right of others nor does he spend out of his own property. In addition he thinks himself to be needless of Allah (swt), he thinks what he possesses are not given by Allah. This is bad because such a person then becomes rebellious as he has denied the favours of God unto him:
كَلَّا إِنَّ الْإِنْسَانَ لَيَطْغَىٰ
أَنْ رَآهُ اسْتَغْنَ
“No! [But] indeed, man transgresses because he sees himself self-sufficient.”303
Then such a person rejects the Hereafter, promise of reward and warning of punishment. From thereon Allah (swt) says He eases him towards difficulty. Therefore, causes which reduce and block Tawfiq are miserliness, denying the need for God and denying the best reward.
إِنْ أُرِيدُ إِلَّا الْإِصْلَاحَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ
وَمَا تَوْفِيقِي إِلَّا بِاللَّـهِ
عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ وَإِلَيْهِ أُنِيبُ
“I only intend reform as much as I am able. And my success is not but through Allah. Upon him I have relied, and to Him I return.”304
“I only intend reform” shows that it is important to have a good intention from the beginning. However, we must remember that even those who corrupt claim to be reformers:
وَإِذَا قِيلَ لَهُمْ لَا تُفْسِدُوا فِي الْأَرْضِ قَالُوا إِنَّمَا نَحْنُ مُصْلِحُونَ
“And when it is said to them, “Do not cause corruption on the earth,” they say, “We are but reformers.”
Therefore, it’s a matter of being upon guidance so the hypocrites and those lacking knowledge of religion cannot claim to be reforming even if they believe so because reform towards betterment is only possible with knowledge of Allah’s will.
“As much as I am able to” shows that reliance on God to make everything fall into place without actually making an effort ourselves is just a mockery of ourselves; as Imam Redha (as) also said:
“He who asks Allah for Tawfiq but does not make his best effort has ridiculed himself.”
Therefore it’s important to do our best regarding what is in our hands and trust in Allah to help with only that which we are unaware and unable of. Therefore, another essential factor for Tawfiq is intention and personal effort to achieve and then to rely on Allah and constantly remember Him as our helper and remember our need for Him as this helps in motivating us as well as blessing our efforts which then increase us towards success.
Other things which help us towards success and Tawfiq are plentifully asking Allah as Imam Ali (as) said:
“Upon you is asking His help and yearning towards Him for your Tawfiq.”
Also, staying away from illegitimate and Haram wealth and consumption helps as it protects your soul from becoming clouded.
A good character and temper is important as it will allow you to build good friendships by entertaining them well with good company and this is beneficial in providing us with opportunities that enable success.
Kindness to parents is essential. We have 3 types of parents; those who gave birth to you, those who got you married and those who taught you. Respect to parents is of utmost importance as the Quran says:
وَقَضَىٰ رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعْبُدُوا إِلَّا إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا ۚ إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِنْدَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُلْ لَهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُلْ لَهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا
“And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], “uff,” and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word.”
However, what is more important than the biological father and father in law is the teacher. The one who teaches the child and guides him is the one that provides the spiritual sustenance needed for spiritual success in this world and the Hereafter. It can be that the biological father also teaches and guides their child in which case they have a double right on their children. One of our great scholars, they did not become great except because they had the utmost respect for their teachers such as Imam Khomeini (RA), Ayatollah Hasanzadeh Amuli and more. Sayyid Radhi (RA) refused a house from his teacher, after which he was forced to accept because his teacher commanded him as his spiritual father.
“The right of one who helps you with learning is that you honour and respect him and magnify him in gatherings. And to listen to him in the best manner, be very attentive and do not raise your voice over his. Do not talk to anyone while in his gathering/class and do not backbite in his presence. In his absence, if you should hear a bad mention of him then to defend him. If somebody speaks badly of him to you then you must defend him. You must cover his mistakes and express his merits. Do not sit with his enemies and do not be an enemy of his friends. If you observe these rights then the angels of Allah be a witness that you intended to and learnt from him his knowledge for the sake of Allah (swt) and not because of people.”
Therefore, we must observe the rights of all those whom we learn from even if we haven’t met them. In addition, we must not speak badly nor allow others to defame and mention our scholars and Jurists badly. There are many people who learn but they do not benefit from knowledge, we pray to Allah to increase our Tawfiq and help us dignify our scholars and learn from them.
Lecture 98, 26/11/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Means
Summary of this session:
Introduction
Regarding Tawfiq; the concoction of required means in order to achieve an end. We concluded that Tawfiq is only from Allah and is essential but it wouldn’t mean anything without personal effort and perseverance to achieve. We will now continue our discussion. Means There are different means required in order to achieve something: • Faith (Iman) • Health • Wealth • Guidance
1. Merits of character:
This consists of knowledge about Allah (swt), His angels and messengers and knowledge to discern right from wrong; how to act.
• Goodness of character
This consists of refraining from acting out of anger and desire; not to react in anger or to eat something or do something simply because we desire so regardless of its harms.
This restraining of one’s desire is called modesty (‘Iffah). However, we do not oppose lusts as a whole but simply seek to moderate it to achieve a healthy balance and this is called modesty. We are opposed to genital mutilations that seek to eradicate lusts because lust is good in itself and nobody is praised for not having lusts; those who control their lusts and use them rightly are commendable not those who do not have lusts at all. Therefore, when one regulates their desires and achieve a healthy balance have achieved modesty.
It is said that the quality of bravery, not fool-hardiness, is achieved when one achieves a balance in anger and channels their anger rightly to not be controlled by it. However, we do not shun anger altogether because to not have any anger means to be insensitive and careless about the sufferings of others. What is needed is a balance which then results in bravery for the person to do what is right under threats and pressure.
Therefore, it is commendable to refrain from sin while able to do it. However, some people misuse this and think they can place themselves in a sinful session or gathering because they will refrain from the sin taking place there e.g. watch movies with obscene material but claim to not watch those parts. What is needed is to make a good environment around us where we are distant from sin; this isn’t eradicating the ability of sinning but it also isn’t facilitating sins. It is the healthy balance which is commendable and takes us into qualities such as modesty, justice and bravery that we must observe as the Quran says:
أَلَّا تَطْغَوْا فِي الْمِيزَانِ
“[Declaring], ‘do not infringe the balance.”305
2. Physical merits.
It is difficult to achieve anything and sometimes impossible when one has bad health that distracts him due to pains or in pursuit of treatments. Hence, being healthy is crucial for success.
• Strength
Similar to health, bodily strength facilitates righteous deeds as many of them require good health and bodily strength e.g. Hajj, fasting, volunteering in the community.
• Beauty
It is essential to be beautiful for success. However, it certainly helps.
• Longevity
If one’s life is too short, then nothing can be achieved unless that person is especially efficient in time management. Therefore, a long life is necessary to allow people to grow spiritually by giving them more time.
3. External material blessings.
• Position
• Family
• Community/tribe
All these are very important in order to succeed. To view them as a means, not devote to them blindly and develop a tribal mentality. However, if we have these while on the right path then they can be of great assistance.
4. External immaterial blessings.
This is from Allah (swt) only and it is showing us what is right and wrong from His part. However, we need maturity on our part to discern and understand.
• Maturity
This is the ability to discern and judge correctly (Rushd). The difference between this and guidance is that guidance is the showing but maturity is the seeing and both are necessary to see. Maturity is needed because we need to be effective independent thinkers that can manage ourselves and others without being instructed all the time. Hence, why children and teenagers who aren’t mature enough should not be given lots of money as they will not be able to handle it properly:
وَلَا تُؤْتُوا السُّفَهَاءَ أَمْوَالَكُمُ الَّتِي جَعَلَ اللَّهُ لَكُمْ قِيَامًا وَارْزُقُوهُمْ فِيهَا وَاكْسُوهُمْ وَقُولُوا لَهُمْ قَوْلًا مَعْرُوفًا
ابْتَلُوا الْيَتَامَىٰ حَتَّىٰ إِذَا بَلَغُوا النِّكَاحَ فَإِنْ آنَسْتُمْ مِنْهُمْ رُشْدًا فَادْفَعُوا إِلَيْهِمْ أَمْوَالَهُمْ
“And do not give the weak-minded your property, which Allah has made a means of sustenance for you but provide for them with it and clothe them and speak to them words of appropriate kindness. And test the orphans [in their abilities] until they reach marriageable age. Then if you perceive in them maturity, release their property to them.”306
• Affirmation
This is to make something firm, to be stable and confident in what we do and say:
وَقُولُوا قَوْلًا سَدِيدًا
“And speak firmly.”307
This does not mean speak harshly because coinciding with this verse is:
فَقُولَا لَهُ قَوْلًا لَّيِّنًا
“Speak to him softly.”308
Those who would raise their voice above others or speak harshly do so because they are weak in their position and argument and so resort to illicit tactics to cover up their weakness. If someone is right they should be calm.
• Strengthening
Allah (swt) not only guides but He also gives us the ability to discern, in addition He helps us to strengthen against our weaknesses:
إِذْ أَيَّدتُّكَ بِرُوحِ الْقُدُسِ
“When I strengthened you with the Holy Spirit”309
All four; guidance, maturity, affirmation and strengthening are needed in order to achieve success. Hence, when someone goes for a mission to enlighten and improve a community, he needs guidance to know everything needed and to have a direction, he needs discernment to make correct decisions, he needs affirmation to not make mistakes and he needs support and strengthening in terms of motivation.
All these different means are dependent on one another for success, some being essential while others being auxiliary. E.g. if we want to achieve the ultimate success which is felicity in the Hereafter then we need both faith and goodness of character and hence these are essential.
Money is not essential but having money facilitates many routes to success such as seeking knowledge; one cannot study without money, or giving charity. So blessings as means such as money are needed as auxiliary. A narration states:
“The best help for piety is money.”
Those who are poor do not enjoy life and this may lead them to impiety. Those who lack security are fearful and cannot enjoy life and so security is a blessing. Those who are ill cannot enjoy life and so health is a blessing and so is youth because that is when our health is at its best and it is a golden opportunity only the elderly can truly value. All these are pleasures and blessings which we will be asked about:
ثُمَّ لَتُسْأَلُنَّ يَوْمَئِذٍ عَنِ النَّعِيمِ
“Then you will surely be asked that Day about pleasure.”310
We must therefore use what we have correctly and to put effort in what we do because we are rewarded what we strive for:
أَلَّا تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَ أُخْرَىٰ
وَأَنْ لَيْسَ لِلْإِنْسَانِ إِلَّا مَا سَعَىٰ
وَأَنَّ سَعْيَهُ سَوْفَ يُرَىٰ
ثُمَّ يُجْزَاهُ الْجَزَاءَ الْأَوْفَ
“That no bearer of burdens will bear the burden of another and that there is not for man except that for which he strives and that his effort is going to be seen then he will be recompensed for it with the fullest recompense.”
Lecture 99, 10/12/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Family and good children
Significance of family and relatives
Social Reputation
Longevity and health
Beauty
Summary of this session:
Introduction
We started to discuss what Na’eem (Blessing/Pleasure) is. We said it is those things which facilitate our life in this world and help us in the Hereafter such as affluence, security, good health and longevity. Hence, they are blessings if used correctly such that they help us in the Hereafter. Family and good children When we die, our ability to act ends and hence we enjoy or suffer the consequences of our actions. However certain actions’ effects continue piling up even after death and these are three: Significance of family and relatives We cannot cover our own needs independently and are dependent on each other’s professions in order to cover our basic needs. Hence, having plenty of relatives whom help each other greatly increases our efficiency and ability to achieve. In addition, anything which helps alleviate stress about worldly matters frees our hearts from this world and allows us to remember Allah (swt) more often. Thus if we help each other in worldly matters we will be able to focus more on the Hereafter. Social Reputation It is beneficial to have a good reputation in society as well as a good position and respect. Good position and respect come together as most people respect those with influence and power, so if someone secures a good position for himself then he has secured the respect of many people. Longevity and health As we have said previously, it is important to live long and healthy so that we can achieve more by not being distracted by our health concerns. It is narrated the Prophet (s) said: Beauty Beauty is to have a pleasant and healthy appearance that is real, not cosmetic. To be healthy and well-formed. Furthermore physical beauty is, in general, a manifestation of a person’s good nature; the better a person the better they look. This isn’t necessarily a skin based beauty or superficial beauty because it is described as light:
All of this world’s blessings can be summarised in security, health and substance. If someone has security for himself and his family, he has health and has their sustenance for the day then they possess the world’s blessings.
1. Continuous charities e.g. buildings which continue to benefit people after its builder has died.
2. Spreading knowledge: If someone dies and they leave behind knowledge, be it in books or in people’s minds, by which people benefit then that would be counted as good deeds for him even after his death. E.g. Allamah Tabatabai has continued teaching people after death because, among all else, he left behind Tafsir al-Mizan.
3. Righteous children: Having children and ensuring their well upbringing is an effort that would have lasting effects for the parents even after their death. The better the child the more good will come of him and the more reward the parents will be shareholders in. Such children who pray for you, seek forgiveness and do good deeds for their parents are the fruits of life.
Yet actions which benefit us are not limited to these 3. Any good deed we do which has lasting good effects after our death will continue to benefit us. E.g. guiding someone, reconciling among people, saving marriages, bringing reforms and leaving behind in society a precedence for the sake of Allah (swt).
It helps to keep injustice away from us because wrongdoers fear angering those with power. No Muslim individual or community is needless of a good social position. We must behave in a way that we obtain respect and position from others so that we are not marginalised, isolated and attacked. This is dependent on our own efforts but sadly some people tend to think that we lack respect because of outsiders but in reality it is mostly dependent on our own policies and tactics. Respect is earned not given.
Socio-economic positions allow us to better maintain our faith. It is said that faith and power are twins. It is possible that our hearts falter at the sight of other people’s wealth and become preoccupied with worldly obsessions. E.g. one of our teachers noticed that he didn’t feel happy after returning from preaching and he realised it was because his host in the area was very rich with lots of facilities whereas as a Hawza student his lifestyle was very basic. Therefore, having faith and sovereignty are important.
Allah (swt) also says:
وَلَوْلَا دَفْعُ اللَّهِ النَّاسَ بَعْضَهُمْ بِبَعْضٍ لَفَسَدَتِ الْأَرْضُ وَلَٰكِنَّ اللَّهَ ذُو فَضْلٍ عَلَى الْعَالَمِينَ
“And if it were not for Allah repelling [some] people by means of others, the earth would have been corrupted, but Allah is full of bounty to the worlds.”311
Therefore, it is important that we as a community build our social position and strength to counter the corruption that is spread, and we would be unable to do so without social position and sovereignty.
However, bear in mind that we do not chase power in a despotic bid to subjugate everyone. It is only to be sought as a means to protect ourselves, our families and communities from harm. Even some prophets used to maintain good relations with the powerful, not for the sake of worldly gains but for the sake of preventing harms and obstacles to their mission.
Also, whether someone is powerful or oppressed isn’t necessarily a measure of their piety and nearness to Allah. The Prophet (s) was just as dear to Allah (swt) while oppressed in Mecca as he was when he became the most powerful sovereign in the region. However, there are some people with the misconception that you must live oppressed, poor and without respect; without facilities that takes us nearer to Allah (swt).
“The best of fortunes is a long life in the service of Allah.”
We should respect the believers and the elderly because they have served longer in the service of Allah and are our superiors in experience and rank.
The Imam (as) was asked why those who pray a lot are so beautiful and the Imam replied:
“It is because they secluded themselves with their Lord thus Allah covered them with His light.”
It happens often that we see someone pious, perhaps a scholar and we are just attracted to his face. They may not be beautiful per se according to societal standards but they are beautiful to our eyes. Therefore, those who have purified themselves appear more beautiful because outer beauty is a manifestation of inner beauty. There is a narration from the Prophet (s):
“Seek goodness with the beautiful faces.”
If a person wants to guide others or lead a community or apply for a job, beauty helps in the sense that they are received more warmly by the audience or interviewer. Since, they are pleasant to look at, they also enjoy more of people’s attention. Some grand jurists (Fuqaha) have said that among equals, the most beautiful is qualified to lead prayer. The importance of good physique and stature is mentioned in the Quran e.g. to help Saul, Allah mentions his physique:
إِنَّ اللَّهَ اصْطَفَاهُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَزَادَهُ بَسْطَةً فِي الْعِلْمِ وَالْجِسْمِ
“Indeed, Allah has chosen him over you and has increased him abundantly in knowledge and physique.”312
Therefore, beauty helps because people receive and listen to beautiful people more easily. This may be unfortunate but that is how the situation is and so nobody can deny the easement beauty brings in life.
Lecture 100, 17/12/2018
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Introduction
Excerpt about Lady Ma’sumah (as)
Recap
Importance of expertise in Quran and narrations
Summary of this session:
Introduction Excerpt about Lady Ma’sumah (as) Alhumdolillah, we have a connection to the shrine of Lady Ma’sumah. Something we often take for granted. I myself lived and studied in Qom yet never appreciated how significant that lady is until I read a book called ‘Karimah e Ahlul Bayt’. Recap We were discussing that although real pleasure is in the end; the hereafter, there are worldly blessings that are helpful such as money, family, position etc. Importance of expertise in Quran and narrations Some people quote from the Quran and narrations frequently without a holistic understanding of them. It is important to know that narrations are quotes of the prophets and Imams (as) but they are said in certain circumstances to certain individuals which must be known in order to understand them yet even then it must be understood in light of the entirety of the Quran. Very few people are capable of this and hence why it is crucial we turn to those learned scholars. Otherwise people who frequently quote narrations and verses lead themselves and others into confusion because either the context, audience or exceptions aren’t understood. Thus, a wholesome understanding of the Quran and narrations are required in order to have a proper understanding of Islam. Particularly, Exegesis’, literature, theology, philosophy and ethics are essential. If we are trying to understand the Quranic approach to another science e.g. economics or psychology, we need expert knowledge in those as well. Thus, to understand the Quran, we need a holistic familiarity with it, not just memorise it. Because such verses are quoted without proper understanding, it has led to some confusion among people where they think it is bad to have a lot of possessions. In response, it must be said that Fitnah (test) doesn’t make it bad, it means we need to use it correctly. Therefore, everything is a blessing, but we need a proper understanding of how to use them. E.g. snake poison is a blessing but only for someone who knows how to make medicine out of it to cure others but this blessing cannot be utilised by an inexperienced individual who only gets bitten and suffers from the poison. Thus everything is a blessing, we just need proper understanding of how to utilise them. This Fitnah (test) is to distinguish the better from the worse, to bring out our value. Imam Ali (as) says:
Little by little, in small but persistent steps we can achieve something, thank you for your consistency in attendance and support of our discussions. In the end of our lives, when everything flashes before our eyes, hopefully we will remember these times as those we do not regret.
I always tried studying ethics (Akhlaq) and philosophy of ethics but never did I dare to teach it. I am not in a position to teach it but circumstances forced it upon me this time. I pray Allah (swt) gives us proper teachers of Akhlaq.
The lady has a great status near Allah (swt), she has a great role in helping the seekers of knowledge and purity. Imam Redha (as) said:
“Whoever visits her has visited me.”
The Imam (as) does not exaggerate. This was also said when the lady had passed away and the Imam was still living. Therefore, visiting her in her shrine is equal to visiting the living Imam. Whatever we would need from the Imam upon our visit, we can obtain through Lady Ma’sumah. Thus, if we want to visit our living Imam, the Imam of our time, we know where to go.
She is of those who have been given the right of intercession near Allah (swt), an accepted intercession since Allah (swt) has introduced these people Himself. It is not like a worldly intercession towards a king where he may ultimately accept or reject. Intercession near Allah from those who have been designated as our intercessors is certainly accepted but there are conditions for their intercession e.g. Imam Sadiq (as) says:
“Our intercession does not reach those who take prayers lightly.”
In her Ziyarat we recite:
“O Fatima! Intercede for me in Heaven for you have a great position near Allah.”
In addition, we have a narration from Imam Sadiq (as) that states ‘our Shia will go to Heaven with her intercession.”313
Such people may criticise us by questioning why we introduce things such as money as a blessing when the Quran says:
إِنَّ مِنْ أَزْوَاجِكُمْ وَأَوْلَادِكُمْ عَدُوًّا لَّكُمْ
“Indeed, you have enemies among your spouses and children.”314
إِنَّمَا أَمْوَالُكُمْ وَأَوْلَادُكُمْ فِتْنَةٌۚ
“Indeed, your possessions and children are but a test.”315
“People are children of what they appreciate.”
“The value of every person is what he masters.”
Thus the value of every person if what he values. If we wish to define ourselves, we can do so by what we value. Some people sell their faith for £100 and that is their value whereas someone like Imam Ali (as) says:
“By Allah, even if I am given all the domains of the seven continents with all that which exists under their skies in order to disobey Allah to the extent of snatching the peel of a single barley from an ant, I would not do it.”316
Thus, his value is incomparable to anything because the entirety of this world and the heavens do not matter to him as much as the peel of a single barley if in disobedience to his Lord.
There are also those who self-study by reading a lot without a teacher. He may be correct 95% of the time and be very pleasing to his audience however as soon as he is taken outside his comfort zone; the lectures he has prepared, he struggles because learning without a proper teacher isn’t holistic. Especially when he reads into terms and sayings that can be read differently, rather than being guided he misguides himself. He may have understood the general rules in his readings but he is deprived of knowledge of particular exceptions, which requires a teacher to teach as a supplement.
Nonetheless, simply because some people suffer due to their family and possessions does not make them bad. E.g. if we focused only on the statistics of road accidents we would see a lot of harm from it but nonetheless driving is a necessity today and its dangers do not render it bad. Similarly, the ocean is a huge blessing, we can use it to transport tons of material necessities and luxuries across the world, we can dive and find in there pearls but these require knowledge and understanding of the sea thus it is not a blessing for someone who doesn’t know swimming, seafaring or diving, not because of the sea, but because the person cannot utilise it to his benefit.
Today we are benefitting from the works of scholars who lived in the past, in difficulty they did not have electricity nor technology but we are needy of them because they utilised the few blessings available to them while we often fail to even recognise the multitude of blessings upon us.
The future is a matter of understanding, proper orientation, determination and focus. If we want to own our future we need knowledge, orientation, focus and determination. God willing, we can connect to the pools of knowledge under the guidance of our Maraji’ and godly scholars.
And all praise due to Allah, Lord of the worlds.
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2019
Lecture 101, 21/01/2019
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Preview
Essence of Money and Position
Meaning of Tawfiq
Meaning of Hidayah
Three Levels of Hidayah
Obstacles to Hidayah: al-hasad, kibr, hubb al-dunya and hubb al-asbab
The Second Type of Hidayah
The Third Type of Hidayah
Q & A
Summary of this session:
Preview
The last point that we discussed before the holidays was about the fact that money or position (al-mal wa al-jah) are blessings, but why are they blamed? Sometimes we find discouragement about them; if they are ni’mah why do we find that there is literature, like many hadith and verses of the Qur’an warning people about money and position? Essence of Money and Position In the Qur’an, mal is sometimes described as khayr. Here, mal is described as qiyam, Meaning of Tawfiq Tawfiq comes from wifaq, which means to bring together, to put together. There is no one who does not need tawfiq; everyone needs tawfiq. Ta’lif comes from ulfa; talfiq means to bring together. Talfiq means to collect; so, you want something but it is not enough. Indeed, many other factors should come together; your iradah (intention) is part of it, but not all of it. Allah (SWT)’s qada and qadar should be there, that is the main thing. If His qada and qadar are there then He brings other factors together so that we get what we want. We had a detailed discussion about qada and qadar in ‘Aqaid so we do not need to repeat it here. Meaning of Hidayah After tawfiq, hidayah is discussed. No one can seek sa’adah (happiness) without hidayah because, like tawfiq, everyone needs tawfiq and everyone needs hidayah. Why? Because hidayah is guidance; ence, hidayah is to be able to identify what is beneficial, what is good, and what is right. If you do not have hidayah you may try to benefit yourself, but in fact harm yourself. Hidayah is very important, as Allah (SWT) states, Three Levels of Hidayah 1. General Hidayah Therefore, hidayah is needed, but there are three levels of hidayah. The first level of hidayah is general for everyone, through prophets and through ‘aql (intellect) we all receive hidayah. The second type is a special hidayah, which is not for everyone; it is for those who benefit from the first level and then Allah (SWT) gives them additional guidance, zidnahum hudan. The third level is nur, Allah (SWT) gives light. Thus, when you have light it is permanent; it is not coming and going, whereas the second one might not always be there. The second is not permanent, but if it becomes constant then nur is inside you. Obstacles to Hidayah: al-hasad, kibr, hubb al-dunya and hubb al-asbab However, not everyone benefits from hidayah because there are obstacles. It would not stop except because of a few things. Al-hasad (jealousy) is a big obstacle. Sometimes because we are jealous of someone we do not want to be like him, we do not want to agree with him, or we want to be different. If that person is good then the only way for us to be different is to be bad; this is the problem with jealousy. The second obstacle to guidance is al-kibr (arrogance). Indeed, arrogance also does not let us benefit from guidance. The first level of arrogance is, “I do not accept from someone who is equal to me.”, but sometimes our arrogance is so much that we are not even able to accept from someone who is higher than us. Indeed, there were people who did not accept from the prophets. The Second Type of Hidayah The second level is beyond this general one. This guidance is the fruit of struggle (mujahidah); therefore, if you struggle for the sake of God, Allah (SWT) will give you additional guidance. This guidance is more than ‘aql and nabuwwah; Allah (SWT) gives you specific, additional, and extra guidance. Thus, if you struggle and implement what you are taught then you will be given more. • The Third Type of Hidayah The third type of hidayah is beyond the second; this is the light (nur) which illuminates in the world of nabuwwah and wilayah. When your mujahidah is continued, developed, and you are able to be a mujahid all the time, then this additional guidance becomes permanent. Therefore, sometimes Allah (SWT) sends flashes of light, and sometimes Allah (SWT) then puts the source of light in your heart so then you do not need to have it on and off; you are all the time with light. Then, the person can get something that he cannot get just with ‘aql; it is more.
The answer was that these things are useful, but only for the people who know how to use them and approach them. Because most people unfortunately do not approach them properly, we have to warn them. For example, they are very good for anbiya and awliya. Nevertheless, they worried that if they had lots of money or dunya, other people would follow them without being able to distinguish between the good side and the bad side and, thus, end up harming themselves. Hence, the exceptional groups say to the people, “Do not go towards money and position.”
وَلَا تُؤْتُوا السُّفَهَاءَ أَمْوَالَكُمُ الَّتِي جَعَلَ اللَّـهُ لَكُمْ قِيَامًا
“Do not give the feeble-minded your property, which Allah has assigned you to manage (4:5).”
Therefore, mal is good, and hubbil khayr means hubbil mal. Rasul Allah (SA) also praised it; for example, Rasul Allah said, “Ni’mal awnu ‘ala taqwallah al-mal: What a good help for piety, for fearing God, is mal!”
The same is said about jah, having good position in society and honour in the eyes of people. Having these things is not bad; indeed, they are ni’mah, but many texts blame them and praise is rarely found; however, this is not a contradiction. Even though they are good, because most people do not know how to approach them and handle them, they can be destroyed. The author states that if these things were essentially bad, then Allah (SWT) would not have given them to some of His prophets and messengers. Therefore, if you are a person who knows how to handle money then it is very good if you make lots of money and then turn it into charity. Yet, since most people keep money for themselves when they have it, they kill themselves spiritually with money. Consequently, we are discouraged from it.
رَبُّنَا الَّذِي أَعْطَىٰ كُلَّ شَيْءٍ خَلْقَهُ ثُمَّ هَدَىٰ
“Our Lord is He who gave everything its creation and then guided it (20:50).”
In addition to creation, Allah (SWT) also gives guidance because without guidance the purpose of creation cannot be achieved.
2. Special Hidayah
3. Nur
أَوَمَن كَانَ مَيْتًا فَأَحْيَيْنَاهُ وَجَعَلْنَا لَهُ نُورًا
“Is he who was lifeless, then We gave him life and provided him with a light (6:122)?”
أَفَمَن شَرَحَ اللَّـهُ صَدْرَهُ لِلْإِسْلَامِ فَهُوَ عَلَىٰ نُورٍ مِّن رَّبِّهِ ۚ
“Is someone whose breast Allah has opened to Islam so that he follows a light from His Lord (39:22)?”
Hubb al-dunya (love for dunya) is the third obstacle to hidayah because if dunya is your aim then you cannot go after what guidance is showing you. If you truly want guidance you should go where the guide is leading you; however, if you have hubb al-dunya then you want to do everything in order to gain dunya.
The fourth obstacle is hubb al-asbab, (hubb al-dunya wa al-asbab), which refers to those means that help us for dunya because dunya has branches. Dunya does not mean you just love dunya (the world); rather, dunya means money, power, food, position, etc. They blind your heart, not your eyes! Among those things that make you blind are al-ilfa wa al-‘adah, habits; when you are used to something it is very difficult for you to look at them differently. If you are used to doing something you want to keep it, so it is very difficult to get rid of our habits. For example, Allah (SWT) says in the Qur’an that some people who did not listen to the prophets said,
إِنَّا وَجَدْنَا آبَاءَنَا عَلَىٰ أُمَّةٍ
“We found our fathers following a creed (43:22).”
Surah Zukhruf verse 22 states that we have found our fathers on a certain path and tradition, so we want to follow it. It means we are used to this path; we were brought up with it so we do not want to accept anything new. This is habit. They do not say that we have a reason for it, just that we found our parents doing so and we have to do the same.
Lecture 102, 28/01/2019
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Rushd
Tasdid
Ta’yid
Qualities Required for Receiving Blessings
Clear Understanding
Good Listening
Humbleness
Enough Money and Dignity
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Rushd
After hidayah he talks about rushd. As you know, in the Qur’an we have a concept which is different from being adult; for example, when Allah (SWT) talks about aytam (orphans), So, now the author wants to bring this into this context of akhlaq and he says in addition to hidayah we need rushd. He refers to the following ayah, Tasdid Then we have tasdid, saddada/yusaddidu means tasdid, to make firm. It is a level higher than rushd; you have hidayah and rushd, but then you have tasdid. It is not only that you have motivation, but it actually moves you. It facilitates movement and action. Allah (SWT) directs your actions towards what is matlub, what you want to achieve, your goal. Thus, those actions become easy for him so that he would move towards what is right in the shortest period of time. Sometimes I know something is good, I even have desire and motivation, but it seems that I am somehow blocked. It is as if my muscles do not help me move towards the good action; something is keeping me stuck. You need the organs of your body and instruments to help you so that you have motivation to complete what you want to achieve. Therefore, hidayah is simply ta’rif, which means to introduce. So, through hidayah you understand, while rushd is to awaken motivation so that this person has motivation and can move. Yet, tasdid is help and assistance which moves the organs towards what is right. Ta’yid What is ta’yid? The author says that ta’yid is inclusive; it seems to include hidayah, rushd and tasdid. Ta’yid is that Allah (SWT) strengthens you by giving insight from inside and giving you power for moving, holding and having the tools that you need and the causes that you need from outside. Qualities Required for Receiving Blessings Alhamdulillah, we have now mentioned all sixteen categories of ni’mah and these sixteen all come together in people who have these characteristics. Clear Understanding When Allah (SWT) grants clear understanding, you are bright and you understand well. This is one characteristic and requirement to receive all the blessings. Good Listening Second, you have to have an ear which is understanding. Sometimes people who are very intelligent are not good in listening because they think, “I know this, I understand everything myself.” We need people who are intelligent, but who also listen. Listening is clearly very important; there are courses on presentation and speech, but we also need courses on effective listening. Humbleness Third, you also need a heart which has insight and is full of humility. Arrogance makes your heart like a rock, while humbleness makes it soft. Softness is very important for the heart because it has to be sensitive. In addition to all this, he also has a mu’allim, someone who teaches him or her. The mu’allim is nasih, wishes the best for him. Enough Money and Dignity Also, from dunya and from money, if you have something which would be enough to meet your needs (not too much as we have discussed) is good. Having enough money so that you can meet your needs is a ni’mah. The author beautifully explains that money should not be that little that you cannot meet your needs, or too much that it would preoccupy you, keep you busy and make you forget your religion.
فَإِنْ آنَسْتُم مِّنْهُمْ رُشْدًا
“Then if you discern in them maturity (4:6).”
The concept of rushd and rashid means to be in a condition in which you are aware of your interests and what things are not in your interest. Rashid is the person who, for example if has money, knows how to use his money; people would not easily deceive him or take the money from him or her. Another example is for marriage.
وَلَقَدْ آتَيْنَا إِبْرَاهِيمَ رُشْدَهُ مِن قَبْلُ وَكُنَّا بِهِ عَالِمِينَ
“Certainly We had given Abraham his probity before, and We knew him (21:51).”
He says that rushd is more than hidayah; hidayah means that you are guided to understand what is good and what is bad. Rushd is something more; rushd means that you have a kind of strength in yourself. You are moved towards what is good and beneficial for you. The passage states that it is a kind of divine inayah (inayah means attention, divine favour) which helps people when they look at their maqasid, their purpose and what they want to achieve. Thus, when someone wants to achieve something, he needs a kind of special favour from Allah (SWT) so that gives him power and energy to go for what he finds to be good. This inayati ilahi, divine help and assistance, strengthens him for doing what is good for him and what is to his interest.
There are many people who do something that they know is harmful, it is not beneficial, but it is different from someone who is ignorant and does not know that this is harmful. He has not been given rushd. Thus, rushd is a kind of, I cannot say maturity but perhaps intellectual growth, a level of maturity or growth so that you would be inclined towards what you know.
إِذْ أَيَّدتُّكَ بِرُوحِ الْقُدُسِ
“When I strengthened you with the Holy Spirit (5:110).”
I supported you with the Holy Spirit. What does “supported you” mean? It means guided you, helped you, facilitated for you, and gave you. If you have ruhul qudus commissioned by Allah (SWT) to support you, would you then fail? Obviously, you cannot fail.
‘Ismah is similar to ta’yid. Although they are not exactly the same, they are similar in the sense that ‘ismah is also inclusive; hence, if you have ‘ismah it also means that you would be successful. As you know, ‘ismah literally means to protect or to keep.
وَاللَّـهُ يَعْصِمُكَ مِنَ النَّاسِ
“And Allah shall protect you from the people (5:67).”
God is going to protect you with respect to people. They cannot harm you. Therefore, ‘ismah literally means protection, but what we mean here by ‘ismah (of course, not from an ‘aqaidi perspective of the Shi’ah, but more of an akhlaqi perspective which Ghazali also shares) is a kind of wujudun ilahi. How do you translate wujudun ilahi? Ilahi sometimes means divine, but here it is better to say godly and not divine because it is not divine. Rather, it is from God, a kind of godly, existential blessing that happens inside you. So, ‘ismah is internal because ‘ismah is not that you want to do bad things, but then an angel comes and takes you away. On the contrary, we say that although it is internal, it is not that they decide to go do the action and then something blocks their way. It is something that happens inside by which people are powerful to seek good or avoid bad; it is an internal, invisible obstacle.
Q: I cannot clearly differentiate between ta’yid and ‘ismah. If somebody has guidance, rushd, and tasdid, then is not that person going to have ‘ismah?
A: Very good question. As I said, ta’yid and ‘ismah are not similar in the sense that their meaning is the same, but they are similar in the sense that both of them complete the job. Ta’yid helps you achieve, while ‘ismah helps you avoid (keeps you away from sins and mistakes). So, you do what you have to do with ta’yid and you avoid what you should avoid with ‘ismah.
If you remember, one of the things we discussed was social position, respect, ‘izz. How much position do we need? We said that you should have that much dignity and honour in society so that stupid and bad people would not dare to attack and harm you. The zalimin would not oppress you.
Each of these sixteen types of ni’mah need other causes. For instance, you need money but then how do you get money? In the end, all these causes end with musabbib ul-asbab, which is Allah (SWT). The author says that if you want to consider those asbab, how you get money, dignity, and all these sixteen up to reaching Allah (SWT), it takes a long time. Hence, he says that we cannot discuss all these things and exhaust this book, but still he would give examples so that you can better understand this ayah,
وَإِن تَعُدُّوا نِعْمَتَ اللَّـهِ لَا تُحْصُوهَا ۗ
“If you enumerate Allah’s blessings, you will not be able to count them (14:34).”
So, he says that because these are very much abundant and something like this book cannot mention them all, we mention examples. Allah says,
وَإِن تَعُدُّوا نِعْمَتَ اللَّـهِ لَا تُحْصُوهَا ۗ
No one can make a complete list of all the blessings of Allah (SWT) and as al-Sa’di says, “Even if you are able to count, then this by itself is a blessing, to be able to appreciate, acknowledge and thank.” There are so many things that Allah (SWT) has given us that we do not know because we only usually see the last hand or perhaps the last few hands before us. We do not see the whole chain, nor do we see the numerous things that were going to make life difficult for us and make us suffer, but Allah (SWT) kept us away from them. For example, you hear on the news today that there were 100 accidents, but can you say how many accidents did not take place? No one can tell you how many accidents did not take place or how many dangers we were saved from. Our shukr for those things that have not happened to us must be more than for those things that we have received because so many bad things have not happened to us.
Lecture 103, 04/02/2019
Video Audio
This lecture studies the following:
Preview
Examples of the Blessings of Allah
Health of the Body (Sihhat al-Badan)
Health: Eating (akl)
First Type: Those blessings in creating the causes for understanding what is edible
1. Touch
2. Smell
3. Sight
4. Hearing
5. Taste
6. Aql (Intellect)
Second Type: About your sensations and experiences
Defence: Anger
Summary of this session:
Preview
We have been discussing different types of ni’mah because shukr is with respect to ni’mah; we show our gratitude with respect to the bounties that Allah (SWT) has created. We have stated that there are sixteen types of ni’mah and if we want to understand how much Allah has obliged us, we have to discuss all these sixteen types. Each of them has branches as they depend on many other things. So, we cannot exhaust them, So, now we want to provide examples of the blessings of Allah (SWT). This chapter from volume 7, on page 192 of Mahajjah al-Bayda’, explains a sample of the multiple blessings of Allah (SWT) and how they depend one after the other and cannot be put in an inclusive and exhaustive list. Examples of the Blessings of Allah Health of the Body (Sihhat al-Badan) We included blessings in sixteen types; Among those blessings, one of them is health of our body, which is needed in order to enjoy, continue, and function. If we just want to study health (sihhat al-badan), which we sometimes thank Allah (SWT) for, it is not just one thing; rather, it can be divided into numerous things and requires numerous other things. If you just say, “Alhamdulillah, I’m healthy,” have you considered how many factors are required in order for you to be healthy? How many types of organs function in us? If we just count all the causes on which health depend, we cannot make a complete and exhaustive list. Health: Eating (akl) For example, one of the things that is needed for health is akl, eating. Eating is a type of harakah, a gradual change; every harakah needs a subject which is moving. We need six things for harakah, one of them is mutaharrik or mawdu’ al-harakah, that is the instrument which is moving. Mutaharrik (the one which is moving) needs power in order to move; also, it has to be willing to move. So, you need something to move, you need power to move, and you need desire or will to move. If you will to move you have a desire, so you have to know what you want so that you move. In addition to having power, idrak and iradah, you also have to have something to eat. Then, what is eaten must also have a root or origin where it comes from; there must also be aw yuslihu, someone that makes the food. First Type: Those blessings in creating the causes for understanding what is edible We will now briefly discuss different reasons for idrak, will, or power and different causes for what is edible. It will not be in a very inclusive way, so we just want to say that various factors need to come together so that you can eat something. The first group is about those blessings of Allah (SWT) that come in creating the causes so that we can understand. Allah (SWT) has given you senses by which you can understand and He has also given you the ability to move. Look carefully at the order by which Allah (SWT), through His wisdom, has created our five senses which are tools and instruments for our perception. 1. Touch The first sense is lams (touch), which is the lowest of our senses. It is the first sense that even babies understand through their skin, before they can see, hear, taste or smell. It seems by experience that the first thing is touch; they understand touch very quickly. This sense of touch has been given to you so that if, for example, fire touches you then you can sense it and run away. Of course, it does not need to touch your skin, for just by the heat of the fire you can understand and move away. It seems that every animal at least possesses this sense. Perhaps there are animals that do not understand fragrance, or that cannot see, but there is no animal that does not understand touch. If it does not have any hiss (sensation), it is not a haywan because haywan is hassas mutaharrik bil iradah. The lowest level of sensation is to at least sense something which is touching you or hitting you. If you cannot see, hear, or smell something which is far, you must understand at least when it touches you. Ghazali says that if we only had this sense (touching), it was not enough, like a worm only has this type of sense. Allah (SWT) has given us more senses. For example, if we only had the sense of touching, we would be unable to look for food when it was far. We would only be able to understand food if it was nearby and touching us, like if our body was touching water we could drink it, but if it was one metre away we could not understand. We would only be able to understand what was touching our body. 2. Smell Another sense which Allah (SWT) has given is the sense of smell. We can understand smells and fragrances, but if we were just given the sense of smell, we would be unable to understand from which direction the smell was coming from and then we would have to go around in different directions. 3. Sight Another important sense Allah (SWT) has given us is the sense of sight, basar. With basar you can understand direction and distance. however even these senses are not enough. Even if you have the ability to touch, smell and see, there is still a problem because perhaps there is a wall or barrier which you cannot see beyond. Therefore, if you did not have any senses except these three and there was something good like food, or bad like an enemy, you would not be unable to see due to the wall or barrier and, hence, unable to benefit or protect yourself. 4. Hearing Nevertheless, we can also hear. Thus, even if you cannot see the enemy, you can hear they are coming. Regarding food, sometimes you can hear the sound of an animal or bird moving, so you can hunt it. Furthermore, the sense of hearing has given us the ability to listen to words and speech because we can hear, and then speaking has also been made available to us. If we did not have the ability to hear, we could not benefit from speaking. Hence, this is another sense which is extra to what animals possess; they can perhaps hear, but cannot understand language. 5. Taste Yet another sense which has been given to us is the sense of taste, by which we understand what is good for us and what is not good for us. Usually, if something is good it has a good taste, whereas something bad has a bad taste; of course, this is normally, not always. 6. ‘Aql (Intellect) In addition to these five senses, and above them, Allah (SWT) has endowed us with ‘aql (intellect) in order that we can understand the harms and benefits of foods. So, the author states that Allah (SWT) has equipped us with another quality which is more honourable than all these five senses. It is better than the five senses and better than hissi mushtarak (common sense). By our ‘aql we understand what harms us now or in the future, but animals do not have ‘aql. Moreover, it is through ‘aql that we understand how to make food. Therefore, we benefit from our ‘aql in eating, which is one of the reasons for our health. The minimum benefit of ‘aql is that you use it for finding good food for your health, but the greatest benefit of ‘aql is ma’rifat, to understand Allah (SWT), His actions, and ma’rifat al-hikmah, the hikmah in His ‘alam, creation or universe. Second Type: About your sensations and experiences The second type is about blessings of Allah (SWT) fi khalqil idrakat, about your sensations and experiences. The first type was blessings in khalqil asbabil idrak, how you understand. For example, suppose you were given vision, so you were able to see that there is food, but if you were not given desire for food, the result was again that you would not benefit. So, whether you are able or unable to see food which is at a distance, but you do not have desire, the result would be the same. Defence: Anger The next thing which is needed, in addition to understanding what is good for you and having appetite for it, is to also be able to defend yourself against people who want to take away your food. So, we need a kind of defence as well.
وَإِن تَعُدُّوا نِعْمَةَ اللَّـهِ لَا تُحْصُوهَا ۗ
“If you enumerate Allah’s blessings, you will not be able to count them (16:18).”
However, this does not mean that we should not even try to make at least an incomplete list; otherwise, we may take many things for granted or we may overlook them. So, when we say you cannot have a complete list, it does not mean that you should not at least attempt to have an incomplete list. Thus, it is very important to think about and write down all the blessings that we understand.
Allah (SWT) has created in you desire or appetite for food and has also made it dominant. If you do not give enough food to your body, this desire becomes so strong that it moves you towards the food. Even if we know we need food, when many of us are busy with something we may not eat the food. We know that our body needs exercise, but how many of us exercise? We do not exercise because just understanding by ‘aql is not enough for every person. However, with respect to food, not only do we understand by ‘aql, but we also have desire. Perhaps you will ask why Allah (SWT) did not give us the desire for exercise; the answer is that desires are for those things without which we cannot serve. If He was going to give such strong desire for everything then we would not see who is rational and who is irrational; however, for certain basic things Allah (SWT) has put desire and pain, like for food.
If you just have appetites and desires for what is good for you and anger to protect, it is still not enough because anger and appetite are for things which are happening right now in front of us or going to happen. In addition to these, Allah (SWT) has made ‘aql think and prepare for the future. For example, although you have just had breakfast and right now you do not have appetite for food, you have to work from now because when it becomes lunchtime you will be hungry. Hence, the food must be ready. If we did not have ‘aql to tell us that we have to prepare in advance, then what would have happened? Thus, Allah (SWT) has given us another iradah through ‘aql that helps us to prepare. Just understanding is not enough; we need to have iradah, we need to have desire, and we need to have motivation. Insha’Allah we will then discuss that, in addition, we also need to be able to move and get what we want. We thank Allah (SWT) for all His blessings and for everything that we need in order to receive His blessings.
Lecture 104, 11/02/2019
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This lecture studies the following:
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Third Type: Power for Movement
The Blessing of Feet
The Blessing of Hands
The Blessing of the Mouth
Fourth Type: The Food in the World is Suitable for Us
The Blessing of Water
Conclusion
Summary of this session:
Preview
Alhamdulillah, we have tawfiq to continue our study of Kitab al-Sabr wa al-Shukr from al-Mahajjah al-Bayda’, volume 7, page 197. We have been studying a chapter which started on page 192, about an account of how abundant Allah (SWT)’s blessings and bounties are. The author is referring to only some of the things related to eating. Third Type: Power for Movement The third type of blessing, which we want to study tonight, is that Allah (SWT) has also blessed us by creating in us power and means for moving. If we were able to see, hear, touch, and smell, in addition to having desire and dislike, but we were unable to move, for example, towards our food, then the other blessings were not enough. Hence, the author says that the senses that we have do not benefit except for perception and understanding. Will and desire, because we also have desires and a system for our emotions, produce either inclination towards seeking something or running away from something which is bad. There are many ill people who see something good and desire it, but because of their weakness, for example, their legs are very weak, they cannot move and get what they want. When you are healthy you do not understand how important it is to do things; we take our health for granted, but sometimes the simplest movements can become either painful or impossible. We need instruments for movement, but these instruments (which are organs of our body) should also have power; you should have hands and legs, but hands and legs should also have power. We cannot just have a hand like a stick. When movements are made out of desire, these organs are seeking something which is good or, if out of dislike, are running away. Similar is the case for animals with four legs. Furthermore, we find many differences among animals; some animals have lots of enemies and their food can also be far from them; therefore, they need organs which provide them with fast movement. The Blessing of Hands Suppose that you see food from a distance and desire it; you also have feet to go towards it, but it is still not enough because you have to take it. Hence, you need something by which you can take and hold the food; thus, Allah (SWT) has blessed you by giving you two hands. Plus, these hands are long because if you had a little hand, like five or ten centimetres, it would not be that useful. Allah (SWT) has given us long hands which we can stretch; in addition, they have so many joints by which we can move them in different directions. We do not just move them right, left, up, and down, but we can move them 360 degrees and on every three-dimensional object you can move your hands, so there is no chance for any food to escape from you! The Blessing of the Mouth The author then explains that even after all these blessings, suppose you have taken food with your hand; but it is not enough for there must be a way to send it to your stomach. Therefore, we need the mouth so that we can put this food in it and send to the stomach. Then the author states that there is great hikmah in the creation of the mouth; certainly, it is not just for eating. The main purpose which comes to our mind is eating and drinking, but talking is also a very important function. Furthermore, after all the above, we then need a way to send this food that we have processed a little to the stomach. Therefore, again there are muscles and tubes to send food to the stomach, but this food can be very dry and it would be difficult to squeeze it or to send it down. Hence, Allah (SWT) has created in our mouth the ability to produce some chemicals and liquid to make it easy to swallow and digest; actually, digestion starts from the mouth. In addition, the tongue is also very important; it sends food to different teeth so that you can taste it. It is truly amazing that all these functions occur without our being in need of thinking about them. We might be talking or reading and meanwhile these processes are happening. Fourth Type: The Food in the World is Suitable for Us It is a great blessing to have food in the world which is suitable for eating. There are so many foods we can eat, like vegetables and meat. We should also consider how food becomes available and how it is possible for human beings to work on them and process them. It will take a long time to discuss all the foods, so the author briefly states that there are three types of things that we eat. Among those things found in nature, some are adwiya (medicine). Another type of food is fawakih (fruits), while the last type is aghdhiya (food). The book only discusses the last type, and not medicine and fruits. The third type, aghdhiya, like meals or food, has many branches, so the author says he will discuss only wheat (gandum in Farsi). Regarding wheat, he says that if you found one or more grains of wheat and then ate them, they would be finished but our hunger would not be satiated. Therefore, we have a great need for these grains to grow and reproduce themselves. The Blessing of Water Now, after these, think about the system which needs to exist just for having water. It includes the rivers, evaporation, wind, clouds, rain, air, and soil; all of these aspects must be considered. For example, in order to come to the land for farming water needs seas, springs, rivers, or small branches of river channels. Then, look at the way Allah (SWT) has created seas, springs and rivers. Sometimes the land is very high, so you cannot send water upwards, especially in the past they did not have electricity and pumps, etc. So, Allah (SWT) sends water from the top. Clearly, we would still have a problem if we only had rivers, seas and springs, but no rain. Look carefully at how Allah (SWT) created the cloud; He (SWT) created clouds and then He (SWT) created the wind to take these clouds everywhere in the world according to His will. Then look at how Allah (SWT) sends a lot of rain in spring and fall, when it is the right time needed for farming. We are just briefly discussing water. Consider how Allah (SWT) has made mountains as reserves for water; if these mountains were not there everything would come and finish, but when it goes to the mountain it can remain as ice, for example, and throughout the year we benefit from it, or it goes inside and then we have springs. Consequently, mountains also play a very significant role. These springs gradually bring this water throughout the year; if all this rain and snow on the mountains came on the plains, everything would drown. Conclusion As a conclusion, he wants to help us appreciate the blessings of Allah (SWT). As we have mentioned, if we count the blessings of Allah (SWT) we cannot make a list. We have counted just those very last things that we appreciate and understand; for example, health or food; however, now we realise that there is a whole system behind everything. Furthermore, if we compare what we know to what we do not know, here we are even unable to mention what we know, but what we do not know is much more than what we know. Therefore, it is good to ponder upon these matters and admit that we are unable to thank Allah (SWT) enough. Those who have more knowledge and know all these things, like scientists, are expected to be more grateful. One of the benefits of science is that you can be more grateful; unfortunately, some people learn these things and then they think we do not need God. Yet, as you know, science can explain only “how” and not “why;” “why” is understood in philosophy and theology. So, if you know “how,” it should just help you to appreciate more what Allah (SWT) is doing. May Allah (SWT) include us among the people who are very grateful, Insha’Allah.
The first type were blessings of Allah (SWT) in creating those things by which we can perceive, while the second were those that Allah (SWT) has created in us to desire and dislike, in addition to understanding.
The Blessing of Feet
Then, at the end of your hand Allah (SWT) has given you the palm (kaf). It is wide because if the hand ended at the wrist or the fingers were at the wrist so that we did not have this palm, we could not function. Allah (SWT) has placed this wide part at the end and five parts, which are our fingers; however, He did not place all five fingers in the same row. Four are together while the other one (the thumb) can come and hold things.
Imagine if every grain of wheat only produced one grain; it would be a disaster for farming. Yet, one grain becomes 700 grains, more or less, depending on types and brands. Indeed, there would be no bread. Thus, Allah (SWT) has made the types of plants that are very useful for us in a way that they can reproduce at a very high rate; they multiply themselves so that they are sufficient to meet all our needs. Through its roots it absorbs water and all the chemicals needed and then there is a system for distribution all over the plant, just like the human body. Thus, the author says that for fertilisation we need air, water and soil. Then he says that, in addition to all this, you need the right temperature. If it was always hot summer or cold winter, plants could not grow; therefore, just to grow wheat requires air, water, soil and the right temperature. Through the seasons we get the right temperature.
Lecture 105, 18/02/2019
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This lecture studies the following:
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Fifth Type: Blessing of Allah in those Links that help us Receive Food
Sixth Type: Blessing of Allah in How We Prepare Food
Seventh Type: Islah al-Muslihin, Those who Regulate Food
The Blessing of Allah in Creating Angels
Summary of this session:
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We continue our study of Kitab al-Sabr wa al-Shukr from al-Mahajjah al-Bayda’, volume 7 page 208. We were discussing different aspects about the blessing of food; we said one of the sixteen branches of ni’mah is what we need from dunya and it includes food and just about food we have been talking about different aspects. Now we go to the fifth type of blessing about food on page 208, which is about the way we receive the food. We have already mentioned that food can be used as medicine, fruit or food. Fifth Type: Blessing of Allah in those Links that help us Receive Food The fifth blessing of Allah (SWT) is in those links that help us to receive food. The author states that food is not always available next to us; for example, we do not just stretch out our hand and take what we like. Food is distributed all over the world; if something we need is not available here then we have to import it. Thus, we need to trade and do other things. It is not that all the foods we need exist everywhere; on the contrary, certain foods require certain conditions. Therefore, they cannot grow and be produced everywhere; they have certain conditions which exist in some places and not in other places. For example, if you want rice you cannot have rice everywhere, for it grows in a place where there is lots of rain; likewise, tea also grows in certain places. People are scattered all over the world and food is also scattered. We sometimes live far from places where certain foods are, with oceans, seas, and deserts in between. So, not only is food scattered all over the world, but also it is not through a pleasant and accessible road. Sometimes you have to cross oceans or deserts if you want to import something; for example, from Canada or India to England. Look carefully at how Allah (SWT) has motivated tradespeople to go through difficulties, take risks, and endanger themselves so that they can bring the food that you need from the east and the west. Moreover, not only has Allah (SWT) given them this kind of motivation, but He has also taught them how to make ships and boats to carry goods and how to travel and transport goods with them. Sixth Type: Blessing of Allah in How We Prepare Food The sixth dimension is regarding how we process and prepare food. The author states that besides fruit, most of the time we cannot eat food or animals as they are. For example, we cannot eat wheat, barley, rice, or a cow as they are. All these foods require processing and preparation. Numerous things have to be done in order that we can benefit from them. Thus, numerous people and instruments have to work until a piece of bread, for example, reaches you. Reflect on the number of actions that we have mentioned and what we have not mentioned; there are many things that we did not mention. Ponder upon how many people and instruments are involved in this process and how much equipment is needed for preparing this land, planting, watering, harvesting, and grinding at the mill. The author states that if you investigate and really ponder, you would find that a piece of bread does not come to you unless more than 1,000 people have somehow worked so that it reaches you. There is a whole industry behind it, including farming, trades, businesses, markets, and then people who regulate them, like police, army, security, and tax collectors. They all have to work so that we can get a piece of bread. Seventh Type: Islah al-Muslihin, Those who Regulate Food The seventh aspect of the blessing of food is that those who process and prepare food directly or indirectly themselves need other people to supervise them, push them, correct them, teach them, and regulate them, islah al-muslihin. Islah does not mean to reform; rather, it means to advise or to train. The author says that if these people who make the food and instruments that we need were not happy to live together and form society, but were trying to run away from each other like animals then we could not survive. Allah (SWT) has instilled in us the desire to be together with other people and then when we got together we have built cities and countries with houses close to each other. Therefore, it is very important that we need to first make sure that we have these cities and towns and people live together, even if it is for dunya. When they come together for the sake of dunya then we can work on their morality and spirituality, but if people lived away from each other then we could not establish any religious community or even make the message available to them. Consequently, what then happens is that because some people compete and want more power, they become kings, ministers, and leaders of the tribes. Although kings established order and instructed people to do good things, the kings themselves needed guidance, so Allah (SWT) sent prophets to guide the kings. The prophets taught them to observe the rulings of Shari’ah so that justice is observed among people. Then, the prophets themselves were supported by angels. Thus, we have a system; above the kings are prophets, above the prophets are angels, and above the angels is Allah (SWT). The Blessing of Allah in Creating Angels Next, the author discusses the blessing of Allah in creating angels; however, not much is known about them. We know other things, but we do not think about the angels. The author states that it is not hidden from us the blessings that Allah (SWT) has given humanity through angels by helping and supporting prophets with the angels. We know that angels are involved in conveying revelation and guiding the prophets, but we should not think this is the only function of angels. Do not think angels only function between God and the prophets, as there are many different types of angels that function in different levels. We can at least mention three levels: al-mala’ikatul ardhiyyah, those angels who live among us in this planet and have tasks here, every person is benefiting from lots of work that angels are doing; was samawiyyah, those which are in Heaven, in higher realms of realities; and hamalat al-‘arsh, those angels who carry the ‘Arsh (Divine Throne). Then there is a detailed discussion about angels, which itself requires lots of discussion. We can talk about angels based on hadith and we can talk about angels based on philosophy, but there would be a great gap. What we can understand philosophically is very limited. I shared with you my humble information, but I am really very ignorant about this complicated issue. I cannot say what I said positively, but it seems to me that it might not be wrong to suggest that some usage of angels in the hadith might not be in the way that philosophers refer to angels. It can refer to hidden positive sources of power and hidden positive factors, and the same is with Shaytan. Iblis is the obvious Shaytan, but then we can have hidden sources and factors of mischief that, like microbes and germs, and not necessarily a kind of being or jinn, like Iblis. For sure, Iblis (Shaytan) is utilising any source and power of moral or natural mischief. On the other hand, Allah (SWT), Jibra’il, and the mala’ikatil muqarrabin also have a hierarchy; part of it is mujarrad (metaphysical) and part of it can be worldly, physical, or material, but they are in the hierarchy of positive factors in the world. So, this is my humble understanding, but Allah (SWT) knows best.
Lecture 106, 25/02/2019
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This lecture studies the following:
Obstacles for Shukr
Jahl
Dominance of shahwah
Ghaflah
Exclusive Blessings: ‘Aql, Khulq, ‘Ilm
Other Exclusive Blessings
Summary of this session:
Obstacles for Shukr
A new chapter begins on page 217 of volume 7, titled “This is an account of what stops people from shukr.” This chapter is about why people are unable to thank Allah (SWT) adequately and when we say people it includes us; we should not think we are able to thank Him enough. Jahl The author says that the main reason for not thanking Allah (SWT) is either lack of understanding and appreciation, which is because of jahl (ignorance), ghaflah (heedlessness), or dominance of shahwah and appetites. Be aware that nothing stops people and makes them fall short from thanking for blessings except ignorance and heedlessness; however, there are also other dimensions. To begin with, it is a matter of either not knowing the blessings or you know them but do not think about them; hence, you are heedless. Because of ignorance and negligence, we are stopped from knowing the blessings. We cannot even think of thanking for blessings unless we know them; thus, when you know then you can be thankful, but if you do not know you cannot thank. Dominance of shahwah So, after knowing what ni’mah is and how to use it properly and be thankful, then the other problem happens; after knowing the blessing and what the purpose of this blessing is what stops them is dominance of shahwah. Therefore, instead of using the blessing in the way that Allah (SWT) wants, we use it in the way that we like; we enjoy ourselves. Shaytan controls and dominates us. For example, Allah (SWT) has given me a beautiful voice, but I use it in sinful singing. Allah (SWT) has given me intelligence, but instead of using it properly I use it to cheat others. Ghaflah The author states that jahl is a matter of studying; if you study you can solve jahl, but ghaflah has different reasons. One of the main reasons of ghaflah is that when a ni’mah is general, people become heedless. For example, we always have air Alhamdulillah, but we do not think that we should be thankful for it. Actually, we do not even notice that air is important because it is a general ni’mah which everyone has. Therefore, one of the reasons for ghaflah is that people do not count something as ni’mah if it includes everyone and is always available; they do not consider it a blessing because it is general and people have it in all circumstances. Since they do not see it as exclusively for them, they do not consider it as ni’mah; Exclusive Blessings: ‘Aql, Khulq, ‘Ilm We briefly refer to some exclusive blessings. According to the book, if you look carefully there is no servant of God, but that he has many blessings which are not general. Perhaps only you or your group have this blessing; it is not that everyone has it, but you have to think carefully. A few people may share it, but even there may be things that no one other than you has. Three blessings every individual will admit are: ‘aql, khulq, ‘ilm. 2. The second thing regarding which people are very pleased with themselves is their khulq (akhlaq). We observe bad traits of character in people, like dishonesty, ungratefulness, unfairness, anger, greed, and selfishness; however, when it comes to our own selves, Masha’Allah, we are free from all problems. “Maybe I can improve, but there is nothing that I need to stop.” The one who blames other people is the one who thinks that he is free (bari) from those problems. Hence, if he really thinks that his akhlaq is good, he must be grateful to Allah (SWT). 3. The third thing regarding which every person must feel that he has certain things to be grateful for that not everyone has is knowledge. However, what type of knowledge do we mean? When it comes to knowledge, we do not mean that everyone has knowledge of certain disciplines or sciences as some people do not have that knowledge. The author explains that we have some private issues, thoughts, and actions which are only known to us and Allah (SWT). So, you have to be grateful that this knowledge is not public knowledge; Alhamdulillah, it is not available to everyone. There are many beautiful praises that we do not deserve which Allah (SWT) has spread about us, so we have to be grateful. Other Exclusive Blessings Next, the author discusses other blessings that are not general. So, we come down to another level which is more general, but still not for everyone. Look at these things that Allah (SWT) has given you. There is no servant of Allah (SWT) but that Allah (SWT) has somehow blessed him; for example, in his appearance. Either you are very beautiful, reasonably beautiful, or you could be worse! Allah (SWT) has blessed him in his personality and traits of character. Each person surely has some good qualities. Furthermore, He has blessed him with respect to his family; he has a good father, mother, brother, sister, cousin, uncle, or children (wuldihi). He has blessed him with good accommodation. You either own it or rent. As a result, we all have many good things. If these things were taken away from us and we were given what another person has, we would not be happy. Of course, if you are realistic. Sometimes from the outside we think that people live in Heaven and envy them, but if we look deeply into people’s conditions we see that everyone has problems and issues. It is just from outside that things look very pleasant.
1. When it comes to ‘aql, everyone says that Allah (SWT) has given him the best ‘aql and no one is as intelligent as him. Those who have been given less are happier and think they are more special. The author says that it is interesting that even those who do not have it are happy. Therefore, they have to be grateful because according to their own understanding Allah (SWT) has given them something special. So, if you are only thankful for what you have been given exclusively, one of the blessings that you have to be thankful for is your ‘aql because you think your ‘aql is a special gift that you have been given. There is no servant of Allah (SWT) but that he is pleased with Allah (SWT) about his ‘aql. but he thinks that he is the most intelligent, this is a blessing for him according to his understanding.
Lecture 107, 11/03/2019
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This lecture studies the following:
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Some Sayings to Remind us of the Wealth Allah (SWT) has Given Us
The Blessing of the Qur’an
The Pleasure of Knowledge
Attraction of Dunya for Those with Weak Intellect
Summary of this session:
Preview
In the last session we started a chapter about obstacles for shukr. It is about the things that stop us from being grateful; they include jahl and ghaflah. Sometimes we do not know the blessings that we have received, while sometimes we are heedless. We mentioned that one of the common problems is that we think if something is given to everyone then it is not a ni’mah and we take it for granted. We think we only have to be grateful for those blessings which are given only to us. First of all, we should be thankful for everything, but if we want to also be thankful for those things which are exclusive to us, there are many things that we have which others do not share with us. Some examples were specific knowledge that only we have and our ‘aql. Some Sayings to Remind us of the Wealth Allah (SWT) has Given Us The book now mentions a few quotations, either from hadith or from some sayings of spiritual people, to remind us of the wealth that we have received from Allah (SWT). We are all very rich and wealthy if we know where our wealth lies. al-Tirmidhi narrates a hadith in his Sunan from Prophet Muhammad (SA) which is a beautiful advice about the need for looking at those who are above you when it comes to knowledge and religion and those who are lower than you when it comes to worldly possessions. So, do not look at rich people because then you will feel that you do not have enough; however, when it comes to religion do not look at people who do not do anything, or who are doing little, so that you think you are doing a lot. Regarding dunya and worldly affairs, we should look to those who are lower than us. On the contrary, most people tend to do the opposite; when it comes to dunya, they always look at those who are above them. When it comes to din and akhirah, they look at those who are lower than them. The Blessing of the Qur’an Among the things that we have to be very grateful for are health, security, and knowledge, especially the Qur’an. About the Qur’an, there is a hadith from Rasul Allah (SA): “Man lam yastaghan bil Qur’an fala aghanahullah.” Whoever does not feel he is rich while he has the Qur’an (he does not feel he has enough with the Qur’an), Allah (SWT) will never make him rich, or may Allah (SWT) not make him rich (it can be insha or ikhbar). So, if you have been given knowledge of the Qur’an, guidance of the Qur’an, light of the Qur’an, shafa’ah of the Qur’an, and rahmah of the Qur’an but you think you are poor, or you think someone who has a few thousand pounds is richer than you but you are poor, then you will never become rich. The Pleasure of Knowledge Then the author describes some individuals among ‘ulama. If they were given whatever the kings of the earth from the East to the West possess from money and servants and told, “Give your knowledge to us and we will give you whatever the kings of the world altogether possess,” he says that we know some ‘ulama who would not accept. Not only that, even if you say, “We will give you everything, but will take a fraction of your knowledge,” they will not accept. Indeed, this is the sign of a true ‘alim. Someone who is not a true ‘alim would leave the Hawza, teaching, and the mimbar as soon as he finds a well-paid job, but a true ‘alim would never replace these with some money. They do not want to replace their knowledge because they have hope that with knowledge they can reach nearness to Allah (SWT) in the Hereafter. Why is the ‘alim not content to replace this ladha with that ladha? Because he knows that the pleasure of knowledge continues and never stops. Attraction of Dunya for Those with Weak Intellect Ghazali then says something very powerful, which I hope is taken in a positive way. According to him, the pleasures of dunya are not made except to attract those whose ‘aql is not very strong. Since we need to run this dunya, people need to perform certain jobs. I do not want to mention any specific job so I cannot give examples, but there are many jobs that are performed only because of money and some worldly pleasure. People do not do those jobs out of a sense of responsibility, because it is wajibi kifayi, or their taklif; they only do them because of money. Perhaps 90% or 99% of the work in dunya is taken care of by people who are just interested in money and this type of pleasure. Therefore, in order to keep them excited and keep this wheel keep rolling, these pleasures are created.
Another hadith states, “Innal Qu’ran huwal ghina alladhi la ghina ba’da wa la faqra ma’ahu: Qur’an is the richness after which there is no poverty.” The one who is basir (insightful) should not be happy unless he has ma’rifah (knowledge), yaqin (certainty), and iman (faith). If you have these three you should be happy; if you have lots from dunya you can be thankful for those things, but never be satisfied with just dunya. Do not ask for more dunya, but ask for iman, yaqin, and ma’rifah.
Thus, Ghazali states that except for those with complete ‘aql (intellect), people would be attracted and deceived by dunya. When they are attracted and deceived then dunya starts running away from them; it first brings them and then it runs away. So, dunya is like this; it shows some pleasure to you and you fall in love, but then you are never satisfied. Ghazali now says that we may ask the question, “What is the solution for making heedless hearts aware of the blessings of Allah (SWT)?” Insha’Allah we will address this matter in the next session.
Lecture 108, 25/03/2018
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This lecture studies the following:
How to Cure Ungratefulness
Reflection on the Variety of the Blessings of Allah
Comparing Oneself to the People Lower than them
Reminding Oneself of the Regret on the Day of Judgment
Noticing the Possibility of the Loss of Blessings Due to Ungratefulness
Summary of this session:
How to Cure Ungratefulness
The last two sessions have discussed the reasons people may fail to thank Allah (SWT) and the causes that stop them from doing shukr. The question which now arises is if there is a cure for those hearts which fail to be grateful? Reflection on the Variety of the Blessings of Allah According to the author, there are different types of hearts. The cure for those whose hearts are insightful, able to understand, and able to see is very simple; their cure is just to reflect on what has been mentioned so far, that is, the variety of the blessings of Allah (SWT) that each of us has received. Comparing Oneself to the People Lower than them On the other hand, those whose hearts are unable to understand and see require a more serious cure. One important method for curing these hearts is to compare themselves to the people who are lower than them in their condition; those who have less blessings, less bounties, more difficulties, and have gone through more calamities. One should reflect upon these things. Moreover, the author states that they should do what some of the Sufis used to do. Sufis were some people who really tried to focus on spirituality; of course, Sufi has different meanings and has been used in different senses, but here it refers to those who were deeply interested in spirituality. In order to remain grateful, every day they used to visit people who were ill, either in their homes or in hospitals. If you go to a hospital then you appreciate your health better. In addition, Sufis used to visit graveyards every day. When you see those who have died and their lives are finished, you appreciate your life. Another place one should go is where punishment is carried out. There may still be some places today, but especially in the past if a criminal was going to be executed, it was done in a way that other people could watch and take lesson. People would go to these places and would then realise that, Alhamdulillah, they are not being punished, they have life, they have safety, they have security, they are free, they are not in prison, and they are not chained up. Reminding Oneself of the Regret on the Day of Judgment When you go to the graveyard, think about what is the most wanted and most beloved desire for dead people. Indeed, they would ask for nothing but to be given even one day, 24 hours, to come back and fix or sort out matters. Thus, now that we are alive we should collect as much hasanat as we can and if we cannot collect them we should at least make the niyyah. However, your niyyah works after you work hard and then reach your limit; your niyyah does not count if you do not work to the limit. For example, if I can teach ten people and I teach them, but make the niyyah for teaching more, it counts. Yet, if I can teach ten people, but I teach nine people and say, “I wish to teach a hundred people,” then Allah (SWT) would tell me that you could still have taught one more. The difference between nine and ten is not that much, for most of us the difference between what we do and what we can do is not that much, but after you manage to do the maximum then you enter the world of intentions, where you can get as much as you like with your intention. Noticing the Possibility of the Loss of Blessings Due to Ungratefulness Another good way to educate yourself is that those hearts which are not grateful should realise that if blessings are not thanked for, they may go away and never return. If you are not grateful for what you have received, it may be taken away. So, it is very important to be grateful for what you have been given. Therefore, you must constantly be grateful for blessings; it is very rare that a blessing goes away and then returns. If a blessing is not appreciated and Allah (SWT) takes it away, it is extremely rare that it comes back. A hadith states, “Allah’s blessings would not increase for someone unless people need him more.” We have also in Shi’ah sources that one of the blessings of Allah (SWT) is that many people need you; it is a blessing that you can help people. So, this hadith also says, “The blessing of Allah (SWT) would not increase for a servant unless the need of people for him would increase.” Then, if this person would not respect people properly, or underestimates and undermines their needs, he is endangering those blessings and exposing them to expiry. If Allah (SWT) has given you any blessing and people can benefit from that, then give it to them, for you are like a channel of mercy. Thus, if more people benefit from this channel then Allah (SWT) will put more in this channel. For instance, if you give to your family and children, Allah (SWT) will give you more. Sometimes people think that it is their rizq and they are giving part of their rizq to family. Definitely not; this is not your rizq, it is rizq for them also. What Allah (SWT) gives to you is for your spouse, your children, and your parents; it is their rizq, but you have been chosen as a channel. Also, what you give to needy people is their rizq.
Lecture 109, 29/04/2019
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This lecture studies the following:
What are absolute and conditional blessings (Ni’mah Mutlaq and Muqayyad)?
What should we do towards absolute and conditional blessings?
What are absolute and conditional calamities (Bala’ Mutlaq and Muqayyad)?
What should we do towards absolute and conditional calamities?
How can a calamity be good for us?
The difference between husnul khulq and actions
The blessing of knowing and not knowing
Blessings and calamities on others
How can we be grateful for calamities in dunya
Summary of this session:
What are absolute and conditional blessings (Ni’mah Mutlaq and Muqayyad)?
What should we do towards absolute and conditional blessings?
In the past it was discussed that ni’mah is divided; one type of ni’mah is ni’mah which is absolute from every aspect. It is an absolute blessing either in the Hereafter or this world. For example, an absolute ni’mah in the Hereafter is the happiness and felicity that you will get when Insha’Allah you will be near Allah (SWT). There will be nothing to worry about. In dunya, examples of ni’mah mutlaq are iman and husnul khulq because they are always good as well as things that help us to have iman and husnul khulq. On the other hand, there are things that are blessings from one aspect, but from another aspect they are not blessings and, rather, calamities. For instance, mal, money, is not absolutely good; it can help you and improve your religious affairs, while it can also corrupt your religious affairs. What are absolute and conditional calamities (Bala’ Mutlaq and Muqayyad)? What should we do towards absolute and conditional calamities? Bala’ is also mutlaq and muqayyad. An example of absolute calamity in the Hereafter is to be far from Allah (SWT) because sometimes people go to Hell forever. Instances of bala’ in dunya which are mutlaq are kufr, al-masiyah and su’al khulq. These are things that would also lead to problems in the Hereafter. How can a calamity be good for us? There is also no calamity unless it can be good for him. There are many servants for whom it is better to be poor or ill because if he was healthy and had money maybe he would do zulm. There are people about whom Allah (SWT) says that if Allah widens for them rizq, they do baghi, fasad, zulm and injustice on the earth. The difference between husnul khulq and actions Husnul khulq is different from actions; we said before that you have to be always generous (as a quality), but maybe this person is becoming lazy so you do not show him generosity. Likewise, you have to be humble, but if this person is arrogant I do not show him humility. You are humble, but behave with him not as a humble person. Or you have to be truthful, but maybe you do not tell the truth sometimes, unlike someone who is not truthful even if he tells the truth! وَاللَّـهُ يَعْلَمُ إِنَّكَ لَرَسُولُهُ وَاللَّـهُ يَشْهَدُ إِنَّ الْمُنَافِقِينَ لَكَاذِبُونَ إِذَا جَاءَكَ الْمُنَافِقُونَ قَالُوا نَشْهَدُ إِنَّكَ لَرَسُولُ اللَّـهِ ۗ This is right, they are telling the truth, but Allah (SWT) says they are liars. So, as a quality it is always good to be with husnul khulq. The Blessing of Knowing and Not Knowing Ma’rifah (knowledge) is a perfection and blessing; it is also one of the qualities of Allah (SWT), but knowledge for the servant is sometimes bad and not to have knowledge is better. For instance, if you know when your ajal is, sometimes it is good to know so that you can prepare yourself, but sometimes it is not good to know because you are not going to enjoy life from now on; it will become full of suffering and long grief. Another thing which is good that we do not know is when Qiyamah is. Also, we do not know when Laylat al-Qadr is; if we knew we would have slept the other nights. Blessings and Calamities on Others Sometimes there is a pain that can happen in some people that for you is a suffering, but for other people is a blessing. For example, there is flood in some places, so it is difficult for them, but for people who go to help it is an opportunity to show humanity and to do something good. Thus, sometimes the suffering of some people is a blessing for other people because they can learn or they can enjoy. Allah (SWT) has not created anything unless there is wisdom and it is true that He has not created anything unless there is a blessing there, either it is a blessing for everyone or a blessing for other people. Consequently, even in the creation of calamities there is ni’mah for the person who has that bala’ or the one who has no bala’. That bala’ can be good for that person or for other people at least. For anything which is not absolute bala’ or absolute ni’mah, the servant would have two responsibilities or tasks: sabr and shukr. From one aspect it is ni’mah, so you have to be grateful and from another aspect it is bala’, so you have to be patient. • How can we be Grateful for Calamities in Dunya You will be grateful for calamities in dunya, like poverty and illness if you remember these points:
If something is absolute ni’mah, there is no sabr, only shukr. If there is a ni’mah that can be sometimes good and sometimes bad, sabr and shukr are together.
Bala’ muqayyad are things that are not absolutely bala’ depending on the situation. For example, faqr (poverty) is bad, but it can also be a blessing.
Regarding absolutely calamity like su al-khulq, kufr in dunya, or punishment in akhirah, there is no shukr and also no sabr. You have to change if possible; if it is not possible, like in akhirah then you cannot do anything. If it is not mutlaq, then sabr and shukr are together.
كَلَّا إِنَّ الْإِنسَانَ لَيَطْغَىٰ
أَن رَّآهُ اسْتَغْنَىٰ
“Indeed man becomes rebellious when he considers himself without need (96:6-7).”
Truly man becomes inordinate if he feels that he has no need. Truly man becomes inordinate if he feels that he has no need. Rasul Allah (SA) said, “Sometimes Allah (SWT) makes His servant who is mu’min to have fever.” This fever is not to wish him bad, but it is like when you have an ill person and you put a blanket on him to keep him warm.
“Allah knows that you are indeed His Apostle, and Allah bear witness that the hypocrites are indeed liars (63:2).”
Although they say, we bear witness that you are a messenger of God,
“When the hypocrites come to you they say, ‘We bear witness that you are indeed the apostle of Allah (63:2).’”
1. Any suffering and illness that you have could be greater because Allah (SWT) has lots of capabilities; so, do not think this is the maximum that can happen to you.
2. Another thing that you have to be happy about is that your musibah in dunya (like faqr or marad), which we said could be increased in the first point, is not in your faith. For example, your child is ill, but be happy that your child is not a sinner.
Therefore, no person suffers from a calamity because if he thinks, he would find that actually he should expect more because we deserve more.
Lecture 110, 03/05/2019
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This lecture studies the following:
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Why do People with no Faith seem Happier?
Istidraj for Kuffar
Worldly Reward for Sinful Mu’minin
Punishment in dunya compared to akhirah
To Reach a Higher Rank by Suffering
To Receive the Reward of Suffering
Two Ways to Make Calamities Our Path toward Happiness in the Hereafter
First way: Unpleasant but Blessing
Second Way: Detachment from Dunya
Some Hadiths Regarding the Reward for Suffering
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We have reached the last paragraph on page 227, volume 7 of al-Mahajjah al-Bayda’. We said that even when there is bala’ (calamity), for different reasons you should still be grateful unless that bala’ is absolute bala’. If it is absolute, then that is something that you have to stop. On the other hand, if something is partially bala’ and partially blessing or has the potential of both, for the positive side you would be grateful. Why do People with no Faith seem Happier? Now, many people may have the following question in their mind: Why do we sometimes see that people who have no faith seem to be happier and have more blessings? Istidraj for Kuffar The first point is that regarding the one who has rejected the truth and does not want to accept the truth and faith, do not look at the surface and say that he has more money, a good home, job or reputation. In fact, he has calamities which are hidden, for what calamity is greater than kufr? Allah (SWT) has given him a chance so that he would add to his problems. This concept is istidraj, which we will discuss later. Some people who are just bad are punished, but there is another treatment for those who are very insistent, stubborn, and annoy other people. These wrongdoers receive no mercy so that they add to their problems. Worldly Reward for Sinful Mu’minin Regarding those who are mu’min but sinful, you said there are people who commit more sins than me. First of all, how did you know that their sins are more than your sins? How is it known in the world that there is someone more sinful than you? Who can dare to say that other people have more sins than me? Punishment in dunya compared to akhirah The third reason you have to be grateful even if there is a mixture of bala’ and blessing is that any punishment could be left for the akhirah (Hereafter). If your azab (punishment) was left for akhirah it would be very difficult, painful, and eternal. Calamities continue in the Hereafter, but even if they do not continue, like for people who go to Hell for some time and then are forgiven, there is no way to reduce them. To Reach a Higher Rank by Suffering When we discussed suffering and the problem of evil I mentioned a hadith from Musakkin al-Fuad by Shahid Thani. Based on our idea of free will and our idea of having no predestination, I think what we can say is that sometimes in Allah (SWT)’s knowledge there is a rank or high level that a servant of Allah (SWT) can reach, but his actions have not been good enough to take him there. Perhaps that rank is very high; it is not something he can reach through salah and fasting, or perhaps he did not perform his actions properly; thus, through musibah he would be lifted to that rank. It is very important to understand this concept. Hence, it means that you can gain from suffering much more than what you can gain from actions. We can then somehow make a kind of version of this point that is compatible with freedom as well. To Receive the Reward of Suffering Point five is about the reward that you receive through suffering. Indeed, the reward of difficulties is more than blessing. A beautiful expression of this idea is that the calamities of dunya are paths and roads toward the Hereafter; hence, every musibah that you have is a path toward akhirah. If your musibah is more, this path is wider. Therefore, if you have any suffering first check whether you have caused it or not; if you have caused it, you have to stop the cause and repent. However, if you have not caused it or even if you have caused it, but now you have repented and you want to act wisely from now on, it becomes positive from now. Two Ways to Make Calamities Our Path toward Happiness in the Hereafter First way: Unpleasant but Blessing The calamities and suffering in dunya are our path for the Hereafter and there are two ways for that. One way is like when you have very unpleasant, bitter, or disliked medicine, which is ni’mah for a patient and ill person. Even if it is not pleasant, it is a blessing. Money, family, relatives, and organs of the body, even eyes, which are very dear to us, can sometimes cause destruction if not used properly. So, we have to be very careful, even regarding ‘aql; sometimes ‘aql is the problem. If you do not use ‘aql properly, in the Hereafter you will wish that you were mad because for any blessing that you do not use properly, you will later wish that you did not have it. Second Way: Detachment from Dunya The second point is also very important. We have said before that the root of all problems is hubb al-dunya (love of dunya), Some Hadiths Regarding the Reward for Suffering Many beautiful hadith are mentioned.
إِنَّمَا نُمْلِي لَهُمْ لِيَزْدَادُوا إِثْمًا ۚ
“We give them respite only that they may increase in sin (3:178).”
Suppose even if there is a person more sinful, perhaps Allah (SWT) gives him more and gives you less because Allah (SWT) has other plans for you and him. If it is proof that he is more sinful, maybe Allah (SWT) wants to reward him in dunya because He has no akhirah for him, but for someone who has akhirah many things will be safe for his akhirah.
Also you must think that maybe in calamities there is something good for me with respect to my faith. Thus, look at everything as a potential opportunity; do not necessarily view it as a negative thing. You must have a good opinion about Allah (SWT); you must consider and appreciate that there is something good here and thank Him for it since His wisdom is comprehensive. Indeed, He knows the interests of servants more than the servants themselves.
رأس كل خطيئة حب الدنيا
When you have no suffering, you have a greater chance of developing hubb al-dunya. When everything is alright, you are young, healthy, and you have respect, money, and job, you start enjoying and becoming attached to this world. Hence, death would also be very difficult for you; however, when you suffer you are not attached to dunya.
If one thinks that dunya is Jannah, then when he is dying it is very difficult because he was living in Jannah. He has a nice home, car, everything, so it is very difficult when he wants to depart.
Someone said to Rasul Allah (SA), “My money has gone and my body is ill.” Rasul Allah (SA) said,
لا خير في عبد لا تذهب ماله ولا بسقم جسده،
“There is no good in a servant who does not lose his money and does not become ill.” If you never get ill and you never lose anything, you have to be worried that perhaps you are lost. You don’t lose anything because you are lost yourself!
The following is a similar tradition,
إن الرجل يكون له الدرجة عند الله تعالى لا يبلغها بعمل حتى يبتلي ببلاء في جسمه
“Sometimes, he has a kind of rank with Allah (SWT) which he cannot reach or has not managed to reach with his actions, but would reach with calamity in his body.” I think in Musakkin al-Fuad it is not only about body, but more general. I am just reading some of the hadith because we do not have time.
Another hadith,
إذا أراد الله بعبد خيرا، وأراد أن يصافيه، صب عليه البلاء صبا
“If Allah (SWT) really wants good for someone.” Sometimes in the army you are responsible for training soldiers, but then among the soldiers you see there are individuals who can become commanders. If you want to make them commanders you make everything more difficult; you do not give them better food or better beds. Similarly, “if Allah wants good for someone, صب عليه البلاء صبا, Allah (SWT) pours difficulties on that person.”
فإذا دعاه, “Now when this person calls Allah (SWT),” قالت الملائكة صوت معروف “They say this is a voice that we are familiar with,” وإن دعاه ثانيا“And, if he calls Allah (SWT) the second time,” فقال: يا رب!, “He just says, ‘My Lord,’ but Allah (SWT) says,” قال الله تعالى: لبيك عبدي وسعديك!
He just said, ‘Ya Rabbi,’ but Allah says, “Here I am, I am there to help you,”
لا تسألني شيئا إلا أعطيتك،, “You do not ask Me anything unless I give you.”
أو رفعت لك ما هو خير “Or I remove some difficulty which is better for you.”
وادخرت لك عندي ما هو أفضل منه. “Or I reserve for you akhirah.” Sometimes Allah (SWT) says, “I can solve your problem now, but it is better if you have this problem. So, I will save for you for later.”
يوم القيامة جيئ بأهل الأعمال فإذا كان
“On the Day of Judgment when they bring people who have been practicing,”
فوزنوا أعمالهم بالميزان
“Then they give the full reward.” So, there is judgment, scale, etc.
والحج والصيام والصدقة الصلاة أهل
The people who have been practicing have hasanat; they are brought and they give them everything that they have done, perhaps with multiplied reward. Based on what they have done, they are given by the scale, numbers, figures, etc. ثم يؤتى بأهل البلاء, “After this they bring people who have difficulties and calamities,”
فلا ينصب لهم ميزان
ولا ينشر لهم ديوان
“For ahlul bala’ there is no need for a scale and record.”
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